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Had sex with my cousin, we are both preteens! What can you advise us?

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Question - (4 June 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 4 June 2008)
A male Qatar age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I am 13 years old and my mother's sister's daughter is 11 and half years old. We are neighbours and from childhood we know each other. We used to show our p. parts and gradualy started fingering each other. Two days before we put it inside and did it for 4 or 5 minutes and finished. I came to know about of how to do it from a senior boy. He says that this is called incest and we will be arrested. She is not my real sister. Any harm in doing this. I asked her. She also likes it and enjoyed it very much. Only she had little pain in the beginning. We love each other too much.

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A female reader, lushlass93 United Kingdom +, writes (4 June 2008):

lushlass93 agony auntthis is wrong as she is your cousin and also iots rong beacuse she is much younger tahn you and you are harming her she could have alot of problems when she is older and you are only young youreself you are probably confused but just dont do it again and try and get help

good luck xxx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2008):

I do not know the laws in the Qutar, but I know what you are doing is wrong. DO NOT HAVE SEX WITH YOUR COUSIN. SHE IS TOO YOUNG AND LITTLE. YOU WILL DAMAGE HER.

Your the older one, you should be protecting her not having sex with her. Are you going to marry her. Is this something she can tell her parents. What will she tell her husband when she marries, that she had sex with you when she was eleven. You do not love this girl, because you show her no respect.

Your older, stop having sex with her at once. If you love her you will wait. You better be carefull that nobody ever finds out, what you are doing is dangerous. You are causing this girl dishonor.

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A female reader, aphexinfinite United Kingdom +, writes (4 June 2008):

aphexinfinite agony auntok sweetie you need to stop what you are doing because it is most likely illegal in your country and their could be serious consequences..and you are to young to be having sexual experiences..and i agree with uncle sneaker their is a chance via this she could get pregnant.and also the love you feel for her could be sisterly love and not real love we have to be careful in life with our feelings as they can be decieving..so i would stop what you are doing now..sorry thats my opinion aphexy

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A male reader, Uncle Sneaker United Kingdom +, writes (4 June 2008):

Uncle Sneaker agony auntUm yes. Don't do it again.

I've no idea what the laws are in Qatar, but in the UK it would be illegal - not mainly because of it being "incest", but because of your ages.

Again, I'm speaking for the UK, but I would guess it's very much the same there - it's highly likely that if and when someone finds out what you are doing, the local social services (or whatever the equivalent is) will become involved and will in all probability remove you and/or your cousin(?) to a place of safety, which means away from each other and away from your home and your family.

You do also realise that there is a real chance she could become pregnant by doing this? It's not impossible for an eleven year old to get pregnant.

Leave any physical stuff like this until you are both much older, and then you won't have any problems.

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