My boyfriend has a crush on another girl!!!
Q. So I have been dating my boyfriend for 1 month and before he meet me he had a crush on this girl. Recently I found out that he still has a major crush on her, he also wrote on her facebook wall that she was gorgeoous...she I be concerned?...
A. 16 November 2010: Ahh poor love. I know that feeling, one of my exes when I was a teen had a major crush on his best friends girlfriend and she was the opposite of me; blonde, skinny, dumb..so i didn't get why he liked her.
Remember, that for him, this girl is ... (read in full...)
Am I being too much of a tease? And how should I let him know that I want to take things slowly?
Q. ok so been on 6 dates with this guy- im 21, hes 22-- have no intention of getting more intimate until much later on in the relationship (im a virgin and believe in waiting until love)... but last night we were making out on his bed (all clothes on) ...
A. 15 November 2010: I don't think you're being a tease.
From what you said, he seems to have got the point that you don't want to be that sexually intimate yet.
I can imagine that we wont take it further unless you initiate something.
You don't need to tell him... (read in full...)
Do's and don'ts of a long term relationship
Q. So simple question, what do you guys think are do's and don'ts of a long term relationship(at least more than 4 months). ...
A. 15 November 2010: My partner and I are in a long term relationship because we live together, share our lives and want children together.
Before my partner, I was in a relationship for over a year and I wouldn't call that long term because we weren't making p... (read in full...)
Can polyamorous relationships really work in the long-run?
Q. Is there anyone out there in a successful polyamorous relationship? My wife and I recently fell in love with another woman and believe it or not I sometimes have jealousy issues over the time they spend with each other without me. they do have ...
A. 15 November 2010: There are a lot of people on here who would say "No, this will ruin your relationship with your wife if you let it continue. Being married is supposed to be just 2 people sharing a bond, not 3. You might as well give up."
Ignore them!
I think t... (read in full...)
I charge my sister to clean the bathroom! Am I cheating her?
Q. Do you think its wrong that I charge my older sister 15/20$ to clean the bathroom for her? Meaning she don't have to do anything, no sweeping, no mirror cleaning ect. She has the bathroom 2 times a in a row and then I have it 2 times in a row. What ...
A. 15 November 2010: Thats good sense!
If shes happy to pay you to do that then hell yeah!!... (read in full...)
Is it wrong for a teen to masturbate?
Q. im a teenage girl and this past year i have had relationship problems and feel like a part of me is missing without him. i started humping a towel rolled up and waiting until i got a good feeling. is that considered masterbaition? also, is it wrong ...
A. 15 November 2010: Yes thats masturbation. Its normal, I have been masturbating since I was 10 years old.
Buy a vibrator on-line. Something like this (see link) is good to start off with. Hold it against your clitoris and practice with what makes you feel good. It... (read in full...)
Will cum on my stomach wash to my vagina in the shower?
Q. Alright, so yesterday I was giving my boyfriend a hand job, when he ejaculated on my stomach. I was wearing underwear and pajama pants, and wiped it off with some toilet paper ( and the cardboard roll part because the paper was gone). Some semen got ...
A. 15 November 2010: Jeez what kind of sex education are you getting at school?!
No, there is no way you could be pregnant.
However, if you and your boyfriend are getting g sexual, make sure you always have condons at hand and get an implant/ go on the pill.... (read in full...)
I'm 13 and my girlfriend wants to have sex, if we don't she'll dump me!
Q. I'm 13 and my girlfriend really wants to have sex. My best friend did it once and said it was a great experience. I'm breaking under peer pressure and need help. We've been going out for 10 months and I really like her. She said if I don't have sex ...
A. 15 November 2010: Good lad. That was a smart thing to do.
I hope you find another girl who repects your wishes in the future.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has a crush on another girl!!!
Q. So I have been dating my boyfriend for 1 month and before he meet me he had a crush on this girl. Recently I found out that he still has a major crush on her, he also wrote on her facebook wall that she was gorgeoous...she I be concerned?...
A. 15 November 2010: Why did he tell her she was gorgeous?
Was this as a reply to something or did he just write it?
Need some more details please!... (read in full...)
Could I somehow have gotten herpes from my mom?
Q. hey cupid, its that time again :D right, so, my mother has herpes from a previous partner and has had it for years. she told me this recently and explained how she had it and how she took care of it (as well as how pissed she was at having it and...
A. 14 November 2010: Sounds very much like an ingrown hair.
Just pop the spot and pull out the hair from under the skin with tweezers. I get these quite often from shaving.... (read in full...)
Will swallowing sperm help me to conceive?
Q. Is it true if a girl swallows sperm can it help her conceive? I was told it helps you get pregnant. Now don't think I'm asking will it get me pregnant I'm asking will it help?...
