How long should I wait before asking another girl out?
Q. I broke up with my gf on Friday and I just wanted some peoples opinion on how long should I wait before i ask another girl out. I wasn't going to do it straight away but some others opinions please?...
A. 12 June 2011: 6/8 weeks. Respect the feelings of your ex girlfriend. Imagine how you would feel if she broke up with you and she found another boyfriend within a couple weeks. I can imagine feelings of being easily replacable and being unimportant.
You c... (read in full...)
I'm 21 but my parents wont let me go anywhere, I'm dreading asking to stay over at my boyfriends house! Help!
Q. I'm 21 and my new boyfriend is 23. We both are living at home with our parents. I have never stayed or been allowed to stay over at a boyfriend's house. My boyfriend wants me to ask to his after a late night concert.(I don't drive for health ...
A. 10 June 2011: Dont want to live by your parents rules? Move out..... (read in full...)
Who's in charge of the baby, me or my parents?
Q. I'm 16 years old and have a 2 month old son, me and his father are still together. My parents act like the baby is theirs and like they can make decisions that pertain to him. I'm very responsible and I do everything for my son, my boyfriend (his ...
A. 9 June 2011: Until you are 18, your parents have full legal rights over you and the baby.
You are a child with a child, if your parents think that for example, the baby cant stay at your boyfriends house overnight, you should respect their decision. You are ... (read in full...)
If I use a vibrator does it mean I'm no longer a virgin?
Q. Ok, this might sound obseen but i ought too ask, ive recently brought a virating 80mm bullet with some lube! now im a 20 year old virgin, if i incert this into my vigina this shouldnt pop my "cherry" right? i get this must sound stupid but i dont ...
A. 7 June 2011: I am a self employed therapist who is helping people to get in touch with reality between clients.
You are 20 years old, I am 21 and I've known what losing virginity has meant for the last 10 years. I am very concerned when I see these type of ... (read in full...)
If I use a vibrator does it mean I'm no longer a virgin?
Q. Ok, this might sound obseen but i ought too ask, ive recently brought a virating 80mm bullet with some lube! now im a 20 year old virgin, if i incert this into my vigina this shouldnt pop my "cherry" right? i get this must sound stupid but i dont ...
A. 7 June 2011: Seriously, get educated..
Penis in vagina = loss of virginity
... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to look, but NOT touch?
Q. I happen to have a wandering eye. I don't cheat but I do look at a girl if she's my type. My type is a girl who is thick in all the right places. Mostly in the legs and ass. My girlfriend is definitely my type. If I'm talking to another girl that ...
A. 6 June 2011: I think you will get varied answers for this question.
My partner and I and very comfortable with eachother, so we always point out who we find attractive and I dont have a problem with him flirting . Its human nature to look at someone you find... (read in full...)
I'm in love with a much younger woman......
Q. Let me start by saying that I'm not a native English speaker, so, I'm really sorry if you find some spelling/grammar mistakes. I hope you can at least understand me. I'm 30 and I'm in love with a 19 years old girl. She studies medicine and she is a...
A. 6 June 2011: I dont think its wrong.
I met my partner when I was 19 and he was 32, and we're still together 3 years later.
At that age, its just a number. I have never been attracted to men my age.
If it feels right, dont you think it would be silly not to... (read in full...)
I want to break up easily
Q. Hey guys I really need advice on how to break up with my girlfriend, I'm going to try and ease her down but I need help on exactly what to do. I need tips on everything Where What to say Should I tell her and leave Should I tell her and walk her...
A. 6 June 2011: There is no EASY way to break up with someone.
When I was your age, my boyfriend of two weeks (a guy I had been pining over for 4 years) broke up with me by telling his friend to tell me that I was "dumped".
I was told in the middle of a school d... (read in full...)
The pill and gaining weight?
Q. Hi, I've been thinking carefully about going on the Pill for a while now and think it's the right thing to do. My only worry is that it'll make me gain weight (vanity I know!) What have your experiences with the Pill been like? I really don't want ...
A. 5 June 2011: You gain weight from eating too much and not exercising enough. The only way the pill contributes to weight gain is increasing appetite. I've never had this problem, I'm hungrier around my totm anyway...I just make sure to make an extra trip to the ... (read in full...)
Why isn't there any English dating sites?
Q. There seems to be every dating site for everyone else: muslim, latinos, asians, but none for English. Why is this? My family originates from England and my father was born there. My dads side is still very English in their ways. I like dating E...
A. 3 June 2011: What DO you want?... (read in full...)
Who lies more? Girls? or guys?
