I need to become more organized! Does anybody have any organization tips?
Q. Can somebody please tell me how I can get better organized?? I'm in for a terrible evening. My parents are always telling me that I need to get much better at organizing myself, and tonight I may have messed up big time! Tomorrow I'm suppose to g...
A. 20 February 2008: glad it worked for you in the end :D... (read in full...)
My sister gets away with everything and has no responsibilities and it makes me so mad!
Q. right well this isnt a relationship question but i am desperate for some help, you see i am 15, i will be 16 in may, im due to sit exams already sat some and tonns and tonns of coursework that needs doing as most teens about to leave school do. ...
A. 19 February 2008: i think you need to talk to your mum first babe, work out some kind of routine with her you and your sister. its obvious that there is some favouritism going on?
some kind of rota would make things easier that way you all do equal jobs between ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is making me do things and I am not confortable with it
Q. ive just got in to a relationship with someone that made me do things i wasnt sure i wanted to do. he is 16 im 12 almost 13 i cant tell my mum or dad i still love him and want to be with him but i dont know how to say can we slow down beacuse ...
A. 19 February 2008: you shouldnt have to put up with this babe, i really do suggest you leave him otherwise you will end up getting hurt. it sounds like he needs to get some help too...
email me if u want anymore help
sparkii xxxx... (read in full...)
I need to become more organized! Does anybody have any organization tips?
Q. Can somebody please tell me how I can get better organized?? I'm in for a terrible evening. My parents are always telling me that I need to get much better at organizing myself, and tonight I may have messed up big time! Tomorrow I'm suppose to g...
A. 19 February 2008: okay organization something im not too bad at...
small piles...work related friends related. folders in your inbox for work friends and just pure junk. keep tabs on everything sticky notes are one of my best friends simply because i forget ever... (read in full...)
I like this boy, but am having trouble getting a relationship started
Q. i am 13 and i fancie this boy loads and i know he fancies me. i told him I liked him, but since then we havent talked and when i tried asking him out his grandad died. on valentines day, when i knocked on his door he was gone. i really like him what ...
A. 18 February 2008: give him time, hes prob grieving, get to know him slowly and see how he reacts
if you need anymore help
email me
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I can't really tell if he likes me
Q. So there is this guy at my school, who I only met once. My friend introduced us (just as friends)..she does it often. But with him, It was way different. She was not only introducing me, but a couple friends as well. When she said my name, He ...
A. 18 February 2008: sounds like he likes you :D go for it...just try be more communicative...say hi in the corridor, just a smile can do it :D get his msn or mobile number and get to know each other (y)
good luck-x... (read in full...)
Help from the Ladies - Why can't I get cleavage with a B-cup?
Q. I can't get cleavage even though I'm a B-cup! Okay, my left breast is full B and my right breast is about an inch smaller, a small B. Is this why I can't wear a bra or low cut blouse and get cleavage? I also have a fairly wide shoulder span...
A. 15 February 2008: im 15 and a 32b...i have the same problem...but what i find is try putting bras on the last hook or wear padding...it works most of the time depending on the bra
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Site News: We hit another milestone :-)
Q. For the first time we broke the 400,000 visitors mark over the past month! We had 412,222 people visit the site from Jan 13th 08 - Feb 14th 08 according to google analytics! Thanks to all the mods, the aunts and everyone who shares their pro...
A. 13 February 2008: Nice One Andrew :D... (read in full...)
We have a date for the cinema! How should I behave?
Q. Hey guys! Right well i've been txtin a girl for a while! And decided to tell her i liked her last night and see how she felt about me! She said she liked me aswell and thanked me for bein straight with her. :) So we're goin to the cinema on frida...
A. 12 February 2008: put ur arm round her and see how she reacts. take it from there afterwards.
and to the second part of your question: spontaneous approach
sparkii x... (read in full...)
Confused about my two online friends.
Q. I have two friends that i met online,the other one is in Europe while the other one China,but the one in Europe has helped me alot. He later stoped calling me,it was the one that is in China that is calling me,and i have started loveing the one that...
A. 12 February 2008: see how you and the guy from china are. then make decisions based on that... (read in full...)
I'm falling in love with my best friends boyfriend.
Q. Okay, Ive been best friends with my friend Chris for like 4 years. He got into a relationship with another guy (were both gay) and Im falling for my best friends boyfriend... what am i supposed to do? Im Gay, Chris is Gay, and Chris' boyfriend is ...
