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reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2010): you shuld let that tramp have your sloppy seconds and get yourself another man he isnt worth your time and you need to cater to yourself b4 u do anyone else
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2010): Move on - ask yourself if your girlfriend told you her boyfriend was cheating what would you tell her?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (5 February 2010):
Why not move on and find a better guy. It is clear he is not good enough.
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reader, Carrot2000  +, writes (5 February 2010):
 Girl, dump his ass and move on! Men aren't so hard to come by that you have to hang on to one who cheats.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2010): he cheated on you! so thats it.
end of.
dont waste anymore of your life on this loser.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2010): Leave him. If you forgive him he might see it as a sign that you will allow him to cheat on you and then forgive him so carry on cheating on you. That's not something that you need.
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reader, NM1218 +, writes (5 February 2010):
I would say you should leave him,for he totally disregards you.Ofcourse some people change,but you should really discuss it with him,and make it clear that if you stay,you will certainly leave him if this occurs again.
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reader, redsox29 +, writes (5 February 2010):
Do you really think that you can trust him again if you stay? You have to ask yourself if it's worth it. You may have invested time with this guy and care a lot about him but if he can disrespect your relationship enough to cheat on you, I really don't think you can trust him with your heart. I'm sorry. There are tons of great guys out there. And you deserve one of them.
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (5 February 2010):
Why the need to stay? It's not like he is the last man on the planet. Don't YOU think you deserve a man who treats you with love and respect, not deceit and betrayal?
What you have to ask yourself is this.
Can you truly forgive him?
Do you think you can ever trust him again?
Is he worth the heart ache?
Personally I would walk away.
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