Q. do girls lie more then guys? If so, explain in detail. Why do girls lie to guys and why do guys lie to girls?...
A. 1 June 2011: Which stick is browner? This one or this one?... (read in full...)
I was hanging out with my friends, feeling happy, and then out of NOWHERE, my mood shifted and I was depressed. What could this be?
Q. Please please please any help will do! Can anyone make sense of this and tell me what the hell happened with me the other night and why this may of happened!?! I'd really appreciate it! I was out on a night with a big group of friends both guy...
A. 31 May 2011: I spent most of my teenage years feeling like this! So you are completely normal.
I havent spokent to many people about it (friends who are doctors and mental health professionals) and they put it down to hormones.
These feelings can also be ... (read in full...)
If I study divorce law will it ruin future relationships for me?
Q. so i want to study law in University , but i also want to study in the divorce area but do you think that this will mess up any relationship i have in the future? ...
A. 31 May 2011: Why do you think it will mess up any relationships?... (read in full...)
Why isn't there any English dating sites?
Q. There seems to be every dating site for everyone else: muslim, latinos, asians, but none for English. Why is this? My family originates from England and my father was born there. My dads side is still very English in their ways. I like dating E...
A. 30 May 2011: I met my partner of 3 years on plentyoffish.com, we are both english... (read in full...)
I don't like the engagement ring he gave me
Q. My fiance recently surprised me with an engagement ring. He knew I preferred white gold, but got me a yellow gold one. I do love my ring, but it matches nothing I wear and with me being OCD I'm now having to get all new jewellery and accessories to ...
A. 29 May 2011: I was in a similar position to you recently. My partner bought me a watch for my birthday, and I HATE wearing watches. I dont even wear bracelets because I dont like tight things around my wrist. And worst of all he knows it! I did tell him an... (read in full...)
Opinions on young teens fooling around.
Q. Hi, im 14 and have been with my boyfriend for nearly two years, the other day suggested that we take things further. When he says further, he means blowjob, fingering, dry sex and sexting. I spoke to my mum and she said she wasnt bothered as long as ...
A. 29 May 2011: Celtic tiger is right. At your very young age it is not just about being in a good relationship, your actions now can affect the rest of your life.
I am also very concerned that your mum has given you the go ahead, its good to be close but this is p... (read in full...)
Little blood in urine - please help!
Q. I'm 19. Today, I went down on my girlfriend and licked her vagina a little bit. I also rubbed my fingers outside of her vagina. Everything was alright. I didn't put any of my finger inside of her. And we didn't have sex. Then she got home and told...
A. 28 May 2011: Exactely what person12345 said
Women wear tampons to stop period blood leaking from their vaginas. However, when they cant absorb any more they can leak, which is why they should be changed often and bigger sizes should be used depending on the "... (read in full...)
Should I tell my family his real age or wait until they get to know him better?
Q. I've been with my bf for a couple weeks and we've been talking for about a month and a half. But theres a big age diffrence and it doesn't bother me but my family is having a get together in a couple weeks and I invited him to come. He's 18 and I'm ...
A. 27 May 2011: This is a tiny age gap, not really even worth commenting on.
My partner is 34, im 21 and my parents have been ok with it for the past 3 years!... (read in full...)
Is there anything I can do to have my g/f want anal?
Q. My girlfriend since one year ago has had very many sexual partners and she is only 19 years old. (i am 20) People always say that it is a good thing because she is very sexual if she has been sleeping around, but she isnt. She only did it because ...
A. 26 May 2011: Find another girlfriend wh likes anal.
How would you feel if your girlfriend kept on asking you over and over to like her ass and you didnt really want to. Annoying huh?... (read in full...)
Teacher at school going to be a father soon. Is it ok to get him a card?
Q. Hello all, My favourite teacher at school is soon to be expecting his wife to have a newborn baby boy. I really want to congratulate him, and came up with one idea. However I'm not sure if it's inappropriate. I was thinking perhaps I could bu...
A. 24 May 2011: I think buying a card and getting your class to all sign it is a good idea.
Or sign it from your family i.e.
Congratulations on the birth of your son,
Kindest wishes, The Williams Family.
I think i would be a little inaproppriate if it ... (read in full...)
Worried and depressed and food is the only thing that makes me feel better
Q. Hi, I really need some advice. Im 5ft 4 and weigh 12 1/2 stone (175 pounds) Im at least 3 stone overweight and i feel really fat and ugly. I used to be a healthy weight and have now lost all my confidence, i dnt even bother making an effort...
A. 24 May 2011: According to your height, you are about 2 stone overweight. And to be honest, it could be a hell of a lot worse. You could easily lose 2lbs a week for the next 8 weeks and be 16lbs lighter by your holiday.