A. 14 November 2010: love068753219 your anwer is uneducated and unhelpful... (read in full...)
I hate performing oral sex on her, but I don't know what to tell her!!
Q. My girlfriend and I have been having sex for some time now. The sex isn't the problem its the oral sex that has me worried. She gives me BJs plenty of times and that isn't the problem either. The problem is I hate giver her oral sex and I'm not sure ...
A. 14 November 2010: ALL women have a natural odour. Some are stonger than others, some men love the odour of women, unfortunately you just arnt one of them!
Do you give her oral after a long day?
If you want to give her oral without the odour, the best chance of doing... (read in full...)
Why does my 12 year old sister want a g string?
Q. my 12 year old sister ask our parents if she could have a G-string. why dose she want one at her age...
A. 14 November 2010: She wants to be grown up. I think G-strings on a girl her age is not a good idea. If you have to ask your parents what underwear you are allowed to wear, its a deffinate indication that she's too young!
My friends and I started wearing thongs w... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has a crush on another girl!!!
Q. So I have been dating my boyfriend for 1 month and before he meet me he had a crush on this girl. Recently I found out that he still has a major crush on her, he also wrote on her facebook wall that she was gorgeoous...she I be concerned?...
A. 14 November 2010: This guy sounds like a bit of an idiot!
I think it is unreasonable to expect him not to still have a crush on this girl, as feeling dont just dissaperate after you meet someone else. But the fact that he has written on her facebook that she is g... (read in full...)
Abdomen aches and we only dry humped!
Q. hey.... i was with my bf yesterday and he was on top of me .... he was just pushing his hard penis on my vagina... he did it alot... but he with his boxers and me with my underwear... so we did not take off all our clothes... and as far as i know i...
A. 13 November 2010: I get cramps when I dry hump because I am so turned on. It's normal.... (read in full...)
Any tips for having anal sex?
Q. Hey, Me and my boyfriend want to try anal sex, we have attempted it before but I want to be prepared this time. I got an anal douche, but I don't know how long before sex I should use it. Also, I travell up to his on the train (3 hours) will ...
A. 13 November 2010: Roo Radely, this isn't about what you want in sex.
It can be spontaneous if you always keep condoms and lube next to the bed.... (read in full...)
Did I just take her virginity?
Q. We are friends and unintentionaly,i just entered her once,only one shot and then out,and she saw a little blood and felt pain walking.is she virgine anymore?...
A. 13 November 2010: No, she is no longer a virgin
Penis into vagina = loss of virginity... (read in full...)
How to make your breasts sprout?
Q. i have a problem i didnt get my period and i and i am 14 years old and my weight is 37 and i am not tall and i dont have boobs i dont know how make them grow?...
A. 13 November 2010: I assumed 37kg.. Or 137lbs?... (read in full...)
She's a virgin and I fingered her and now she's bleeding
Q. Hey guys, I have a real problem. On saturday I fingered my girlfriend for the first time, and I went a little far. Also, I had a VERY VERY VERY tiny amount of precum on my finger, (less than a dab, and I didn't have a previous ejaculation). An...
A. 12 November 2010: Ah I see, sorry I misread.
If she is a virgin, the upper part of het vagina isn't used to such abraision, this could be the reason for bleeding.
If ir lasts for more than 3 days, tell her to go see a doctor.... (read in full...)
I'm falling in love with everyone!
Q. I was wondering if it is weird that i fall in love with like everybody? Just lately I have begun having strong feelings for guys that are like twice my age and totally ugly. Its kind of had to explain but once i meet a guy; no matter how ugly ...
A. 12 November 2010: This is very normal for your age.
I'm 21 and I remember "being in love" with some ugly guys when I was your age. Remember this is just your hormones, they will be crazy until you are in your 20s.
I know it may feel like love, but it really is... (read in full...)
She's a virgin and I fingered her and now she's bleeding
Q. Hey guys, I have a real problem. On saturday I fingered my girlfriend for the first time, and I went a little far. Also, I had a VERY VERY VERY tiny amount of precum on my finger, (less than a dab, and I didn't have a previous ejaculation). An...
A. 12 November 2010: It would be very very unlikely that you got her pregnant.
Women know their own bodies, if its her period, then it is.
Sperm dries out and dies when it comes into contact with fingers etc.
Even if you had a lot on your fingers, it still w... (read in full...)
I still suck my thumb!
Q. I'm 19. It's pathetic but I still suck my thumb...a lot. The only time I won't is when my boyfriend helps me sleep, tells me stories or sings. But, when I feel too embarassed to ask or he's too tired and goes to sleep first, I do it and I get ...
