Is it ok to wait til your 18 to lose your virginity or do anything sexual?
Q. is it ok to wait til your 18 or so or at uni to lose your virginity or do anything sexual (other than kissing)? p.s i live in uk where everyone has sex before 16 [rolls eyes] id like everyones personal oipinions please, also not "don't be press...
A. 7 January 2008: its when people think they are ready there is no certain time where you HAVE to have sex...although i would recommend waiting until you are legal if you were considering it.
Some people find that they regret having it young and not waiting for a pr... (read in full...)
Does he really like me or he has taken advantage of the situation?
Q. i have liked a guy for 3 yers now and i have been to his house and done dirty stuff with him. he ended telling someone and it has got around school. he has told me he loves me but also says he is not ready for a girlfriend. i love him back and in ...
A. 5 January 2008: okay on the part where u said about it getting round the school...keep your head held high and dont worry bout it. when u say dirty stuff can i ask what you mean? I think a part of him may like you but he may be saying that he doesnt want a ... (read in full...)
Anyone got any experiences to share?
Q. hiya! im just kinda interested and i was wondering if people could share their experiences with me. their experiences with their first bfs. how did you meet? what age? how long did it last? were your parents ok with it? and finally.......what...
A. 5 January 2008: okay what first proper bf? erm when i was 14, he lived down the road from my dad...lasted 3 months. mum didnt no bout it dad was fine with it. around 13-14 seems okay to me
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I would love to go out with him but I'm too shy!
Q. i'm friends with this guy that i havent known too long. At first we hated eachother but now we are very close. He flirts with me alot, for example, today he came up to me and 3 other girls and one of em said to him go away and he said i came over to ...
A. 5 January 2008: i dont think its being shy, you may be wary. get to know him is the best bet and see where it goes from there, without things in common you have a slight problem. and your shyness...well everybodys shy now and again just do what feels right
hope ... (read in full...)
He wants sex but I don't. What should I do?
Q. i have this great boyfriend.. and well one day i found out from friends that he was ready to have sex.. and i asked him about.. and he said it was true..and just to be funny with him i asked him for a condum..then next thing i know he comes up to ...
A. 5 January 2008: if you dont want sex you really need to tell him. dont let him force you into something your not happy about. and dont let him control you either you need to make it clear to him you have your own life outside the relationship.
hope this helps
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Should I have sex with his friend?
Q. a 12 year old girl my boyfriend wants me to come over his hous tomorrow and have sex with ohis other friend who seems nice. what do I do, if I go I dont know wat will happen buut if I dont hell break up with me. I eed help please!...
A. 5 January 2008: dont do it. if you only think he "seems nice" then your obvisouly feeling doubtful, and if your feeling doubtful then you shouldnt have sex. if your boyfriend is pressuring you then you may be best off without him. Your only 12 and could regret this ... (read in full...)
We really want to have sex, but she's afraid of the pain and her body won't let her. What can we do?
Q. This question is more for sexual advice than dating advice: My girlfriend and I, of about a year, are madly in love. We seem to be in a healthy relationship, except when it comes to sex. I have had sex, about 5 years ago. But I lost my virginit...
A. 5 January 2008: if anything is to happen you two need to talk about this she is obviously nervous and needs to be reassured tell her that you wont hurt her and you will be as gentle as possible.
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Would it be alright if we used a condom?
Q. i have just recently started going out with this 17 year old...hes in the army!! that doesnt bother me in anyway. in told my dad and his fiancee and they were fine considering my stepsister is going out with his little brother, so they know the ...
A. 5 January 2008: i think you may need to think this through a bit more carefully no offence sweetheart, but you are only 13 and if something goes wrong you could end up pregnant. i dont mean to scare you but even with a condom there is still a chance of splitting. ... (read in full...)
Is there an age restriction for buying pregnancy test kits in Colorado?
Q. i need to know what the age restriction is for buying pregnancy tests in colorado is. my girlfried has been having stomach cramps which she says are normal a few weeks before her period as well as her breasts have been very tender for the l...
A. 4 January 2008: it doesnt look like it [i was looking it up for you :D] but it does depend on which part of colorado she lives in
good luck
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Is there a chance we could go out in the future?
Q. i'm very confused, there was this guy that i like lots but know i don't know if he does or wat to do. it started with him chasing me lots and said he really liked me and told he's friends and my friends i was amazing, he also treated me so well and...
