What would you change about your life?
Q. If you were able to change anything about your life, what would you change?...
A. 11 April 2008: i would change how moody i can get...but also make sure that the guy i led on didn't get led on. :D
apart from that its all good...why do you ask sweetie?... (read in full...)
I need help planning my 16th birday!
Q. My sweet 16s coming up on the 21st.... need help planning... I have 2 groups of friends I hang out with, should I have 2 parties or combine both? I wanna have 2 cuz it'll be better, they're kinda different and such. What should I do ? Oh, and I...
A. 9 April 2008: okay you have one huge party with everyone there...make a theme to have it more lighthearted. then, choose a few friends from each group and have a movie night or go out for dinner. make sure u spend time with your family though.
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SITE NEWS: Over half a million visitors in March!
Q. I'm pleased to say that according to Google Analytics, March 08 was the busiest month ever for Dear Cupid! We had 519,747 unique visitors (i.e. people!) visit the site from 1st March 08 to 31st March 08 inclusive. Over HALF A MILLION people.... ...
A. 1 April 2008: Well done Andrew :D
wont be long now till the big one million =)
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24 and still at home, is that normal?
Q. This may sound silly but here goes. Im 24 years old, 25 in June, and I still live at home with my parents. I am single but that's through choice as I havn't met anyone I like yet. I have a good job and earn good money. I have lots of friends and a ...
A. 29 March 2008: my aunty is still at my nans house and she is 34 this year if thats any reassurance =) trust me life is worth living..so live the way you want to
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Is a 38DD bra size at 15 years old too big?
Q. i am 15 and a 38 DD is that normal. i think i'm to big for my age?? hElP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!...
A. 27 March 2008: to be honest id love to be a bigger size, okay this may be slightly bigger but are you quite tall? are they proportioned?
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How old are you?
Q. I always find it strange when people ask me how old I am and I say 11 - apparently I look way older. I find it funny and was wondering if any of you guys have the same issue!...
A. 27 March 2008: well it depends on teh way i have my hair. im 15 and have been served in a pub before XD however there are times when i look younger and can get childrens tickets and all the rest.
depends on whos looking at you really
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So tell me....why don't girls like guys with Ginger hair?
Q. Why don't girls like guys with Ginger hair? I've got Red hair and it seems to turn alot of girls off, especially if I'm with a girl and one of my friends makes a crack about me being a fire crotch. Wehnever that topic comes up most girls seem t...
A. 27 March 2008: can i just say im a 15 year old girl, currently with a guy and he absolutely loves my natural ginger hair! and if these people find it a turn off there obviously not worth it are they???
there is someone for everyone...and there are many people out ... (read in full...)
Does it hurt to lose your virginity?
Q. Does it hurt to lose your virginity? Ladies' opinions, please....
A. 26 March 2008: I personally didn't feel any pain during or after...It was a few days after....but then that might just be me
Sparkii
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Why have I had no periods since my first one in november?
Q. Hey, i started my period in november and it is now march. i havent had it since that one. i dont know whats wrong with me either. i havent gained over 5 pounds since then and kept them.. i havent had sickness or anything crazy to point in the ...
A. 24 March 2008: okay when you start your periods it can take some time for them to adjust. i know someone who had one then didn't for another year. it just takes time. but be prepared in case it does come back.
dont worry its not pregnancy or anything like that... (read in full...)
How do I get rid of "Love Handles"? I'm so embarrassed!
Q. this isn't a relationship question but i need advice. ok so i wanna know how to get rid of "love handles" and the extra leg fat on the upper legs. I am very skinny but i have fat on me and i want to get rid of it. so any tips would be greatly ...
A. 23 March 2008: like said before you are only 15 and you shouldn't be embarassed, you should be proud of it. curves are way more sexy than skininess and altho you are skinny a bit of weight here and there is not a problem at all. guys will prob like you better for ... (read in full...)
I have not seen her in a long time, has anyone got any help on what to talk to her about?
Q. Hi, I met this girl through a friend, she is 14 in December and I'm 15 in March, is the age diffrence ok? I really like her and THINK she feels the same way? How can I tell? I need some advice on what to do, we don't hang around in the same groups ...
A. 22 March 2008: the age difference is not too much, there are people out there with greater and there relationships are working.
talk about different things that interest you both, take it slowly see how it goes, ask her how things are going that kinda thin... (read in full...)
What should I write in my birthday invitations?
