Is it wrong to love your step-sister?
Q. So since we all went out as a family me and her keep talking on msn frequency and i enjoy the time with her i get shy when i'm up her house and now she's gone on holiday for two weeks it seems the two weeks are taking forever and I really miss her ...
A. 2 September 2008: Then it's up to you. Do you think you could keep a thing like thids quiet?... (read in full...)
What are some methods of emergency contraception?!
Q. dear friends! I have a huge problem! Had unprotected sex with my girlfriend yesterday. Usually we do the pull out method, however I believe that didn't work. We're afraid she could be pregnant, and we are really worried. Are there any other ...
A. 1 September 2008: No, the morning-after pill is your best bet. If this was only yesterday, then you have 48 hours to take it. It costs around £22 at most pharmacy's and has a 99% effect rate within the first 24 hours, however decreases the longer you leave it within ... (read in full...)
What can I do, if anything, to make my periods lighter?
Q. hi, my periods a re really heavy, is there anything i can do to make them lighter? ...
A. 1 September 2008: Unfortunately no. But some girls make an appointment with their doctor, of which results to them being put on the pill which can sometimes make a difference. I advise you see your doctor for aid.... (read in full...)
Getting kicked in the balls - worse than rape?!
Q. K so on youtube today there was a guy who was convinced that getting kicked in the balls is worse (in both pain and adverse side effects) someone getting raped.. I dunno I just thought it's be interesting to get some opinions on this Also, ho...
A. 1 September 2008: I wholeheartedly agree with Answer5Anom - just below! As for the subject, what's there to be discuss!? They are two entirely different scenarios, neither can be compared to the other.... (read in full...)
My husband is in prison, and I am having enjoyable sex with another man, who wants me to make a decision, I don't want to leave my marriage, but should I continue to have sex with this man?
Q. THis guy has been flirting with me for awhile, then he started asking me out. I told him no that i'm married. He said he knew that. ANd he wasnt meaning anything by it. So after a couple more of him asking i finally said yes. After about 4 times ...
A. 1 September 2008: Having to live without your partner must be difficult - but he IS coming back. You're married for goodness sake! You love your husband, not this other man whom you're sleeping with. Make a decision now. It is neither fair on the man you are sleeping ... (read in full...)
Years after our marriage I find out he's my half-brother!
Q. What would you do if you met a guy started going out with him than years later you got married to him and found out that you had the same dad....... What would you do? stay together? seperate? or see each other as brother and sister? ...
A. 1 September 2008: The misunderstanding over how everyone (quite innocently) assumed the poster was involved in the scenario she spoke about was rather amusing! I suggested you make the post more clear next time :).... (read in full...)
How can I overcome this terrible paranoia?
Q. I need some help... I have a boyfriend who i am very much in love with... But i have a big problem and thats that I get really paranoid about absolutely everything! The thing is i dont he would cheat, like now im writing this but im aski...
A. 1 September 2008: By thinking the worst, you are giving him reason to commit the worst. You're young, just chill out. Take everything as it comes, by stride. You're very young to commit to a marriage! Of which, I don't think would last when you're in the paranoid ... (read in full...)
We really like each other but people hate the thought of us being together, so what do we do?
Q. I split with my partner of 10 years around 6 wks back. I have been chatting to someone who my partner went to school with. People started rumours that we were seeing each other which wasnt true. Since then me and this guy have met and have had ...
A. 1 September 2008: Well good luck to you. Good choice.... (read in full...)
Consequences of smoking pot?
Q. I'm happy with everything in my life, I love my boy heaps. We both work full time, and we smoke pot... is this affecting us in our personality? We only smoke after work......
A. 1 September 2008: In ways I do agree with Tellulah. I suppose it is difficult and seen as more harmful when you have to watch someone hooked on it. However, marijuana is not addictive. Although, can be mentally. However, that is SO much more easier to overcome than... (read in full...)
Could I be pregnant? I'm a day late?!
Q. ok...my question is i'm wondering could i be pregnant, the last time i had sex was on aug.8 and we used protection, and on aug.14 i went and had my first pap smear so i could birth control pills, and i was tested for pregnancy..etc..everything was ...
A. 1 September 2008: You've had a lot of tests that have resulted negative. So don't worry - you've taken a lot of care over this. Your period may have just come naturally late. Give it a further week then make an appointment to see your doctor.... (read in full...)
I'm hiding the fact that I like male-on-male porn from my girlfriend and I'm feeling disgusted by myself. How do I solve this?
Q. I'm 25 years old and live with my girlfriend who's 23. In the past few months I've started becoming addicted to pornography, and have much self-hatred because of it. I've bought a lot of male-on-male porno and had to hide it somewhere in our hous...
A. 1 September 2008: I don't quite understand why you associate male-on-male porn with cheating - as you put them in the same sentace. You are guiltridden over something that is perfectly normal, and even healthy!
