My boyfriend wants to go to a strip club and I'm not sure how to handle it
Q. My boyfriend and i have been dating for over a year now and he is going away with some friends in august. I know it is awhile away but lastnight we were all sitting around a fire and his buddies brought up going to a strip club while they were gone ...
A. 18 March 2012: No matter how you feel about strip clubs you don't really have the right to tell him not to go, you arn't his parent and you do not own him.
Tell him how you feel and that it's his choice whether he goes or not (because it is). If he goes kno... (read in full...)
A cologne to turn my girlfriend on?
Q. Hi Guys, This question is for women to answer and men are welcome too :D. Do you know a specific perfume that i can use to turn my girlfriend on and really worked for you? ...
A. 18 March 2012: Africa or Chocolate by Lynx! Not meaning to be crude but I literally get wet as soon as I smell it.... (read in full...)
I want to have a relationship--but I find women utterly annoying!!
Q. ok here's my problem. i've never really had a successful relationship with a woman. the reason is...the ones I've dated or known closely have gotten to be the most annoying, superficial. dishonest, and gossipy individuals I've ever met. i am ...
A. 16 March 2012: Where on earth are you trying to find women?! I agree, there are a lot of annoying women out there but as a bisexual woman I wouldent date or have friends like that. I also find that if you're going around bars and clubs looking for women, what kind ... (read in full...)
Can you get pregnant from dry humping?
Q. Can dry humping get you pregnant even if there was no ejaculation and you were wearing underwear?...
A. 4 March 2012: No it's impossible. If you cannot answer such a simple question yourself then you should not be doing sexual things. Get educated.... (read in full...)
Circumcized or uncircumsized? Which do females prefer?
Q. Hi, I want to know if girls like penis uncircumcised or cirmcumcised? I'm french and in my country we are all uncut. It's about religion and culture, what is it in your country (well about muslim and jew I know) but for others country pls let ...
A. 30 January 2012: I have never been with a circumcised man (as I'm British). I don't have a problem with foreskin, it turns me on when my man goes crazy when I lick the soft end. Sure it may smell of urine a little but it is a penus,bits expected! ... (read in full...)
To guys: why do you take so long to reply to a text a girl sends to you?
Q. me and this guy have been talking, and he mostly starts the conversation and it seems that he is interested in me and I am interested in him too. But why does it take him so long to reply when I text him? Guys why do you take long to reply back? ...
A. 8 January 2012: You're majorly overreacting. A reply within 30 minutes I consider very quick due to the busy nature of our lives. If you want a quic reply, call him. ... (read in full...)
To guys: why do you take so long to reply to a text a girl sends to you?
Q. me and this guy have been talking, and he mostly starts the conversation and it seems that he is interested in me and I am interested in him too. But why does it take him so long to reply when I text him? Guys why do you take long to reply back? ...
A. 7 January 2012: How long is "long"? ... (read in full...)
Is my size normal for my age?
Q. i want to know if my penis size is normal im 16 and my penis is only 7 and a half inches...
A. 7 January 2012: Yes.... (read in full...)
My mom will not help. How old do I need to be to get birth control without a parents permission and without prescription?
Q. I was just curious about how old i have to be to get birth control without a parents permission or without prescription. I'm 14 now, and i know i shouldn't be on it now, but it's not what you think. I have horrible cramps to the point that i stay ...
A. 6 January 2012: 14 is a tad too young, becuase you body is still developing and does not need an influx of artificial hormones when you're streaming with hormones anyway!
There are other ways:
See a gynecologist
Go to a pharmacy and get over the counter pain... (read in full...)
I want to have a baby but it's not happening!
Q. So I'm 19 and me and my fiance live together..everything is perfect! I am beyond in love with this man.the problem is,I want to share more with him..I bet you're thinking "what more could she want?" this may sound crazy but I want to have his ...
A. 5 January 2012: Obviously you can do whatever you want. You are making your life unnecessarily harder on yourself and your partner. If you are THAT committed to eachother and you are THAT mature, I really dont understand why you refuse to see that waiting even just ... (read in full...)
Getting a contraceptive implant in my arm tomorrow...any advice?
Q. i'm getting the contraceptive implant in my arm tomorrow and i'm really scared of getting it done. any one got any ideas on how to not get scared and to not focus on it? thanks...
