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Heyyy to all the beautiful people out there,

I guess you could say I'm just another teenager trying to help the world :) Its a good thing really

Anyway, if anyone needs any help then message me

SB :) x

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How do I go about becoming a doctor?

Q.   I live in the UK and i am 16 years old I'd just like to know how i would go about becoming a doctor? Which courses would i need to take in College? Would i go to University or Med school? How much would it cost to send me to Med school...

A.   15 November 2007: you would need really good grades in science, maybe health and safety...maybe psychology... and the basics [english maths, the usual :D] you would prob need to go to medical school and the price would depend on the school... there would be top up f... (read in full...)

Does my shy friend like me?

Q.   Does this shy guy like me?? Me and my crush like each other (or have atleast some time anyway). I asked him out just before exams and he came back to me a few days later saying it's too close to the exams but maybe after them. So we had the summer h...

A.   15 November 2007: he obviously doesnt know quite how to react around you. get to know him better, make contact with him body language is a good way. take your time and i hope this works out for you x... (read in full...)

Starting your period - influence upon breasts size? Do they stop growing?

Q.   My friend told me that when you start your period your breasts stop growing. Is it true?...

A.   14 November 2007: mine didnt... (read in full...)

I want to go on contraception. My mother would be shocked to hear this, so should I tell her?

Q.   I'm 16 and i know my mum doesn't want me having sex till i'm older but i still want to go on some form of contraception just to be safe but i know if i told her she would freak out and never let me see my bf again. What do i do, go on contraception ...

A.   14 November 2007: i would say dont go for injection method there are quite a few risks...i would also say try and be honest with your parents, however doctors can not show records.. so unless you leave the pill lying around there isnt a problem...stay calm when you ... (read in full...)

Relationships between cousins?

Q.   Should I ask my cousin if she likes me? Should I ask my cousin if she wanted 2 b with me? She is one year older then me....

A.   13 November 2007: i dont see why you shouldnt ask her i mean you do need to know but make sure about the laws, because in the uk it is illegal...i dont no what about where you are from good luck#x... (read in full...)

Ant tips, I need a bf

Q.   Hey, im a 6th grader but im never single. this school year i havent had 1 single boyfriend!!! i cant stand it, my friends talk about kissing guys, i havent kissed a guy yet. i feel so left out, im not sure if any one likes me. I NEED A BF!!! Any ...

A.   7 November 2007: i dont no quite where sixth grade is in english terms, but no offencce to guys but they are not everything at that age. the chance of falling in love is very very small. just be friendly to guys and get to know them, this is one of the main ways. i... (read in full...)

I might be pregnant and don't have a ride or money for the test.

Q.   im very young and i think im pregnany by my ex bf. but my current bf will hate me and my ex bf that i think im pregnant by is mad at me and pretty much hates me. i havnt felt like eating my stomach is getting hard and i have no appetite. my...

A.   7 November 2007: the stress that your going through may be the cause for your period not coming, also if you havent been having them for long then this might also be the case. if you are not pregnant and sexually active i would also suggest you go on the pill or ... (read in full...)

Am I stressed, or do I have a problem with my boyfriend.

Q.   I've been busy at work (working 2 weeks straight without a break) and haven't seen my boyfriend for 2 weeks. When I finally get to see him, I felt really strange. I felt my boyfriend is very distant all of a sudden. Felt that I don't know how to hug ...

A.   4 November 2007: im not sure but i think it might be a bit of both...relaxing may be the answer to your problems. leave work at work and relax around your boyfriend and it probably will hurt if your stressed out.. i dont think its the boyfriends fault you are ... (read in full...)

I don't know what to do.

Q.   I have a guy friend who is engaged.Him and I have become close over that past coupla weeks. He has called me everynight since I have started house sitting and we have spoke on the phone for up to three hours at a time. He tells me he calls me ...

A.   4 November 2007: okay i dont mean to sound harsh when i say this but he is engaged...this isnt the best time to be recieving flirting from him. guys talking on the phone isnt hated by all of them, some of them do like to talk on the phone for long periods. its sweet ... (read in full...)

What can I do to gain a closer friendship?

Q.   ok here goes- I like this girl....have for the last year or so....have been talking to her flirting with her...etc. She knows i like her.....all her friends say she likes me and her actions show that.......but I am wondering how might i get closer ...

A.   1 November 2007: make sure that u and her are close enough that she can talk to you about things she cant tell anyone else. see if you can meet up with her at weekends adn holidays. and trust her no matter what she says believe her. let her know that you like her. g... (read in full...)

How to have guy friends.

Q.   Hello Dearcupid! I am 14 and just wandering why i find it so difficult to have friend guys, yet boyfriends are fine. I don't know how to talk to them like an actual friend, about things i would talk about with girlfriends. How and why?? A...

