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I always thought I'd be her first... why did she do this to me???

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Question - (1 February 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 2 February 2010)
A male United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Well, this one is compicated. I'm in love with this girl. We've been inseperable since we were ten, and when we were maybe 15 she said she loved me too. Just recently, however, I went away for a while (not jail, overseas) and when I came back she was dating some football player bad boy idiot. She had been a virgin too, (I'm 23, she is too) and I just recently found out she let one of my best friends... you get the picture. I know she still loves me, so people. Tell me. It hurt like hell. She doesn't seem to care.

Why did she do all of this?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (2 February 2010):

I agree with the others. I don't hear you mentioning any virginity agreement ever having been made between you and her.

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A female reader, Angzw Zimbabwe +, writes (2 February 2010):

you wanted to be her first; my question is: was she going to be your first? I assume you are also a virgin and were saving yourself for her too??

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A female reader, Carrot2000 United States +, writes (2 February 2010):

Carrot2000 agony auntShe slept with one of your best friends and doesn't care that her actions hurt you, but you know she loves you? Doesn't sound like it. The way she felt about you at 15 may not be the way she feels at 23, and perhaps you are more serious about her than she is about you.

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