Men and multiple orgasms?
Q. i have a question one of my friends claimed to have given head to some guy and got him to cum 3 times in the same session. she said she just swallows and keeps going. she told me it was longest about 50 mins. im wondering if that is possible beca...
A. 17 September 2008: I had no idea how wrong I was. Your post cleared this issue up for me! Thanks!... (read in full...)
Shoud I ask her out?
Q. Hi Dear Cupid, I feel that I am a bit lost at the moment. I met a girl at uni last year and we became really good friends, we would hang out together almost everyday and talk to each other everynight online. I became really attracted to her...
A. 14 September 2008: I think you should go for it. Imagine, the same thing happens again within the first week at uni - another guy asks her out! Grab it whilst you can! You'll regret waiting otherwise. Just let her know you like her at least!... (read in full...)
How do I get my boyfriend to hate his mum?
Q. i love my boyfriend to death..everytime hes in my house he asks like himself.but wen he is at his house next to his mom he totally changes..he acts like he is big..not by weight..but by attitude. i hate when he does dat..also i dont let him look an...
A. 14 September 2008: To be honest, I think you both have issues. You need to learn, both of you, tha you can trust each other. If you can't - then it's the end.
The matter concerning his mother - you can't make a boy hate his mother just because you do.
As for ... (read in full...)
Should we break the law and date if we are really in love??
Q. hi, I'm only 13 years old and theres this guy; hes 17. I went out with him at the beginning of the summer then we broke up cause we didnt want to get in trouble and im still in love with him. I think about him 24 7 and i recently found out he lik...
A. 14 September 2008: Crazy about the online ouija board - yes. Don't pay attention to those things. It was mere coincidence.
I understand that you think you're in love - not intentionally trying to sound patronising there! But you must understand that you are very you... (read in full...)
I'm a teen cheating on my boyfriend with a man in his 40's. Is this wrong?
Q. ok well this is kinda supper coplicated so i'll try to just keep it simple. im 15 and i have a bf thats 16 i live in florida but hes now moved all the way to oregon. but i still love him. now theres this guy that ive known for a while and really ...
A. 14 September 2008: You sound so innocent in your post to the extent that it's freaky.
1# Since when is it right to cheat on your boyfriend? If you weren't ready to commit to a long distance relationship, you should've stated so there and then when your boyfrien... (read in full...)
How can I subtly hint I like him too??
Q. Okay so im going to sound like such a loser but oh well. I am 15 and go to an all girls school, and i have a few good guy friends but not that many although ive got off with a few people at parties when ive been drunk i havent had a serious boyfrien...
A. 14 September 2008: Invite him out somewhere? It doesn't necessarily have to be recognised as a 'date' - just an outing. When you two are alone, you'll both feel much at ease with each other. You can then see how you both feel
However, just because he and the othe... (read in full...)
A married old flame is back in touch....should I do this??
Q. Should I do this? An old married flame of mine has contacted me again. I know that I should walk away from him and not go down this route again (I am also married) but my heart is saying to give him another chance. He told me the reason he walke...
A. 14 September 2008: I take it then, you're engaging in a sexual partnership with this old flame on the outside of your marriage? Think about it. You married your husband for an amazing reason. When this old flame walked out of your life, how did you feel? Do you want ... (read in full...)
I lied to make it seem I was thinking about her, she's mad, I want to fix it because I'm in love with her!
Q. i went out with this girl who i was madly in love with and she broke up with me and went back to her ex who treated her very poorly. she now left her ex in hopes of going back out with me but i messed it up. one night we were talking on the phone ...
A. 14 September 2008: Bubbloo very much stated what I wanted to say. Are you not hurt by the fact your girlfriend thinks she can come running back to you when things with her ex goes pear shaped?
Anyhow, all you can do is aplogise and explain to her the reasons ... (read in full...)
She's against me going down on her or fingering her. How can I boost her confidence?
