My friends dislike my boyfriend and want me to dump him. What should I do?
Q. hi :) I'm 15 and i have been going out with my boyfriend for 3 months. He is quite rude to most people and he is always really rude to some of my closest friends. He is always getting into arguments and insulting them, especially 'Amy'. Amy is qu...
A. 11 February 2011: In that case, I think the best idea would be to sit them all down and have a conversation about it.
If they want you as s friend and if he wants you as a girlfriend they should be able to compromise to behave more maturely around eachother.
I thi... (read in full...)
My friends dislike my boyfriend and want me to dump him. What should I do?
Q. hi :) I'm 15 and i have been going out with my boyfriend for 3 months. He is quite rude to most people and he is always really rude to some of my closest friends. He is always getting into arguments and insulting them, especially 'Amy'. Amy is qu...
A. 11 February 2011: What exactly does he say to be rude?
Is he verbally aggressive to them or do they just not like his opinions and likes/dislikes? I.e. she says "I love Justin beiber" he says "I dont, his music is boring and too mainstream for me" ... (read in full...)
I drink a bottle of wine almost every day. Is this ok?
Q. To make this short and simple I drink a bottle of wine every day, well almost every day!!! is that to much. I dont start drinking in the morning, only at night when my son goes to bed, I contiue to carry on with my life through out the day. I get up ...
A. 10 February 2011: I think some people are overreacting on here!
One bottle a night? - Normal, but not good for your health.
It also depends on what type of wine you are drinking, one glass of red wine a day is actually good for you.
I can quite easily drink h... (read in full...)
He gets SOOO angry! Is this normal?
Q. My boyfriend grabbed my head and slammed it against the door. He said that I wouldn't shut up (we were having an argument) and that because I followed him through the house (I was trying to get him to talk / listen) then I tip him over the edge and ...
A. 10 February 2011: Your boyfriend should not have hurt you,
But why did you follow him around when he was clearly angry and trying to diffuse the situation by trying to take himself out of it?
It is NORMAL for HUMANS to get angry. I get angry, my boyfriened gets ... (read in full...)
What's the right thing to do? Tell someone I think I might be depressed? Or keep it a secret. I keep wanting to sleep all the time.
Q. I have begun to sleep all of the time. I wake up at 8 and then go to school. I come back home, and go to sleep around 4 and wake up at 8 and over and over and over again. Also I started to stop eating very much. it's not like i just want to los...
A. 2 February 2011: I don't think you are depressed, but if you don't take control of this now then it could get there.
I suffered from clinical depression from age 8-21 because my brain doesn't release enough seretonin (the happy hormone) naturally.
The fact ... (read in full...)
What can I say to him via text to turn him on???
Q. So me and my boyfriend just started sending dirty text messages and I don't know what to say to turn him on and I don't want to sound stupid. So Can you please help? ...
A. 31 January 2011: Tell him you're not in the mood because you have bad pms and cramps. ... (read in full...)
I hate condoms and she won't go on the pill!
Q. I am in a bit of a predicament with my new girlfriend. We're both 22 and have been going out for 2 months. Last week we talked about having sex with each other for the first time, it's not that one of us doesn't feel ready it's just an issue with ...
A. 31 January 2011: Your GP is right.
If you are not willing to wear a condom, don't have sex.
Any kind of contraceptives can have bad hormonal effects on the body, it can be very stressful. You have no right to persuade her into taking medication or having a perm... (read in full...)
Just need advice on how to lose the weight and tone up and also how to get rid of stretch marks.
Q. I'm 17 and about 5ft. I've wrote on here about my weight and everything but I need some advice of diets and losing weight. When I was 14 I weighed just over 7 stone and then put a bit of weight on when I was 16 so I was nearly 8 stone. I didn't p...
A. 29 January 2011: Contrary to Universe Man s advice, it DOES matter what you eat.
You could eat all calories at McDonald's and stay within 1200, lose weight but what would it do to your body? Mess it up.
Everyone knows that frozen veggies lose nutrients through ... (read in full...)
Is this pain normal?
Q. Any time my boyfriend fingers me I feel pain; I am a virgin. And after the act I get this burning sensation and it lasts for about 3 days. I want to know if this is normal?...
