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I am getting very paranoid about my height, I used to shrug off comments, now they are getting to me!

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Question - (20 August 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 20 August 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *armajuke writes:

I'm being very paranoid about my height i'm 5ft soo very small and alot of people i know call me "umpalumpa" or they make jokes using lord of the rings calling me a "hobbit" i never used to take offence to this but now i am and i feel that whenever i meet someone they will be thinking those things? plus i dont think any guy would like me because of my height? ahhh its soo annoying!

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A female reader, leyan New Zealand +, writes (20 August 2008):

leyan agony auntHi,

My mom is 5ft and been married to my dad for nearly 40yrs now, and my dad is 6ft2", when younger, she used to wear very high heals and put her hair up and still get only to his shoulders, lol, he actually loves that she is much shorter than him, and says good things come in small packages.

Don't worry about what other people say and remember, looks are not everything, confidance is sexy.

All the best.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2008):

Look I'm not getting into this again. It's humilating because being short is cute I'm told. Don't worry, there are ton's of jealous people, who know that being small is sweet... AHAHHAHAH... You must learn to love yourself, I have to as well.. :)

Read this, and don't ask any more questions about height...

http://www.dearcupid.org/question/do-guys-like-short-girls.html

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2008):

I'm 20, and I am the same height as you.

People used to call me smurf and "The perfect arm rest", whilst they had their elbows placed on my head. I would just laught at it and come up with my own little comments such as: "At least it rains on you first and I get a warning" or "Good things come in small packages".

You will never be able to change your height, it's just something you will have to come to terms with and accept.

People may throw these things at you but when they see that it really doesn't bother you or affect you in any way they'll get bored and back off.

And also there are lots of guys who like small girls. I had a very serious relationship for the last two years even thought I'm tiny. My height didn't affect the relationship at all.

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A female reader, aphexinfinite United Kingdom +, writes (20 August 2008):

aphexinfinite agony auntdont worry my mum and one of my friends are under the 5'ft barrier.. and my mum has been happily married for 30 odd years and my friend has just been married and has a baby..great things come in small packages!!!i know its hard to let cruel names float by but the thing is least you know who are your true friends are.. keep your head high because their is nothing wrong with your height at all and who wants to be 5'6ft anyway its all rubbish that you must be this high or this thin..most people dont want a barbie and if they do then they are shallow but it would be nice if they kept their comments to themselfs but no such luck..someone will want you their is nothing wrong with you at all.. hope that helps good luck aphex xx

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