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writes: i reli lyk dis gurl. she told me on dat she wud luv to get flowers n a card on valentines day as she never has b4. cud this be a hint 4 me? shes reli busy so we never get to meet. ive asked to go movies wid her n she said ye but durin holidays which is in 2weeks. so dats fyn. does she seem interested? durin da movie i wana put my hand on top of hers. im scared she will pull away n it will be so awkward n embarassin for me afta. i must do it as i wont get a better chance ever agen ! help ny other tips?
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reader, Miss Optimistic  +, writes (4 February 2007):
Try gentle touches first. Like touching her arm as you talk or picking something off her shoulder. Sounds cheesey but it'll give you a good idea of what her boundaries are. If she's comfortable with those go for it!!
Also look out for how close she sits to you and if she touches you on the arm. If she leans in, that's another good sign!!
Have fun and relax!
Good luck and best wishes.
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reader, Astrid  +, writes (4 February 2007):
 u can just try and see what happens if ur going out then it would be normal thing to happen
good luck
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reader, jabey +, writes (4 February 2007):
from what you are saying its sounds as though she has an interest in you. Us women do make hints about flowers often to men we wish to receive them from. And she has agreed to go out with you all positive signs. So I would not worry make your move put your hand on hers. If she likes that great if not you will know, and with such a gentle move you really wont have to feel embarrassed. It will just tell you she is not ready for that. Rejection is always a scary thing. But try to have the motto nothing ventured nothing gained. You really have nothing to loose.
If she goes for it great. If she does not hold your head high. She will only be flattered that you like her, and Im sure wont be offended. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2007): go for it - i tell you now that she wont pull away from u just touching her hand - dont touch it, actually hold it aswell. dont miss ur oppitunity
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