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How can I learn to accept that I may never have a boyfriend? They don't even show interest.

Q.   I'm not really the type of girl that guys like. Nor do guys show any interest, in me which is fine. I do get lonely at times despite having friends and an otherwise happy or successful(to me at least) life. I keep telling myself that it will hap...

A.   29 January 2013: Oh sweetie, I know this problem so well. it takes me back. I honestly thought I would die alone a few years ago. Truly. I never, EVER thought anyone would love me. I was such a loner through school, didn't really have any friends, a boyfrien... (read in full...)

I feel guilty about what I watched.

Q.   Okay so this sounds really stupid but my boyfriend asked me to watch some porn so I did because he asked me to and I guess I wanted to know what all the fuss is about. Ive watched it on about 4 different occasions and I always delete my browsing ...

A.   18 April 2010: If you are using Google Chrome, in the top right corner click the tools button - new incognito window. This will not be stored. Also; your dad may have just been joking around in all fairness, try not to worry yourself about it. And don't feel gui... (read in full...)

Worried about having sex for the first time

Q.   I am 15 years old, almost 16, and my girlfriend is 16. We have been together for 6 months, but we were friends before this. We are deeply in love, and care hugely for one another - the thought of losing her makes me feel physically sick. We a...

A.   16 April 2010: Heya, I asked my boyfriend of over a year about his first time, and he said it was very awkward, even though he loved this girl and she wasn't a virgin, it was still awkward. He also said don't overthink it, and I agree, I think the first time you ... (read in full...)

I don't want to be faking it!

Q.   I lost my virginity a few weeks ago to my boyfriend, and it was painful and there was blood. We've been continuing to have sex since, I have the conctraceptive implant (Implanon) so we have stopped using condoms in order to feel eachother properly. ...

A.   13 June 2009: Kelly; Yes, we have both been checked, and shown eachother test results. We wouldn't have sex without a condom otherwise. Samii; Yeah, it's just really difficult yknow?? I mean, I trust him and everything, it's just I don't want to hurt him by A... (read in full...)

What is the best form of contraceptive?

Q.   What is the best form of contraceptive?...

A.   12 June 2009: I have an implant (Implanon) in my upper left arm, it's as effective as male condoms when they're used correctly, less than 1 in 1000 women that use the implant get pregnant each year.... (read in full...)

Posing for naked pictures

Q.   I would really like to send my boyfriend naked pictures of me but I don't know how I should pose. If anyone has any advice I would really appreciate it.....

A.   12 June 2009: Okay okay, I can understand why people are saying "Don't do it until you're married" etc, but you only live once, and it's only skin ;) My boyfriend is a photographer, so he usually takes the pictures of me himself. This is also good, as he can tell... (read in full...)

Does it hurt when you have sex?

Q.   does it hurt when you have sex?...

A.   12 June 2009: Well, I lost my virginity a few weeks ago, and yes, it hurt. There was also blood, so be prepared just in case ;)I was genuinely so scared and shocked by what had just happened, the feelings are like nothing you've ever experienced before. I was ... (read in full...)

If your hymen is broken before you have sex for the first time, will sex hurt?

Q.   I've been told something, and I just want to know if it's true or not. If your hymen is broken before you have sex for the first time, sex won't hurt. Is this true?? If so, can you break your hymen yourself?? And will it hurt??...

A.   30 September 2008: Thankyou ALL for taking the time to answer me, I feel a lot more informed now. And thanks Double M, for the male perspective ;) And SirenaBlusena?? That Catherine the Great thing made me lol =D Thanks again!! You've all been a massive help... (read in full...)

I'm late with my period! Is this normal sometimes?

Q.   I've been stressing out a lot this month because of certain situations and I'm late 3 days with my period. I was supposed to get it the 25th but i haven't gotten it yet. I'm getting worried and i was just wondering if it's ok for it to happen...

A.   28 September 2008: Okay, you don't say if you are a virgin or not, because that could mean you are pregnant (if you're sexually active). Yes, it is normal to have a late period when you're stressed. I had a length of time where I was under extreme stress not long ago,... (read in full...)

If your hymen is broken before you have sex for the first time, will sex hurt?

Q.   I've been told something, and I just want to know if it's true or not. If your hymen is broken before you have sex for the first time, sex won't hurt. Is this true?? If so, can you break your hymen yourself?? And will it hurt??...

A.   28 September 2008: Okay, thankyou so much!! Is there any way that I can stretch myself?? It's just he isn't a virgin, and I want us both to be completely comfortable... (read in full...)

I keep sticking my fingers down my throat to make myself sick... any advice?

Q.   Recently i've bin so stressed wiv things at school and home... my bro and mum and dad keep fighting and i've really fallen for somone who's got a gf. i have low self esteem anyway and my friend's family frend said i was fat when everyone else says ...

A.   28 September 2008: Sweetheart, I used to do the exact same thing as you, so I know exactly what you are going through. Telling people was a very big and brave step, something a woman, not a little girl does. I stopped by finding something I love. I sing, and when I ... (read in full...)

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