A. 5 January 2012: They numb you first. There is really no pain, I hardly even remember getting mine done! Good luck!... (read in full...)
I want to have a baby but it's not happening!
Q. So I'm 19 and me and my fiance live together..everything is perfect! I am beyond in love with this man.the problem is,I want to share more with him..I bet you're thinking "what more could she want?" this may sound crazy but I want to have his ...
A. 4 January 2012: Sorry, but if you were "very mature" for your age then you would realise that having a baby at 19 is not a good way to raise a child.
You're coming across as being rather selfish. I want a baby, I want a baby. You said you've got your own appa... (read in full...)
Why does my vulva itch?
Q. My vagina, and entire vulva, is quite itchy at the moment. I had a bit of pain while touching myself since about five days ago, but that was only when I went near it. I didn't think much of it seeing as I didn't touch myself very much and it caused ...
A. 4 January 2012: Sounds very much like thrush or an still. Go to your doctor and get looked at/tested. What makes you think you can trust this guy enough to have unprotected sex with him? ... (read in full...)
After everything that has happened, I'm sad for days on end, but don't want to get medicated!
Q. Hiya, I'm 31 and married with 2 children an 8year old and one about to turn 1. I would consider myself a happy go lucky person that takes everything in my stride normally. recently I have found everyday things harder and herder to cope with, and I ...
A. 2 January 2012: Whilst there is no shame in going to your GP, you are very smart in your thinking that medication is not the best/only answer to your troubles.
I was medicated on 3 different anti depressants from 18 years old to 21, and it made me numb and my l... (read in full...)
Can I operate to become a virgin again?
Q. Can i have my virginity back by doing an operation?...
A. 27 December 2011: If you have had a penis enter your vagina, you will never be a virgin again. You can however have an operation to restore your hymen. This is purely physical and will NOT restore your virginity. It also can only be done privately with a plastic s... (read in full...)
I'm 19, he's 33 - can it work? Opinions please.
Q. Hello, I am 19, and have only had one other relationship with a boy who was 21. He was a kind person and a good first boyfriend, but he didn't want anything serious and was more interested in going to the bars all night with his friends (somethi...
A. 26 December 2011: I met my partner when I was 19 and he was 32 and weve been together for over 3 years. It's good that you are independent at your age. When I met my OH I was at college and living with my parents. Our relationship moved very quickly, I moved... (read in full...)
How do I hide that I'm no longer a virgin?
Q. I am deeply in love with a boy.one day i mate((sex) with a condam) with his at that time my hyman was broken and bleeded. now he doesn't have any interest in me so can i get marry another person? if so can that person know about my virginity? what i ...
A. 26 December 2011: I'm shocked with some of the answers on here. Having sex once will not make your vagina loose, doing kegals will not make any difference to the fact that your hymen has broken. Having a tighter vagina doesnt necessarily mean that you have has no ... (read in full...)
He's frustrated. I'm unhappy. What could be causing my Bf to suddenly get erectile dysfunction? It's never happened before.
Q. My and I boyfriend have been together for 4 months now, and recently we've had a problem with him staying hard during sex. I'm on birth control so we never use condoms but it's just so weird because during foreplay or oral sex he stays full on hard...
A. 14 December 2011: This isn't erectile dysfunction. It sounds to me like he isn't getting turned on enough during sex. Bit off topic...are you sure you want to be with someone if you are suspicious of them cheating?... (read in full...)
How do I handle the fact that family are not taking our wedding plans seriously? He's 28 and I'm 22.,
Q. I'm 22, and my fiance is 28, We've been together for 2 years. We're both in school, and I'll be moving away to University in a couple months. We decided to hold off getting married until he graduates (about 2 years), as I'll be in school for a long ...
A. 14 December 2011: You're only 22 and a child in their eyes, and 2 years before marriage is not a long time in this day and age. I'm 22 and have been in a relationship for 3 years but I know that I am much too young to get married. I you want to spend you're liv... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant. When will airlines say "No" to me flying between New York and England?
Q. Are you allowed to fly aboard when you're pregnant? my partner wants to take me to new york before baby is born?? if you are allowed to fly then how many months pregnant can you be, and still be able to fly? many thanks ...
A. 14 December 2011: You can fly up to 34 weeks... (read in full...)
Too young for sex but cant stop my urges, help!
Q. I am a 13 year old boy and normally have the urge to have sex, but i dont want to as you can see my age, any advice??...
