Husband hit me while drunk and I no longer love/respect him
Q. I have been married for 18 years, the marriage has always been alittle rocky but for the most part ok. A few months ago when my husband was drunk he hit me in the mouth. He has since stopped drinking and is rather very nice but I no longer love or ...
A. 1 September 2009: Okay I hate to say it, because I know to you this may be hard especially considering my age and stuff, but surely if he's hit you thats an instant ticket out of your life? How do you know that he's not going to do it again? And if he does it again ... (read in full...)
Dear cupid has destroyed my life
Q. A few months ago I discovered this website and started reading through the posts as a bit of general interest during my breaks at work (IT department so lots of spare time). But unfortunately I found the website a little too addictive and hence have ...
A. 6 August 2009: okay so going on dearcupid to the point of homelessness is right :S Urm Phil not sure thats the best idea ever ya know! =]... (read in full...)
Dear cupid has destroyed my life
Q. A few months ago I discovered this website and started reading through the posts as a bit of general interest during my breaks at work (IT department so lots of spare time). But unfortunately I found the website a little too addictive and hence have ...
A. 6 August 2009: okay so going on dearcupid to the point of homelessness is right :S Urm Phil not sure thats the best idea ever ya know! =]... (read in full...)
Dear cupid has destroyed my life
Q. A few months ago I discovered this website and started reading through the posts as a bit of general interest during my breaks at work (IT department so lots of spare time). But unfortunately I found the website a little too addictive and hence have ...
A. 6 August 2009: Urm is this real????? If so you might wanna stop this so called addiction to dearcupid or at least cut it down a bit. and if this isn't real...what is it doing on here :S... (read in full...)
Should I set up a bogus mail account and see if my husband takes the bait?
Q. Further to my earlier post I have been thinking about this........ I have set up a hotmail account using my husband's texting colleague's email address but with a very slight alteration it would be hard to spot. I have used her name for the name...
A. 20 July 2009: i wouldn't recommend this- they could both find out and if your using her name for an email address this could get you potentially into some serious trouble. if you think he has been cheating or something just talk to him confront him if necesssary- ... (read in full...)
She's way too pretty for me but I like her!
Q. last night i went to the cinema with my friends and and there was this girl who went with us and i ended up stareing at her more than the movie. i think that this girl is way to pretty to go out with me but i still like her has anyone got any ideas ...
A. 20 July 2009: try first to get her msn- see if one of yours or hers friends has it- or even her mobile no. just drop her a friendly line say hey see how she is and work it from there. it'll be good for you to get to know her first- she may not be all she appears. ... (read in full...)
How can I make him trust me and not feel the need to get one up on me?
Q. Me and my ex have been talking again and it has become clear that we have trust issues. we both seem to be playing games with each other even though we dont intend to. we are both trying to make each other jealous by getting in with other people, ...
A. 20 July 2009: you kinda answered the question yourself- if you dont get in with other people as you put it it shows that your reliable and trustworthy and especially with guys- if your putting yourself in that situation who knows what could happen
be careful ... (read in full...)
I can't get any girls to notice me!
Q. hi I'm a 14 year old male and I have a problem. I can't get any girls to notice me. every where I go even in my neighborhood there are pretty girls(even at church). I don't know how to act or approach them. that's why I can't ever get girlfriends. 1 ...
A. 20 July 2009: you dont have to get them to notice you and no offence if your trying that tack you may be trying too hard. just act naturally and if u see someone you like try and strike a conversation it could be about anything. but bear in mind your age- there ... (read in full...)
What causes a man to constantly criticise the woman he's with?
Q. What causes a man to constantly criticise a girl that he's seeing? My boyfriend does this a lot. At first id laugh about it,because he always says it jokingly. But now I'm really starting to feel hurt by some of the things he says. For example,if ...
A. 14 July 2009: Try sitting down with him and explaining it. A good joke is fun for a while but as soon as it gets even slightly offensive you need to tell him how you feel. Do it sarcastically if need be, bite back a little bit otherwise he will keep doing it....... (read in full...)
An Open Letter to All My Friends and Loved Ones....
Q. To All My Friends and Loved Ones.... It is time to say goodbye. My usefulness here is depleted. I have enjoyed every minute of it and have been so fortunate to meet the people I have! I may be back someday...I don't know for sure. But right ...
