Why is he treating me so bad that I feel the need to harm myself?
Q. my boyfriend is threaten me bad, he is ignoring me the most times he calls me a lot of names, he thinks that I have other lovers, he blames me for the things which his ex did to him(Stabbing, lying)I have never done something to him!but he doesnt ...
A. 3 September 2008: He's doing it to you because he is an evil, bitter and selfish "man". You deserve better. Don't waste your time, nor tears - nor pain! over him. Don't hurt yourself for something that isn't your fault.... (read in full...)
I'm self conscious about my body! How do I overcome feeling like I look weird?
Q. I'm an 18 year old girl and i am self-conscious about my body. I am a size 8/10, 5"4 and weigh about 127lbs. I hate my body an i think that is why guys don't like me. I'm not really fat but i have rather big thighs and calves (i used to dance a lot ...
A. 3 September 2008: Join the club love! I don't have one friend who loves themself completely and accepts who they are... Of which, i'm not saying we should give up hope of being happy with ourselves! No, not at all.
You say perfect twice in your writing. There is... (read in full...)
How do you write erotic fiction with or for your partner?
Q. How can you write erotic fiction with/for your partner without it just being a long wish-list of things you'd like to do? In my case I keep writing about facials (about which I am obsessed). I guess we just need to talk about it more. OK, I ha...
A. 3 September 2008: Create a character, let he/she explore herself first - prolong it, i mean, drag it out but in a really sensual, tingly way. Introduce a new character. Let them play together. Don't necessarilly make it a wishlist, but explore things through fiction ... (read in full...)
We have great sex but he doesn’t last very long, just 2-3 minutes...
Q. I have been going out with my boyfriend for a little under a year now and I love him to death. Our sex life is the only thing concerning me at the moment. We have great sex but he doesn’t last very long. He only lasts about 2 or 3 minutes and then ...
A. 3 September 2008: A technique - when he's about to come he's probably thinking baout very rude things and enjoying himself a lot! Think of something COMPLETELY off topic, like 'toilet role' and turn him off for a second. If you turn him off as needs be, it'll take ... (read in full...)
Do men enjoy getting oral sex more than normal intercourse?
Q. Do men enjoy getting oral sex more than normal intercourse? Personally I'd rather skip intercourse to worry less about getting pregnant. Any opinions?...
A. 3 September 2008: Oral sex is, for the majority, very popular with boys. But I think they prefer the whole thing just as much if not more! But it entirely depends on the person. I'm sure your partner will appreciate oral from you if he likes it.... (read in full...)
I'm not sure if he ejaculated in a safe place prior to fingering... what do I do?
Q. My boyfriend fingured me and im not sure if he ejaculated on my hands before he put the fingers in Im not sure if im pregnant i dont want to be, im unable to get hold of a pregnancy test and im not sure if im late on my period because the times al...
A. 3 September 2008: Before anyone can give you some solid advice, you DO have to volunteer a little more information.
If in any way, you think your boyfriend's sperm has entered your vagina via your hands, his hands or his penis etc etc. You must get a pregnanc... (read in full...)
I am 16 and madly in love with a married woman! She also told me she's pregnant with my child...
Q. I am a 16 year old student from central India. I am having sex for the last 2 months with a 24 year old married lady who is my neighbour. She is very pretty and looks as if in teens.Her husband 28 is a very rich man most of the days on business ...
A. 3 September 2008: If you are old enough to have sex, you are old enough to take on the responsibility of what it brings. I.E. a child!
Unfortunately, you are still VERY young. To play your role as a father, it would drastically affect your studies unless the woma... (read in full...)
I need some Agony Aunts to keep me in their prayers!
Q. Hi, I'm one of your agony aunts, but this time I need your help. I would just ask you all send me love, strength and support for what I'm about to go through. My husband's viza has not been granted, and we have to go for interview next week. You ...
A. 3 September 2008: Good Luck. Don't think negatively, or you'll most likely get it! You and your partner will be great.
Love Emma x... (read in full...)