A. 14 December 2011: If they ask, say you have dry patches of skin.... (read in full...)
I am a virigin with strong sexual feelings for my boyfriend. Is this normal?
Q. Im 19, ive been seeing this guy who's 23. I met him approx a year ago, met him through one of my friends, there was always that attraction there but nothing happened between us until september, when I agreed to meet up with him before i went off...
A. 11 December 2011: Very normal. I've had strong sexual desires way before I even kissed a guy or found someone I wanted to engage in sexual activities with.... (read in full...)
He lied about another girl and we broke up, how do I cope?
Q. I started seeing this guy in September, although it was never official. We took a break in October, and he gave this like crap excuse. Eventually he came back. I thought we were good, until last night. I wanted to hang out with him since I'll be ...
A. 11 December 2011: Seriously, don't bother with this guy any more. Only 3 months "in" and you're already having problems. Count your blessings that this didn't happen a year down the line. Move on and find someone who won't lie to you and send you bullshit texts! ... (read in full...)
Do girls think about their ex's penis
Q. I was wondering if girls think about the size of their ex's penis. My girlfriend made it a point to tell me the sizes of her ex and it hurt my self esteem because i'm just average. And she sounded like she was gloating for them. For me and guys I ...
A. 10 December 2011: Yes I remember all of my previous sex partners penis size and their performance. However this is because I have a good memory when it comes to sex and its important to me.
One of my ex partners (2 dates and had sex once) had a penis the size of ... (read in full...)
What does an orgasm feel like?
Q. What does an orgasim feel like? My legs will shake and I'll feel like I'm about to pee but I'm not sure if that's what it is....
A. 9 December 2011: You will KNOW if you are having an orgasm.... (read in full...)
I feel heavy because of my height and want to be an model
Q. I have serious body image issues. I'm 5'11, and I think I'm attractive. Because of my height I constantly feel heavy - I'm 64kgs. Im very uncomfortable round boys because of it and don't act confidently- sometimes I just feel like crying and othe...
A. 3 December 2011: 5ft11 and 64kg..WAKE UP!
Your issue is is that you most likely have body dismorpic disorder. You need a reality check. Stop comparing yourself to other people. "She's so thin its unreal" - Does that actually sound good to you? Sounds to me like ... (read in full...)
My period was missed, should I worry?
Q. This question may well sound abit dumb, but i am young and have no idea about female anatomany, not to mention i worry far to much so if you could tell me if this is normal or not it would be great. I have bas...
A. 3 December 2011: I've been having periods for 10 years and they are not regular, I would say this is normal for the majority of women.
You're at the age where it's very important to educate yourself about your body and sex education. Be informed!... (read in full...)
"Momma's boy" - attractive or not to women?
Q. Want to get some feedback from women here... I grew up without a father so my mother had to be both parents in a way. As a result, I've always been a "Momma's boy". She's not protective or invasive in my personal life we just have a very solid and ...
A. 1 December 2011: It really depends on how you put it;
"I'm a momma's boy" - Bit off putting, its a negative defining description of you as a person.
"I have a good and close relationship with my mom" - Sounds good, you know how to keep up a relationship, yo... (read in full...)
What vibrator should I get?
Q. Hi everyone this is a question for the women lol I was thinking of buying a rabbit vibrator as I can't have a orgasm on my own which rampant rabbit vibrator is best do you think I was thinking of getting the thrusting one is this any good thank you ...
A. 1 December 2011: What do you want from it? G-spot or clitoral? Or both?... (read in full...)
Has anyone tried HCG diet drops?
Q. I am wanting to try the HCG diet drops. I was wondering if anyone has tried them before? did they work? where is the best place to get them? I want to get as much information as I can because it seems to be really good....
A. 29 November 2011: Ask your doctor. I just lost 3 stone by eating healthily and exercising. There is no trick to it. N91 is right. If diet pills worked then we would all be taking them! Read the 4 hour body by Tim Ferriss. It dot me started on the right track.... (read in full...)
What is wrong? I feel I'm closing myself off from others. I can not understand why this is happening.
Q. I just don't know what's wrong with me.For a while now,I've felt so down,tired and so very,very sad.There's no reason for it,nothing's happened to me.I'm just so sad. I feel like closing myself off to everyone and just disappearing into my own worl...