A. 28 January 2011: It really depends, there could be lots of reasons for this.
I am far from a virgin, but when my partner and I haven't had sex for a week or so, I do get a burning sensation afterwards for a could days because the skin of the vagina is stretchi... (read in full...)
Just need advice on how to lose the weight and tone up and also how to get rid of stretch marks.
Q. I'm 17 and about 5ft. I've wrote on here about my weight and everything but I need some advice of diets and losing weight. When I was 14 I weighed just over 7 stone and then put a bit of weight on when I was 16 so I was nearly 8 stone. I didn't p...
A. 28 January 2011: Hi,
I've put on 5 stone in the past 3 years so I have some idea of how you are feeling.
I too have awful stretchmarks and it was tough dealing with it.
However, through eating healthily with a treat now and again and exercising every day I h... (read in full...)
Online dating? Experiences and advice?
Q. I have never tried online dating. I am moving to a new city and am considering it to meet people. Like cellphones and facebook I thought I would defy the trend of online dating for a while before I join the masses... I've never met a person w...
A. 27 January 2011: Hi,
I have been online dating since I was 17, I am now 21 and I always used the same site, plentyoffish.com
Its totally free and easy to use and its international. You can specify what you are looking for on your profile and search for people w... (read in full...)
What do I buy my boyfriend for valentines day
Q. haia guy's! This may not be a serious question but...i've been going out with my bf for about a month know and i have no idea what to get him for valentines day! Please help, any advice would be apriciated! Thankyoou! :D x...
A. 27 January 2011: At your age and the short time frame that your relationship has been so far, I would not think it appropriate to spend over £10 on him.
A card and something cute like special valentines chocolate or a cute teddy, something that says you care. I ... (read in full...)
I don't want my boyfriend to see me with all of this acne!
Q. Hi all! Hope y'all are doing good! :) In a way this isn't a relationship type of question. But I really have bad acne, I have tried every thing to get rid of it and I don't know what to do to get rid of it. I have an online boyfriend, we ar...
A. 27 January 2011: Well if you're from the UK there are some good cream etc you can buy for spot prone skin in boots and superdrug but it prob takes a few weeks to work. I don't know what's available in the US.
The only real way to make a difference is to see a de... (read in full...)
My 19 year old boyfriend wet the bed! Why?
Q. PLEASE TELL ME WHATS WRONG! Me and my boyfriend are sort of living together for like 2 months. And he has an early shift so he gets up 06:00AM. (we sleep together). He woke me up and told me that he peed the bed! AND HE IS 19! HE seemed really f...
A. 27 January 2011: Grow up! These things happen, there is nothing wrong with him. Lots of people have had dreams that they are using the toilet and wake up in a wet patch.
Be supportive to your boyfriend rather than judging him and getting all freaked out. If your... (read in full...)
Can all women squirt?
Q. So I was a spectator to a discussion at a party the other day (alcohol involved) involving squirting. One guy claimed that the squirting in porn was real. (which I know its not) When someone voiced this contrary opinion, the kid stated that that was ...
A. 26 January 2011: I have had some really great orgasms, but I have never squirted, and neither have any of my friends who have experience strong orgasms (I asked).
It doesn't happen to every women, not every woman is capable of it. Stats say on wikipedia that 30%... (read in full...)
I don't want to live with my parents anymore. Should I ask my married sister for help?
Q. Ok, So I don't want to live with my parents anymore. They are fine parents but they just dont understand me. So im looking into boarding schools to get away from them, but from the looks of it that won't happen. We are not the richest family out ...
A. 25 January 2011: Do whatever you want, but to me it seems like you just want the easy way out.
Your parents don't understand you?! - Now tell me of one teenager who has never said that..
Your parents brought you up, they know you better than you know yourself.
... (read in full...)
Boyfriend told me if I don't stop calling so much he will dump me!
Q. Dear Cupid I kind of panicked today since my bf of an year was heavily flirting with an other girl in IM. I snooped around his computer ( i know i shouldnt have done), and found out this and panicked and tried to call him 4-5 times within 4 h...