It hurts a bit that he's ignoring me, why is this going on?
Q. well. i went out with a guy a long time ago. it ended. not too nicely and we both went our sperate ways, intermididly 'bumping' into to each other and either making small talk or just not talking. Both of us got new partners, mine a very serious o...
A. 3 September 2008: Maybe it really hurt to see you again. You were glad that, even though after your split and you'd both grown apart, you bumped in to him again! You were all happy. Maybe he doesn't look at that in the same way? That seeing you and being friends with ... (read in full...)
Why doesn't he care much for sex anymore?
Q. lyin in bed he would turn down sex,and have a wank lyin beside me,sometimes even look at porn while doing it... and when we do have sex he wants it over quick or gets me to take out the dildo and finish myself.i cant stand that it turns me off and ...
A. 3 September 2008: Your partner is being very disrespectful by masturbating in bed, looking at porn - while you're there! As he is very young, there doesn't seem likely a problem that would explain his loss of sex drive due to age, medical etc.
Confront him with it,... (read in full...)
He always hangs out with girls and insists they are friends. What does he mean?
Q. he always hangs out with girls, but is very insistent that they are nothing but friends. we are only friends! i havent really shown any interest (though i am...) in whether or not he's really single. our conversations go something like t...
A. 3 September 2008: Just relax. Older boys, like 18-21 year olds often are just friends with a lot of girls. It's just how things go. Do you have any reason not to trust him?... (read in full...)
I think of other girls, is this wrong? Should I leave my girlfriend?
Q. should i dump my girlfriend because im thinking about other girls, i mean i know a lot of nice other girls, but i love my girlfriend, but i often wonder if i wasnt with her would i have a better relationship with another girl, and i kinda feel that ...
A. 3 September 2008: When you're in a relationship, it's only natural to think about another girl - as in, be attracted to her! However, when you say you're thinking about them in terms of how a relationship would be with them - I then think you are being slightly ... (read in full...)
We both look at porn for somewhat different reasons, but I'm still jealous!
Q. I am a female and I sometimes look at pornography, mostly because the art I make is pretty risque. I almost always am sort of detached, but it's fun work. Sometimes, but very rarely, I enjoy what I see. My fiance knows I look for reference and ...
A. 3 September 2008: Although you are being hypocritcal in a way, I don't think it's your fault. Nor the unfairness. Many women who's partners look at porn find themselves a little jealous - it's quite frequent. Maybe the only solution to this problem, as I don't think ... (read in full...)
I feel as if I had to compete with the computer for her attantion...
Q. why does my fiance always go online and ignore me and then get upset with me when i say something to her about being online all the time ??? We both had yearbook and tagged and myspace accounts and always argued over them so i erased all mine but ...
A. 2 September 2008: Just because you deleted yours doesn't mean she should too, unless that was the prior agreement. Ask her why she does spend so much time online, and that you'd appreciate it a lot more if she cut it down ..? You're missing her.... (read in full...)
Should I talk to this girl about my old guy or just leave it?
Q. Should I message a guy's old lover to find out the whole story of what happened? Im currently in the process of getting over a guy I've liked for a while. I found out he's a jerk and was seeing other women while we were a thing. He now has a new...
A. 2 September 2008: I think you should leave it. You've realised you're indeed better off without him, thus 75% on your way to being over him completely! I don't think you need to know. Not only don't you need it, it really isn't any of your business now you're not ... (read in full...)
How do I stop being horny all the time?
Q. Ive been single for about 5 months, which has ment no sex, the problem is im horny all the time, its driving me crazy and its all im thinking about How do i stop thinking about it? and how do i stop being horny 24/7? Should i just go and have a on...
A. 2 September 2008: If you do decide to go out and the pull and have a one nighter - do make sure you use protection. Sex with a stranger, whom you know nothing about is very dangerous. Make sure you use a condom! I suggest this because I imagine you've already t... (read in full...)
What exactly is phone sex?
