A little habit! I pull my eye lashes out when I'm stressed, how can I distract myself not to do it?
Q. i have a really bad habit when im around the people i like. its also when im concentrating and when im bored.. i pull my eyelashes out. ive done it for ages, the first time was when i first realised i liked this guy. its so bad i sometimes pull out ...
A. 14 February 2009: I DO THAT :) Urm usually I find something else to pick at...usually biting pencils :P I dunno what to do about it either though :(... (read in full...)
Does this make a good gift?
Q. I want to get my boyfriend of 3 months a card,some chocalote,and a letter saying why I love him for valentines day does this make a good gift?...
A. 13 February 2009: Awwww :) sounds perfect :)... (read in full...)
How can I tell a currrent boyfriend that I think we should be freinds instead?
Q. How can I tell a currrent boyfriend that I think we should be freinds instead? Me and my guy have been together for 2 years or so and well I feel we aren't getting anywhere, we argue and fight with each other a lot and I don't feel love from h...
A. 12 February 2009: Hurting him will only make things harder afterwards. If your going to end it you need to be definite. Sit him down one day and just talk a few things through before you get onto the subject and just broach it. "(name) maybe its best if we are just ... (read in full...)
How can I encourage him? He never makes the first move!
Q. recently i have been seeing this guy that i have known for a long time throught my high school years and we get along... we went out in out hight school year and split as young peopel do hehe no shame int hat its the proccess of going throught l...
A. 12 February 2009: Well if you both feel the same why not make the first move? It would be spontaneous and probably greatly appreciated. If one of you doesn't do it then nothing will happen and a relationship that is that close should not be wasted!
xx... (read in full...)
Who should make the first move in a relationship?
Q. Why don't men make the first move for example kissing or intimate moves or do they like woman doing this? I am shy on making the first move, I like this guy he is well cute and we known each other for years and we are seeing each other a lot more...
A. 12 February 2009: Ive always found the guys that I choose tend to prefer girls asking =D It does give your girly ego a boost to know you can do it and that it shocks men :P
x... (read in full...)
I think I may be falling for him again...
Q. I am graduating high school this year and thank God for it because my school is full of backstabbing bitchy friends. Friends i have known for 5 years have either turned their back against me/have become incredibly mean to everyone else/have hurt me ...
A. 12 February 2009: You need to find a new set of friends by the sounds of it. I know this can be hard but maybe a new club or make new friends at work (Im not sure what you do so not sure if this could apply). I know it's hard in your final year as I'm there myself ... (read in full...)
DearCupid had over one million people visit the site in January!
Q. I have just peeped at our visitor figures for January 2009, the month just gone, and I'm excited to see that DearCupid passed 1,000,000 (yes, one MILLION!) unique visitors/month for the first time. According to Google Analytics we had 1,040,812 ...
A. 2 February 2009: well done :D:D:D... (read in full...)
How do you know if a person likes you?
Q. Hey its lotmoney13.......so i get a lot of answers to my question that instead of being in love with a guy whose not intrested, to find a guy whose intrested in me........well i have no idea how to do that......:P so yeah it makes sense that...
A. 19 January 2009: if the guy smiles as he meets you, takes the time to get to know you and treats you with respect. they are all good signs that he likes you... (read in full...)
Any meaning behind intimate texts?
Q. Do text messages mean anything? I am seeing a man who rarely shows his emotions. Yet when he has been texting me lately his texts seem a bit more intimate! - Is this just to keep me interested or do text messages really mean something?...
A. 17 January 2009: My boyfriend texts me every night and most nights theres something either romantic or something else! I find it keeps the relationship alive and shows how much I mean to him :D... (read in full...)
I don't know who I am anymore
Q. the title pretty much explains it all. i used to feel like a big fish in a little pond. that i had big things in store for me. i still feel that way, but i feel like its not going to happen. i literally dont know who i am. i used to be, cra...
A. 14 January 2009: you need to try and work out where it went wrong and WHY and if your missing something try and work out how to get it back again. im sure all of the aunts can help in various ways with that (:... (read in full...)
Inexpensive dating ideas?