A. 25 January 2011: Is this seriously the kind of relationship you want to be in?
This a question we frequently see by 13-15 year olds, not of an adult relationship?
It doesn't even sound like he considers you as his girlfriend..Threatening to "dump" you if yo... (read in full...)
Boyfriend claims he love me. So why does he sleep around?
Q. If my boyfriend says he loves me, then why does he engage in casual sex with others? ...
A. 25 January 2011: He doesn't love you, he is using you.
Get rid of this man wasting your time! You deserve better.
... (read in full...)
Can I do anything to make twins more likely?
Q. Can you do any thing to make it more likely to have twins if your trying to get pregnant? Thanks for your time....
A. 25 January 2011: Using fertility treatment drugs increases the number of eggs you release so there is a higher chance that more than one egg will be fertilised. However, do you really want to end up with 6 babies growing inside you? Because this is what can happen ... (read in full...)
18 year old dating a 15 year old - would he get into trouble with the law?
Q. If some was 15 almost 16 and their boyfriend was 18 and their parents said that it was ok, would he get into trouble with the law?...
A. 25 January 2011: You can date whoever you want, thats not what the law is interested in.
However if you were having sex, that would be against the law and you could be arrested and put on the sex offenders register for life. Say goodbye to any kind of career o... (read in full...)
My husband will not stop looking at women wearing low cut tops
Q. my husband will not stop looking at woman with low cut tops on. it is anyone not just attractive woman. when i question him he always denies it.i am getting so frustrated because i no he is doing this.please can you help as i think i am going ...
A. 25 January 2011: Have you thought that he doesn't consciously do it?
I'm female and absent mindedly find myself looking into a cleavage or at a nice pair of legs because it is a visual attraction. It is simply natural for eyes to be drawn to that place.
Give hi... (read in full...)
Am I destned to be alone because I don't want kids? Feel like giving up.
Q. I am 37 have been single for several years now. I'm not stunning but am OK looking, intelligent and have an interesting job and own my flat. I have many female friends, all of whom say I would be a good catch. The problem is I don't want kids, ...
A. 25 January 2011: There are women out there who don't want kids so I can only say to keep looking.
Would you date a woman who already has kids and doesn't want any more? Or do you not want kids in your life at all? ... (read in full...)
How do I talk to her about her 'downstairs' hygiene without offending her?
Q. I need some help. Me and my girlfriend have been in a relationship for seven months now and its going brilliantly. We see each other regularly, go out often and our sex life is very good. But there's an issue. I have noticed on occasion that he...
A. 24 January 2011: ...ortable.
If you really can't bear it, then don't go down on her. Suggestion a sexy shower is a good idea. However it is unlikely to get rid of all the smell. Make sure not to get a mouthful of bubbles.
... (read in full...)
How do I talk to her about her 'downstairs' hygiene without offending her?
Q. I need some help. Me and my girlfriend have been in a relationship for seven months now and its going brilliantly. We see each other regularly, go out often and our sex life is very good. But there's an issue. I have noticed on occasion that he...
A. 24 January 2011: Does this mean that her vagina has an odour?
I just want to remind you that it is normal for a woman to have a smell to her, it isn't necessarily due to poor hygiene.
I know lots of women who are bed embarrassed about it, despite washing ... (read in full...)
If he really loved me would a 20 minute drive matter?
Q. I'm 15 years old, and I like this guy who just turned 17. He lives in my moms town, 20 minutes away. We both liked each other for almost 3 years, and just recently he told me he loved me, which considering he didn't even tell me that when we dated ...
A. 23 January 2011: Seriously, don't go for this guy, his excuse is lazy and pathetic!
Petrol is more than twice as expensive in the UK than in the USA and my OH once drove 2 hours to see me for an hour. And we both have to travel an hour each way to get to work, mo... (read in full...)
Health tips for early pregnancy?
Q. Hi all! This is actually a question about pregnancy, i was hoping some mums could give me some advice :) I just found out im pregnant, i think between 1-3 weeks.. Last time i feel pregnant i miscarried. My hubby and i got married not too long after ...
A. 22 January 2011: Kirra07 you are not correct.
There are specific foods which should he avoided at all costs.
OP please look at this page, it will tell you all the food advice you need.
http://ww... (read in full...)