A. 4 January 2008: okay if anything is going to happen, you need to give it time let the friendship blossom and make sure he is the one you really like and yes there may be a chance there.
good luck
email me if u want any more help
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How can I get my family out of the house for a while?
Q. How can I get my parents and brothers out of the house for a few hours while I invite my girlfriend round? My mum has said before that if I wanted to bring a gf round then to ask her and she'll disappear for a while but theres no way she'll do that ...
A. 3 January 2008: trust your mum, see what she says she may just surprise you. if shes offered you the house to yourself just say that you would like to bring a girlfriend round and that should be it hassle freee.
in theory
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I lost my virginity last week - could I be pregnant?
Q. I lost my virginity last week and at one point my boyfriend entered me without a condom but only for about 15 seconds, he also came near my vagina but I dont think any wennt on it... now my breasts are starting to feel sore and I 'feel' pregnant, I ...
A. 3 January 2008: get a pregnancy test now...theres no chance of stopping it if you are pregnant with the 72 hour pill your too late for that...get down to the doctors and see whats going on.
hope this helps
if you need any help email me
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Should I try this during masturbation?
Q. I'm only fourteen and have experimented with my fingers rubbing my clit. But I'm scared it will hurt if I put my fingers in my vagina. Any suggestions?...
A. 3 January 2008: dont put all in at once...give yourself time, try with one and see how it feels and do it that way... (read in full...)
What can I to to start a relationship this late?
Q. I'm 19 and single and have always been, I live in a retirement part of town, went to all boys school and college and work in an an guy place. I think of myself as quite attractive physically, charming, funny and the rest, I can get the girls when I ...
A. 3 January 2008: try going to different places, doing different things this may be the way to find girls. find a girl that you feeel comfortable with and you have things in common with get to know her though first.
and in reality there are some people that have... (read in full...)
Girls tell me I am good looking and nice but they never give me a chance!
Q. I'm a 10Th grader in high school i went to a small private middle school so i didn't have many social skill coming into high school i really wanted to meet a girl (my first girl) but two years later i've been rejected many times and i don't know wat ...
A. 3 January 2008: give it time [what year is 10th grade exactly sorry im from the uk where we dont do grades] im guessing its what year 9 year 10? so that would mean your 14-15...well if ive got that right then your still changing- your hormones are still around and ... (read in full...)
I am obsessed with losing weight and have started to skip meals. Mother is against it, what should I do?
Q. This isn't a usual question, but... I started skipping meals and chewing and spitting out food when I was 13 (I'm 15) and now all I can think about is losing weight. Just 10 lbs, though. My mom told me not to lose weight, and now my friends are t...
A. 3 January 2008: Don't lose weight the way you are, its not good for you and your mum and friends are obviously concerned for you. if you want to lose weight just eat healthily and make sure you get exercise it may take longer but its safer for you.
hope this help... (read in full...)
I want to date a younger girl but her parents are against it. We are happy together, how to reassure her it's legal?
Q. hi i need help im 28 and i want to date a girl of 17 who i have fell in love with but her parents see the age gap as a problem. we are happy together but i want to reassure her that everything we are doin is within the law as her parents say its ...
A. 1 January 2008: make sure u no how ur girl feels about this and then maybe when the time is right you both go to her parents and talk about any issues that they have and try and reassure them. talk to them calmly and dont lose your head over it.
i hope ever... (read in full...)
Should I break up by email, as it's the easiest method for me?
Q. Hi, i was wondering what is the easiest way to break up with my long time girlfriend? I know face to face is probably the best way but i cannot handle her crying, last time i tried to break it off i couldnt go through with it and took her back. A...
A. 1 January 2008: this is not a good idea. breaking up by email can hurt a lot more than doing it face to face. u need to show her that ur still a friend and by doing it face to face you might just prove it. its the most honest and truthful way to dump somebody
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Is there something wrong with my weight?
Q. I'm a 13 year old young woman with a lot of issues about the way I looke. I look pretty tiny. I am 5'0.5' tall and I weigh like 125 pounds. Do you think there is something wrong with my weight?...
A. 1 January 2008: ur of a normal weight...do not worry there is still time for you to grow as your hormones are probarbly just setting in
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Everytime we have a sleep over, we end up kissing! Am I a lesbian?
Q. hi i have a best friend we have been friends for 5 years we are still at school and in year 7. and we often have sleepovers and everytime she comes and sleeps around mine we end up kissing and i dont know what to do i think she really fancies ...
