I'm a geek. What do girls like in teens?
Q. i was wondering, im a bit of a geek in my school. you know, small, fat, unconfident? im getting better confidence, more people are liking me but i want a girlfriend. i was wondering, what is it you girls like at early teens? how should i get a ...
A. 9 October 2007: get to know girls as friends, and then see what kinda girls you like, just because your a geek doesnt mean that girls dont like you because they probarbly do they just dont like admitting their feelings...
hope this helps
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Does my best mate like me?
Q. hi my best mate and her bf broke up last week.ive liked him 4 ages.i dno if he likes me tho.hes always around me and bitin my arm.but thats the way he is help ...
A. 5 October 2007: this might just be a friendly thing?[the biting- i have a friend who does that!] try getting to know him and see how it goes from there...dont let him know how you feel just yet though.
hope this helps
sparkii x... (read in full...)
I feel fat. I cant get a girl because no one even looks at me
Q. Im 13 and I weigh 9 stone. I cant get a girl because nobody even looks at me. I dont look too overweight (im only overweight by a about a stone) but I hate myself. i dont eat a lot of sugar and i have regular exercise. has anyone else had a problem ...
A. 4 October 2007: okay ur not overweight 9 stone at 13...heck thts nuffink dnt worry!! and some girls are at the stage where they would rather be going out shopping not reassuring i no. but surely theres one? one tht catches ur eye every now and again who smiles at ... (read in full...)
I'm wondering who I am?
Q. can you change the person you are?i feel like im not a very nice person. im so selfish sometimes, even my mum says iv got a hard edge.i seem to use people for what i can get.i really dont mean to!!!i know this sounds a bit deep but im 19 and dont ...
A. 2 October 2007: you can change how you feel about urself... maybe thinking about what your about to say/do can stop this hard edge... and it doesnt sound deep... coz im doing exactly the same thing... think about the person you would like to become eventually and ... (read in full...)
I really like my friend as more than a friend
Q. im 14 and love someone. ive never felt this way about anyone before. he used to like me but messed me around it was like i was being used. its been months since we last did something together but i want us to be more than friends. we're really close ...
A. 2 October 2007: okay babe, im in the same situation so try flirting with him, most guys will flirt back and if the attraction is there i can almost gurantee it. dont tell him just yet, flirt like crazy if you want to but make sure this is what you both want. maybe ... (read in full...)
Arguements around my sister and her boyfriend are causing a rift in our family. Please help!
Q. Im really sorry it is a long message but I need help. Im 12 and I know this site is for teens but still. My sister is 16 and she has a boyfriend. He is perfectly nice but on Myspace he has been posting affectionate comments to this other g...
A. 30 September 2007: darling, u need to tell your parents how you feel about this, and how intefering in ur sisters life is not helping her at all. ur sister must trust this boyfriend a great deal if she is doing nothing about this. i think you and ur family plus the ... (read in full...)
Any good sites where I can meet people my age?
Q. does anyone know of a good website where i could meet people my age and in my area? not only boys but girls just for friendship too?...
A. 30 September 2007: bebo? myspace? facebook? places like this are perfect coz u start with people in ur area and work your way round the globe in a way XD im from uk but have got mates in australia and spain now
hope this helps
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I'm worried I'll disappoint him in bed!
Q. Im in a new relationship but scared i'll disappoint him in bed. He is a bit older and has been with lots of women, whereas im not really experienced in this department. I love him so much, we talk openly about sex and he says theres no rush but the ...
A. 30 September 2007: as long as ur confident within yourself there is no problem....and he prob wont hate it... if he loves you, you wont disappoint... you dont say how long uve been going out.... if time is your problem then wait...
sorry if i wasnt much help
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It seems as if I wind up in many bad relationships. How do I break this vicious cycle?
Q. It seems as if I wind up in many bad relationships. First, it was just the friends that liked to cause a little trouble. Then, friends that project a certain image they want in a friend on me and when I don't fit to what they want, I'm insulted. ...
A. 27 September 2007: let the boys and their friends get to know you first, try out as friends and see what happens...and try and explain to this guy tht it was early in the morning...we are all like that sometimes =D
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Does my period cycle indicate that the pill is not working for me?
Q. hi, i have been on the pill for about half a year now and for the last 3months or so my period has been coming the week before it is indicated it should happen. does this mean it isn't working?...
A. 27 September 2007: no its fine love its just hormones playing about...you have taken it reguarly and everything???
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How can I make myself more attractive on the outside?
Q. im tired of being average looking and want to know what i can do to kind of make the most of myself. i know im not UGLY but im far from stunning either. in fact to get a true honest opinion, i registered with hotornot.com where people rate pictures ...