My urge to try a cigarette!!!!
Q. Ok so there is this girl i used to like who smoked and we used to talk about it and one day i just sort of blurted out can i try one and ever since then i have an urge to try a ciggerette and i still have not. The girl moved away ages ago. I really ...
A. 22 January 2011: Try one, to know for a fact how disgusting they are!
Your curiosity is normal, when we were 14 my friends and I experimented with smoking etc.
It ended up with me smoking 5 in a row then I threw up and never touched one again! None of my friend... (read in full...)
Health tips for early pregnancy?
Q. Hi all! This is actually a question about pregnancy, i was hoping some mums could give me some advice :) I just found out im pregnant, i think between 1-3 weeks.. Last time i feel pregnant i miscarried. My hubby and i got married not too long after ...
A. 22 January 2011: Hi, as a Doula I could give you lots of info on early pregnancy and your diet but really the best thing you can do is go see your doc.
Keep taking the supplements, drink plenty of water and eat as you would normally and avoid oily fish and any ... (read in full...)
I can't get a new guy because I'm too fat. I lost my ex over it. Best dieting tips please?
Q. I want to diet but if I don't satisfy my hunger, I get migranes! Also, if I'm nervous or bored my stomach growls so loud, it's embarrasing!. I want to diet because my ex refuses to say I'm hot, or sexy because I'm so fat. And I can't get an...
A. 20 January 2011: Have you thought that you get migrants because you don't drink enough fluids? Not drinking enough gives you the illusion of being hungry, whereas your body is actually dehydrated and craving water.
If you are making a conscious effort to lose exc... (read in full...)
I want to celebrate our 9 month anniversary, but I have a family obligation that same day!
Q. Hey! Me and my boyfriend are goin out 9 months next week and i want it to be really special, we've organized a few things aswell. Its just my mam wants me to go to my cousins confirmation on the same day!:( . How can i tell her that i cant go?...
A. 19 January 2011: 9 months isnt an anniversary.
Go to your family function.
Enjoy your one year anniversary in 3 months!... (read in full...)
The big 'O'....how hard is it to achieve one?
Q. How hard is it to Orgasm? I am 17 and my bf's cousin is one of those girls that is just filled with sex stories. She said that she had her first Orgasm at 16 ... (mind you her bf was 24) she says it's easy. But really what are your girls ...
A. 19 January 2011: This is a very "it depends" question to answer.
Orgasming has nothing to do with the size of your clit.
I had my first orgasm when I was 10 after I got a tv in my room, watched a late night educational sex program and learned what orgasms wer... (read in full...)
26 year old man 18 year old female... WRONG ?????
Q. 26yr old Male, interested in 18yr old female O.k. so their is this very cute girl who works at a local coffee shop, I have been interested in her for some time now. She beat me to the punch, by friending me of Facebook. We have been talking for...
A. 18 January 2011: No.
I'm 21, my OH is 34. We met when I was 19.
Best decision of my life :-) ... (read in full...)
I'm at my wits end about my husband's mate who comes to my place at 6pm and they play xbox till 7 am!!
Q. hey, im hoping someone will help me. me and my husband have a 1year old baby. my husband has lost alot of friends since we got together, mainly due to jealousy. He only has one mate now. They are quiet close and his mate *steve comes round every fr...
A. 18 January 2011: Hi OP.
I can understand why you are trying to defend your husbands even though he is the reason you have posted.
The fact is, the impression that I am getting from what you have said is that he is being irresponsible, selfish and childish. If... (read in full...)
She wouldn't remove this ex from her facebook!
Q. my fiance has had a threesome about 10 years ago, the guys is still on her facebook, i feel terrible to look at his pics, when i asked her to remove him, she said that it would not solve the problem, all i wanted to hear is yes, right now this is ...
A. 18 January 2011: She wad right, it would most definitely solve the problem.
Have you thought about the reasons why something that happened 10 years ago, when you were not in her life, bothers you? Why you allow it to bother you? It is HER Facebook account,... (read in full...)
With all the sex and no pregnancy, could I be infertile?
