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... Send *indyCares a private message | | | *indyCares's profile:Hi everybody. I am an Italian woman currently living in Italy but I spent many years in England and USA. I hope my English is still decent but in case it got a little rusty, please be lenient.
My age ? Let say that I am way past the stage when you cry if the boy you like takes your best friend to the prom, and young enough to remember how awful that feels.
What qualifies me to help people- well, let me show off just a bit and mention that I studied Psychology 4 years in college, and, even if then I graduated in a different subject, I never lost my interest in psychology and kept reading a lot about this subject. Yet that does not really qualify me for anything because intellectual knowledge is not the same as real life experience. So let's say I feel I can advice people because I have lived a lot, travelled a lot, met a lot of people from all backgrounds , races and religions- I have loved a lot, and I have also been dumped a lot :)
Plus, I am really fascinated with people and their stories. Not in a gossipy way. I just find that every person is a whole new world that I am excited to discover.
Right now I am single- and happily so. I realized- better late than never - that rather than waiting for Prince Charming I should first become a Princess myself. You can't love anybody unconditionally, if first you don't love yourself unconditionally, and this is what I am learning to do.
Looking forward to hear from all of you..
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And, just to be a spoilsport :) at 13 weeks, why do you say you have a large stomach ?? If this is your first preg... (read in full...)
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That's just the way you are wired , same as many other women. There's nothing intrinsecally wrong in that.
Yes , perhaps there could be some "trick " that you... (read in full...)
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I'm so scared I'm going to be left on the shelf!
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A. 22 December 2011: On the shelf at 31 ? Naaahhh. You are not a yoghurt,you don't have an expiration date, you are not going to go bad and send out a strange scent.
I second what Tisha says, when you are looking for something- bf, job, a flat , anything- you 've got ... (read in full...)
Can't help thinking she's settling for me....
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A. 22 December 2011: I'd say that a difference in sex drive is too little to make you reach such dire conclusions.
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How can I tell my parents that I really want to marry him?
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A. 21 December 2011: OP, have your wife insert her finger in your anus. Then , have her insert her dildo in it.
I think you'll find the answer you are looking for. ... (read in full...)
Should he come over to my sister's place at all, given how awkward his last visit was?
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A. 21 December 2011: Don't stress too much , it's nothing that a bit of mutual tolerance and understanding in the Holidays spirit of cheer and good will won't solve. Relax, and accept that nobody is perfect .
Yes, probably your sister, as a houseproud host, is a bit ... (read in full...)
How do I help my wife find her next husband?
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A. 21 December 2011: I AM assisting you as much as I can, and my assistence consists precisely in reminding you something that you apparently have forgotten : She is your adult soon-to-be ex wife, not your pupil,not a minor, not incapacitated, not mentally ill, - ... (read in full...)
Should I proceed with the wedding after having been lied to and cheated on?
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A. 21 December 2011: So, the first year was bad, the second year was bad, the third year was bad,.... and the fourth year you want to marry him ? It makes no sense.
... (read in full...)
Why does this guy only text me after 11pm?
Q. Hello everyone, so there's this guy. I have had feelings for him in the past, but he's currently in a relationship. I really don't know my feelings for him right now. I've hung out with him recently, and I've noticed that (unless he wants to set up ...
A. 21 December 2011: Probably because he is spending time with his gf, or texting her, until 10.50.... (read in full...)
How do I help my wife find her next husband?
Q. I have decided my wife deserves a new husband. I cannot give what she feels will make her happy. She and I have discussed this subject at length and I am simply not the man for the "job". She does not know I have reached this conclusion but I ...
A. 21 December 2011: You don't have to worry. If your wife wants a new, better husband she 'll let you know and she'll surely be able to proceed without any assistence from you. Women are much more adept ,ingenious and creative at replacing husbands than their exes ... (read in full...)
B/f has hot body I want him to go shirtless!
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A. 20 December 2011: It's not outrage.... it's more like sheer amazement ! I have traveled to some very hot countries - Mexico, Santo Domingo, Thailand to name a few, and never seen anybody shirtless in the streets. Italian summers too can be scorching in the ... (read in full...)
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A. 20 December 2011: Only 7 things I like about myself ???Lol..:
I guess this could be strength number one :
1) I am self confident
2) I am intelligent
3 ) I am educated
4 ) I am generous
5 ) I have a good sense of humour
6 ) I am resilient
7)) I am talen... (read in full...)
Do I have the right to be mad?
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A. 20 December 2011: Yes and no.
I feel your pain, I have scarce patience for drunks, particularly mean and obnoxious drunks, and if I had been in your shoes , I would have been furious too.
But... your husband sounds like such a great guy. A kind , compassi... (read in full...)
Am I in the wrong for being mad?
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A. 20 December 2011: They did not scar your heart, they scarred your ego. You'll survive :)
You thought you had made a conquest, and you were flattered ( whether you liked the boy or not ). Then 3 days later you find out that after all he prefers the other girl,- so y... (read in full...)
How long should I give him before I decide its not going to happen?
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A. 20 December 2011: I agree with mizz.butterflies, country and culture of origin MAY be very relevant. Different cultural perceptions.Very subtle some times, nevertheless they are there.
Example :
when I moved to USA at first I used to get upset because perfect ... (read in full...)