You need to get out of this mindset ... (read in full...)
He takes so long to text back that it's tedious now. Should I bother with him?
Q. There is this guy i am texting, he has a busy life from what i know so i can understand why he doesn't text back quickly. But the fact he takes 2 hours at MINIMUM to reply!!? And the other times it's like 5 hours!! What is up with that, it's just ...
A. 24 May 2011: Err..you cant get to know someone over text.
If you are serious about wanting to get to know him, CALL him and set up a date.
Yes it is tedious, but you started it. Not everyone converses by text, I havent used texting to have a "conversatio... (read in full...)
About to be married and I'm terrified... Help!
Q. Hi, I need help here please. i am an 18 year old who is about to get married, ive had lots of friends with benefits in the past and 2 serious boyfriends. I love my 22 year old boyfriend so much i feel and im sure he is the one for me. We love each ...
A. 23 May 2011: At 18, I dont understand where you got the time to have several friends with benefits AND two serious relationships before this guy!
What do you call a serious relationship exactely?
How long have you been in a relatonship? Do you live togethe... (read in full...)
I've been in love with my teacher, is this note good?
Q. I've spent most of year 11 being secretly in love with my re teacher, a fact which in itself has nearly torn me apart, however to spare her feelings I have decided just to write her s note saying how much she means to me so I can get closure because ...
A. 23 May 2011: I think that's a nice note, its not too much. I'm glad you didnt write about your infactuation; that would have been too much.
I think it would be nice to write it in a thank-you card and give it to her at the end of the year.... (read in full...)
Is it normal to have this high a sex drive or does it mean that I'm a sex addict ?
Q. Recently my sex drive has been considerably higher than my bf's. We have sex quite often at least three week sometimes everyday but while my bf finds this plenty I still don't find it enough. He will often have sex more often than he would like to ...
A. 23 May 2011: 3 times a week isn't much at all.
In the first 6 month of my relationship we were doing it 4 times a day, so you are completely normal!
It is assumed that men have higher sex drives than women which is complete bollocks. Each person is different... (read in full...)
What is cream pie?
Q. I'm 19 years old and i had my first intercourse at 17. I do not have a boyfriend but I have a partner. Whenever we cant meet up I use my toy and sometimes there's a white creamy liquid on the toy. I'm wondering if that is girl cum or what? I've seen ...
A. 22 May 2011: The creamy liquid if the natural lubrication your vagina produces. Its completely normal. However if the colour has suddenly changed or if you are feeling any discomfort below, I would goee a doctor.... (read in full...)
I have too much hair!
Q. Every since I was about 11 or so, I've been ridiculously hairy. Kids used to tease me about it but I wouldn't let it get to me. It wasn't until I reached high school that it really started to bother me. I have hair on my upper lip, chin and breasts ...
A. 22 May 2011: This is an obvious sign of hormone imbalance.
It could be due to an underlying problem such as PCOS. Go see your doctor about it. No amount of waxing, plucking or bleaching will make the problem go away. You need to start at the source and sort... (read in full...)
Does Plan B reset your menstrual cycle?
Q. A month and a day ago, the condom tore and I took Plan B the morning after. I have read that the only way you know it worked is when you get your next period. Five days after I took plan b, I bled for four days. Then it stopped. Then I had cramps a...
A. 21 May 2011: It doesnt "reset" your cycle but it can mess it up.
The pill is a very high concentration of hormone and it has a big impact on the body.
It is about 99.9% chance that you are pregnant, i.e. more than if you had used a condom having sex (98%)... (read in full...)
Are there any ways to increase girth?
Q. I am writing because my boyfriend is starting to develop insecurities about his penis size. I have had bigger in both length and girth, but it isn't his length that bothers him. I was wondering if there was any possible way to increase the girth of ...
A. 20 May 2011: There are surgeries to increase girth.
http://www.penis-enlargement.org/surgery.htm
However, this is only reccomended for "severe" thin penises. The prolem here is yours, do some kegals.... (read in full...)
Is it normal that sex hurts?
Q. When im going to have sex I only want my bfs penis to go half way in it feels good for me but when he tries to go all the way in omg it hurts is that normal??? i havent gone to a doctor to ask im shy can anyone help? please thank you :)...
A. 16 May 2011: The likelihood is that his penis is nudging your cervix which can be very uncomfortable.
How long have you been having sex for? Is this your first sexual partner? Has it always hurt when having sex?
It could be so many reasons, you can... (read in full...)
Men are leering at my legs and I want it to stop!