Q. hey i am turning 19 soon and i am inviting my frends for this huge birthday bash that i am throwing..but the problem is: how should the birthday invitations card be..as in what should the invite card say..please tell me appropriate things that i can ...
A. 18 March 2008: well has your party got a theme? if so follow that in your writing...just keep it informal and funny :D
your friends should love it
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What's the best way to go about asking her for her MS address?
Q. Dear All I really like this girl and from what I gather she likes me, an older friend has agreed and I'm planning on asking her for her MS address tommorow, she hangs round with very pleasent friends, it shall be hard to get her alone. What's...
A. 16 March 2008: is there any other way you could get it? through another friend?
if this is not the case just ask outright she will be impressed that you have come out with it and there prob wont be any laughter about it.
dont worry
good luck
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How do girls think????
Q. I met this girl and really fancy (like) her but not sure if she really likes me and I don't know how to attract her?? What signs would she show if she likes me?? We mostly talk on MSN but not too sure what hints she would hint if she likes me?? ...
A. 15 March 2008: well what do you talk about on msn? if her feelings come out or you and her talk a lot about you as a pair..say going out as friends or something...
talk about anything and see where it goes
like me and my friend say dont plan it makes life t... (read in full...)
Please tell me how can I get through this heartache?
Q. I'm quite young, actually, and I do think I'm too young to experience actual love. But, I've been suffering through unrequited love for 3 years. It seemed great to have a friend who I had this feeling about. But I guess I was too late, and someth...
A. 14 March 2008: i can see that this obviously matters to you a lot. i think you need to work out what changed and try and sort that out. work out where things went wrong.
if you email me i might be able to help you further
sparkii
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How much weight could I lose between now and Easter?
Q. Similar question was asked earlier, but... I'm around 5' 5" and weigh 116. I really would like to lose weight by Easter, because I'm fat. I'm restricting my food again because I lost a lot of weight when I did this last summer and fall. Unfortunat...
A. 14 March 2008: im not sure how much exactly you would lose
but can i just say that it is not good to restrict your food as the weight will be put on again very quickly..
if you want any extra advice
email me
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Pads vs. tampons
Q. Okay well im just curiouse. I just started using tampons, and I actualy like this better than pads. There much easier to deal with, and the pads bunch up and I get uncomfterable. I asked some of my friends and they said none of them liked tampons, ...
A. 13 March 2008: well i use a mixture personally...but i can find tampons a bit annoying...good for swimming though
stick with what u feel comfy with :D
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Not sexually active but I haven't had my period in almost 6 months, what's wrong with me?
Q. I haven't had my period in over 5-6 months!! And I am not sexually active!! Is something wrong with me? ...
A. 13 March 2008: sometimes it does get irregular especially if your new to it. dont worry it will come back but it can take a while just to warn you :D
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Do I give him attention and make him like me again, or play hard to get?
Q. Hey guys, so the kid that i wrote about before, he said how he was never talking to me ever again but clearly that was a lie because now we talk again. B Basically he is still together with this girl, but he is being VERY flirtacious with me. This...
A. 12 March 2008: id say keep him as a friend completely, if hes already taken its harsh for him to be making moves on you. and if you know the girlfriend its even worse.
hunni theres my advice...
good luck
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Older students are calling us names, why can't they leave us alone?
Q. Me and my m8s have a lot of fun together...we muck around and make stupid comments on generaly just be idiots! We all enjoy being so idiotic because it's fun just to let yourself be you...But we are the youngest in the school and,because all the ...
A. 12 March 2008: just ignore them, its your life and having fun is the way it should be. trust me once u get to that age theres way tooo much stress!
have a laugh and enjoy your life :D
and to be honest theres not much they can really do coz most teachers wil... (read in full...)
How can I start a casual conversation, and is it really a good idea?
Q. There is this guy hes my friend that i hang out with and i like him. but heres the problem he has been out with my friend and one of my other friends like him. Hes invited me over to his house what do o do to make a casual conversation so that we ...
A. 11 March 2008: just ask things like how he is, dont let it just be an internet relationship, get to know him better in school as well..
if u want anymore help
email me
sparkii x... (read in full...)
Will my boyfriend ever meet my family?
Q. I have been dating my boyfriend for four months now and he will not meet my family. I have asked him a few times to meet them by inviting him to events and what not and he still will not. I come from a big, tight-knit, Italian family. My family is ...