A. 11 February 2008: how is he round you? cause if you fancy him and hes with your best friend it wouldnt be the best idea to steal him away, you'll lose your friend and theres no gurantee the friends bf would stay.
sorry to be so rash... (read in full...)
How can I bring pads without her knowing?
Q. I got my first period 2 months ago and still didn't tell my mom because she goes and tell everyone which I hate but I am going on vaction with my family next week and I am due for my period while we are gone. How do I bring pads witout her knowing?...
A. 10 February 2008: i think you should tell her. she shouldnt tell anyone coz thats just embarrassing but if she does then you have the right to be at least slightly annoyed. she will find out. mine did. it didnt take long
erm but if you rele want to go without ... (read in full...)
Should I try to find him to see what happens?
Q. kay, so when I was in eight grade I fell in love with my l.a. teacher's son...I mean seriously fell in love...but It never really crossed my mind that he might like me back but now that I think back on it I realize that maybe he did likw me back and ...
A. 10 February 2008: do you know where he is now? id try and get his msn or something.catch up on old times and get to know each other again. take it from there and see whether there is still something there.
surely a friend would have his msn or mobile number?... (read in full...)
I'm on the pill but my period has showed no signs of stopping...is this normal??
Q. Hey Aunts, Ive been put on the pill and started it on the first day of my periods last month, ive been on the pill for 3 weeks and my period still hasnt stopped and shows no signs of stopping. Is this normal?...
A. 9 February 2008: i was on that and it screwed up quite a bit.
i would say finish your course and talk to your doctor
sparkii x... (read in full...)
Looks V Personality, which do girls prefer??
Q. What do girls mostly like personality of the lad or the looks ?...
A. 9 February 2008: personality then looks
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I'm on the pill but my period has showed no signs of stopping...is this normal??
Q. Hey Aunts, Ive been put on the pill and started it on the first day of my periods last month, ive been on the pill for 3 weeks and my period still hasnt stopped and shows no signs of stopping. Is this normal?...
A. 8 February 2008: what pill have you got?
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Is what my school did, illegal?
Q. hi, this isn't anything about sex relationships etc but my school has given out my personnal details to someone including my phone number and I believe this is illegal is it?...
A. 8 February 2008: your information is meant to be confidential. unless this was a medical record for a trip or something. i think they had no right to do that.... (read in full...)
Anyone know of any good websites to go to for fashion advice?
Q. I like to stay fashionable. Im 15 and from Manchester, UK. Does anyone know any websites which are up to date with fashion and give ideas of what to wear, what not to wear sort of thing? Thanks...
A. 7 February 2008: okay well most clothes websites will give you fashion ideas of what to wear tht flatters your shape. however there are girl only websites which will give you fashion, forums along with other information. the only one i can think of off the top of my ... (read in full...)
I snogged a boy but now he is telling everyone I wasnt good. Well, he wasnt good either!
Q. Im 13 and i snogged this boy some time ago and even though i hadn't ever done it before i could tell he wasn't very good but i didn't say anything, and becuase it was my first time i wasn't very good either and now he has started to spread it and i ...
A. 7 February 2008: fire it straight back at him "if he thinks im bad he should think about himself" kind of thing. either that or just ignore him
two options for you there
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Ginger hair questions
Q. I have a few ginger hair problems. i hang around with two other ginger kids at school, and both of their eyebrows are blond, but mine are brown, and im in the process of growing my hair long, but i dont no weather to get blond highlights or no...
A. 7 February 2008: okay im ginger, mine are more brown than blonde. i also have blonde highlights and they reacted well with my hair i dont no what shade of ginger you have so wouldn't be able to recommend much. it is normal to have ginger hair and brown eyebrows. its ... (read in full...)
My period is irregular. Why?
Q. Ok so you already know that every woman has a period every month....but sometimes mine skips a month, sometimes 3 at a time. I'm not pregnant, so I was wondering if it had to do with changing of eating habits or what?...
A. 7 February 2008: your eating habits can affect your period. it seems unlikely that you could be pregnant. however this may be down to stress? has something happened in the last few months that has affected you more than you expected? coz this can change the hormones ... (read in full...)
Porn is somewhat ruining our relationship, as he enjoys watching it whereas I think it's a sin! How to convince him?...
Q. Hi, I have a boyfriend who likes to watch girl on girl porn, but unlike him I hate it, it's wrong and version of porn and I know it's a sin. How do I help him understand how I feel about it and why it's so wrong because he seems to think it's per...
A. 6 February 2008: why dont you try and find a compromise...maybe try and persuade him not to watch it so much...or try and find him another porn he may like....
hope this helps
sparkii x... (read in full...)