Q. Hi, really needing some advice, I've been with my girlfriend for 3 months now and she is happy to give me head and says she will have sex soon if i want it but she is very against me giving her head and/or fingering her and won't tell me why. We ...
A. 14 September 2008: Emily's right, just reassure her that you think she;s beautiful no matter what - from any angle! It's good that you want to pleasure her as much as she pleasures you. Make sure you go easy the first time.... (read in full...)
Men and multiple orgasms?
Q. i have a question one of my friends claimed to have given head to some guy and got him to cum 3 times in the same session. she said she just swallows and keeps going. she told me it was longest about 50 mins. im wondering if that is possible beca...
A. 14 September 2008: As far as I know, men can't experience multiple orgasms. After the first time, as you say - they go soft and need a break. Within half an hour, they can go again but not as much cum is released - far less I think.
Maybe your friend is exaggera... (read in full...)
I am willing to accept my hubby's son (product of his affair), but now comes the hard part: telling our daughter that he exists. Not to mention my depression! Help me with my emotions!
Q. My husband has another child as a result of an affair, she (the mother) wants him to walk away from his son, he does not want to do that. I personally don't know how anyone could ever expect that of another human being (especially one that they ...
A. 14 September 2008: Firstly, I think you're really brave for accepting this child as part of your family. That's a really selfless thing to do and you should be immensely proud of yourself.
You haven't mentioned how old your daughter is - which, I think decifers... (read in full...)
I don't know if he ever liked me but I have this feeling that he did, because of all his hints. Is there a chance he still does?
Q. I've known this guy just over 10 years (since high school, we're both 25 now). Back at school we used to flirt all the time and we went to the school dance together but nothing ever happened between us. At school I had this stupid crush on an older ...
A. 14 September 2008: I think you really are answering your own question there - without actually stating it. There's a mutual connection between you both, and has been for a long, long time! Just go for it. You like him, and i'm pretty positive that anyone who reads ... (read in full...)
Is it really love already?
Q. hey everyone. i feel like a bit of an idiot here!! anyway i met this amazing guy last week, i ended up staying in a camping site and there we met, he came into our tent and we had a great night having drinks. we ended up kissing and so on, but ...
A. 13 September 2008: You're smitten! You know when you're in love with somebody. You haven't said one negative thing ... It could be love! xxx... (read in full...)
Is he playing with me? I'm married but had an affair with him.
Q. Please help. 9 years ago I had an affair with a married man. I am also married. It ended after about 3-4 months and I was devastated. It took a few months but I got over him, never contacted him again and got on with my life. Now 9 years later ...
A. 13 September 2008: Why does it matter why he is hot/cold? He IS playing with you. Basically, he has you on demand. You're married - and your mistery partner has no respect for you. Stay within your marriage. If you're so unhappy that you'd rather be unfaithful - split ... (read in full...)
I hate my dad! What can I do?
Q. i used to be a daddys girl when i was younger and said id never be lyk my older sister who seemed to hate him so much. but now i understand hwo she felt. when i was 10 my dad hit me and hit me and hit me untill my mum pulled him off me. Recen...
A. 13 September 2008: Have a talk with your mum - tell her about how uncomfortable and even scared your father makes you feel! Ask her to have him not come aorund anymore. Your dad does indeed sound like a selfish and horrible man.... (read in full...)
Can this work or is this another route to heartbreak??
Q. hi i need help... i'm 16 and me and this guy, more than like each other, were in love, we have alreay been together twice but we thought it would be easier now we have left school. were not together yet although we have been seeing allot of each ...
A. 13 September 2008: I personall aren't a huge fan of long distance relationships. With one as long as three hours, that's a big commitment to the two of your age. If you think you can handle the rarity of intimacy and then continue like normal, go ahead. But as you're ... (read in full...)
Met him online and am starting to fall for him, but there's a 23 year age gap!