A. 12 September 2007: okay what do you like about urself? ur eyes? ur figure? bcoz there is somet u like about urself surely.... u jst need to enhance that... with the right make up and clothes [not saying u dnt have these already] u can look "gorgeous" as u ... (read in full...)
My mum says I'm anorexic. How do I feel better about my appearance?
Q. Hi There, Im having extreme self esteem issues. I constantly look in the mirror and say i look sooo ugly. I sort of have acne like my forehead between my eyebrows. It isnt really bad, but i have dark blemishes there. It doesnt seem to bother p...
A. 12 September 2007: okay ur self esteems takin a knock here so the way i got mine back was by doing something i could see i was really good at and then getting confident tht way.... plus try wearing stuff tht compliments ur figure, that u like and feel you look good ... (read in full...)
I am really falling for this guy and its messing up my schoolwork.
Q. well my prob is: iv known this guy really well for quite a long time now and we've always been really close, i tell him everything and he always helps me and is there for me. the problem is i am now starting to fall for him really bad, i cant get ...
A. 11 September 2007: okay i no what it feels like to go thru tht kinda thing but seriously, u need to somehow focus ur mind back on ur school work wiv gcses coming up u need to focus and u cnt if hes in ur mind.... and rele u jst need to sort out the situation between ... (read in full...)
Cancer stunned my boyfriends growth. In height and... Other things. Will he still be able to satisfy me?
Q. heya my bf had cancer when he was younger (hes now 21) but all the treatments and keymo stunnted his growth. It didnt just stunt his height it stunnted other things aswell (his penis size). i am fine with this but i was wondering if it could effect ...
A. 11 September 2007: surely he would be able to satisfy you in other ways than just his penis, and surely this wouldnt mater if u were in love with him [however i do not no the situation]
mail me if u wana chat
x sparkii x... (read in full...)
I date lots of guys but I get rid of them when I start feeling insecure and lack confidence. Help!
Q. dont think im being big headed but.. lots of boys ask me out and things butt when i do start goin out with them and im with them and things i always mess it up and end it like 4 days or even a day after because i get scared that my body isent ri...
A. 11 September 2007: maybe you should start with your self confidence, theres something good about everybody and theres something about everybody that's completely different.... once u start with your confidence and then ur school work and then maybe consider the guys ... (read in full...)
The guy I'm dating calls too often, disfocusing me from my studies. How to let him know not to disturb me?
Q. Its almost 4 am. Im awake. Thats ok,im student and study usualy at night. Well, here is the problem. Im dating with a guy who presumably now has problems with sleeping,... Dont want to sound unsympathetic or , but this guy knows that i have strict ...
A. 11 September 2007: okay why dnt u tell him to stop calling u while ur trying to work [but heres the difference]and u'll spend a couple more hours with him than usual... or failing that why didn't u try studying together...is this an option????? mail me if u want mor... (read in full...)
Am I still a virgin?
Q. Hi, on my birthday my friends bought me a vibrator. Now am i still a virgin since i use it?...
A. 11 September 2007: your still a virgin dont worry :D
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We met on the phone and we've never even met but I feel like I love him.
Q. I met a guy on the phone and fell in love with him a year and a half ago..I know it sounds weired...!! I'm not a freak or anything...I'm just a normal girl...But I donno why this happened...I'm so much obsessed with him now...I can't get over ...
A. 9 September 2007: you shouldnt meet up with anyone alone, is there a close friend u culd take with yhu??? maybe this is an option....
and just over the phone is a little unreliable...i mean how old does this guy say he is???? and what if he isnt wat ur expectin... (read in full...)
Me and a friend got together at a party. Now he hesn't made a move. Should I?
Q. A few months ago at a party me and a good mate got drunk and ended up together all night, hugging and talking, and we hooked up. Before the party we'd both admitted to liking each other, and we're good friends and know each other well. We always ...
A. 9 September 2007: you just need to tlk to him sweetie, he will probs have been holding it inside as much as you have, at least if u tlk it out youll eventually sort it out...
go to the band and see what happens...yhu cnt not go if its one u love....the boy will pro... (read in full...)
I took some risque pictures on a family camera. Have since deleted them but I'm worried they could still be somewhere?
Q. i took risque pictures of myself in the nude, using my own memory card in my mom's camera. i put the memory card in my own computer, deleted the pictures from the card, and made sure there was no saving onto the camera i borrowed. is there a cha...
A. 9 September 2007: if ur gonna do tht again...there are digi cameras out there for like 20-30 quid....maybe they are a better idea, as long as u didnt leave the photos in the recycle bin, i see no problems
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My ex says he loves me but he's looking for no strings sex on the interweb?
Q. My ex and I had been living together for over a year when we broke up in July. He had been acting distant and cold for a while, and I could not bear it anymore so I pretty much had to get him to tell me what he was feeling. He said he was confused, ...