A. 11 November 2010: I'm 21 and I suck my thumb! And I love it!
If your boyfriend loves you, he should accept it! If you want to stop just for him, then it most likely will not help.
In order to make a change in your life you have to want to do it for you, not som... (read in full...)
How do you get big muscular arms?
Q. i am 17 and lets face it a bit of a weakling i have very small arms and i have tried working out but there just hasn't been any difference in the size of my arms or biceps to be precice. what i would like to know is does anyone know a way of ge...
A. 11 November 2010: What weights are you lifting? What reps? How often?
What do you eat?
You should be lifting a weight that you can manage to do 10-15 reps of 3 times over.
Use all of the machines available in your gym.
Do this 5 times a week.
I am a fem... (read in full...)
How to make your breasts sprout?
Q. i have a problem i didnt get my period and i and i am 14 years old and my weight is 37 and i am not tall and i dont have boobs i dont know how make them grow?...
A. 11 November 2010: You sound very skinny for your age. You may not have enough body fat to start mensturating.
If you are looking for medical advice, see your doctor.
You can't make your boobs magically grow without surgery.
They will grow when you get older. ... (read in full...)
He leaves after we just had sex!
Q. right i am seeing a man nearly 9 weeks and i am very confusing about him . we had great sex but all he text me about sex and on sites . he never takes me out to make them know i am his girlfriend at all . i only see him oone or 2 times a week at ...
A. 11 November 2010: You're being used for sex..and he probably thinks this is ok because you haven't said it bothers you and you keep sleeping with him.
Have you even talked about having a relationship? How did you meet?... (read in full...)
B cup size, will they get any bigger?
Q. Well, thisnis kinda embarrassing but I'm 13 years old and I want to know if my breasts will get bigger. Cause they are like a B now but I would like them to be a little bigger. What do you think???...
A. 11 November 2010: I didn't even wear a bra until I was 15 because they were so small. When I turned 18 I was a D, now at 21 i'm an E!
You don't stop growing until you're in you're in your 20s, give yourself time.... (read in full...)
I agreed to an abortion but now I'm second guessing it!
Q. I'm 9 weeks pregnant with my 3 child which was unplanned. My partner who I've been with for 16 years wants me to terminate the pregnancy, I said I would, but am now not sure if I can go through with it. What should I do? ...
A. 11 November 2010: Whether you go through with it or not, it needs to be your decision.
Your partner must have some reason for wanting a termination. People often forget, that even thought you are in a stable loving relationship, its not just love that raises a chil... (read in full...)
I love her and I'm ready for sex. Should I go ahead with it?
Q. Ok....Heres the situation me and this girl are deeply in love. We are not 18 we are both within a year of each other age wise. This past weekend we where close to having intercourse when I stopped us. The only reason I stopped us is I didn't want ...
A. 11 November 2010: Kohnal - you are really showing your age by that response.
Sorry that you didn't get the go ahead that you wanted, I don't really know what you were expecting from adults with life experience.
You may not care what the law dictates, but th... (read in full...)
Will swallowing sperm help me to conceive?
Q. Is it true if a girl swallows sperm can it help her conceive? I was told it helps you get pregnant. Now don't think I'm asking will it get me pregnant I'm asking will it help?...
A. 11 November 2010: I'm finding it funny how most of you are saying how nonsense/silly/stupid this question is, when you haven't even made an effort to read it properly..
He clearly states "Now don't think I'm asking will it get me pregnant I'm asking will it help?... (read in full...)
Why are younger women attracted to older men?
Q. I am posting this to ask for opinions more so than answers. It is my hope that the opinions expressed by people in reply to this can help me to answer my question - myself. What I would like to get your opinions on is this Why do you think tha...
A. 11 November 2010: I am 21 and my partner is 34, we met 2 years ago. I think I can inject some info on why I wanted an older man;
- I don't find "boys" my age sexually appealing
- I'm not the type of girl who likes partying and getting drunk every other night ... (read in full...)
Will swallowing sperm help me to conceive?
Q. Is it true if a girl swallows sperm can it help her conceive? I was told it helps you get pregnant. Now don't think I'm asking will it get me pregnant I'm asking will it help?...
A. 10 November 2010: There are some extremely arrogant answers on here!
As a pregnancy and birth professional I can confidently say that YES, swallowing her partners sperm CAN help a woman get pregnant.
Now, I'm not saying that you can conceive by swallowing sperm... (read in full...)
Why do some women wish they were taller?
Q. The question is easy: why do some women wish they were taller? This is the reason most women wear high heels for example. I'm just wondering why, is it to scare off predators or do they just think taller women are more attractive? Is i...
A. 10 November 2010: I haven't worn heels for years because i have a wide foot problem.
I didn't wear heels to look taller, but its not like you can wear casual converses with a smart suit!