Q. Actually I have this problem about age gap. We met only at chat room and we have very similar hobbies and interest. And we find that endearing. Here's the problem we are 23 years apart. That's my big problem. For me its ok if my guy is 5-15 years ...
A. 13 September 2008: Saltwater gave a good answer.... (read in full...)
I have a boyfriend but also have strong feelings for my ex. Do I tell him?
Q. i have a boyfriend that i love but i still have strong feelings for my ex.. and i think i still love him too.my ex is leaving the country should i tell him how i feel?and say goodbye? my current boyfriend hates him.... please help me.i feel that i n...
A. 13 September 2008: I think you need time apart from your current boyfriend. If you feel you 'love' your ex, go and see him before he leaves. You don't want to live your life wondering 'what if' - go and do it, if he doesn't feel the same then you'll at least know.... (read in full...)
I cry in bed when my boyfriend has fallen asleep. Why does this happen?
Q. For the past few months I find myself crying in bed with my boyfriend. He does not know because I wait until he has fallen asleep. It is only when I am in bed with him, not when I'm alone. We have had no problems in our relationship and he has been ...
A. 13 September 2008: Maybe, that laying next to him, looking at him sleep forces you to stop, think and realise that you're not in love with him? Or that you don't love him? The silence in the room, and him being unaware but there for you to look at makes you HAVE to ... (read in full...)
My older boyfriend is very controlling. I can't wear makeup, email guys, or leave the house... he thinks I'm looking for sex. Is the age gap just too much?
Q. I'm having an issue....I have been seeing this guy (we'll call him Randy) for a while now, and I'm starting to wonder if the age difference is going to take a toll on our relationship. He's 41 and I'm lets just say younger. Well, heres the problem, ...
A. 13 September 2008: Are you happy, honestly?
You're well aware that a relationship isn't supposed to be like that - they're about give and take, fifty fifty each way! Your partner has it all.
I think the reason he is so controlling is because he finds you utterl... (read in full...)
This under age kid has a crush on me! He won't take a hint...
Q. Hi got a big problem. I go to a course for literacy and numeracy 3 days a week. Theres this kid there. I use the word kid as by law im a adult, he is only 14. He constantly looks at me. I am not interested as i have someone and he aint my type by ...
A. 12 September 2008: How about treating this boy like an actual human being! You're going about the situation completely wrong. At 14, if I were to fancy someone older than me - dirty looks wouldn't make a difference! Only make me feel bad - is that what you want to do? ... (read in full...)
I always try to be confident when he's mean, why is he such a jerk?
Q. hi me and my boyfriend have been going out for nearly 9 months. we have both said we love each other...my friends think we should break up.. my problem is he confuses me by saying stuff like my boobs are to small he can be a jerk and mean . i a...
A. 7 September 2008: You need to get rid. Your PARTNER, the guy who is supposed to love you, support you and boost your confidence, is making you feel like utter s**t. Why are you with him at all? Ask yourself.... (read in full...)
Does anyone have any useful books/websites on sex education?
Q. Ok, I was just wondering if anyone had any useful websites for me to look at or good books to read on sex ed. as I missed it at school and don't really know that much and I want to learn....
A. 7 September 2008: Looks like you've been given a lot of info! Enjoy!... (read in full...)
Does anyone have any useful books/websites on sex education?
Q. Ok, I was just wondering if anyone had any useful websites for me to look at or good books to read on sex ed. as I missed it at school and don't really know that much and I want to learn....
A. 7 September 2008: I like your attitude! Here's a webpage I used to look at when I was younger - an A-Z of anything and everything.
http://www.bbc.co.uk/switch/slink/sexlovelife/index.shtml?page=az... (read in full...)
I am starting to feel like he was only in it for sex!
Q. I was with my ex-boyfriend for two and a half years. We broke up last year in October. He cheated the whole time we were together. What I want to know is if he could've cared about me even a little. I am starting to feel like he was only in it for ...