Don't feel so bad about it. If anything it's just a t... (read in full...)
Consequences of smoking pot?
Q. I'm happy with everything in my life, I love my boy heaps. We both work full time, and we smoke pot... is this affecting us in our personality? We only smoke after work......
A. 1 September 2008: Marijuana is not an addictive drug. As you will know it calms you and relaxes you in to a state where usually un-funny things become hilarious! No one has ever died from overdosing on marijuana. The only time someone has died from it as a cause, was ... (read in full...)
I want to masturbate my boyfriend but what should I do with the seminal fluid?
Q. i want to jerk my boyfriend off but what do you do with all the cum...
A. 1 September 2008: If you were to give your boyfriend a handjob, (without a condom) you would simply let his cum flow down your hands. Afterwards, you clean up with tissues/flannel/warm water etc.
It's a very intimate act, hence you should think carefully about it... (read in full...)
My husband offends me for even talking to a guy! He does not realise he is being disrespectful!
Q. I am 27 years old and have been married about 5 years. I am very torn as to what to do about my marriage. (We have a 5 year old son) My husband has been very irrational about things lately. He calls me a w____, little girl, b____....etc when I do ...
A. 1 September 2008: Your husband needs to step in to this century and realise women are no longer beneath him, that they are no longer less than persons who can be done with as he pleases. He is being entirely unfair and cruel towards you. I do hope you'll give him a ... (read in full...)
Do people think that 25 years is too big an age gap?
Q. do people think that 25 years is too big an age gap? I am engaged to my boyfriend who is 25 years older than myself. My only problem is my mother does not approve. I just want to see what other people think as I would like to be able to see it from ...
A. 1 September 2008: Me and my partner have a 23 year age gap, and we work just fine. As I am sure you and your partner do. If you are in love, does anyone else matter? Although, I can see the difficulty - especially when it's your mother's opinion. They are, important ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants sex but I'm only 12!
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been going out for three months but his sister says he says he wants sex. The problem is i'm only 12! I just turned 12 this month and he's turning 13 in April we love each other so much that i don't know what to do, so i ...
A. 1 September 2008: Alongside the advice of the other Aunts and Uncles over how you are very young, stay with your gut instinct etc. You never actually heard this from his mouth.... (read in full...)
I made up a girl and now he loves her and not me!
Q. I made a fake account and the guy that I really like started talking to her.. or me?. But now i don't know what to do because he's falling inlove with the fake girl that I made. I dont know why he likes the fake girl. The picture that I chose was an ...
A. 1 September 2008: "Tellulah" is exactly right. This was a learning curve you, that actually has come back to bite you on the bum. I agree with "G" when said that people find it a lot more comfortable to be hidden by a disguise. But just think, there are LOTS o... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to love your step-sister?
Q. So since we all went out as a family me and her keep talking on msn frequency and i enjoy the time with her i get shy when i'm up her house and now she's gone on holiday for two weeks it seems the two weeks are taking forever and I really miss her ...
A. 1 September 2008: Ah okay. I see. Well, right at this moment in time she has no blood relation to you, nor in marriage. Definately talk to your parents about it. As your feelings right now, are just as similar to a crush on a girl at school. If you talk to your ... (read in full...)
Should I tell this man I fancy him, I'm 15 years older than him!
Q. Hi i am not sure what to do, i fancy this guy at work but i am 15 years older than him,i dont think he feels the same one minute he will speak the next not i am just the same.Now do i sit him down and tell him perhaps making a fool of myself and ...
A. 1 September 2008: As well as being fifteen years your junior, he is also a work colleauge who you suspect does not feel the same.
Would the confession be worth it looking at the odds?... (read in full...)
He wants a baby, I think I'm still too young, what should I do?
Q. I'm in a relationship with my boyfriend for nearly 8 years now, we have a house and a dog, he is ready for kids i am not. We argued about this early this year and in the end to keep him i agreed to start trying after our holiday in september.(yes he ...
A. 1 September 2008: If you felt you were not ready, why did you agree to try in the future? You will have only got his hopes up.
You know yourself you are not ready, and are right when you say at 25 there is still a lot more to experience. Your partner should u... (read in full...)
Is my perfect boyfriend gay?
Q. I think my BF could be gay please help i dont know what to do! When i first met my BF i actually thought he seemed quite gay but he wasnt and i eventually fell in love with him we have been together for over three years. every now n then ppl mist...
A. 1 September 2008: I think you've put two and two together to come up with six. You said yourself that your boyfriend has been and is often mistaked for being gay because of the way he is. Oh well! You know he's straight.
But, the final thing that did it for you ... (read in full...)
Is it immoral to fall in love with a married woman with children?
