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writes: I'm in need of advice...I got really drunk the other night and i sent this guy a text saying i want to f**k him and the next morning he texts me saying "i can help you with that" and i read it haveing know clue what he is talking about so i look at my previous text to him and i was so embarssed.Now he thinks i'm a bad ass and now he wants to get wasted with me one day. i'm scared cuz who knows whats going to happened when i get drunk and i afriad he will take advantage of me. i really like him alot but i dont know what i'm dealing with!
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reader, DrCynic  +, writes (12 April 2007):
 I dunno where you're from, but first off, stay off the booze! You're definately too young for liquor.
Second, explain the situation and make it very clear you aren't on the meat market yet.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2007): Hi
Just wanted to let you know your not alone. I did exactly the same last week after a great day out with my mate. We both got so drunk and got into difficulties trying to walk to the bus stop. So I phoned a guy from my work who has been flirting with me for months and told him I really fancied him and needed a lift home. I lost my mobile down the toilet at the bus station after that and I haven't seen or heard from him since. I'm so ashamed and don't know if he's been texting or phoning my mobile and thinks i'm not talking to him or if I've just scared him off the face of the earth! I think the only advice I can give is to apologise to your mate when you do see him, which I'm hoping one day I will get the chance to do when I eventually see the one I rang and hope we can all laugh it off then forget about it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 February 2007): Tell him that you were drunk when you sent the text. That way he'll know that you didn't mean it and it will hopefully sort everything out.
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reader, Ponungalungb +, writes (11 February 2007):
 You're 13 - 15 and you're getting wasted?!!!!
In the US, it's illegal to drink before you're 21. . . with good reason. You're not mature enough to handle it, for one (not that anyone is ever mature enough to handle it). There are no redeeming qualities to drinking alcohol. Alcohol is good for killing brain cells, and causing drinkers to engage in reckless and often times dangerous behavior. My best advice to you is stop drinking. Period.
You won't have to worry about being taken advantage of, or doing stupid things if you're sober.
You need to find something in your life to give you an emotional high - no drugs, and no more alcohol. Take up a sport or a hobby. Do something that will give you a reason for becoming a better human being. Going through life in a drunken stupor is a waste of a life.
Good luck!
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reader, Astrid  +, writes (11 February 2007):
 Advice on this point is easy to follow
1.explain u were drunk and you absolutely repent it, invite him sober for a cofee or just phone if u feel safer on the phone
2. do not ever get drunk again in men's company only on little girls party when u can have someone back home with you or at home but DO NOT GET DRUNK tipsy would be ideal it lasts little and makes u cheery some hours be4 walking safely home girl
3. if you do not fell ok about point one say a bloke stole ur mobile and texted such stuff to friends of your and that u really apologise
good luck and do not be left alone with the guy u texted again just in case
ciao
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reader, Jendorset  +, writes (11 February 2007):
Is he older than you ? Basically, just tell him, or text him. You were way to drunk to know what you were talking about and you DID NOT mean it. Tell him you send stupid texts to a couple of people. Dont get drunk with him, he would obviously try it on while you were drunk and that isnt good. Just tell him, and anyone else that knows about that it was a mistake, you didnt mean it at all, and just stay away from him. Also, your not old enough to be having sex. Remember that.
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reader, dragonette  +, writes (11 February 2007):
 Oh the things we do when we get drunk... I remember once in my far away youth having gotten way too drunk and pulled off my clothes and taken a dip in my friend's pool, only to discover that she had put in chlorine in it the same day. My more sensitive parts itched for a week after that.
Now, back to your problem: talk to your friend casually about the message. Sometime when you hang out, tell him "you know that stupid message I sent you a few nights ago, I was just too drunk and I thought it was funny then, be a good friend and forget it."
And if he's still going on about getting drunk with you after that, let him know that you're doing a couple of months of non-alcoholic drinks because you really don't want to wake up the next morning again to find that you sent more embarrassing text messages.
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