Q. So quick question for everybody, i was wondering on some ideas for dates for me n my gf of a year and a couple months??? We are both 19 so i mean we cant really go out to the bars and we have alrady done the dining thing a decent amount. Ummm im ...
A. 10 January 2009: a romantic picnic :D... (read in full...)
Just kissing him is strange
Q. I met a guy in november of 2007 thru myspace, everything was going well but he wasn't ready for a relationship, in june we had an incident with my ex boyfriend, where my new boy caught me in the middle of a really bad situation, we tried to work ...
A. 10 January 2009: okay so sounds like he thinks its friends with benefits, not sure if that is correct or anything though! it can't be love if kissing him feels strange.... you either need to tell him out right how you truly feel or another alternative would be to ... (read in full...)
I'm scared I'm going to get anorexic again, I need someone to talk to...
Q. I'm nearly 17 years old and I have been anorexic before, because of depression. Over the past few weeks I've not been eating often and when I have eaten it has only been a slice of toast once every few days, I just don't feel hungry, the thought of ...
A. 9 January 2009: sweetie, you do need to tackle them but don't give yourself a mountain to climb, try and take it step by step, bitesize chunks that will slowly but surely break it down. i know what its like to be there, i know there are probably loads of other ... (read in full...)
What do I wear???
Q. Help, it's my 18th birthday very soon, and I don't have a clue what to wear, I'm going for a meal with my family and then going to pubs and clubs afterwards, I want to dress up but really don't know what to wear, I don't want to over do it but then ...
A. 6 January 2009: skinnies, nice top and a shrug...heels if u want to make it more fancy (i recommend mary janes (: )... (read in full...)
Love at first sight - do you believe?
Q. do you guys believe in love at first sight? ...
A. 3 January 2009: Yes I do, I couldn't keep a relationship for more than 2 months before my current boyfriend- 8 months and still strong...... (read in full...)
Fetish? OR mentally unstable?
Q. Is there something wrong with me? Alright im 17 years old, have been sexually active since 14, but at 15, during sex with my boyfriend at the time, he asked me to slap him as hard as I could repeatedly around the face cos he liked the pain of it, it ...
A. 1 January 2009: i wouldnt say it was mentally unstable, if your enjoying yourselves then continue, but just be careful not to leavetoo many signs of what you havedone on him! (:... (read in full...)
My mother doesn't want to see me with hickeys!
Q. Hi, My boyfriend n I want to do lovebites but when I asked my mum if she would mind me having a love bite she was throwing a hissy fit saying tht she would hate it if I came home with a lovebite. Any Ideas ?...
A. 27 December 2008: if its that much of a big deal just do them somewhere she wouldn't look... (read in full...)
Will this awkward aura keep us apart?
Q. Well guys, i really need you help on this one. So there is this girl that i really like and i somehow get a feeling that she likes me back, however this IS just a feeling. but anyways we get along fine when were alone together (this isn't a lo...
A. 23 December 2008: you don't need a conversation :P just a compliment or a comment could start something and trust me if its all planned out then life can get very boring! (: and it might be best to try it just a little...if you like her it might work (:... (read in full...)
How can I get over him without distancing myself from him, or changing our friendship?
Q. I'm in love with my best friend, but he just doesn't feel the same. I don't want to harm our relationship because of it. How can I get over him without distancing myself from him, or changing our friendship?...
A. 23 December 2008: you don't need to change it, maybe a distraction might be good though, a new hobby maybe? or spending more times with other people? he might even come round to the idea one day, so don't give up completely.
but it would be best to try and move on, ... (read in full...)
Is he doing all this just to make me jealous?
Q. my ex boyfriend, I still like him. aloot. I'm only 13 and I don't use the word love. so I reeally like him still. and were close friends and talk a lot. but for some reason, we haven't talked in a while. and its been killing me inside but I'm ...
A. 23 December 2008: sounds like hes trying to get you to make the first move and if you really like him then maybe you should go for it. but consider all the options first. why is he your ex in the first place? and does he even deserve a second chance- all these things ... (read in full...)
Should I ask him out or wait until he asks me?
Q. will i like this one dude and i think he likes me and i was talking to his sister one day and she said that he said he liked me but he liked brit a litle more than me but she doesn't like him should i ask him out or wait until he ask me?...