I want to tell her I like her - but how?
Q. I text a freind of mine that she looked very pretty today. But in the same text I talked bout some work so I didn't text her just to tell her was pretty. I added bit of humour as well. I'm really worried now what she will react like in school. ...
A. 31 January 2008: okay any girl likes compliments [they may act like they don't but if you see a smile then you've hit it good]. she may just be trying to work out how she feels. it wasn't a bad idea it may have been not what she expected though. give her tonight to ... (read in full...)
I am still not comfortable with anyone touching me or any sexual contact after a teacher's harassement! What to do to get past this?
Q. Hi, i'm 13 and when i was 12 there were about 6 or 7 boys who liked me and kept asking if i'd wanted to go out with or sometimes they asked if i would be their girlfriend but everytime i refused cause i wasn't ready for that kind of thing, at times ...
A. 31 January 2008: congratulations for getting through all that! i can definetely see why you are a bit fearful at the moment! does the boy know the situation about boys touching you? if not i would recommend you tell him so he understands, and this may increase your ... (read in full...)
Caught in an online love-triangle.
Q. I'm in a bit of a love triangle...See i am already in a relationship with a guy (online but i've met him, its an LDR) and its been around two years now. It was heavenly when we started out but i feel its fading away now. I still do love him though ...
A. 29 January 2008: take things slowly with both of them. try to work out where u stand with the first [your boyfriend] and then with the online guy. once you know where you stand you can in theory make a decision from there
good luck
Sparkii x... (read in full...)
How can I stop the gossip about me and my crush?
Q. I really like a guy from school and a few days ago i texted him that i like him and explained who iam. he doesn't know me so he couldn't understand,but a few of his friends know me.yesterday he saw me but he didn't say anything to me.the problem is ...
A. 29 January 2008: trust me it will blow over in a few days maybe not even that, there will be some person thats spread something thats "way more important" just ignore it
it will blow over
sparkii x... (read in full...)
Need help! Should I tell her I like or just forget her?
Q. I really really liked this girl who i would hang out with in the summer. I know for a fact that my friend liked her too... i didn't really say anything to her and now wont see her anymore but i could get her e-mail. I first tried to forget about her ...
A. 26 January 2008: is this different schools or something? if so i would recommend getting her email address [although if getting it from your friend be gentle about it] and just get to know her, find some common ground and work on it.
going to her house can seem... (read in full...)
Can birth control pills impede breast development
Q. Hiya i'm 16. Kind of an embarrassing question but would the pill have stopped my breats from growing. I'm not very big, a 32A and although they aren't totally flat theres nothing on top so they r moe pointy. Thing is i was on the pill at the age of ...
A. 26 January 2008: well some people say that your breasts grow when your on the pill not stop. it may run in your family[ i dont know as i dont know your family] but if you give it time and see what happens would be the best thing
good luck
sparkii x... (read in full...)
NI number criteria
Q. Can I apply for an NI number before Im 16? Im 15 next month can I apply for one because my auntie is trying to get me a job at hers...
A. 26 January 2008: I was under the impression that you got one automatically at 16...but I may be wrong. Erm where does she work...is it a number one priority?
Sparkii
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What to buy for my valentine
Q. Omg... Valentines Day Soon.... I need help on what to get my bofriend. I am 14 so is he. We have been together for 5 Months now. He is a 'gangster' type of lad, rugby type build, listens to drum and bass, graffiti pictures, draws cars.. get the i...
A. 26 January 2008: okay well if he likes drum and bass..theres gig tickets surely? and if graffiti pictures and cars are his kind of thing then why not framed pictures? just a few ideas hope this helps Sparkii x... (read in full...)
Should I go out with him and endure rumours and gossip?
Q. I don't want to do the wrong thing but I don't know what's worng and what's right. Well,about a couple hours ago at school one of my friends that's a grade lower than me asked me out. The relationship between me and him is: He's my cute,sweet,lit...
A. 25 January 2008: so hes a year younger than you? does this really make a difference, everybody has different preferences in their men and deciding because of silly people who will spread a few rumours is not that good. its obvious from what you have said that you ... (read in full...)
I am 19 and surrounded by women I feel I can't communicate with.
Q. I need help, i am a 19 year old guy who has problems approaching women. I am a pretty good looking guy but i just can't build up the nerve to do it. I plan on what i will do then i chicken out. I am in college and surrounded by women that i f...
A. 25 January 2008: don't plan! i know quite a few men that like to plan everything and life is just too simple and rehearsed when planning be spontaneous!! :D if your in a bar just say can i get you a drink or something. a simple hi can be the start of a great ... (read in full...)