A. 1 January 2008: you need to talk to her find out what the situation is and take it from there.
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What side effects are associated with contraceptive pills? How does the doctor prescribe them (are a few visits compulsory)?
Q. hi all was wondering when you go on the pill what can the side effects be and do i just go to the doctor and say i want to be on the pill and they give it to me then or do i have to make a few vists ...
A. 31 December 2007: if your going to go on the pill make sure you stick to it [same time every day]. there can be side effects [weight gain sometimes feeling ill for a couple of days that kinda thing], normally these only come on when you've taken them incorrectly or ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong for me to hate my skin colour?
Q. Alot of people think i'm pretty but i can't see what there talking about, i look in the mirror and see a girl that is over weight (116lbs) to short (5'0) and just very ugly. i have small boobs a ghetto booty (not proud of) and i think the rest of me ...
A. 29 December 2007: okay can i just tell you one thing your not overweight for a start...ur BMI is just right... and there is still chance to grow, hormones are still taking place by the looks of ur age on here... however we dont no what u look like the aunt that said ... (read in full...)
I normally shave all the time, but my new boyfriend touched me there and may have felt my pubic hair. Should I feel embarassed?
Q. I normally shave all the time, but my new boyfriend touched my down there and I think he felt my pubes. I'm so humiliated and I think he is going to tell kids at school. What should I do?...
A. 28 December 2007: just ignore them. hes a fool if he thinks its funny or clever
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How can I prevent a heavy flow?
Q. Hello, I recently posted a question about being worried about my heavy period. It's gone down now and everything is fine. I was just wondering, for later refrenses, if there's anything you can do to stop a heavy flow. I don't mean pills. I mean like ...
A. 28 December 2007: well i get mine heavy and i always find [i dont no whether this is proven or not] if i drink lots and lots of water two days before and for at least the first three...i seem to be lighter...more spaced out if u get what im saying
it might just be ... (read in full...)
I have had my period twice in one month and am worried something is wrong with me...please help.
Q. hi! I need some help and advice please. this time is is not about boys! *surprise surpries* lol. Well i had my period right at the start of the month about 3rd or 4th of decemeber that was expected and fine etc. But today i had my period again,...
A. 25 December 2007: okay this may be stress...or anxiety i always find if i worry too much this happens to me...
relax make sure your eating and drinking enough. this period in theory will not last long
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How should I masturbate??
Q. Could someone please give me advice on how to masturbate? I'm only 10 but I'm surrounded by sex loving people. My friend is doing it and so is my Dad. What am I supposed to do?...
A. 25 December 2007: okay wait a little while before going into this any further... but when the time does come look at it this way..there is no wrong way... (read in full...)
When should I take my morning after pill??
Q. The condom broke at around 7pm today, what time tomorrow should I ask the chemist for 'the morning after pill', what time do I need to take the pill before to ensure no pregnancies, and do my parents have to know?...
A. 23 December 2007: uve got 72 hours after having sex...and they dont have the right to tell your parents
good luck-x... (read in full...)
I want to do "more stuff" with my boyfriend but I am unexperienced too and I don't know how to bring it up and how not to make it all awkward?
Q. hello readers i am asking you this question and i really hope i'm not being juged but it doesn't matter because i'm anonymous haha so here it goes..... ok so me and my boy friend have been going out for 2 months now and we'v been best friends for...
A. 23 December 2007: okay in what sense do you want more...and im not gonna judge here. experience is not the issue uve made it clear you trust him just experiment see what you both like.. and take it from there. just be safe and careful
need any advice just email me
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Your most memorable sex experience?
Q. Hey I have never really had good sex stories, and I was wondering what was your most memorable sex experience? I need sex stories to get "in the mood", and right now I have none! Please help me and my boyfriend...
A. 21 December 2007: u can get websites from the internet...ive got one if you want one
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What time in your menstrual cycle can you get pregnant?
Q. Ok I know people say 'you can get pregnant anytime' BUT can you definatly get pregnant 5-6 days after a finished period. advice is welcomed...
A. 19 December 2007: it depends on how regular you are and how long ur on for....ur menstural cycle might also come into it... (read in full...)
Would you say I'm addicted to porn? And is it illegal to watch porn when only 13 years old?
Q. Hello i have been watch porn for maybe 5-6months..I know at my age with just want to learn about this stuff but i seem to be addicted like ill be watching tv and then ill get a sence that i should go watch some Is this against the law ...