A.   1 November 2007: okay simple enough you just need to be yourself. guy friends are simple, theyre kind and supportive and once u no them well enough they are always there for you. you just need to find decent good guys. not ones that take the mickey. i have a lot of ... (read in full...)

Is popularity the problem? Should I become more popular - for him?

Q.   there is a boy in my year (year 10) at my school who i really like, but he likes me as a best mate, not a crush. the problem is, he is the most popular and well known-kid in the school and some people have never heard of me. what do i do? do you ...

A.   31 October 2007: dont become more popular to please a boy love...it may not work and if he cant see you for the person that you are then he is the one with the issue not you. just get to know him better and let him know how you feel. good luck x... (read in full...)

Braces will make me feel worse about my appearance. I feel ugly, what can I do?

Q.   I am a 15 and i regard myself as ugly, i have only ever had one proper boyfriend and i am about to get braces. I know i shouldnt be talking like this but i do have really low self esteem. No one has ever told me i am pretty or beautiful and lets ...

A.   31 October 2007: braces are no big deal really sweetie, and if they make u feel better eventually then even more reason to have them. okay so there maybe a few names but think about the outcome pretty straight teeth and an even more gorgeous smile. and i bet theres ... (read in full...)

They're all calling me fat but I know I'm not. How can I get this through to them?

Q.   My mother is constantly calling me fat, and her and her friends have a nickname for me 'fatso'. Im 140lbs and 5'7'', and her constant putting down of my weight and bodyshape is really annoying me. When she was my age she had a very kate moss ...

A.   30 October 2007: ignore your mum, wear stuff that asentuates your figure [makes you look skinnier] and believe in yourself. its harsh that your mum is being like this but if you ignore it and change your style maybe your mum would see that you are beautiful.which ... (read in full...)

I need a romantic christmas present for my Boyfriend. Please help!

Q.   heya i have been with my boyfriend for over a year but i wanted to get him something personal and special...but i have no idea what! i will obviously get him a big present which i already have in mind, but other than that i have no idea. i need ...

A.   27 October 2007: okay normally id say get something that he enjoys [for example if hes in to music get him some gig tickets] but maybe this needs something different. if you really want to "put the boat out" why not try something different and get him something he ... (read in full...)

Best friends,..or more?

Q.   My best friend is a girl. I have feelings for her for quite some time. Anyway, we came to a point where i can openly tell her that i love her. She also tells me the same thing. Thing is, we are more than just friends. We are very physically and ...

A.   27 October 2007: take this slowly it seems clear that at the moment she only wants a friend...she needs time to build trust and maybe even love... take her out as friends, treat her well, take care of her in bad situations-all these things can make it easier for ... (read in full...)

I'm nearly 16, part of me wants to lose my virginity, the other worries. Does it hurt?

Q.   So hear is the thing, I am gonna be 16 really soon. And I have really been thinking lately. Part of me really wants to lose my virginity, but part of me thinks i should wait. I am worried about the pain, consequences, and regrets of having sex. But, ...

A.   27 October 2007: if youve got worries in your mind i would say dont go for it. it may hurt you depending on the guy but if your not in a stable relationship i would definetely say no. and at 16 what are you worrying about you've got time to find yourself a decent ... (read in full...)

I'm nearly 16, part of me wants to lose my virginity, the other worries. Does it hurt?

Q.   So hear is the thing, I am gonna be 16 really soon. And I have really been thinking lately. Part of me really wants to lose my virginity, but part of me thinks i should wait. I am worried about the pain, consequences, and regrets of having sex. But, ...

A.   27 October 2007: if youve got worries in your mind i would say dont go for it. it may hurt you depending on the guy but if your not in a stable relationship i would definetely say no. and at 16 what are you worrying about you've got time to find yourself a decent ... (read in full...)

How can I tell her I love her without ruining our friendship?

Q.   I'm 16, I love a girl but I didn't tell her that because I'm not confident about myself. I'm not so tall and handsome. We're saying to each other that we're just good friends, nothing more. Now I want to build a strong image of myself to her ...

A.   27 October 2007: be around for her, care for her, be kind to her [basic rule but you know still got to say it] ask her out as friends and take the friendship slowly...no one really likes moving too quick. good luck x... (read in full...)

I want to get too know him, but I feel so arkward! Any advice?

Q.   I've been noticing that a guy I met recently has been acting more flirtatious with me. When we speak online, we're fairly familiar with each other, we make jokes, and we're generally flirty with one another. I was afraid that me being in second-year ...

A.   27 October 2007: just be yourself sweetie, if he doesnt like you for yourself then really its his own fault. and this nervousness...not needed at all there shouldnt be any awkwardness between you since your getting to know each other online...in case of emergency ... (read in full...)