A. 10 March 2008: sit him down don't get angry with him and ask him calmly why hes not happy seeing your parents, tell your parents if you have to that he is uncomfortable with meeting them and tell them he doesn't mean offence by it.
hope this works
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She's rejected further dates but I know that she likes me. What holds her back and how can I get her to want a relationship?
Q. I dated this girl once and I knew she really liked me. We kissed for ages. Than after we planned to meet again but I was busy on several occasions so was she. She then told me she doesn't want to be in relationship right now. I do I know I can win ...
A. 10 March 2008: get to know her, online or texting, anyway to open up the communications then ask her just as friends and see what she says about it...
good luck
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Could I be pregnant and how do I tell my mother if this is the case?
Q. me and my boyfriend had sex a couple of times with a condom and once without it but it wasnt proper he stuck his penis in like half way twice, lately i have been feeling sick and we both think i might be pregnant. how am i supposed to tell my mother ...
A. 10 March 2008: okay first get a pregnancy test and take it from there...
if you are pregnant then you need to decide whether to keep the baby, if this is the case it would be best if you sat your mum down explained that you understand if she is ashamed upset etc ... (read in full...)
I worry about breaking up with my boyfriend
Q. Hello ! Me and my boyfriend are really happy together .. but i worry losing him as i have done before.. we get along realy well just laods of rumors go around but we still stay strong. i cant bare losing him . if we split what is the best i ca...
A. 7 March 2008: hey babe...you just gotta ignore the rumours, take em with a pinch of salt and just wing it really...i no thats not very good advice but it does work. how long have u been together this time?
it depends on how u break hunni as to what you do afte... (read in full...)
Should I spend the rest of my life with someone who won't satisfy me?
Q. I am 12 years old and I've just had sex with my boyfriend. The problem is I think his penis is too small I talked to my friends at school and they said it was definetly too small and I don't think I want to see him again. I know he had sex with alot ...
A. 5 March 2008: no offence sweetie but this does seem kinda shallow, what are u doing having sex at the age of 12 anyway? if u didnt use condoms u cud get pregnant! his penis size is no biggi... you can't really decide whether he can satisfy you at such a young ... (read in full...)
How can I work out what I want to do?
Q. What could I do to help me figure out what I wanna be when I get out of high school?...
A. 5 March 2008: theres things like work experience and placements in different industries not sure if this applies where you live however. try writing down what gcses u have and think of careers u could have and whether they appeal to you... (read in full...)
How can I build a client base ?
Q. I'm new to the hair industry and I just want some tips on how to go about building a clientel. ...
A. 5 March 2008: use leaflets and see if customers will recommend u to friends, family. ... (read in full...)
My two-faced friend is flirting with my boyfriend. What do I do?
Q. Okay, I have this boyfriend and we we've been going out for about 1 month now. We also went out last year for 3 months. I really love him and he promised not to break my heart like he did earlier so we're doing really well now and one of my ...
A. 2 March 2008: talk to your boyfriend try and make him see how much its annoying you. and then ignore her shes not worth it sweetie
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Heavy and frequent periods. Am I ovulating more than normal?
Q. I experience irregular periods all of my adult life. My bleeding used to be quite excessive in the past. I have seen various doctors, specialists, had many many tests etc but nothing has ever been found to be wrong with me. Now I am on the pill and ...
A. 29 February 2008: okay can i ask what pill you are on?... (read in full...)
Normal weight loss or not?
Q. heyx i am 15, 5 ft 3 and last week i weighed in at 9 and a half stone. i lost 14 pounds since then, which means about 2 pounds a day. What does this mean? Am i normal? i have dieted all week, but only eat less and exersised abit more. I know the...
A. 24 February 2008: there doesnt seem to be a problem here with your numbers, it may just be where your body shape may be different from others. however loosing that much in a week does bare a problem as said below 2 pounds a week is normal, id also say do the exercise ... (read in full...)
Will her turning me down end our friendship?
Q. Hey, I am in love with one of my friends who I have liked since the 3rd grade. She has an idea I like her but I have a problem. My problem is if I tell her I like her and she likes me back than great. But if she doesnt like me and says no than our...
A. 24 February 2008: okay...u losing ur friendship because she says no may not happen, there just may be distance for a little while as you both work out where to go from there. what are the signs that she likes you?
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I would not dare to go out with him because I'm afraid of a failure. Please help!