A. 23 December 2008: see if you can really make sure that he likes you and then go for it, guys apparnetly love spontaeinity (or however its spelt) its worked for me and a couple of my friends, its worth a shot (:
good luck x... (read in full...)
What should I do about this guy I like? It's bugging me.
Q. Theres a guy i like he knows i like him, he says he likes me too. he act normal when a certain guy isnt around but when that gu is around he doesn't pay much attention to me and its really bugging me and i dont know what to do. when im with h...
A. 23 December 2008: make yourself known to him when the guy is around, grab the guy u likes attention and keep it (:
its the only way to do these things, just strike a conversation when hes around and make it so that he can't escape
(:... (read in full...)
Are these teachers at School getting Married?
Q. At school there are 2 teachers in my house, they seem obsessed with each other, they hug in house meeting a lot and sometime kiss each other. A couple of years ago they did a sponsored kiss 4 5 minutes. Our house had a party before the xmas ...
A. 23 December 2008: it does sound like it however maybe there just really good friends that kiss and stuff, this kind of thing does happen as well. it's not a good idea to crush on a teacher however, as if you did go further and get caught you and him can both be ... (read in full...)
Local guy verses far away guy...
Q. hey. It's one of these questions again... There's this guy who lives around about 160 miles away from me. We met on holiday and really liked each other. We have been friends for over 2 years and I have really come to like him a lot, so much so ...
A. 23 December 2008: Now as I know who you are you know what I would say! Give it time (:
xxxx... (read in full...)
Will this awkward aura keep us apart?
Q. Well guys, i really need you help on this one. So there is this girl that i really like and i somehow get a feeling that she likes me back, however this IS just a feeling. but anyways we get along fine when were alone together (this isn't a lo...
A. 23 December 2008: do you have msn with her? if you do then maybe just suggest going for a walk, or even a picnic (i've heard winter picnics are rather romantic), just something to lighten the tension between you too. And maybe she is just shy about talking to you in ... (read in full...)
Do you think he's ready for a new relationship?
Q. Earlier this year,this guy i knew in person a long time ago,and have recently got back intouch with online,asked to see more photos of me,as he didnt recognise me,since we hadnt seen each other for a long time,and only knew each other abit in person ...
A. 23 December 2008: okay no offence to guys that answer this but they are prob made to be that way (: maybe he does want a new relationship, but don't go in too quickly, get to know him again, it sounds like its definetely been a while since the two of you spoke and ... (read in full...)
How can I block her from calling me?
Q. ok. my dads X-girlfriend is texting and phone calling me and giving me abuse. is there a way i can get her number completely blocked from phoning and texting me other than going to the police as this is to much hastle and i dont have time really...
A. 23 December 2008: urmmm if your on orange just get through to customer services and they should be able to do it? would changing the sim be a bit too extreme? if she is really annoying you that much it might be worth doing that... (read in full...)
How to pleasure a girl without having sex?
Q. Whats the best way to give a girl pleasure WITHOUT having sex?...
A. 22 December 2008: chocolates, neck massages, and sweet good night texts work a treat (:... (read in full...)
Freaked out by my staring teacher!
Q. Ok so the title is 'My teacher seems to stare alot. . .' but he does other things too! To make it simple i will put it all in a list: 1. He stares. . .alot! 2. He always asks to check my work. 3. He looks at, well 'parts' of my body. 4. W...
A. 18 December 2008: if he is freaking you out that much then you really need to tell someone, even if it is just a friend. if this has happened to your friend as well this is more reason to tell someone.... (read in full...)
Poll question: What is the most arousing part of a mans body?
Q. Poll(for women/gay men): Whats the most arousing part of the mens body? Shoulders, Abs, Penis, Ass, Back, Legs, Face...
A. 12 December 2008: penis shoulders and back are high up there
wudn't go near feet!!!!
but i love a guys neck (not a vampire or anything!)... (read in full...)
Should I wait until I don't need my braces to ask her out?
Q. i have no confidence due to my braces but im in love with this girl. should i wait until i get my confidence back in 4 month or ask her out now?...