Q. I have been a mentor to a beautiful woman in management. She is an awesome manager now, and married with grown children. We are very good friends only, but we both fell in love with each other, since we both married , we do not have any type of...
A. 1 September 2008: I wouldn't say it's immoral. As we grow older, we may grow apart from what we thought would be our life long partners and become fond of someone else. It's only natural how the human heart works. Talk to each other about it and do what you feel ... (read in full...)
How do I convince my sister to stop wearing this bikini?
Q. My cute younger sister (she's 16) hangs around the public pool wearing a thong bikini. From behind, it looks as though she is totally naked. The boys there gather around her, many whispering, all staring, some spreading the word. If I ask her to ...
A. 1 September 2008: It's good to know that you are looking out for your sister in this way - if only she knew you cared so much huh? At the end of the day, she is 16 and enjoying her own body. You can't relly do anything now but warn her what she may be encouraging ... (read in full...)
Should I tell her I love her online or to her face?
Q. hi, i know a girl for 3 weeks and she lives near my house, i had a long conversation through one night and i got out with her one time and we walked through the city, i gave her flowers and she said that is very kind of you and she huged me. ...
A. 1 September 2008: Taking all accounts in to consideration. You've known her for three weeks... is that enough to know you love her? In three weeks, you won't know all about her - to love means to love everything. How can you if you don't know everything?
Wait ... (read in full...)
Do I continue this relationship because he's supporting me financially?
Q. Do i have to continue my relationship with my bf who's supporting me financially, did lots of things for me but always cheating on me and he is not caring and sweet now like before. He changed a lot:(...
A. 1 September 2008: If you're happy in a "relationship" where all i staken care of financially, but your feelings and emotions are left aside - then sure, stay with it!
Otherwise, you know he's been taking you for a ride. And, really - you deserve much better. ... (read in full...)
Why did he end his email this way?
Q. Well, this guy and I have being in touch for a year now. We met on a business and since then we are kinda long distance friendship. I mean, we like each other but we are just friends. We enjoy our friendship and emailing, share thoughts, pics, ...
A. 1 September 2008: Why would anything be wrong with him, for ending an email in that way? I'd say it was a lovely ending. Very "upper" and genuine.... (read in full...)
My older boyfriend doesn't know if he wants a relationship?
Q. Ok so im 21 years old and have been seeing this guy who is actually alot older then me he is 38, it started out just hanging out and having alot of fun well now we are sleeping together and i stay at his house alot. Well i really really like him now ...
A. 1 September 2008: Sit him down and talk things through. Suppose you've given him enough time? It's you who now needs to decide whether or not you want this. He can't keep putting this off. It seems like he is just stringing you along, then whimpering at any sign of ... (read in full...)
How can I find senior women and make them attracted to me?
Q. I'm 19 I am attracted almost exclusively to older women. And by older, I mean at least 55 and up. But I'm scared to talk to them cause why would they want to date someone younger? How can I find senior women and make them attracted to me?...
A. 1 September 2008: You'd be surprised at the amount of older women who would love a young one like you. Just go for it, you won't know unless you find out!
Good Luck!... (read in full...)
Does the age difference matter?
Q. im 14 years old and my sisters best mate keeps flirting with me and tries cuddling me but shes 11 nearly 12, i do have some feelings for her but is the age diffrence a problem?...
A. 1 September 2008: It is alright, and entirely normal to discover the feelings you're experiencing for members of the opposite sex.
In your case, it isn't the age difference that matters, but the fact that she is 11. It is a very young age, on that doesn't involve ... (read in full...)
How did he "prove" we had sex when we actually didn't?
Q. This is going to sound like an odd question but here goes. My boyfriend's best mate didn't want me to be with his friend, so to split us up he told my boyfriend that i had had sex with him. I obviously denied it because it didn't happen and he sa...
A. 1 September 2008: Does it matter anymore? You're baffled by this statement your partner's friend has made, of which, your partner has chosen to believe him over you. Is that not enough? You have tried your best to convince your partner you didn't do what you were ... (read in full...)
We can't be together for now but a part of me feels he's over me.
Q. My boyfriend and I work together. In the beginning he pursed me heavily. Finding my email, phone, even following me home so he could talk to me. At the time I was in an abusive relationship. Once I told him this he became a great friend. He liste...
A. 1 September 2008: I don't know. But like you say, concentrate on you and your daughter. You two are more important.... (read in full...)
He wants me to give him an incredible orgasm, but I have to put my finger in a certain place...
Q. My boyfriend asked me if I ever wanted to try anal sex. I'm not interested in puttig anything up my hiney. Exit only please! He mentioned that one of the biggest and best orgasms he ever had was with an ex who fingered him in the anus during sex. ...
A. 1 September 2008: If you're not comfortable with it, don't do it just yet. Engage in conversation with him concerning the matter first. Let him know how you feel about this competing with his ex - which, isn't nice! I'm sure he'll understand and back off a bit.
