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My Names Jennifer 13 Years Young
I Live in England in enfield =]
With my family
Well most of the time im always reading agony aunts sections in the magazines =] and have a big experience from this!
what makes me tick...well it depends on the situation right?
Im currently single + Not Looking =] Lol x
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I need sex, what do I do
Q. i feel like i am going to die without sex what should i do i am 12...
A. 5 September 2008: Hey Im 13 And My advice is to wait don't go having sex just because you need it yeah everyone feels the need to have sex but were all still young wait for the right time when its LEGAL and you've met the right girl. you dont have to listen t... (read in full...)
The real issues about pupil/teacher relationships?
Q. I have been with dear cupid for a while now, and, i have found that there are quite a few questions about pupil/teacher relationships, I have myself posted a couple. But it never ceases to amaze me. Has anyone got an opinion or story they could ...
A. 1 August 2008: well me being a teen myself
i think its the pupils not the teachers
because in my school we fancy a lot of the teachers
but that doesnt mean that teachers dont fancy the pupils right?... (read in full...)
How can I stop frowning and being so miserable?
Q. Hello, Simply, how can I get a more happy persona and stop being miserable? My childhood wasn't always the happiest (parents divorcing, arguing etc), and I just want to learn how to be happier. People always tell me to stop frowning and sto...
A. 1 August 2008: Aww :) x
well...even though im a teen...i think to make you're self smile and me happy again you should:
1)treat yourself -if you do you'll feel happy..(clothes,shoes ect)
2)go out with friends/family -going out for a drink or shopping tr... (read in full...)
I'm really embarrassed about my nose!
Q. I'm really self conscious about my nose. As soon as I learn to accept it and forget about it, some jerk at school says something mean to me about it that just lowers my self esteem again. I'm 14 and I know that once I'm 18 or older my parents ...
A. 6 July 2008: Your not the only one =]
I hate my nose! its literally one big blob and 2 holes my nose is quite flat and its really bugging me !!!
well dont listen to what other people think about it...cuz you just got live with it until your old enough to ha... (read in full...)
I'm falling for a "bad boy"...
Q. a boy at my school really likes me he is hot and all but he is a bad boy so what can i do to like him and dont fell scerd please help...
A. 6 July 2008: Hey x
You know when you say bad...what type of bad way do you mean? like as in bad in his lessons or in general as in smoking, + taking drugs?
but anyway in a way its good not to get involved with bad boys because they make life much harder... (read in full...)
He was totally hot, telling me he loved me, then a few weeks later, totally cold, and it's over, why?
Q. Have you ever began dating someone who seemed TOO perfect? I met a guy 6 months ago, through his best friend. His best friend fancied me, but the feelings weren't mutual. I actually fancied his friend, and it turned out he liked me back. On...
A. 6 July 2008: Aww x
So he loved you before the surgery more than he loved you after the surgery ok.
Well he said he needs time to rebuild his life so dont put pressure on your-self.
when you think about it; he's just come out of hospital, lost his job d... (read in full...)
No period yet. What can I do?
Q. hi im 14 and i havent stared my perid yet what should i do ...
A. 27 June 2008: The answers easy....Just wait =]
mine started a year ago when i was twelve (now im 13) but remember that you can start as late as 18 so you got plenty of time. oh yh just some little advice enjoy the most of the time that you have not started your... (read in full...)
I am not pleased with my appereance, what can I change to look better?
Q. hey, this a pretty selfish Question,.. but i have no confidence in myself at all.. i am not the prettiest of gurls, like ata ll. ima size 10/12 and like on a scale of 1 - 10, 10 bein the highest , im about a 3 on scale of looks. and that aint me ...
A. 13 April 2008: aww, and know it isnt a selfish question...well to me it isnt. but your question has more to do with self-confidence;
if you dont have it then your gonna need it. because when you think about it its not only looks that boys go for its how you dres... (read in full...)
My mother let my BF live and sleep with me since I was 14, two years later I am pregnant. How to tell her?
Q. how do i tell my mom i am prego at 16, should she already see this coming since my boyfriend lives with us and my boyfriend sleeps with me, does she want me to have a baby since she let him live with me since i was 14...
A. 13 April 2008: Well there was kind of a hint there your mum LET you sleep and live with your bf so how can your mum be suprised if your pregnant? but thats a bad age to get pregnant because you still have schooling to do and university....blah blah blah. but who ... (read in full...)
We broke up because he slept with my sister, but I want him back!
Q. i really need some help, i dont know what to do about the situation im in.. ive being goin out with my boyfriend for over a year now, (16 months) and i adore him! but last night i found out that he has slept with my 13 year old sister!!!!!!! he is ...
A. 13 April 2008: DAMN!
ok so your sister slept with you boyfriend and shes only 13! but when you think about it why would you boyfriend do that? if he really loved you then he would never do that to you. I dont think you should take him back because this is only ... (read in full...)