A. 8 September 2007: your not being stupid here, your allowed to think this, maybe this guy needs a "push in the right direction" as this behaviour is out of order towards you, he shouldnt be treating u like this, i think u just need to get everything out in the open ... (read in full...)
I would like to tell her how I feel. Any suggestions?
Q. i have been friends with this girl for about since january....i find myself very attracted to her. i talk to her and feel comfortable with her...even had her alone in my car and at her house. i don't know how to make a move on her...i want to tell ...
A. 8 September 2007: u dont mention how she is towards you...? if u just talk to her...she will probarbly see what ur tlking about...unless shes taken??? and if she isnt..then take things slowly..get to know each other, make sure its what you both want.. if u w... (read in full...)
How do I ask a girl out when she spends all her time with her friends??
Q. How do I ask a girl out when she spends all her time with her friends? She, that is, they, know I like her, and they say she likes me, but I don't know what to think. Her friends are the gossipy tye, and have a habit of stretching things to get a la...
A. 7 September 2007: okay the note passing thing your right is typical of a group of girls, can i ask whether u have ur mobile number or msn??? if not this might be the way u go bout things...this way u dnt have her friends around and it seems like there only causing u ... (read in full...)
How will I know when I'm ready to have Sex with him?
Q. hiya all i have been with my bf for a month now and we have dun pretty much everything apart from have sex.We are both still virgins, and he seys hes ready to have sex and hes being really good about it and is not pressuring me at all, but how will ...
A. 7 September 2007: i see no problem with this, as long as he aint pressuring u....u will no wen ur ready to have sex [the way u no is different in all people] but rememeber condoms and stuff...coz otherwise u culd get into prety big shit... Good Luck xxxx mail... (read in full...)
Where is the g-spot????
Q. where is the g spot?...
A. 5 September 2007: its different for all girls.......... (read in full...)
I get swollen and bleed when I have sex
Q. I am 15 and I have had sex 3 times. My first time wasn't painful as the penis wasn't big. My second time was so painful (he was very big) he had to stop and my vagina and clitorus swelled up and i bled a bit. My third time was a tiny bit less ...
A. 4 September 2007: i would agree with all of the others and add the little tiny fact that ur underage and no offence hunni but its kinda illegal...
maybe u shuld wait...ur only gonna do more damage than good...
sorry
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I'm not confident with girls!
Q. Im 14 and i feel girls arent that intersested in me, which makes me feel less confident in myslef. I try to be really nice to them and flirt a bit but i never feel they really recipricate and so it just makes me think three is something wrong with ...
A. 1 September 2007: dont lose ur confidence over a girl, its not quite worth it, and if ur flirting then maybe they shuld tell u if there not interested coz its rele not fair if there not reciprocating.... dont lose interest in girls, unless u rele feel like giving up, ... (read in full...)
I'm still worried I could be pregant!
Q. Hi everyone, Well about 3 days ago i lost my virginity and he was protected , we had sex for about 30 mins , but we had to discontinue because my mom came home . so he came over the next day and we had sex once again but unprotected this time ,ye...
A. 31 August 2007: okay u need to go to the doctors, the fact that uve had unprotected sex is worrying [trust me ive been there done tht and deeply regreeted it] and definetely i recommend the doctors, they can make sure that ur not pregnant, i recommend if ur not on ... (read in full...)
Im still not getting over her. This has been the worst summer ever. She hasn't even said thank you for the birthday card I sent her!
Q. Hi everyone. It's got to the point where I feel stupid to keep troubling you with my problems, whenever they are so small. Nevertheless, they continue to trouble me. I don't know if it's all part of being dumped by your first love or whatever, ...
A. 31 August 2007: okay i can really see it from your side here, uve had it rough this summer understandable, but think about it this way, there are other girls/relationships and there are other summers i dont think tht its just one of those days... it seems like uve ... (read in full...)
I've met a girl i really like but she says she just wants to stay friends. How can I prove i'm not a waste of time?
Q. I have met a girl I really like but when I asked her out she said she wants to stay single and just wants to be friends. Now Im wondering if she feels the same way. How can I prove to her that Im not a waste of time?...
A. 31 August 2007: okay by being there for her, as a friend you are already proving tht your there to stay as such. and if you take what she says seriously as well, maybe this friendship might develop into something more, and if your patient you might just get to see ... (read in full...)
We fell asleep together; the other competitors from the sporting club told me it's wrong, I could never have taken advantage over it though and it worries me...
Q. I'm 17 and theres this girl who's 15. We've known each other for years now and have always been really close. We went away with a sporting club a little while ago, and on the last night there, all crowded into one room. Her being much youn...
A. 29 August 2007: There is only a two year age difference but as long as it was just a hug and nothing more i see no problem, it was considerate that u were there and if the friends were friends they wuld be considerate to the fact that you were just being a friend ... (read in full...)