I dream about him and think about him all the time...is this just a crush or something more??
Q. hiya, is this just a crush that will go away or is there something more? About 3 months ago i had this dream that me and this nice lad(nice as in sweet, kind etc not fit) were just in the hall of our school and even though we were only friends ...
A. 25 January 2008: crushes unless usually acted upon will eventually go away, try talking to him and getting to know him as you seem like you two have a slight communication issue at the moment. try doing something that takes your mind off him [a new hobby for ... (read in full...)
They wont listen to me about my options at school. What can I do?
Q. I Am Close To Choosing my options in school - 3 lessons that are decided on what i want to do when i am older - but my mum keeps trying to change my options. she also said that i wont be able to do a game designer course at university - wich is what ...
A. 25 January 2008: okay depending on your school if you have this policy im not sure...but when i took my options i was given a three week almost trial period to try things out. and if this idea isn't working for you, well try a compromise surely there is a way around ... (read in full...)
Girls that like me I don't want and ones that I do just want to be friends...what should I do??
Q. I'm 15 and i've yet to have a girlfriend.My friend told me its because i aim to high.But just can't see myself dating someone i don't really like. People consider me good looking and girls that i'm not interested in are into me then i meet a girl t...
A. 25 January 2008: if your friend is right then try to bring your "standards" back down, nobody is perfect.
try different clubs and activities and get to know the girls you like better...maybe they will see a different side to you that they really like
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Is this girl jealous of me?
Q. Is She Jealous? This girl at my school in high school keeps calling me a slut i am a virgin and all but she conitues to call me a slut now like in jr.high and i am really sick and tired of it. I know I'm not a slut but what do i do about this gi...
A. 24 January 2008: if you beat her up your going down to her level, which to be honest is a bit pointless, ignore her and she'll get bored.
you know the truth
she isn't worth it
Sparkii x... (read in full...)
How do you take a pregnancy test?
Q. This sounds totally stupid, but how do you take a pregnancy test? I'm just curious, and feel so embarrassed that I don't know. Do you pee on it?...
A. 15 January 2008: yes you do and then wait for a certain amount of time and then u follow the rules about the lines [so blue if ur pregnant and white if your not for example]... (read in full...)
My boyfriend left hickeys on my body, that cannot be camouflaged!
Q. Ok heres the thing my bf left 14 hickeys on diffrent parts of my body and all can not be covered and i don't know what to do please help ...
A. 12 January 2008: concealer? foundation???
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Why do so few women masturbate?
Q. OK, so I know the question I'm going to ask doesn't apply to all women but... Why do so few women masturbate? I was doing an interveiw on facebook, and with each new question it shows you the answer given by the last 10 participants. The que...
A. 10 January 2008: we had one of those done by one of my friends....there were a few of us who were ashamed to admit it... its not a big thing...most people do theyre just ashamed...
and why facebook anyway?... (read in full...)
Every time we try to have sex it hurts her so I stop. What can be done?
Q. This isn't funny. It's true. I'm experienced, she's a virgin. We have 5 years between us and we are in our twenties.2 years together. I'm an average guy, it's just everytime she said it was hurting her I backed off. I want to have sex ...
A. 8 January 2008: if your at the oldest 12..and its hurting her then she obviously isnt ready. give it time
i dont think you should realy be having sex at teh age of 12 to be honest
[sorry if your not 12 and old enough :S]... (read in full...)
I invited him "as friends" to a dance, but in reality I fancy him. Now that he accepted, how do I save this experience from awkwardness?
Q. I need help! I asked this boy that I like to a semi-formal dance, and I asked him "as friends" but I actually fancy him (he said yes by the way) What are some suggestions for conversation topics and general behaviour? Also, how do I make this ...
A. 8 January 2008: well im glad he said yes for a start =] just talk about things you would normally... and general behaviour just act as normal im guessing this is really quite a big thing but just try to relax...and how not to make the experience awkward? just enjoy ... (read in full...)
Is it ok to wait til your 18 to lose your virginity or do anything sexual?
Q. is it ok to wait til your 18 or so or at uni to lose your virginity or do anything sexual (other than kissing)? p.s i live in uk where everyone has sex before 16 [rolls eyes] id like everyones personal oipinions please, also not "don't be press...
A. 7 January 2008: its when people think they are ready there is no certain time where you HAVE to have sex...although i would recommend waiting until you are legal if you were considering it.
Some people find that they regret having it young and not waiting for a pr... (read in full...)
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