I'm 13 and going out with a 17 year old virgin.
Q. Hi, first off, I'm going out with a 17 year old boy and I think he's really wanting sex badly. What should I do? Would I get in trouble if we did anything?...
A. 8 April 2008: OMG
can i just ask what the hell are you doing wiht a 17 year old
and duhh you can get into trouble if you do anything
cuz your supposed to be 18 until you can *do* anything
gd luck tho
x... (read in full...)
He wanted me to finger myself, and kept begging me. Is he worth my time or not?
Q. okay so thank you guys for answering my other one, and I have made up my mind about sex. I'm going to wait till I'm older!!!! The problem is he doesn't want to wait, in fact he wanted me to finger myself, and kept begging me. Is he worth my time or ...
A. 8 April 2008: Definately not
If you dont want to do something that you dont want to then he is a waste of your time
If hes begging you that means you obviously dont want to do it
dont make him force you to things that you dont want to do
gd luck
x
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My uncle is sex-pesting me, I don't want to say anything to my family, but what can I do?
Q. Hi, While I was camping a couple of years ago I slept in another camper tent. There are three double beds. My Cousin in one my other cousin in another and next to one of the beds is another one that my aunty and uncle sleep. I slept next to my...
A. 5 April 2008: I do feel sorry for you
but the only thing to do is tell your parents
because this is your choice. if you dont want it to stop then of course dnt do nuffin about it
but in a way this is abuse so maybe calling profesional ppl might he... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants sex but I'm only 12!
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been going out for three months but his sister says he says he wants sex. The problem is i'm only 12! I just turned 12 this month and he's turning 13 in April we love each other so much that i don't know what to do, so i ...
A. 4 April 2008: DO NOT DO IT!
i am 13 and i know how youngstas feel, but are you gonna let this guy just take your precious virginity awayy from you like that?this guy might not have a care in the world about you but just want you not to be a virgin anymore.
if ... (read in full...)
How can I get him back when he wont even tell me why he dumped me?
Q. hey guys i'm 14 and my boyfriend is 16 i want to no how i can win my ex back okay so this may sound a little crazy...but.... Me and my ex had been going out 8months roughly and then he dumped me...the story to it was we were talking on msn a...
A. 4 April 2008: Ok.
Now the 1st thing that you need to start doing is thinking how you can get him back.
Easy-Confront him, well its not like your gonna get your hopes up by talkin to him on msn or the phone.
But the way your saying this im not sure but it ... (read in full...)
I feel as if I'm addicted to stealing money from my parents...
Q. Dear Agony Aunts, I find myself stealing money from my parents now and again, like £20 at a time. I really want to stop, but I can't. I feel as if I'm addicted. HELP!...
A. 18 February 2008: hey, well this a problem you're going to have to face your parents at some point, but im kinda sure that you got a reason for stealing money of your parents. possibly it could be your parents arent giving you enough pocket money? or there's somethin... (read in full...)
Is it illegal?
Q. Is it illegal for an 18 year old male and a 15 year old female to be together even if they're not having sex or is it only illegal if they are having sex?...
A. 18 February 2008: it would only be illegal if you WERE having sex but if your not then everythings fine hunni gd luckxx... (read in full...)
Should I give my teacher a valentines day card?
Q. Hi i fancy my teacher, should i give him a valentines day card or would that just weird him out? help.......
A. 16 February 2008: well its up 2 you really init, but i wouldnt even go that path, he might think that your trying something with him. maybe if you just write hapy valentines day then thats fine but if you buy one with lots of love wrting that will freak him out ... (read in full...)
Is this rape? Should I forgive him?
Q. I met this guy 8 years ago, I was madly in love with him however, it turned out he was gay! it took me a couple of years to get over him. I have then moved on with my life and moved into a differnt province. I lost touch with him about 5 years ago. ...
A. 19 January 2008: I so feel sorry for you, he took advantage of you and dont think about him. and yes he did kinda rape you or would have phoned for help when you blacked out. forget about him, cuz you know you cant trust him...... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is smarter, what should I do?
Q. my girlfriend is smarter then me what should i do...
A. 12 January 2008: lool, you make me laugh your only 10-12 and this girl wants to get good grades thats why she's smarter. just dont do anything eg. trying harder to be smarter than her or she might notice. but you want to go on revision sites, reading books, extra ... (read in full...)
She was taken aback when I revealed I was a transgender. Is it possible she still have feelings for me?
Q. I really dont know where to start. About 2 years ago. I met the love of my life online, i told her i was man. We talked almost everyday, and emailed each other everyday. I never knew what was love was till she came into my life. A year and a half ...
