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writes:Looking to hear from fellow females on the subject of deep throating. I have been trying to do it for my man but end up gagging within seconds. Is there a good way to do it without gagging? I heard if you lay on a bed with your head hanging over the side that it opens your throat better to allow an easier penetration. Anyone try it this way? Is there any medication I could take to cut down on the gag reflex? Reply to this Question
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reader, Miamine  +, writes (29 December 2011):
 Taking drugs to do a sex act, that's not bloody fun, that's absolutely crazy. If you have to go to such extremes then it really isn't worth.Deep Throat isn't so big a deal, and a guy with a penis likes a woman's mouth, any way he can get it. Deep throating isn't necessary, suck, flick the head and shaft will get him just as excited.Learning to deep throat takes time, most women never manage to control the gag reflex. Yep, head over the side, taking deep breathe, these things will help. It's not a hurry-up thing, it takes time to learn because you must be totally relaxed and 101% turned on (will help open throat muscles). Aim for taking a little more each time, it may work or it may not, but trying to rush to learn such a technique is very, very stupid.He's your boyfriend, what's the hurry, just continue to experiment just like your doing.
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reader, Yos  +, writes (29 December 2011):
 As a man I have had it done a few times. It's really nothing special, and unless you're one of the very rare women that can get past her gag reflex i strongly suggest not doing it. He won't be missing anything.
Oral sex is 90% about what you do with your tongue. Focus on that and he'll be very happy.
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reader, Gabrielle Stoker +, writes (29 December 2011):
 Why do you even want to deepthroat really? If it's something you aren't able to do comfortably, why do it? It's hardly neccessary to giving pleasure orally.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2011): Deep throating is pretty crap really it's just a novelty. How is you gagging and getting sick in your mouth supposed to be sexy?
No you can't stop your gag reflex, the girls I know that could deep throat either didn't have it or had it ruined through an eating disorder.
I have to say, taking drugs to stop your gag reflex is pretty extreme OP, is it really that important to you? and don't tell me it's important to you because he wants it and you want to please him. He can live without it and I'm sure you please him in other ways. How about you get him to piss on your face instead? That's just as sexy as a woman puking all over your dick.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (29 December 2011):
 You asked for female response, and I'm a man, but I've enjoyed hundreds of blow jobs without one girl really ever deep-throating. Just not necessary. Some let me go in really deep, but there are techniques much more important, such as licking and kissing the head to arouse, then stroking while gently caressing the balls during the shoot. Don't stop until finished!
But yes, girls can usually take it a bit deeper while on all-fours on the bed. It straightens the throat and the cum easily goes straight down. If you want bigger loads, try a prostate rub just before the climax.
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reader, baybee-x-sparkii +, writes (29 December 2011):
 There is the refusal to do it or (and this sometimes works sometimes doesn't) roll your hand into a fist and hold it into whatever surface ur on, you concentrate more on that than your gag reflexes
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reader, person12345 +, writes (28 December 2011):
 You're willing to medicate yourself in order to do a pretty uncommon sex act? Why don't you just tell your man to be happy with normal oral sex and not make yourself miserable?
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