How do I avoid losing my friend?

Q.   okay well i have a little problem atm. Im 17 and theres this girl 15 lets call her lucy, who i have known all my life. we have always been so close, and she comes to me when she has a problem and she can also keep me smiling even when im down. and ...

A.   26 October 2007: no offence but i think lucy is the one you really want, it seems that way from what you have written. try explaining to lucy that u still want her around adn you like the affectionate side that she brings. hope this helps sparkii x... (read in full...)

What is the right age to start having sex?

Q.   What age do you think people should start having sex? People i know still havent had sex yet but im not sure if that is better or should you start young? ...

A.   26 October 2007: i wouldnt recommend much before 14 [i did that and it kinda screws you about] but remember that until 16 it is illegal...so it depends. if your in a loving long term relationship, you love tyour boyfriend just wait till the time is right BUT A... (read in full...)

When I date friends and it doesn't work out, I lose them as friends! It makes me wonder, why bother in the first place.

Q.   I thank anyone who responds to my question. My question is why is that you can have someone of the opposite sex as a wonderful friend and after you get involved with them and it does not work out...you lose a friend. I am never able to be friends ...

A.   25 October 2007: okay put it this way people feel different things. and if a person likes someone else in a way that is not reciprocated it can make them feel upset and confused. this is usually why friendships are broken [thats the way i see things anyway] which is ... (read in full...)

Is this such a big deal?

Q.   so a few months ago i was at a party with a bunch of friends, we were celebrating the birthday of another friend. some drinking went on, and one friend really likes to talk while she's tipsy. so she had one on one talks with all of us. i didnt ...

A.   25 October 2007: you do have a right becuase no one should snoop like that. play cold shoulder for a little while if you need to. people should never break trust like that simple as. ... (read in full...)

Why is it that only the ugly guys ask me out?

Q.   hiya xxxxxx im 14 and have like a ginger brown hair and i was wonderin if it puts guys off????? i've only had 2 proper boyfriends should i be gettin worried and start to change my appearence!!!!!! the trouble is boys who i no say i'm pretty and ever...

A.   25 October 2007: okay i ahve ginger red hair too....it doesnt put guys off. it maybe because u are reaching puberty and things are changing for both you and boys aroun you... and maybe give the ugly guys a chance its not all about image let there personality shine ... (read in full...)

Will it hurt?

Q.   Heey, My boyfriend wants to finger me and I'd let him but I'm just worried about how many fingers he can get up :S.. I've fingered myself before and I can only get 1 up and I think he thinks he'll be able to get more up.. Nd if he tries to get ...

A.   24 October 2007: to be blunt bout it...if you can get one..and he tries more than it will probarbly hurt you...remember you are still young and if he loves you then he will be patient...it does take time to get used to it. good luck on whatever you decide ... (read in full...)

Are there any signs that he likes me?

Q.   this boy has recently asked me out. i think he fancies me but are there any obvious signs to look out for to see if he likes me? thnx elle xxx...

A.   23 October 2007: okay hes asked u out so thts an awesome sign...if theres lots of eye contact, touching of arms, if he calls you or messages as soon as you get online. its the little things hope it goes well :D xxx... (read in full...)

First date, can you help me?

Q.   Hello, I am a thirteen year-old christian eigth grader starting to date a 7th grader at my church, I want to date her, and just asked her out, she said yes, but I think I might blow it... Can you help me?...

A.   22 October 2007: okay dont make the first date to formal....jst take her down the beach or bowling or somet... just keep talking, find things that you have in common, its easier if you do things that you both like. good luck sparkii x... (read in full...)

I'm just too scared to ask her out in case she says no!

Q.   I like a girl at school and I want to ask her out, but I'm scared she'll say know. What should I do? P.S. We're sort of friends...

A.   20 October 2007: i would agree with the aunties that have placed answers here...but all i would say in adding to that is trust your instinct on it..and make sure you two really do have a strong bond... good luck x... (read in full...)

My boyfriend is a total goth

Q.   well my boyfriend is a total goth, which is the total opposite of me. But its his personality i am atrracted to. Underneath all that he is a really goodlooking and nice guy! But I don't know what to say in front of him with out feeling that ...

A.   20 October 2007: dont try and be something your not, because that wont help either of you... try and find activities or hobbies that suit both of you..at least that way you have more in common.... (read in full...)

I'm 13, is it OK for me to loose my virginity?

Q.   im 13 is it okay to loose my virginity im not sure can anybody help ?...

A.   14 October 2007: remember its illegal until your sixteen, and by the sounds of it your not ready if u need to ask us, and doubting yourself. i lost mine at fourteen and have regretted it ever since...just think more before you do anything i do think you shouldnt do ... (read in full...)

I think I picked the wrong courses. What to do now?