A. 12 January 2008: yh you should move on, the news was quite unexpected for her. i mean who wouldnt react that way. i think that the person who you will go out with will be the person that doesnt mind you being a transexual and if you have trouble with that why not ... (read in full...)
He says we cannot share a relationship as he does not have a cell phone - to be able to maintain contact. Should I stay away?
Q. I lost my virginity to this guy a few months ago. Since then we talk. I want a relationship but he doesn't. He says he likes me, but it would be hard to be in a relationship because he doesn't have a cell phone and it wouldn't be fair to me ...
A. 12 January 2008: can't you see it, he doesnt want you. what kind of guy would say "can you wait until schools over". well i mean if you can wait for another 5 months or so go ahead but you know, he's taken you virginity and that's what he probably wanted. if he ... (read in full...)
According to his rules, he's allowed to sleep with other girls, but I cannot sleep with other guys. If I went along with his idea what does this say about me?
Q. My ex and I have been seeing each other for awhile now. I REALLY like him, maybe even love him. He has said that he cares about me a lot, more than any other girl. We're not committed to each other although I do have deep feelings for him and I ...
A. 12 January 2008: Leave, get out whatever, that is not the kind of person you should be going out with. why should he need to sleep with other people for "experience". his experience should be with you only and not anyone else if you 2 are going out. in a way i ... (read in full...)
Recently became pregnant, I have an hot-cold relationship with a man I do not love, should I keep the baby? I'm 35.
Q. I have recently found out Im pregnant. I have been in an on off relationship with this man for a year. I am 35 this month and do not have any children. I do not love him and dont know what to do. I cant do it by myself? If I terminate the ...
A. 12 January 2008: "Keep it, keep it". you should keep it cuz u said you've never had a baby before and here's your chance. i really think you shouldnt terminate because your throwing away someones chances of life. think how much fun you'd have, you the baby. But at ... (read in full...)
Why can't I get a boyfriend?
Q. I have never had a boyfriend. Last year i asked out a guy that i liked and he said no. Ever since i have not been able to talk with boys face to face. The guy that i liked a month ago (i liked him for about a year) found out that i liked him and we ...
A. 9 January 2008: like every1 sed ur trying way hard, relax a lil but dont ask a boy out let them ask you out other wise it make it look desperate so get a new look like the laura sed, relax and the love fling happen on its own... (read in full...)
My soon-to-be wife has unrespectful teenage children. The situation straightens for only a few days every time I try to correct it.
Q. I need some advise from anyone who will provide so that its coming from others besides me. My question is.... My soon to be wife has two children. They talk to her with no respect..they yell at her...backtalk, and if she tells them no, they question ...
A. 9 January 2008: The only reason why they are like this cuz they proabably grew up with being spoilt so they have learned to use it to get pretty much what the want. But do you really think that grounding them off the computer is going to help them? no the ... (read in full...)
Should I stick by my Boyfriend, after his Behaviour.
Q. I was at a party with my boyfriend. He got drunk and then told me to 'shut up' when i was talking to him! I was shocked and horrified. His best friend heard him and told him to apologise to me. I felt really hurt that my boyfriend would do such a ...
A. 9 January 2008: you think....you should break up with him. that is so like no excuse to get drunk and kiss a girl while you where there. what kind of boyfriend duz that...one not like him. and if he tried the *im sorry but i was drunk* thing then just dump him then ... (read in full...)
My ex is making my life a misery, he scares and intimidates me
Q. My ex scares me. He seems to think he can do and say whatever he feels and that it is perfectly OK to change his mind at the drop of a hat. Last year he dumped his new girlfriend for a renewed chance with me and our son. Promised me the ...
A. 9 January 2008: ok i might be really young to answer this (12) but i think he is a human threat to the u and if u dont do anything about it, no-one else is so u need action to be taken ahead. also you have to be strong- you AND your son because if you keep thinking ... (read in full...)
Is it ok to date my step-brother??
Q. i really like my step brother we are not blood releated just his mum got married to my dad do you think it is okay to date him?...
A. 6 January 2008: well, its up 2 u really init. its not illegal but it will or can cause confusion later on with ur mum and stepdad... (read in full...)
My Mom's so selfish, I can't take it anymore
Q. i hate my mum. she so selfish i hate her. she is so horrible to me all the time. i am very depressed, and i have been for about 4 years, but all she ever thinks about is herself, i used to self harm, i got very drunk before school because i was so...
A. 3 January 2008: Aww your life seems pretty messed up and im sorry to hear this. Like other people have said alcohol doesnt do anything good, it make you feel worse, so i advice you to stop drinking it.
Also what you have said doesnt sound like you have anyone t... (read in full...)
I lost my virginity last week - could I be pregnant?
Q. I lost my virginity last week and at one point my boyfriend entered me without a condom but only for about 15 seconds, he also came near my vagina but I dont think any wennt on it... now my breasts are starting to feel sore and I 'feel' pregnant, I ...