A. 9 July 2009: Come back soon :( Miss you already :( ... (read in full...)
What is it that turns on a woman the most about a man?
Q. This question is mainly for women. Please be as honest as you can. Does a man's penis size really matter to you? What is it that turns on a woman the most about a man and is their penis size on of those things? So basically, is bigger really better? ...
A. 29 June 2009: A guys size does not matter- its how they use it. And a guy urmmm probably his eyes or touch........ (read in full...)
I embarassed my gf and now she wont talk to me!
Q. Me and my girlfriend of 3 years went to a party together. She usually doesn't wear stuff that shows off her body cause she thinks its slutty (she only wears clothes that sre 3 sizes too big or borrows my clothes). Anyway I somehow get her to a tube ...
A. 23 June 2009: okay two options.....leave her to boil and sort it out for herself or do some MAJOR grovelling (flowers chocolates the usual) and i hate to say it mate but you should be happy the way she is- she probably thinks shes not doing something right for ... (read in full...)
What are the chances a girl keeps her virginity until marriage?
Q. I'm just wondering how many girls keep their virginity until 20 + or until they get married ? I really have no idea about that so thanks for your answer by the way....
A. 28 May 2009: There will not be many- most will lose it to teenage relationships or drunken parties. Only the ones who truly believe in sex after marriage will stay virgins really...... (read in full...)
Girls, would you be attracted to an average looking guy with a nice body?
Q. I recently signed up to my local gym, and im looking forward to working out and getting "ripped", i dont want huge muscles but i want to be defined and have a flat chest/stomach, and strong arms. My question is to all the girls and i want a com...
A. 28 May 2009: No, you will attract women quite well with that :)... (read in full...)
Teenage gossip politics all directed at me
Q. about two months ago, one of my friends had given me one of her friends (*Paula*) facebook password- i wasnt sure why, but i never checked her facebook because i was never that interested in what she did on it. however, having said that- i wen...
A. 28 May 2009: I think you should see how things go with this boy more than anything. High school kids get bitchy, in x amount of years (how many years you've got left) you will probably never see them again. They are not worth your time. Try and keep the original ... (read in full...)
Mum's threatening to chuck me out if I don't pass my exams!
Q. Is it normal for my mother to threaten to throw me out of the house and make me repeat 3rd year if I fail anything or if I do pass in the subjects I want...
A. 26 May 2009: this has happened to me before. you can either defy it completely or prove her wrong and slog your guts out. depends how much you want it x... (read in full...)
Mom won't let me go to Greece to be with my b/f!
Q. My boyfriend of 3 months is Greek, but study's over here in the city i live in for most of the year. I see him every day, and although we haven't been together for a very long time, as we have spent so much time togther we have quickly fallen in ...
A. 25 May 2009: I know exactly how you feel as I have a greek boyfriend, try and either find a compromise with her or ask her to go another time if college and studies are becoming an issue. ... (read in full...)
What do the city girls think of a cute, friendly farmer's son?
Q. what do the city girls think of cute,freindly ,tall,freindly,charming country guy who works on a farm...
A. 9 May 2009: if they look like tom welling off smallville then pretty damn hot :P... (read in full...)
What do the city girls think of a cute, friendly farmer's son?
Q. what do the city girls think of cute,freindly ,tall,freindly,charming country guy who works on a farm...
A. 9 May 2009: if they look like tom welling off smallville then pretty damn hot :P... (read in full...)
Can someone really have that many friends?
Q. on face book can one person have 230 real friends living in small town.or this person just adding freinds randomly or are they real freinds...
A. 9 May 2009: yes that can happen- they can all be real friends, my friend is a good example of this as she goes to many clubs and has lots of school friends and family on there... (read in full...)
Can someone text too much?
Q. I've recently started dating a girl. We've been on 3 dates in two weeks. Currently in the 4th week. Shes been busy this week. (Thats not a fob of story). In the first two weeks we would text a few times aday, a few days a week. Since we've ...
A. 7 May 2009: 5 is not bad at all...Me and my man can send 50-100 a day (im a bit of a text addict you see!) she would tell you and you would probably texting too much
5600 texts in 3 months is too much :) (thats not only to him though)... (read in full...)