A. 26 November 2011: I feel like this when I'm eating badly and not exercising. As soon as I started drinking more water, going to the gym and cutting out bad sugars I felt a WHOLE LOT better. Also if you're a person who procrastinates often, this can cause stress and ... (read in full...)
Texting time... why does he take forever to reply!
Q. I met this guy about 2 weeks ago, and we hit it off right away. Since then, he's text me without fail everyday, which is good as usually guys trail off after a few days! The only thing which confuses me, is how long he takes to reply to each tex...
A. 25 November 2011: OP if you want an immediate conversation with him and don't want to wait for a text, why not just speak on the phone. Stop fussing around with texting!... (read in full...)
Afternoon to evening outfit....what should I wear?
Q. Hi everyone. This isnt much of a problem, i just need advice. I'm going out on Sunday to some bars, but i am meeting up with my friend in the afternoon, and we may be out until the evening, and i'm not sure what to wear. I don't want to look too ...
A. 25 November 2011: I would avoid skirts and pretty shoes. Too much fuss and bright colours can be a bit off putting.
Go with dark skinny jeans that fit well, boots over the jeans and a blouse/top with a casual blazer. Causual, comfortable, smart and sexy..
... (read in full...)
Texting time... why does he take forever to reply!
Q. I met this guy about 2 weeks ago, and we hit it off right away. Since then, he's text me without fail everyday, which is good as usually guys trail off after a few days! The only thing which confuses me, is how long he takes to reply to each tex...
A. 25 November 2011: Err an hour isn't a long time to get back to someone! I'd say 10 mins is very quick! What does he do with his day? Does he work? ... (read in full...)
Can my ex take me to court and get custody of our son?
Q. I need some advice. When I was four months pregnant I left my son's biological father because he forced himself on me sexually and used to hit me. After we split I tried to be civil with him for our son's sake. Well sometime later we got into a big ...
A. 25 November 2011: He could try but he would NEVER get custody unless you are proved to be an unfit mother.... (read in full...)
Can sperm pass through fabric?
Q. hi. my boyfriend and i were making out so things got a bit heated which left us with just our underwear on, him withthin cotton underwear on and me with very thin underwear on and thin silky tights. Can sperm pass through all these? ...
A. 17 November 2011: I am a health and pregnancy specialist for my day job. There are a few things that need to be said about this question.
- Sperm does not travel through fabrics
- Headaches and nosebleeds are not a sign of pregnancy
- You do not need to go to th... (read in full...)
My family thinks I'm too young for this marriage
Q. hello i need someones opinion. im getting married in November but my family does not think that is the best choice. they say that if i get married im going to be miserable that im going to want to I've my life later on in the future and im going t ...
A. 30 September 2011: If you are in love, then why don't you wait until you are a bit older to get married? What's the big rush? Will anything really change once youre married?... (read in full...)
Yasmin Pill a month later
Q. Hello everyone thanks in advance for your answers. My issue is technical. My gyno prescribed me Yasmin pills and told me to take them August 6 because I wanted to be period-free for some time (Swimming-Lengthy Vacation). BUT! My period cam...
A. 26 September 2011: You're not pregnant.
Weird things can happen when you're putting extra chemicals/hormones into your body. It doesnt sound like the dosage was high enough. The same kind of thing happened to me on holiday.
It will sort itself out. ... (read in full...)
More serious than "boyfriend", not engaged, what do you call it?
Q. I have a question about how to describe my relationship. My boyfriend and I are not yet engaged but are very committed to each other, to the point that we are planning on sharing a house shortly. "Boyfriend" no longer seems like the right word. ...
A. 22 September 2011: My live in boyfriend is my partner... (read in full...)
Can Nair damage your private area?
Q. dear cupid, what are the risks associated with using nair on your bikini area (and i don't mean just the line...i mean everywhere)??? i've heard that it's pretty painful, but is there anything beyond that??? like, could it actually damage ...
A. 16 September 2011: DONT DO IT!!! I did once, and after it involved bags of peas, ice, cold showers and not walking for 2 days!!... (read in full...)
I really liked my waitress and want to ask her out
Q. For my birthday yesterday we (mates and I) went to the 7 Diner, which is a place local to me 10 mins drive from here. The waitress was called Anna, and she was beautiful. She came over with a birthday cake later and sang Happy Birthday to me, and ...
A. 8 September 2011: No - I would say that was unprofessional. ... (read in full...)
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