Q.   dear cupid, I need some help. I am in first year at university and I originally got into a language course last month. I liked this as I enjoy languages however my original first choice was primary teaching. when I got offered this in the second ...

A.   14 October 2007: could you possibly do both? I mean why not compromise and do teaching foreign languages? that way you get the best of both worlds? either that or stick with what you have, you are lucky to get what you did, and if you do really have a problem with ... (read in full...)

I haven't had a period yet. Is this because I masturbate?

Q.   plz someone i need help badley! ok here is is...im 12yrs old and i masterbate... all my friends a skwl hav startd there p.m.t (periods) and i havent yet. is there n e chance that i will never start my periods because i masterbate??? i...

A.   14 October 2007: okay theres no problem with you masturbating...and it doesnt affect your periods, everybody grows at different stages, some get theres quicker than others...dont worry hope this helps x... (read in full...)

I look too young...

Q.   i am 14 5'2 and i look about 12 i hate looking younger i realy want to look my age or older i have been told i am pretty which is nice but all i want to do is look older what make-up can i wear to make me look older (without making me look like a ...

A.   14 October 2007: young people look awesome as in you shouldnt want to look older wen u probarbly look beautiful the way you are. what i would say is the powder...maybe get rid of it? because its only making the teenage skin as you put it worse....i would say use a ... (read in full...)

What do I get my boyfriend for Christmas?

Q.   Hi Im 12 and my bf is 11 ( i know im older than him but its only like 2 months). Anyway, I have no idea what to get him for christams and b day. He supports Spurs, Likes AC/DC and other bands like that. Plz some1 help me. PS: We've been datin...

A.   13 October 2007: whatever u get him will be special, because of it being from you, but try an ACDC [or other] CD, maybe try a ticket to a spurs game [not sure how much these cost so maybe not an option depends on how much u want to spend] or just something ... (read in full...)

I need some birthday present ideas - any suggestions?

Q.   Okay So Here Is The Delio, My Boyfriend And I Are In Love. Sounds Awsome, I Know, We Have Been Going Out For Quite Sometime Now And I Love Him With All My Heart, And He Loves Me The Same. The Thing Is He's Such A Passive Guy And His Birthday Is ...

A.   12 October 2007: Okay just an idea but why dont you put in a card happy birthday and all the rest of it but you take him to somewhere special, like a tourist attraction or something :S then do what you want, its not only about material things but about making it ... (read in full...)

SITE NEWS: Big milestone..... over 300,000 unique visitors over the past month :-)

Q.   Cool... Over the past month, from Sept 8th to Oct 9th we had over 300,000 unique visitors to the site! According to google analytics we had 302,516 visitors. It doesn't seem that long ago I was posting when we had passed 250,000 visitors/month. ...

A.   12 October 2007: congrats andrew...and great job aunts and uncles....youve helped so much :D x... (read in full...)

Hairstyles to look older?

Q.   does anyone no how i can a hairstyle to make myself look older i have mid/long hair with layers but they are grwing out does anyone no what hairstyles i can do to make me look older and can i have make-up ideas please to like what sort to wear and ...

A.   11 October 2007: okay well as we know not much about you its a tad tricky, but i would say if ur blonde, u can pretyt much go for nefink, brunette browns and greens, red heads [ i am one so this works] bright pink or browns. and just wear what you feel comforta... (read in full...)

What am I doing wrong? All I do is homework and there's no school mate who likes me.

Q.   im miserable. its as simple as that. these days i cant see any meaning in life. all i can think about is how horrible i am. im fat, small(ish), ugly, all i do is homework and there's not one girl in the school who can actually say they like me. th...

A.   9 October 2007: try and think on the bright side i no it sounds like a cliche, but try and think of what your good at, or your best feature [because trust me there is something in everyone]. i think then you need to make new friends, if they are undermining you ... (read in full...)

How can I get my mom to trust me?

Q.   ok so my mom wont let me date till 18 and then i sneak off and get a boyfriend and she finds out after i tell her when she asked and she is fine with it until she finds out about his dad.. does drugs and stuff yeah well i dont think the dad has ...

A.   9 October 2007: work hard for a second chace... dont do anything rele bad with ur relationship [i.e go further than you should] until your legal, at least then your mum can tell you are responsible. it silly little things like being home on time, calling when your ... (read in full...)

I'm a geek. What do girls like in teens?

Q.   i was wondering, im a bit of a geek in my school. you know, small, fat, unconfident? im getting better confidence, more people are liking me but i want a girlfriend. i was wondering, what is it you girls like at early teens? how should i get a ...

A.   9 October 2007: get to know girls as friends, and then see what kinda girls you like, just because your a geek doesnt mean that girls dont like you because they probarbly do they just dont like admitting their feelings... hope this helps x... (read in full...)

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