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Does a blow job involve blowing? I'm confused....

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Question - (16 August 2008) 8 Answers - (Newest, 21 August 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

This may sound stupid but what's a blowjob and how do i do it? I have sucked my man and had him cum in my mouth,is a blow job different? Does it involve blowing? Im so confused! X

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A female reader, natasia United Kingdom +, writes (21 August 2008):

natasia agony auntoh for goodness' sake: you put it in your mouth, lick it, suck it gently, and then the guy has an orgasm and it tastes nice and you swallow it. Simple!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2008):

Thanx,yeh i meant to write i do move up and down nt just suck! Everythng u have all written is pretty much wot i have been doin so thanku! X

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2008):

It is exactly what you are doing, and from your description, it sounds like you are doing a fine job of it. Like natasia, I had always assumed that the blow part came from making him blow, or explode. In my opinion, just sucking is not a blow job, although most people think that any oral to a man is a blow job.

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A male reader, DoubleM United States + , writes (17 August 2008):

DoubleM agony auntThere is absolutely no "blowing" involved with a blow job, and I'm unsure how the term originated. I'll agree with "Uncle Phil" to some degree, that a woman basically allows a man's erect penis to penetrate her mouth as if having intercourse, except that the woman usually provides most of the "motion" by bobbing her head somewhat. I insist that a bit of "sucking" definitely enhances the stimulation, including powerfully sucking the tip of the penis. Sometimes the man may thrust in-and-out himself, such as when she lays prone with her head on a pillow.

Some women can tolerate very deep penile penetration even past the back of the mouth and down the throat for a few insertions, but this usually causes gagging and prevents breathing. The women who enjoy or allow ejaculation into their mouths can definitely enhance the man's climax by sucking throughout his orgasm. Again, powerfully sucking the tip during release can create an amazing orgasm. In my opinion, the sucking sensation is what provides the intense feeling, especially during climax. Vaginas do not do that, although some women can "squeeze" their vaginal walls to increase a man's sensations. Basically, "blow jobs" feel better than vaginal intercourse to many men, or at least offer variety. But you are not trying to inflate it.

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A female reader, natasia United Kingdom +, writes (17 August 2008):

natasia agony auntno there's no blowing, as far as i am concerned - have always presumed the 'blow' element is from the meaning of 'blow' as in 'explode' ... ; )

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A female reader, chloe71z United States +, writes (17 August 2008):

chloe71z agony auntNo its you do not blow on it, But sucking is done. My husband Loves it. To tell you the truth unless there gay and have actually given a blow job before men really dont know how its done, they just know what they like when we do it. Also Im going to share a little secret with you that most people dont know. If you use your hand as an exstention of your mouth and im mean keep it right next to your lips as your giving him head it acts as an extention of your own lips just make shure you have plenty of lubrication so you dont rub him raw.

Good luck hope this helps.

I know my husband Loves receving head from me. I hope it works for you also.

Take care.

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A female reader, aphexinfinite United Kingdom +, writes (17 August 2008):

aphexinfinite agony auntlol dont worry lots of people get confused but here is a website that will give you alot of help of understanding fellatio ie blowjob good luck aphex xx http://www.sexinfo101.com/pm_fellatio.shtml

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2008):

'Blowjob' is a misnomer. You neither blow nor suck, but move your mouth up and down much the same as if your mouth was your pussy. The only difference is that your pussy doen't have a tongue or tastebuds.

Simple.

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