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How can I win her over and make her see it's worth a shot?

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Question - (31 May 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 9 June 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *raciiee writes:

Okay, So i'm bisexual and there is this girl that I really, really like. She's a year older, and we met through friends in college. She's a lesbian, and has said that she likes me too...

But I think I may have blown my chances with her, and I need some help trying to win her back. I've had a thing for her for so long and for the past month we've finally been getting somewhere. However; at the weekend I got stupidly drunk and kissed a guy, I asked her to come pick me up because I didn't want to be near this guy and didn't really want to kiss him, but I have told her. We talked about what happened yesterday, and she says she just doesn't know if she can trust me, but hasn't made it clear what exactly we are as in couple/seeing each other/ potential.

She said she's going to think about it, which is fair enough becuase she's the type of girl that finds it really hard to trust. I just don't what to do, how can I win her over and make her see it's worth a shot?

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A female reader, baybee-x-sparkii United Kingdom +, writes (9 June 2010):

baybee-x-sparkii agony auntHey sweetie,

I guess all you can do at the moment is let her have her say- she's obviously confused after the whole guy incident and has every right to be really. If she does come back just give her the truth, tell her your sorry and work for her trust, it'll take time but you will get there eventually if she really does feel something for you.

Good Luck :)

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