Heels also make legs look longer, leaner and make the bottom appear perte... (read in full...)
He doesn't shower after he gets home from work!
Q. Hi, I'm just wondering if most men seem to have their daily shower in the morning? The problem I have is that my husband walks to work for 1/2 hr (and it is quite hot where we are) works for the day (a desk job), then at bedtime he takes his work ...
A. 10 November 2010: I am a naturally sweaty person and my partner isn't but walks about an hour to work then an hour back.
We don't have showers in the evening, only in the morning, unless I've gone to the gym. It seems silly to me to go to bed all scrubbed and clea... (read in full...)
Is it strange that me and my fiance don't shower together?
Q. My Cousin stayed the weekend with me and my Fiance recently and we had got done making Dinner and he went to take a Shower and my Cousin says 'your not gonna take a shower with him' and i say No 'Why and she says have you ever showered together, i ...
A. 8 November 2010: Nah, my boyfriend doesn't like it! He thinks of showering as his personal time!... (read in full...)
Do you think we should have sex?
Q. First, please don't answer "Save yourself for marriage," because that's clearly not going to happen in our modern day and age. Secondly, please don't tell me that I'm an idiot who is going to get pregnant. Now. My boyfriend and I hav...
A. 8 November 2010: Female anonymous, you are wrong.
He could be sent to jail, it has happened to many boys his age.... (read in full...)
I love her and I'm ready for sex. Should I go ahead with it?
Q. Ok....Heres the situation me and this girl are deeply in love. We are not 18 we are both within a year of each other age wise. This past weekend we where close to having intercourse when I stopped us. The only reason I stopped us is I didn't want ...
A. 8 November 2010: If your parents find out or whets or one of your friends parents there is a likelihood that they could tell the police that you have been having underage sex.
You could be put in jail for statutory rape.
If you love her that much, wait until yo... (read in full...)
Do you think we should have sex?
Q. First, please don't answer "Save yourself for marriage," because that's clearly not going to happen in our modern day and age. Secondly, please don't tell me that I'm an idiot who is going to get pregnant. Now. My boyfriend and I hav...
A. 7 November 2010: If you have waited this long, I'm sure you can wait until you are both legal.
There is always the danger with underage sex that someone will find out and report it to the police and your boyfriend could very well be charged with sex with an unde... (read in full...)
Getting a good night's sleep
Q. Does anybody have any advice on getting a good nights sleep and how to clear my mind so i can relax? I've had a lot of stress in my life lately and am finding it really hard to get to sleep, i maybe sleep 4 or 5 hours a night if i'm lucky. ...
A. 6 November 2010: Don't watch tv or read magazines an hour before bed. Don't exercise within 2 hours of bedtime. Drink warm milk and honey - this is a natural sedative. Eating a large meal within a couple hours of bed is giving you energy you don't need so eat at... (read in full...)
Dating awkwardness
Q. hey, im going out with my boyf tomorow, just to the park. but Everytime we meet up its really awkward because i feel like im the only one making the effort to make conversation. I want to have normal convos and have a good time without the awkwardn...
A. 6 November 2010: A park is somewhere kids go to mess around. If you want some decent convo, go out to dinner at pizza express/pizza hut or a Chinese.... (read in full...)
I'm pretty, why don't I have a boyfriend when ugly fat girls have one?
Q. All of my friends continue to tell me to ask outthe guy I've liked for 6 years. They continue to say I'm pretty and the refer to me as the 'hot one.' I do believe I'm pretty, but, these over weight, ugly, and mean girls have boyfriends, yet I have n...
A. 6 November 2010: You are calling your friends "these overweight, ugly and mean girls"?! Wow, you don't exactly sound like a breath of fresh air.. The impression that you have given to me is that you are incredibly vain, immature for asking this question and... (read in full...)
They say I'm too young but I've been feeling like this for years
Q. i am in year 10 at the moment and there is a teacher and i really like him i cannot stop thinking about him i love him and i was talking to someone and they sed i am to young to fall in love but i have been feeling like this since year 7. he h...
A. 6 November 2010: No, you are infatuated. Your hormones are crazy at your age. I remember "being in love" with my history teacher for 4 years. Now I'm 21 and I don't even remember his name!!... (read in full...)
Should my Brother-in-law have helped me dress?
Q. I am 24, and my sister's husband took me to a hospital for a minor procedure that involved anesthesia. When I was done, he came in to see me. The nurse came in and said I could go, but needed to get dressed. She assumed he was my husband, and ...
A. 5 November 2010: I think that was actually a really loving and tender thing for him to do for you. I can imagine he was quite embarrassed and still is!
The act of being naked isn't sexual. We are all born naked and are most vulnerable when we are naked.
Altho... (read in full...)
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