... (read in full...)
My wife has difficulty reaching an orgasm in the morning
Q. My wife seems to have a problem having an orgasm in the mornings. At night, it takes literally a minute or two, but during the morning hours, it doesnt matter how long the sex last, she doesnt achieve an orgasm. Any ideas?...
A. 1 September 2008: Maybe she just ins't a morning person... No matter is she doesn't have an orgasm, she still gets lots of pleasure though right?
The problem may lie within her expectations that she won't have an orgasm in the morning. Because she expects it not t... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to love your step-sister?
Q. So since we all went out as a family me and her keep talking on msn frequency and i enjoy the time with her i get shy when i'm up her house and now she's gone on holiday for two weeks it seems the two weeks are taking forever and I really miss her ...
A. 1 September 2008: Not at all, for as long as you mean love within a siblingly-love way. Which, I think you do. You've grown attatched to this girl and love her like a sister. Is this what you mean? If not, and that you love her in an intimate/romanti... (read in full...)
I don't have a previous sex life, but she does, how do I get over it?
Q. how can i over come and stop thinking about my girl friends past ? i love her so much and i have waited for her for 4 long years but now that i have her in my life her past just haunts me bcoz i my self never had a past,pleeeeeeeez help ????...
A. 1 September 2008: Why are you fussing about her previous partners? What matters is that they are gone and YOU have her - no one else. Enjoy that. Don't get hung up about it.... (read in full...)
Do you think I'm spending too much on her so soon?
Q. My girl's bday is coming up. We've been together for a little under a year. I was thinking of taking her to a $$$$ place for dinner(est $300 for 2), I'm wondering if that is too much too soon. I also bought her a gift that cost $100. Should I take ...
A. 1 September 2008: A little under a year shows your relationship is serious and very committed. If it's her birthday, and you would like to treat her - go ahead! I'm sure she'll love it and appreciate it and you very much. It is her birthday after all! However, if not ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend ignores me for long hours. Is she playing with me?
Q. I am getting stressed with my current relationship. She distant herself from me and come back close. After awhile, she distant herself again. It happened so many times. When she does that, she went missing the whole day. Not picking up phone ...
A. 1 September 2008: Don't stress about it too much. My partner has said the same about me. One minute I can be very caring, loving and sincere. The next I can "switch" and become cold hearted and sad.
If she is like me. She is just a very sensitive soul, where so... (read in full...)
Is it normal if I can't pull my penis' foresking back?
Q. ok heres the thing my penis has really tight foresking and i cant pull it back.. well i could if i pulled it hard but it sorta hurts when i do it is that normal?...
A. 1 September 2008: Yeah, as the other advisors have said - ask your parents. Maybe talk to your Dad about it, show him, what he thinks. I've heard of cases where circumcision is the best action to take. It relieves the tightness.
Good Luck.... (read in full...)
Should I swing?
Q. My boyfriend of 5 years wants us to swing with his friend and his girlfriend. This is something he really seems into and I don't think I could. But should I do it for him? ...
A. 1 September 2008: As long as YOU are comfortable with the discussed situation, then don't let nerves hold you back.
As a couple, it's rather healthy to explore new adventurous settings. However, I have heard of cases where the event in some way has gone wrong. P... (read in full...)
We really like each other but people hate the thought of us being together, so what do we do?
Q. I split with my partner of 10 years around 6 wks back. I have been chatting to someone who my partner went to school with. People started rumours that we were seeing each other which wasnt true. Since then me and this guy have met and have had ...
A. 1 September 2008: If you really like each other, and you think this relationship would be worth sacrificing friends for (a difficult decision) then go for it. The people who will stand by you will prove to be REAL friends. And throughout your life, those are the kind ... (read in full...)
Help Being emotionally supportive?
Q. I am currently in a relationship with the most wonderful woman. We've been going out for almost two years now and ive been the happiest man alive. Untill the other day. For a while ive noticed something was wrong but put it down to stress as she...
A. 1 September 2008: I can't agree more with Emily's answer. Although, sometimes you don't even have to ask. Just listen. Once she gets talking, she'll pour things out that you never knew before. IE, how she's feeling about this and that. If this is making her worried, ... (read in full...)
It's been 3 weeks and HE hasn't called..should I wait for him to come back?
Q. I am a single mother of 2 and I met a younger man aged 25 who seemed very sweet and loving towards my children. I wasn't looking for anything too serious at the start and told him so but he is very assertive and within a week, he was suggesting m...
A. 1 September 2008: Like the other Aunts have said; move on! It appears you have been taken for a ride. If this person was a genuine soul (genuine, ie - as he was when he lived with you), he would've definately been in touch by now. Focus on your children and not him.... (read in full...)
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