Q. Dear agony aunts and uncles I'm 19 and i just got married on the 17th of dec to my boyfriend of 3 years hes in the military and i'm really happy . how ever my concern is that when we got married we had sex with out a condom and i'm not on birth ...
A. 16 January 2011: It takes fertile couples up to a year to get pregnant.
From a health a pregnancy professional POV..chill out!
You wont get a positive test for at least a week after conceiving.
Find out when you ovulate by buying some tests, use online t... (read in full...)
I want a serious relationship, why doesn't anybody else my age want the same?
Q. I'm 23 and quite mature for my age. I want a serious relationship, but all I find is people my age wanting flings. Or they just play you like my ex did and then dump you by text. Why is this? The problem with guys my age is that they only want sex ...
A. 16 January 2011: Remember that guys your age are probably just starting to get interest for relationships. The first or second person they get into a serious relationship with may not be the one they want to spend the next few years with.
Also it really depends ... (read in full...)
He asked me out but didn't pay for the date?
Q. A guy that I know is interested in me (we've kissed) asked me to hang out (alone for the first time, also this is the beginning of our "friendship"), but he never paid for me even though he treated it as a date (kissed me again)...is that normal? I ...
A. 16 January 2011: If you are THAT bothered by the fact you had to pay for yourself, accept the fact that you arnt meant to be and leave it as that.
However if you want to decide to be a bit more mature about the situation and see him again because you like him... (read in full...)
Why did she sleep around?
Q. Why did my good friend sleep around? I have a friend who just broke up with her high school bf of 2.5years. He dumped her in her first week at college. He was an average looking guy at best she is beautiful. My question is why has she suddenly...
A. 16 January 2011: Maybe she just wanted to have sex...
And now that the horny urge is subsided she regrets not being more in control..
She is free and young, she can do what she wants, as long as its safe sex and isn't hurting anyone.... (read in full...)
Pull out method... reliable enough???
Q. me and my boyfriend want to have sex, im not on the pill or anything and neither of us have got condoms. he said he could put it in then take it out when hes about to come, but i dont know if thats okay or not. what is the best thing to do?...
A. 15 January 2011: A resounding NO.
This is NOT ok.
Go to a sexual health clinic and get free condoms, they will give you a bag of 20+. It only takes 5 minutes to prevent a problem that could cause a lifetime of distress. ... (read in full...)
Texting problems...
Q. My boyfriend and I jus started dating. For like the first week everything was going very well. We talked all the time and texted all the time. We always checked on each other, but then all of a sudden he quit texting back. That same day I called him ...
A. 15 January 2011: To be honest, it doesn't sound like he is interested in you any more, which is very normal for a teenage bloke.
You may have gone OTT texing all the time then sending pety "no reply" messages when he wasnt calling or texting you back.
Its pro... (read in full...)
Does he love me... or the baby momma number 1???
Q. okay now i am 18 and i am seein this guy that go to my school but the problem is he has a baby and he still talks to the baby momma every day but he is telling me he aint dating the baby momma but every time i turn around she is there. i know he ...
A. 15 January 2011: She is the mother of his child, there is no way she is not going to be there.
If your idea is to separate them so he will spend more time with you and his second child, I really cannot see that happening.
Whether he loves you or not isn't th... (read in full...)
Feeingsl of lust for my girlfriend's sister..
Q. i'm a 15 yr old guy....i hav a gf...and we love each other a lot!!! she has a sister who is older than me by abt a year and a half and is much more attractive than my gf...this sister loves me as a brother and i love her as a sister as well.....but ...
A. 15 January 2011: You can love someone and have lustful feelings for another, its not a crime, its natural.
However, it is important that you don't let these feeling control your actions. Don't get into any situations where you can be accused of acting inapprop... (read in full...)
He asked me out but didn't pay for the date?
Q. A guy that I know is interested in me (we've kissed) asked me to hang out (alone for the first time, also this is the beginning of our "friendship"), but he never paid for me even though he treated it as a date (kissed me again)...is that normal? I ...
A. 15 January 2011: I think it is absolutely ridiculous in this world as we know it now, for women to demand equality then EXPECT a man to pay for everything, doesn't that just make those women hypocrites?
All the first dates I have been on, the man has paid for the ... (read in full...)
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