A. 7 September 2008: Well start to understand it, because there are such people like that in the world and you just met one! The thing to concentrate on now is that he's gone, you can start building new relationships and be happy with your life. You're not cheap. He's ... (read in full...)
Really I'm just looking for any tips and information about anal sex
Q. okay, me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a year now and been having sex for about 6 months. he suggested the other day that he wants to have anal with me, hes 5 years older than me so he's experienced. i would like to try it but i ...
A. 7 September 2008: Okay, a good question to ask! Anal sex is where your male partner will enter you in the behind! At first, if you haven't put anything of the sort up there before - it can be sometimes painful, and quite uncomfortable as it needs to stretch to fit ... (read in full...)
My ex, told me last night that he loves me and can't get over me bit I'm with someone else now!
Q. So I have this amazing boyfriend of almost 3 months. He means the world to me and we don't argue he doesn't flirt with other girls. And to me his is perfect. The thing is my ex, told me last night that he loves me and can't get over me even though ...
A. 7 September 2008: A slight feeling in comparison to Mr. Perfect? I know which one i'd choose. Remember - there's a REASON the relationship with your ex ended. Concentrate on that - and not that 'slight' feeling.... (read in full...)
We still want to love, but where did it all go?
Q. I have been in a relationship with a girl for three-and-a-half years. We fell in love from the start. It was freshman year in high school during a school trip to Disney. We are the longest remaining relationship from our school and were voted High ...
A. 7 September 2008: It's possible, it is. But I think you both might need time apart to realise it!... (read in full...)
We still want to love, but where did it all go?
Q. I have been in a relationship with a girl for three-and-a-half years. We fell in love from the start. It was freshman year in high school during a school trip to Disney. We are the longest remaining relationship from our school and were voted High ...
A. 7 September 2008: Maybe you two have just grown apart. It's a perfectly natural occurence within relationships - though often devastating as you never see it coming. You agree you both want to spend the rest of your lives together, but if you don't 'love' each other ... (read in full...)
Does it matter if her 'lover' is 'smaller' than her husband?
Q. Hi. Do you think a woman would be disappointed if she was to have an affair with a man and discover that his penis was smaller than that of her husband? What a sad question! Anyway - I look forward to your ridicule/replies! Many thanks!...
A. 7 September 2008: No I don't think that matters - unless it's what the woman is looking for!
If it isn't, and her lover is someone who she indeed loves! Then I don't think it would matter, as penis size isn't necessarily the face of love now.... (read in full...)
Whats dry humping?
Q. Hi people please answer It sounds so stupid but what is dry humping!?!...
A. 7 September 2008: Dry Humping is sex with clothes on. It isn't sex as such, but looks a lot like it! You do the same things, i.e. thrusting! etc but with clothes on. But it isn't 'sex' as no one can enter the other.... (read in full...)
Should I tell my boyfriend's best friend that I'm falling in love with him?
Q. Hello, my name is Holli Me, my boyfriend and his best friend all work together. They spend a lot of time together and recently ive realised that im falling in love with him, Everything about him's so sweet and he's never awful to me. R...
A. 7 September 2008: Are you "sure" (in that strange sense of the word!) that you're falling in love with him? Or, is it possible that you're lusting after something you think you can't have? Think about those questions.
If you think you are falling in love with thi... (read in full...)
How soon is it to say I love you?
Q. how soon is it to say i love you - if you do love someone and you feel ready to say it, how do you say it without totally freaking them out or know that they'll say it back? i think he's gone to say it a few times then changed his mind. is this cos ...
A. 6 September 2008: I think the time limit absolutely depends on the relationship itself. If you think it's time - then go for it!... (read in full...)
We had unprotected sex and he came in me but some of the fluid came out. Am I safe?
Q. ok i had my period two weeks ago and i had unprotected sex yesterday and he came inside of me and some of it came out. does it all come out or doess some stay in and does that cause me to get pregnant?...