Q. Hi every one, My questions a bit weird, but i can't help but be curious! I was just wandering what is phone sex? And what do you do to have it? Well I know it can't be having sex whilst on the phone because if you are having phone sex with yo...
A. 2 September 2008: Phone sex is where two people on either end of the phone masturbate whilst encouraging the other through panting and moaning. Other things like, talking dirty etc.... (read in full...)
What can I do to make my boyfriend call me more often?
Q. i jst wna knw how to attract my boyfriend towards m so dat he wants to toke to m mre n mre on phn as he hates toking on phn for long hrs...dosnt gift me preasants nor surprse...tell m smthng i can do so dat he miss m alot n gets attrcted towards m ...
A. 2 September 2008: Do you buy him presents?... (read in full...)
Why did he ask me for a walk at all if he didn't want to talk much? I don't know what to think?
Q. hi! there is this guy i love and i think he cares abt me too..i hope he does.. well a couple of days back,he asked me for a walk,and i said yes.we walked quite close but not touching,and he talked very little during the walk..i am wondering..wh...
A. 2 September 2008: Although his anctions are confusing, he may just be in a state where he enjoys your company here and there. It'd explain the walk. That he enjoys walking with you, not necessarily talking to enjoy himself.... (read in full...)
Should I feel guilty for "messing" with a guy who has a girlfriend?
Q. should I feel guilty about messing with a guy who has a girl??? but they are not married????...
A. 2 September 2008: The fact that you even asked the question tells you more than you think. You obviously have something on your conscience...... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my little brother - what can I do?
Q. I'm in love with my little brother. I am currently a senior at my high school and he is a freshmen at the same school. He's casual, down-to-earth, funny, and he has the cutest smile. I've been in love with him for as long as I could remember. ...
A. 2 September 2008: I think SirenaBlusera has said it all love.... (read in full...)
He called me a tease even though I told him I wasn't ready to have sex! Now I'm having nightmares....
Q. About 4 or so months ago I was with my ex bf. One night i was over his place and he kept harrasing me to take my clothes off. I kept saying no because I didnt want to have sex- i wanted to wait until we were in love to have sex. He said 'we dont ...
A. 2 September 2008: Firstly, you said 'yes' to taking your clothes off for entirely the wrong reasons. There and then, when he was pulling his child-like faces, you should've kicked him in his precious area! But i'm pretty sure you realise that, don't feel bad. In the ... (read in full...)
Do you think changing my facebook status will prove anything or was it a mistake?
Q. hi all, just started a new relationship with a really nice guy..... the relationship didnt start well i was seeing someone casually which broke off and he flirted with a female friend to make me jealous. i went over his last night and as we...
A. 2 September 2008: You say you don't know what to 'do' to prove your seriousness - but, it's quite clear what he wants you to do. He wants to see if you like him enough to be willing to wait. That's all you have to do - if you are serious. Just wait until he's come to ... (read in full...)
Is he being trained to play with minds and lie?
Q. He is working as an investigative service agent, i respect him so much. But the question is he's in this job why he's so very good in playing others mind and a very good liar?are they being trained for these? He cheated his wife and also me (i dont ...
A. 2 September 2008: His job title doesn't necessarily mean that's what he is training to do. But, try asking him? If you're unsure about trusting the things he says, true to be or not, will you ever? Will anything ever change? If you can't believe him it's not worth ... (read in full...)
I don't remember my boyfriend putting on a condom, could I be pregnant?
Q. ohh dear where do i begin?! sorry if it sounds rude or dirty or such. back to skool thursday, but im wodering what people will say to me because basically, on the 2nd of august, it was my best mates party, me and my bf were there, who ive known ...
A. 2 September 2008: As much as I sympathise your situation, I can't say I sympathise you at all. The number of details morally wrong in this problem is unreal! If you can get up to this much at 10-12 years of age, god know what the rest of your peers are doing. Not ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to love your step-sister?
Q. So since we all went out as a family me and her keep talking on msn frequency and i enjoy the time with her i get shy when i'm up her house and now she's gone on holiday for two weeks it seems the two weeks are taking forever and I really miss her ...