The relationship with my dad is fading fast and I don't know how to rekindle it. Help
Q. i am 13 years old and when i was younger i was very close to my dad. i looked up to him all the time. But as i've gotten older that relationship seems to have deteriarated. my mum had two more daughters so my dad now has three daughters. i also pla...
A. 7 May 2009: Sounds to me like you need some dad and daughter time. Why don't you try and persuade him into doing something YOU want to do and see how he likes it or go out for a week alternating between things you both like to do- this will improve the bond ... (read in full...)
No Make-Up?
Q. I've been dating this man for about 2 months now. He saw me makeup-less yesterday and raved about it. I HATE NOT WEARING MAKE UP. He caught me in very good light and my hair looked amazing, but this is rarely the case. It's not what I'm most ...
A. 7 May 2009: Why dont you try lightening your make up (say not wearing foundation and instead concealer or a lighter eyeshadow) and experiment a bit and find what you and then he likes?... (read in full...)
We passed 100,000 questions published on DearCupid
Q. Today is another milestone in DearCupid history: Over 100,000 questions (100,020 as I write this) have been published! Wow. Thanks to the aunts, the moderators and everyone who shares their problem. As always any ideas on how to improve the s...
A. 7 May 2009: :O BLIMEY :D
Well done guys, you do an amazing job keep it up :D
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I like my teacher... I just want to say hi to him but I'm too shy!
Q. hey. i'm 14 and theres a teacher at my school that i really like, he doesnt teach me for any lessons, i just want to say hi to him but i'm really shy. will he think its weird because i havent really spoken to him before. sorry if this seems like ...
A. 29 April 2009: okay i personally wouldn't encourage this, if anybody takes this the wrong way he and you could get into serious trouble. however if you were still going to go through with it you could with a friend and be like oh hi sir. but i really wouldn't ... (read in full...)
My best friend asked me out at the beginning of the year, I turned him down... Now I'm regretting it!
Q. Okay so i think im in love with my best guy friend He's 17 and Im 15 and he's gonna be senior next year while im gonna be a sophmore. He asked me out at the beggining of the year but i turned him down cause i was too busy for a boy friend. He'...
A. 29 April 2009: if he makes anymore signs of still liking you i dont see why you can't go for it and tell him, obviously if you have the confidence in you you could bring it up in conversation if it swings that kinda of way. see how it goes though, if you two are ... (read in full...)
Is it normal to bleed the second time too?
Q. Ok so I already had sex for the first time and it hurt so bad lol...but why did the second time hurt and I bled a little my second time too.. is this normal??...
A. 29 April 2009: it can vary from person to person, but if this persists or you are worried you could go and see a nurse about it
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Should I talk to my girlfriend about my World of Warcraft friends?
Q. I have a question. My girlfriend and I have lived together for a while now and we have a great relationship. Since we have been living together, I haven't really played World of Warcraft like a I used to. I just started playing again and some of ...
A. 28 April 2009: okay, had an ex who was a WoW addict. sure your not as bad as this but your girlfriend needs to know that you love her not the game or the friend from it. you can probably still play- that should not be an issue. your girlfriend just needs to ... (read in full...)
How can I dominate him without spanking him?
Q. hi there I'm 25 my bf is 29 and wants me to dominate him in the bedroom please help me. he doesn't want to be spanked but I'm unsure what to do please ideas? I want to shock him....
A. 22 April 2009: Send him naughty texts throughout the day. Make sure he gets in on time which he should and finds you in lingerie/dressing gown whatever takes your fancy, nice dinner tease a lot and then go upstairs and take control, blinfold im maybe tie him up ... (read in full...)
Breaking in the living room!
Q. I am in a great relationship. I just bought a new home. My boyfriend and I are in the process of breaking it in. We are going to have sex in every room of the house. We are looking to make an evening of it in every room. We will be moving to the ...
A. 20 April 2009: I'd recommend the floor :) just check it doesn't creak
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What do girls look for and want in a guy?
Q. I want all the females to reply to this one please. What can a guy do that sweeps you off your feet or what makes you really happy and wins your heart? What do girls look for and want in a guy? Thank you...