Q. Hello there! Here is my crisis. Men who are way older than me are looking at my legs and smiling at me. Not the friendly polite smile but a sinister pervert smile. Please forgive the language. This started happening when my mom said that I shou...
A. 16 May 2011: Dont wear anything that would give them a reason to look.
Dont wear short shirts, short shorts, tight jeans etc..... (read in full...)
Hygenic to go back and forth between 2 places?
Q. I have a fantasy about having half anal sex and half vginal sex as in in and out of one for a bit then in the next hole, but is that hygienic!?...
A. 16 May 2011: Vaginal - anal is fine
But if you want to go from anal to vaginal, put on a new condom and have a quick wash.
One of my friends "double-dipped" once and she ended up getting a nasty thrush-like infection for about a month.... (read in full...)
How many friends do you have?
Q. OK I am wondering how many friends--and I mean real friends--can a person honestly have. I am not counting Facebook friends, but real friends. To me a real friend is someone you feel a kinship with, someone you identify with and who identifies w...
A. 13 May 2011: None which arnt in my family.
I grew apart from my school friends, I didnt go to uni and I'm self employed so the people I meet in my line of work, I dont see often.
Real friends - My partner, my mum, my step-dad, 2 of my uncles, my grandma. ... (read in full...)
Is it normal to feel sick during your period?
Q. Is it normal to feel really nauseous during your period? I feel like I'm constantly car sick. It's awful....
A. 10 May 2011: Yes, I get very nauseaous around my TOTM. It's because your hormone levels are increased, its totally normal.
Drink plenty of water and chew on some dry crackers. Pressure point bands may also help.... (read in full...)
Does grammar matter when people communicate today? Or is it a lost cause? What's your pet grammar issue?
Q. First off I will admit it: sometimes I mis-spell words. And another thing, sometimes when I'm in a hurry I abbreviate some words. And when I was at University I used to have the best set of abbreviations in Contract Law. If I needed to refer to ...
A. 5 May 2011: I love this thread!!!! LOL
I'm only 21 and I was taught to use the correct spelling and grammar in school. I think it has changed a lot in the last 10 years. Text speak is now the norm amoungst young people, which I find very sad.
I get very mi... (read in full...)
Boyfriend wants me to get tattoo of his name! Should I?
Q. my partner Shane says he is not the marrying kind. but we do everything together. He was my fiurst boyfriund and I never want any other boyfriend. He does shift work and i get scared at night sometimes when he is not home. And I cant go out without ...
A. 3 May 2011: NO.... (read in full...)
If you give a blowjob are you still a virgin? Is he?
Q. If you give a guy a blowjob are you still a virgin? And is the guy still a virgin too?...
A. 3 May 2011: OMG...are you not taught sex education at school?
It is simple as this.
Loss of virginity = Penis in vagina.
If you dont understand this then DONT get into any sexual activity. ... (read in full...)
Am I still a considered a virgin if I got fingered...?
Q. Okay. Im 15 and I was just fingered for the first time. My question is, am I still considered a virgin even though he did finger me?...
A. 2 May 2011: Oh for christ's sake...your school is obviously not teaching you anything.
Loss of virginity = penis in vagina.
If you dont know this then I really dont think that you should be participating in any sexual activity.... (read in full...)
What are these places on my skin?
Q. m havin problems wth my skin. It ol starts wth an extreme pain t a certain position n after a day or so the pain stops but a small coloured patch starts to develop, it sort f changes from green to black. I once had one on my leg but i used a ...
A. 30 April 2011: We cant help you with this. This is a forum for sex, love and relationships.
You can only get this sorted out by going to see a doctor.... (read in full...)
Any way to figure out a baby's father before the baby is born?
Q. dear cupid, is there any possible way to figure out who a baby's father is before the baby is actually born??? or, do you just have to wait until after the baby shows up???...
A. 27 April 2011: You can get amniocentisis. This is where they insert a long needle through your bump into your pelvis to get tissue samples from your amniotic fluid, from which dna information can be found.
This is, however, a painful and risky procedure which sh... (read in full...)
My teacher kissed me! I don't know what to do or how to handle this!
Q. I KNOW ITS KIND OF LONG BUT PLEASE I NEED ANSWERS. Ok well i get along great with my maths teacher. hes funny, easygoing and a great teacher! We always have a laugh in class as well as getting the work done, but one day some of my friends started ...
A. 26 April 2011: Urgh what a disguisting man!!
I know you may be nervous but you really need to tell the head or some other teacher you may be close to than others.
Imagine how grossed out you feel, and imagine other girls feeling like that. You dont know if... (read in full...)
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