A. 2 September 2008: Then it's up to you. Do you think you could keep a thing like thids quiet?... (read in full...)
Why do women bring such sentiment and emotion into the bedroom? Why can't they just leave it at the door?...
Q. with most of the girls ive been with, after i slept with them they developed intense emotional feelings even when we weren't close to intimate prior to the events. so my question is this, why do women bring such sentiment and emotion into the ...
A. 1 September 2008: Sex is an intimate and emotional thing. Why shouldn't they?... (read in full...)
Have any women had a pleasureable anal experience? My girlfriend wants to try it and I'm unsure.
Q. Hi, My girlfiend of almost 2 years is getting curious about anal penetration. I,ve read some pretty horrible female accounts of anal. I know it might not be all that pleasurable the first time, but i wanna know that it can get better. I would ...
A. 1 September 2008: When I lost my virginity to my partner - it was possibly the most awful pain I have ever experience. Because I was so sore, we tried a different angle. Hence, anal, and although it was quite uncomfortable in the begining, through a matter of ... (read in full...)
Why email me to say he doesn't care if he really doesn't care? Why not just ignore me?
Q. I was wondering why my ex boyfriend.. [he broke up with me a year ago because he wasn't feeling it so much anymore, but we've been talking and flirting and stuff in school (I'm now 18, he's now 17) etc... but not really spoken to him during the s...
A. 1 September 2008: That boy of 17 still hasn't grown up yet!... (read in full...)
We want to have sex but I am on the pill and REALLY don't trust it! I dislike condoms, too, thus?
Q. Okay, this is so stupid.. But I've got a new boyfriend, and soon we're going to be having sex soon for the first time, and although I'm on the pill I REALLY don't trust it. (The morning after pill failed on me) I'm assuming they've got different ...
A. 1 September 2008: It's either one, the other, or both. As long as you follow every direction when on the pill - everything should be fine. As long as you put on a condom correctly - all should be well! Double your chances of protection by using both. ... (read in full...)
Age differences - should people's reactions matter?
Q. I am a 34 year old male who has just begun dating a 19 year old female. I love being with her and adore her greatly, she is mature for her years , fun, serious when neccessary and has all the qualities of my ideal woman! However, I am concerned ...
A. 1 September 2008: When 15 year olds ask this, people advise - wait until you're 16/18, see how you feel and green for go!
This girl is 19 and people are still referring to her as a teenager. 18 is legally an adult.
Age is just a number. If you connect - go for... (read in full...)
Am I at the right age to father a child? What do you all think?
Q. Hi, What is a right or optimum age to have a baby? I'm 22 and I feel like I'm at a prime age to father a child of my own. My girlfriend (same age) says we are too young and that we should wait. We both work full time so we have regular income a...
A. 1 September 2008: I don't believe you're too young to father a child either. When your girlfriend says you are, I think she means you're both ta an age where you still have SO much to enjoy and discover about being youthful.... (read in full...)
He cheated to be with me...will he do it to me?
Q. I really like this guy and he has cheated on his girlfriend (my best friend) to be with me and I am scared that when I do get with him he will cheat on me. Is this true?...
A. 1 September 2008: It isn't necessarily true. But if he can do it for you then he can certainly do it to you. I'd watch out. And even if he did, it would be your just deserts. This was your best friend after all ...... (read in full...)
I'm 13 and I wish I could have sex with this boy I really liked! Help!
Q. Hi im 13 and i want sex really badly i dream about it but i wish it was reality. Its always with this boy that i really like. Well i say like, but what i mean is love. I have tried telling him but he blanks me. i had a passionate kiss with him in...
A. 1 September 2008: You sent him packing because he has a girlfriend - quite rightly too. If you're going to be intimate with anyone, don't be with someone who already in a relationship.
You're at an age where your hormones are absolutely raging! Try taking on the c... (read in full...)