Q. Hey i've never had a proper bf before, well not a serious one anyway i seriously like a lad. W ehave been friends for a while and part of me thinks he likes me to. The thing is though i'm not saying anything will happen but if he does feel the same ...
A. 23 February 2008: find out where u stand and take it from there. flirt a little making sure that he subtly nos u like him and see how it goes.
if u want email me
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I'm almost 13 he is almost 16, is that legal?
Q. I'm almost 13 he is almost 16, is that legal? He isn't forcing me into having sex but he is tryng to make me do things that I'm scared about and when I say no to something he says I can never try something new, should I tell him I'm scared because ...
A. 20 February 2008: i think you should wait a little while till your a bit more mature..i know its an overly used phrase but maybe the hormones are playing around... its legal but i would recommend waiting a little while
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I'm scared of my ex...
Q. I split up with my boyfriend in December, we had been together 13 months and he is being a absolute idiot, he has taken pictures of my house and put them on bebo, he is almost 14, I'm almost 13. What should I do? I don't want to get back with him ...
A. 20 February 2008: okay there are ways around this. bebo right? report him on there and get them to take it further. tell the police and tell your parents if they dont already know
and your brother really shouldnt be bought into this.
if you need anymore help... (read in full...)
He's too clingy!!!!!
Q. It's like I'm being suffocated!!!! My boyfriend is so clingy!!! I don't know how to get him to give me some space!!!! I mean when I want to be with my friends he gets all mad!!! WHAT SHOULD I DO!!! Should I break up with him or should I ignore ...
A. 20 February 2008: dont break up with him...give him time try talk things through show that you care but you do need time with your friends too...
how long have u been together???
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He liked both us girls at the party..but I liked him alot. How can I get him to date me?
Q. Okay, well my problem is.. I've talked to this guy from my school [who is 2 years older than me - I'm 15, he's nearly 17] a lot on MSN and we met 'properly' at a party last night. We got on really well and he was pretty nice to me and friendly...
A. 20 February 2008: get to know him, its not all about dating him. i know the response is late but i hope it went okay with him. if you havent already made a decision then get to know him if he would go out with you once he knows you better then getting to know him is ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my friend she is only being nice to get back at me??
Q. So I had this friend in college who I met last semester who I became good friends with. Her true colors eventually came out and she turned out to be really insensitive and spineless and just a bitch so I started to avoid her, especially after she ...
A. 20 February 2008: if you tell him you have to be ready for him to take sides with one of you. if you are going to tell him you need to tell him at the right time when you are both calm adn make sure it stays that way because otherwise there may be an arguement for ... (read in full...)
I need to become more organized! Does anybody have any organization tips?
Q. Can somebody please tell me how I can get better organized?? I'm in for a terrible evening. My parents are always telling me that I need to get much better at organizing myself, and tonight I may have messed up big time! Tomorrow I'm suppose to g...
A. 20 February 2008: glad it worked for you in the end :D... (read in full...)
Am I right in feeling that this kind of talk should be reserved for your special someone.
Q. I have a friend who I have really strong feelings for. I mean, I'm not in love yet but definitely heading for it. We are pretty close and hang out or talk or chat almost everyday. And I always felt it was heading somewhere, and just wanted to take ...
A. 19 February 2008: you need ot tell him you want to know where you stand.tell him that you can't stand being messed aorund and you want to know the truth of whatever you two have together.
you cant go on the way you are although its obvious you two ahve a connecti... (read in full...)
My sister gets away with everything and has no responsibilities and it makes me so mad!
Q. right well this isnt a relationship question but i am desperate for some help, you see i am 15, i will be 16 in may, im due to sit exams already sat some and tonns and tonns of coursework that needs doing as most teens about to leave school do. ...
A. 19 February 2008: i think you need to talk to your mum first babe, work out some kind of routine with her you and your sister. its obvious that there is some favouritism going on?
some kind of rota would make things easier that way you all do equal jobs between ... (read in full...)
I need to become more organized! Does anybody have any organization tips?
Q. Can somebody please tell me how I can get better organized?? I'm in for a terrible evening. My parents are always telling me that I need to get much better at organizing myself, and tonight I may have messed up big time! Tomorrow I'm suppose to g...
A. 19 February 2008: okay organization something im not too bad at...
small piles...work related friends related. folders in your inbox for work friends and just pure junk. keep tabs on everything sticky notes are one of my best friends simply because i forget ever... (read in full...)
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