Pleasuring myself makes me feel disgusting, but I know I shouldn't and that it's completely normal!
Q. Hi, i'm 15 years old and im not in any relationship, i've never been in a relationship before and i've never had sex, but the one thing im addicted to is masturbating. At first I always try and tell myself to stop but I end up doing it anyway and ...
A. 29 August 2007: okay it may sound disgusting and make you feel it....but like you said its completely normal, and maybe it is a good thing you're doing things like this now, nothing else....because as you're underage, it is illegal to have sex. Your hormones are ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to masterbate to help me get over him?
Q. Hi im sixteen and am really confused. I always want to txt this guy friend of mine and i always want to fool around with him, but theres been some problems in the past and he wasnt very nice, and i know he'll probably hurt me again. So ive been ...
A. 21 August 2007: maybe its a good thing that your ignoring the religion thing...if its making you feel better nobody should argue with that...and you are only allowed your opinion....you should keep doing it if its making you feel better babe
Good Luck
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I have confidence issues.
Q. Hey, I Would Really Appreciate it if someone could pass over some advice ! I'm struggling greatly with my confidence and self esteem, i was bullied at school and struggle to find myself attractive or nice to be with, i have to be honest i do have ...
A. 21 August 2007: okiie dokiie...
a boyfriend isnt everything sweetie and being upset when you dont have one maybe isnt the best way to go about things, try not looking it works ;)dont be upset with your friends you never know one day they could be doing that to give... (read in full...)
My Mom wont let me cut my hair!
Q. ok i am the girl whos mom wont let her cut her hair in a long bob i still havent spoke to her yet about my hair and she is perposely saying how many inches are you having off your hair and she said if i cut my hair short she will kill me (not ...
A. 21 August 2007: okay i did answer this one yesterday :P but will answer it again for yhu...
give her a picture of what you want it to look like that way she can realistically see u with it, if this doesnt work rebellion is not the answer, i no it seems hard but... (read in full...)
We had 3 accidental pregnancys and he didnt want any more kids. Now I am accidentally pregnant with #4.
Q. I need advice..i have no one to talk to and i dont know what to do.I have 3 kids.Love them beyond anything.I was with my partner 6 mths when i got pregnant..it wasnt planned and i was taking the pill.But it seemed to all work out fine..number two ...
A. 21 August 2007: considered adoption??? if you two really are not comfortable having another baby together, but you dont want to abort it maybe this is an option? and can i ask why the hell your still with him when he is/was abusive????
you deserve much better t... (read in full...)
I want to go on the pill to help with me periods but i'm only 12.
Q. Hi ya how do you ask your mum to go on the pill as im only 12 i have no intencion in having sex its just when im on im on heavy plz halp...
A. 21 August 2007: okay as your in the UK if u explain ur situation to a doctor, understanding the fact that you get heavy periods, have not had sex and dont plan to, i dont see a reason why the doctor wouldnt let you on the pill. although there are other methods such ... (read in full...)
What are the side effects of going on the pill?
Q. can anyone tell me the side effects [if any] of going on the pill please??? Just out of curiosity Thanks xxxx...
A. 20 August 2007: okay im 14, been to the doctors before was told i was able to go on the pill but wasnt told the effects which is why i asked here...... (read in full...)
Will eating only 2 apples a day make me lose weight quickly?6
Q. Hey.. ok well i'm planning to lose weight..So i'm going to eat two apples a day and that's it..iv done this now for 1 day..and I no that i'm going keep on doing it..how long will it take like before the weight all drops off?? i'm 9 stone and I hate ...
A. 20 August 2007: okay ur what 16-17 and nine stone :O that is a perfect size babe and can i ask if you are single? surely if ur not theres a perfect guy that is telling you not too and i bet that there are family and friends that give you so much support... try we... (read in full...)
How can I convince my mom to let me cut my hair?
Q. hi i am 14 years old and i really want to cut my hair in a long bob i asked my mom she said no and she said i am not having you cry for the next month my sister said to my mom let her have it how she wants if she doesnt like it its her own fault. ...
A. 20 August 2007: okay try and get a photo of your ideal hairstyle that way showing your mum that youve thought about it and your being responsible. hunni its your hair and your life...give her time she should come round eventually
Good luck
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I have morning sickness and i'm scared.
Q. i am 12 years old. and i lost my virginity about a week ago. i have morning sickness i have strange cravings for pickles before i go to bed. but it may just be bkuz of my diet but i am scared.. wait no REALLY REALLY REALLY SUPER DUPER SCARED!!! ...
A. 20 August 2007: okay.... erm...where to start if uve started ur periods...then check when ur due if not...then seriously talk to your parents, and then most definetely go to a doctor no matter what the problem is... and no offence love but isnt it kind of illeg... (read in full...)
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