Wouldn't it destroy our friendship if I told my mate that I like his girlfriend?
Q. I am in love with my friends girlfriend: have been for a while, waaay before they started dating. I try and forget these feelings, but I cant. I just cant. One or two of my other friends know about this, and one of them seems to think I should t...
A. 1 September 2008: I can also see why it would be reasonable for him to know... But if you were to tell him, I do think it would ruin your friendship, on the grounds that he is possibly 'that' type of person who would feel aggitated by it - quite rightly.
You s... (read in full...)
What advice do I give to my friend about her boyfriend?
Q. My friends boyfriend is messing her around - they got together a year ago, they've had their arguments, like all couples, and they've broken up more times than I care to think!! Two Thursdays ago she said he dumped her because she was, in his words ...
A. 1 September 2008: Advise her to get a back bone! She needs to stick up for herself and hold her own.... (read in full...)
How can I make my flat nipples look more proper?
Q. I'm 15 and really self concious of my nipples, or lack of. I have boobs, im a 32DD i just dont undertstand why i dont have proper nipples, theyre like flat how can i make them more like proper nipples? ...
A. 1 September 2008: PS: There's no such thing as 'proper' nipples. Everyone is different.... (read in full...)
Should I call and confront him or let it go? I need closure!
Q. I met this guy over the summer, its been about a month and a half. He'd call me everyday, wish me goodnight EVERY night, go out for dinner/coffee etc. Basically, everything was FAB. About 3 weeks ago, he stopped calling/texting as much, and I found ...
A. 1 September 2008: I'd confront him, although i'm quite a hot headed person. Whatever you do, have it straight out with him and demand and answer in reference to his sudden downfall in contact.
If you decide against that. Oh well, he could've had something great! ... (read in full...)
How can I make my flat nipples look more proper?
Q. I'm 15 and really self concious of my nipples, or lack of. I have boobs, im a 32DD i just dont undertstand why i dont have proper nipples, theyre like flat how can i make them more like proper nipples? ...
A. 1 September 2008: Are they just 'flat nipples' or inverted ones? In any case, I don't think you can do a lot. But either case is normal, frequent and is accepted amongst lots of people.... (read in full...)
My best friend has gotten too close for comfort with my girlfriend!
Q. My girlfriend and I have been dating for nearly a year now, and I love her heaps. Everything has been going great except for one thing. Soon after we started dating, my best friend started talking to her via msn. I was completely cool with this o...
A. 1 September 2008: As your girlfriend has admitted, some of the things he tells her are a bit OTT. Hence, she should talk to him and maybe he will ease up that way.... (read in full...)
What are some methods of emergency contraception?!
Q. dear friends! I have a huge problem! Had unprotected sex with my girlfriend yesterday. Usually we do the pull out method, however I believe that didn't work. We're afraid she could be pregnant, and we are really worried. Are there any other ...
A. 1 September 2008: No, the morning-after pill is your best bet. If this was only yesterday, then you have 48 hours to take it. It costs around £22 at most pharmacy's and has a 99% effect rate within the first 24 hours, however decreases the longer you leave it within ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to love your step-sister?
Q. So since we all went out as a family me and her keep talking on msn frequency and i enjoy the time with her i get shy when i'm up her house and now she's gone on holiday for two weeks it seems the two weeks are taking forever and I really miss her ...
A. 1 September 2008: Ah okay. I see. Well, right at this moment in time she has no blood relation to you, nor in marriage. Definately talk to your parents about it. As your feelings right now, are just as similar to a crush on a girl at school. If you talk to your ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to love your step-sister?
Q. So since we all went out as a family me and her keep talking on msn frequency and i enjoy the time with her i get shy when i'm up her house and now she's gone on holiday for two weeks it seems the two weeks are taking forever and I really miss her ...
A. 1 September 2008: Not at all, for as long as you mean love within a siblingly-love way. Which, I think you do. You've grown attatched to this girl and love her like a sister. Is this what you mean? If not, and that you love her in an intimate/romanti... (read in full...)
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