A. 3 January 2008: well what are you wating for go and get a pregnancy test. ... (read in full...)
Did this paedophile take my virginity?
Q. Well i've been with this man for 13 months, he's 22.. i think. im not goin to tell u how old i am but im not younger than 13. i always go to his house. we dont have PROPER sex.. we just like rub against each other, but we're naked.. you might tink ...
A. 1 January 2008: this is weird, but why would you let some guy do this to you. you should see a doctor and get tests but im telling you if he did take your viginity it would kinda be your own fault and not anyone else, you probably know its wrong but you havent said ... (read in full...)
My mother does not let me see this boy because "the apple doesn't go far from the tree" (she dislikes his father.) Suggestions?
Q. dear cupid, theres a boy that i love very much but my parents will not let me see him outside of school and its really taking a toll on our relationship. they wont let me see him because he has a father (in which he never sees) that my mother d...
A. 1 January 2008: well what do i say you under 12 and talkiing about a relationship... i dont really blame your mum but if she doesnt want you to meet up with this guy she means it. she might not want to let you go to far with things, i mean you 10-12 maybe when your ... (read in full...)
16, attracted to a 12 year old. Is this wierd?
Q. I'm a 16 year old male. Yesterday evening I was at a party with my family, a girl was also there with her family..I couldn't take my eyes off her, I felt extremely attracted to her...and I'm fairly sure she liked me too. Problem is...she can't have ...
A. 1 January 2008: she could get scared and think your a pervet, if you think about it ok if u was 25 and she was 21 dont you think but 12 and 16 no out of the subject! you have to find someone near your own age so you dont cause confusion anyway what would the 12 ... (read in full...)
I'm 14 and in love with a 30 year old and don't know what to do
Q. I'm in love with a guy who is 30 im 14 I really love him he isnt married but he has a girlfriend with a 5 yr old son I loveee his son to death his girl I wish she would drop dead hes my cuzins friend I'm always at my cousins house seeing him he ...
A. 1 January 2008: i totally understand your situation but do you think that if you managed to have sex with this 30 year old man you would be happy, and how can you want his gf to just drop down dead thats a little mean maybe its just thoughts about this guy you want ... (read in full...)
My Mom snoops when I'm on the internet, I find her lack of trust very irritating, how do I get her to stop?
Q. hi i am 14 and in year 10 and my mom keeps on being nosy about what i do on the internet.i am not doing anything bad or wrong all i do is go on msn and myspace maybe play on games. she clearly thinks i am up to somthing which is wrong she always a...
A. 1 January 2008: hey im 12 and my mum is starting to check what i do on the computer, i no it seems annoying but the internet can kind of get you into a lot of trouble. for instance there are perverts on the internet on chatlines and u dont want any problems but ... (read in full...)
Me and my neice are in love and I don't know what to do, would it be ok to date her?
Q. me and my neice are in love and i dont know what to do shes alot younger than me. i look after her quite alot and she flirts with me alot and on purpose does things so i get glimpses of her body by bending over infront of me so i can see down her ...
A. 28 December 2007: nope. thats all i have to say i know you all in love with your niece but if you want your family to keep close contact then i advice u to stay away from her as in not being in love with her, theres plenty girls in this wolrd other than your niece. ... (read in full...)
I'm 12 and upset that there are so many in my grade that are already having sex. I'm worried about everyone and I didn't think I would have this drama till high school. What should I do?
Q. I'll try to make this short. Ok, i'm worried and kinda just upset. i'm 12 in 7th grade and I already know about 8 people in my grade who have had sex and gotten drunk. One of them used to be a good friend of mine who actually lost their virginity ...
A. 28 December 2007: Its so good that your thinking this way but there isnt really anything you can do. those people having sex at a young age are only having sex because everyone else, some of them have sex because they think they are grown up, and some of them do it ... (read in full...)
Happy Xmas from DearCupid
Q. Happy Xmas everyone :-) The aunts who share their wisdom, the people who share their questions and the team of moderators who keep everything flowing onto the site! Plus the 350,000 people who visit each month Have a great Xmas! Feel free t...
A. 28 December 2007: MERRY XMAS AND A HAPPY NEW YEAR- i hope all of you have a fun xmas and also i hope you all have a healthy and happy new year. ps- thanks andrew for making this site so brilliant. xxxgd luck 4 the new year... (read in full...)
Am I wrong in thinking there is more to this??
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for five years. We recently moved in together after 2 years in a long distance relationship. I'll get straight to the point. I found some pictures of this girl in his phone and asked him who she was. He told me ...
A. 25 December 2007: well im supporting you, because if your boyfriend was open he would have told you about his ' best friend' all the time, also it isnt wrong to look up someone on myspace, but the fishy part of the story is why did she not accept you friend request, ... (read in full...)
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