A. 5 September 2008: Both answers before mine are correct. It can take the tiniest amount!... (read in full...)
Should I keep on dating my teacher?
Q. I meet this guy as my teacher in highschool for one of my classes. Things started out simple enough where he was the teacher and i was the student, nothing more than that. but soon causal flirting from both of us started taking place, yet nothing ...
A. 5 September 2008: Aside from the fact that you're both fearful of who may find out about this realtionship. I think everything's suitable as long as you're willing to work at it i.e. those busy schedules.
But including the fear of people finding out - turn it in to... (read in full...)
I'm hesitating because he's my cousin - what should I do?
Q. Okay, i asked this question already but it didn't work :( I need help! I'm in love with my cousin who I've been best friends with for years. We are both disabled with autism and we are both very shy and unconfident when speaking to anyone else exc...
A. 3 September 2008: Is it not a matter you'd be able to talk about with your parents? It'd be a hard thing to get off your chest, but i'm sure they'd be able to help you a lot more than any of us can.... (read in full...)
I broke up with my short-term boyfriend, but I would like to still be friends, I texted him, he did not respond, what do I do now?
Q. I finished with my short term boyfriend ... because he had laughed at me for been worried that he had not answered his phone... i did like him i have text him and he does not reply ...i would have like to stay friends...
A. 3 September 2008: The ball is in his court now. Although you would like to stay friends, you broke up with him and it's no longer your decision.... (read in full...)
He dumped me twice, firstly because he was confused about his ex. Do I give him another chance?
Q. Ok so i dated a boy for about 2 months and then he told me he had feelings for his ex. So i left him to make it easier for him to make up his mind. A few days later he said he had decided and it was me he wanted and not her. I told him i would...
A. 3 September 2008: I think if you were to give him a third chance, you'd basically be saying 'i'll forgive you for anything'.... (read in full...)
How could she be so careless with birth control?
Q. Hi, im 25 and my girlfirend 23. i am a college student with one more year to go. I've been with my girlfriend for almost 2 years now. I took her virginity and we never use condoms. at first we used pull-out method, but after a few pregnancy scares, ...
A. 3 September 2008: I think it's normal for your partner to forget occasionally, with the times and even altogether - sometimes two days in a row! Just like medication, I know i've forgotten to take that before.
But, because she ISN'T all that great at remember... (read in full...)
Is a relationship only for the "in love"? What is the difference between "love" and "in love"?
Q. I would like to know the definition of "in love". The english language is terrible in describing emotion, but I'm wondering if the difference between "love" and "in love" are that large? And if it matters. Is a relationship with someone worth fi...
A. 3 September 2008: I think you got it spot in. I do think there's a difference between "love" and "in love". "In love" being that fluttery/sick stomach you get when you just look at your partner! Which, people do find to fade over time, but always right there under a ... (read in full...)
I have some questions about sex for the first time.
Q. hello i'm 17 teen right know and i was talking to my mother about sex cuz i was inrested and i was just wondering if it really hurts the first time? and if you can really bleed? i didnt want to belive my mom a whole lot cuz i was just thinking she ...
A. 3 September 2008: Yep, a lot of different accounts here! Of which, I believe all to be true. But sometimes, I just wonder how some girls can just feel a 'little pinch' as Ah-ha puts it. My first time was very painful, as my partner is very well equipped down there. ... (read in full...)
Why is he treating me so bad that I feel the need to harm myself?
Q. my boyfriend is threaten me bad, he is ignoring me the most times he calls me a lot of names, he thinks that I have other lovers, he blames me for the things which his ex did to him(Stabbing, lying)I have never done something to him!but he doesnt ...
A. 3 September 2008: He's doing it to you because he is an evil, bitter and selfish "man". You deserve better. Don't waste your time, nor tears - nor pain! over him. Don't hurt yourself for something that isn't your fault.... (read in full...)
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