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anonymous
writes:I'm a 20yrs old girl, still a virgin, my hymen wasn't there, so my BF knows and promised not to penetrate deeper during sex ie for me not to lose my virginity until i'm ready,but i'm confused, am i still a virgin? Can i get pregnant like that and how wil i know when there is penetration?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2010): I strongly advise you to get and use condoms, both for disease prevention (1 in 5 have incurable genital herpes, but the sores may not be visible), and for pregnancy prevention.
Oral sex is safer sex and, let's face it, fun. So, practice and practice and practice. Soon, you'll be having hours of wonderful fun!
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (22 October 2010):
 Mazel Tov!
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reader, Fiona xxx  +, writes (22 October 2010):
 You seem to be describing an unusual set of circumstances. So you are a virgin, but you/he are happily fooling around partially inserting his penis, perhaps just the tip of the penis gently?
If there has been some penis gone inside you, then I wouldn't have said you are a virgin any more.
Really that defeats the object doesn't it and you may as well just have sex properly.
I really wouldn't fool around like that because there is a small chance because of the pre-cum.
Just get him to use a condom and go for it properly and that will cut out all this confusion and anxiety.
You'll know when there is a full penetration because it'll feel very different.
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reader, dmartin89 +, writes (22 October 2010):
 I don't quite understand what you are saying..
Your boyfriend has penetrated you but not far enough to brake your hymen? But you dont have one anyway..?!
Honey, any kind of penetration, no-matter how deep is sexual intercourse. So if this has happened then you are not a virgin.
Did you have sex education at school?!
You can get pregnant if you boyfriends semen is deposited into your vagina.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (22 October 2010):
 You are no longer a virgin if your boyfriend has inserted his penis into your vagina, no matter how far in he goes. And yes you can get pregnant doing this. As far as knowing when there is penetration, you know by feeling something pushing into your vagina.
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