A. 6 December 2008: braces are easy to kiss with and everything so that shouldnt be a problem, if she says no because of them she would sound rather shallow tbh :(
good luck x
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I think have thrush - what do I do?
Q. Hi, this is quite embarrassing but I don't know what to do. I think I have thrush, and I think I have had it for almost a year withoout realising! I want to tell my mum, but I'm really scared. I have told two of my friends, but they don't know what ...
A. 3 December 2008: a pill can sort it out within 2 days but is quite expensive
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I was just wondering what type of things make a girl feel good...
Q. Alright, so I know this might not be the most appropriate question, but I'd rather ask it anonymously to people I don't know then directly to somebody I do know. Well here's the story, I'm a 15 year old guy and have had a serious girlfriend for 2 ...
A. 28 November 2008: compliments, little surprises, gifts when we don't expect them, good night texts are the best things that have ever been invented!! :D... (read in full...)
My GF likes to be dominated, I could use some advice!
Q. hey all - so my girlfriend likes to be dominated. i've been tying her up and blind folding her for some time now. every once in a while we talk about our sex life and see if things are good for both of us, and during our last talk i got the impres...
A. 24 November 2008: ( i know that im young but hey!)
tease her first, get her in the mood if shes not already, handcuffs maybe?... (read in full...)
The lad I like broke up with his gf! What's a reasonable amount of time to wait to make a move on him? And how do I do it?
Q. Well i started talking to a lad bonfire night, and we really hit it off, and we spoke alot via text and computer, full well knowing he had a girlfriend buh we just spoke as friends ! Then he asked me too go to his football, so i went watched him but ...
A. 21 November 2008: a month? make sure you really like him and he likes you
see if you both feel the same before you jump in- you don't want a name for yourself or your feelings to be misinterpreted
x... (read in full...)
He seems to be putting his friends and video games before me...
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for about 2 months now. The first month was amazing. He was super cute, and sweet but lately (after we started having sex) he's been putting his friends and his video games before us and our relationship. I don't know ...
A. 13 November 2008: just sit down with a bar of chocolate. pig out on it and talk to him just say something like "is it alright if we spend more time together" even suggest u join in the video games if that works (i did, it worked for me), if not then i will think of ... (read in full...)
Did he like his present?
Q. 1 month ago i gave my ex a b-day present it was a dvd, but he hasn't said anything about it i really wanna do if he liked it or not. We broke up b4 i gave him da prezzie, the problem is he's da type of guy dat keeps his feelings 2 himself he won't ...
A. 13 November 2008: this might have been better on the questions part, but still...
find out via a friend if he likes it or drop REALLY subtle hints?... (read in full...)
My best guy friend keeps asking me out.
Q. My best guy friend keeps asking me out. I just want to be friends and don't want to ruin our friendship. I rejected him before, but he won't leave me alone. I'm trying to be nice and sweet but it's not working. I really don't want to be the b...
A. 13 November 2008: okay don't let your boyfriend kill him- tad extreme but why don't you sit him down, tell him that you like someone else and that you can't hurt him and wouldn't. you understand his feelings but need him to move on (don't need to use my words just an ... (read in full...)
What can I get my 16-year-old boyfriend for Christmas?
Q. hiya its almost christmas!!! and my boyfrind has already brought me a gift and i have no idea what to get him he's 16 and it so difficult on what to decide on what to get him its our 2nd christmas together weve been together for a lil ova a...
A. 9 November 2008: a box full of bits and pieces that he would like (smellies, clothes etc) photobook of all your memories? only a couple of ideas xx... (read in full...)
How can I make my man juice taste better?
Q. My gf loves it when I *** on her boobs but lately she has wanted Me to lick it off of her. I tried it and it was nasty. How can I make my *** taste better?...
A. 7 November 2008: saw on a site not to eat red meat if that helps, not sure if its true or not though... (read in full...)
Is he a normal size?
Q. My boyfreinds penis is 18 cm long when it is hard...I was wondering if that is big or small? I dont really care has i think he is perfect but I am just curious;) Hope someone can give me an answer...
A. 3 November 2008: hey :) 18cm is about 7 inches...so yeah thats quite big :) remmeber its not all about the penis however!! :) x... (read in full...)
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