A. 15 December 2007: okay so the websites say over 18s but...who listens to be honest?
it doesnt seem like a prisonable offence to me...?
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What aftershave attracts girls?
Q. What aftershave is the best to wear to attract the girls?...
A. 14 December 2007: sweeteie its not ur aftershave tht makes us want you...it can be a part of it but not teh main attraction ur personality and sometimes looks can come into it.
although if you like being vain i would suggest something woody...we dont really care if b... (read in full...)
Is it normal to bleed after first time sex?
Q. hey there people in dear cupid land... me and my boyfriend have been together 6 months yesterday :) and we decided to have sex ( he's 18 and im 17) it was a fantastic end to the eveining but... is it normal to bleed a little bit after sex im ...
A. 12 December 2007: yes there are chances of bleeding after the first time of sex because of your hymen breaking
hope this helps
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Is it ok to be tall??
Q. Hi, I'm quite young but really mature for my age, and the thing is that I'm so bloomin tall, and I have a real problem with it because I'm getting another growth spurt and I'm already way taller than my mates, and it seems that the boys in my year ...
A. 1 December 2007: can i ask how tall you are? there are shops that sell clothing that is suitable for taller people with measurements that are longer in the places that are needed.
try and be confident with your shape this next growth spurt might not happen.
im 15... (read in full...)
Low Self esteem, can anyone help?
Q. Hi there. At the moment; I feel really depressed and demoted. I just don't like my body or my face or anything about me. My confidence is an absolute zero and I don't flirt with boys; I just tend to talk to them. I'm 13 and everyone els...
A. 1 December 2007: this may be because you are growing up, everything is changing. ive got a feeling that you will find someone that really likes you soon, because you never know there maybe someone right now who likes you. you will get your love life one day.
t... (read in full...)
Problems about the wedding night...
Q. I'm Muslim. You know muslims girls are very shy about sexual things so I can't ask anybody about sex. I'm 23 years old. I'm going to get married in January 2008. I'm virgin and my fiance is as well. I love my fiance but I'm a shy girl. I ...
A. 1 December 2007: okay condoms and the pill are very reliable forms to stop pregnancy. just tell your husband that you love him but you dont want to have a child right now and could he wear a condom? just try and make it special for the both of you and just enjoy it ... (read in full...)
I feel I am too old for Christmas and the traditional celebration!...
Q. i am 14 years old and in year 10 (in america 9 grade) for some reason i feel like i am too old for christmas e.g getting up early playing with presents and all the great things about christmas i love this time of year usally why do i feel too ...
A. 1 December 2007: its never too old to get up and open your presnets :D however maybe toys are a bit old...there may be other things and gadgets that u want instead of...and yes if you no what your gonna get you wil want to get up and enjoy...
i say dont worry bout... (read in full...)
Poll question. How old were you when you lost your virginity?
Q. Hey would like to know how old were you when you lost your virginity and also did you tell your parents about it or not till later? How were you sure it was the right person?...
A. 29 November 2007: ok mines bad...i was 14 :S and it was the wrong guy and my parents do not know and they never will....just the way it goes really it was a huge mistake...
why do u ask?... (read in full...)
What to start taking the pill but don't want to go to my doctor.
Q. hi,im thinking of starting the pill,the only thing is i dont want to see my male doctor,is it possible to go into a walk in center to get it? also what sort of questions would they ask when i do see them?, plz help...
A. 20 November 2007: hey, there should b female doctors and "contraception nurses"
theyll basically ask you about your periods, whether your sexually active and when [if you are] you last had sex, they will prob ask you if youve used other methods of contraception, but ... (read in full...)
When Did Men Get PMS??!!!
Q. He's been acting real moody lately. What did I do? Could he be guilty of something and it's killing him not to tell me? Lately, when we're around his family, it's like he hates for me to touch him. But, when he touches me it's "okay"....
A. 15 November 2007: it might be because you are around his family...? try and trust him...let him talk to you when hes ready to tlk about it.
hope everything goes okay... (read in full...)
How do I go about becoming a doctor?
Q. I live in the UK and i am 16 years old I'd just like to know how i would go about becoming a doctor? Which courses would i need to take in College? Would i go to University or Med school? How much would it cost to send me to Med school...
A. 15 November 2007: you would need really good grades in science, maybe health and safety...maybe psychology... and the basics [english maths, the usual :D]
you would prob need to go to medical school and the price would depend on the school... there would be top up f... (read in full...)
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