A. 19 April 2009: confidence, loyalty...the big c word COMMITTEMENT, a guy thats not going to cheat, not go back to his ex or talk about her to much, a guy that will say you look beautiful even if mascara is running and ur wearing something really old and you think ... (read in full...)
Ladies: Turn ons & turn offs
Q. Ladies let's help our DC brothers out! We sometimes have sincere and genuine questions about what women think. Post here your number one turn-on and number one turn-off you have about a man. If yours is already mentioned, go to your next one. ...
A. 17 April 2009: turn on: bite on the lips
turn off: biting too hard!... (read in full...)
Ideas for pregnancies for a web page please
Q. after seeing the amount of questions coming into dc regarding pregnancy, abortion, adoption etc i have decided to make a web page showing info about all the above. Im also going to put stories from women that have been in any of those situations so ...
A. 16 April 2009: this sounds like a great idea! you could also have a blog page for people to write onto or a comments page on how to improve the site if you are continuously updating it. maybe an inbox for you so that you can answer some of the questions. a ... (read in full...)
Is there anyone out there whose spouse DOES NOT look at other men/women??
Q. Dear People, Isn't there anyone out there whose spouse DOES NOT look at other men/women? All day, i've been searching for someone but every single title i find is all about how their husbands look at other women. Well, my husband DOES NOT look at ...
A. 8 April 2009: my boyfriend doesn't do that!!! =)... (read in full...)
Period Cramp Advice Please!
Q. Hi to all cupids out there. Ok i need any tips or tricks of the trade for this question. Ive been getting really bad period pains/stomach cramps and wondered if anyone had any good tips they could give me on how to reduce the uncomfortable fe...
A. 3 April 2009: hot chocolate, lots of chocolate, running, hot water bottles
any of the above can work
or if there really bad like realy really bad maybe the pill or something to calm them down?
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Did YOU bleed your first time???
Q. Hey! I know this probably just sounds like I'm being a nosy bitch, but I've started going out with this guy, only been with him 11 weeks! I'm 17 in 3 weeks and I'm still a virgin, he's 20 and he's also still a virgin, and although I'm not jumping ...
A. 27 March 2009: a little, not like a period though, it varies from person to person x... (read in full...)
Some creative and inexpensive ideas for a birthday gift would be appreciated
Q. I need some birthday gift ideas for my boyfriend of two years. His bday is coming up in exactly one month from today, and I would like some ideas on what to get him. I am leaning more towards making him something, like some arts and craft, cookies, ...
A. 23 March 2009: What about a hot air balloon trip and eat your homemade cookies and have champagne in it?
Bit more expensive but if its been two years he must be worth it :)
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Any tips or tricks to make kissing really great?
Q. Hiyas! My bf and I have been together for a little while, but I have found that I don't have any tricks or anything. He immediately found my soft spot in my collarbone, but I don't have anything that can make him go crazy like he does for me. Any ...
A. 23 March 2009: Nibble his ear or kiss just behind his earlobe. I find that kissing and tickling the belly works as well if you get it in the right spot :)
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We want to spend the night together, but we are only 15
Q. I'll of been going out with my boyfriend next week for a year, and were both fifteen even though he's almost sixteen, i've still got another 10months to wait. i see him alot and we love each other very much; we know we probably wo't last forever but ...
A. 23 March 2009: Option A: Good side: Explain to your parents that you want to spend one night together, you won't be having sex (Well thats what they will think I'm assuming :S) and that you just want to experience one night to wake up in each others arms
Optio... (read in full...)
Ladies: Poll about size
Q. Ok ladies I have been in a discussion with my girlfriend and many other females the age old question here goes . DOES SIZE MATTER ? IS IT THE LENGTH ? IS IT THE GIRTH ? IS IT BOTH ? I am just asking. Please do not assume i am a...
A. 5 March 2009: its how you use it... (read in full...)
A little habit! I pull my eye lashes out when I'm stressed, how can I distract myself not to do it?
Q. i have a really bad habit when im around the people i like. its also when im concentrating and when im bored.. i pull my eyelashes out. ive done it for ages, the first time was when i first realised i liked this guy. its so bad i sometimes pull out ...
A. 14 February 2009: I DO THAT :) Urm usually I find something else to pick at...usually biting pencils :P I dunno what to do about it either though :(... (read in full...)
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