If this man likes me why won't he pursue me?
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He is off work for the holidays and starts drinking at 11am! Should I accept this or confront him?
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A. 20 December 2011: My advice will sound unnecessarily drastic to you but all I can say is : abandon ship. Now. You have seen the shape of things to come.
Sure you can confront him all you want. Ask him to change. Nag him, even. But I doubt you will accomplish much... (read in full...)
Is my weight appropriate?
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A. 20 December 2011: Yes, you are underweight. Your BMI is around 17 and it should not be less than 18.5. You may not look unhealthy, and feel perfectly fine, but you are not at an healthy weight, at least by medical guidelines. You should consult a nutritionist. ... (read in full...)
B/f has hot body I want him to go shirtless!
Q. My boyfriend has a hot body and he rarely takes his shirt off. I want him to go shirtless more often. How do I get him to go shirtless more often?...
A. 20 December 2011: Well, where would he go shirtless ..? he'd get thrown out of any shop or bar or restaurant . Oh... you mean at home ?? Then it's easy - Just tell him. I don't think any man can be too opposed to " mmmm... you have such a hot body that I can't ever ... (read in full...)
How do I spot a player? I think I may be dating one. Please Help.
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A. 20 December 2011: A good keyline is "I used to be a player,but now I grew up ".
Just kidding :)
The best advice I can give you is : always watch what they do, not what the say. With players, and with everybody else in life. Talk is cheap, and for some people w... (read in full...)
I'm tired of him making excuses not to try for a child or to get engaged!
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A. 19 December 2011: I am scratching my head here. I am of two minds. On one hand, call me a wet blanket, call me unadventurous, but I believe that both future parents MUST have steady/full time jobs before tryng for a baby. So what your bf says makes perfect sense ... (read in full...)
I would prefer to see him on Sunday. Am I being mean by telling my boyfriend to get over not feeling well?
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A. 19 December 2011: All's well that ends well, OP. I am glad a solution materialized that made everybody happy and also gave you some food for thought so similar frictions will be bypassed in future.
A couple of comments though, if you allow me. The first abou... (read in full...)
he chose that girl over me so why is he coming to me for things when he need to be going to her?
Q. Me and a guy talked for almost a year. Let's call this guy S. Well at the beginning of me and S "relationship" he had just gotten out of a 6 month relationship. At this time me and S (very flirtatious, always touching on someone type guy) were close ...
A. 19 December 2011: Oh yes, I remember the whole " messing around " saga . It sounds like you are stuck with it and can't let it go.
What do you care WHY does he ask you to give him head ? Is it so important ? The important thing would be if you'd start showing a li... (read in full...)
I sent my fwb a drunken text and he's been distant to me ever since!
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A. 19 December 2011: You should accept that you are just the girl he is having sex with ( if you are the only one !...) so he does not want to see or be part of any " emotional crap " from you. If he can have you at his conditions, no pressures, no drama, no demands, ... (read in full...)
What does it mean when you can't forget your first love?
Q. What does it mean when you can't forget your first love? We only dated 2 years, but I still think about and miss him every day. We have been broken up for almost 2 years also, and have very little contact.I have dated many people since, and things ...
A. 19 December 2011: It means that you haven't REALLY moved on and are still misdirecting your emotional anergies in the wrong directions. It means that you haven't REALLY come to terms with the fact it's over, and that if it's over there must have been a reason, and ... (read in full...)
My b/f says that since I have been with others, he needs to have that experience too
Q. my bf and i have been together for 3 yrs now. I was with other men before we got together but i was his first. i love him very much and he says he feels the same but he wants to be with other women. he says that since i have been with other men he ...
A. 19 December 2011: What he says is disrespectful- and silly.
Of course, you being a different individual from him, have lived different life- not just sexual - experiences. If he wants you to be even, then he must also get your menstrual cramps. Or the brac... (read in full...)
My b/f says that since I have been with others, he needs to have that experience too
Q. my bf and i have been together for 3 yrs now. I was with other men before we got together but i was his first. i love him very much and he says he feels the same but he wants to be with other women. he says that since i have been with other men he ...
A. 19 December 2011: What he says is disrespectful- and silly.
Of course, you being a different individual from him, have lived different life- not just sexual - experiences. If he wants you to be even, then he must also get your menstrual cramps. Or the brac... (read in full...)
I would prefer to see him on Sunday. Am I being mean by telling my boyfriend to get over not feeling well?
Q. hey everyone! Do I have the right to be miffed or am I in the wrong?! Any help is much appreciated!!! I'm going away on vacation Wednesday for two weeks and, thus, won't be here for the holidays. For the past two weeks, my boyfriend and I ...
A. 19 December 2011: My opinion does not change. Your BF said he's feeling too unwell to come over on Sunday, and if you can't accept that :
- either you don't believe he is telling the truth and you suspect him of making excuses to weasel out of a previous comm... (read in full...)
I would prefer to see him on Sunday. Am I being mean by telling my boyfriend to get over not feeling well?
Q. hey everyone! Do I have the right to be miffed or am I in the wrong?! Any help is much appreciated!!! I'm going away on vacation Wednesday for two weeks and, thus, won't be here for the holidays. For the past two weeks, my boyfriend and I ...
A. 18 December 2011: Frankly I think that here if there 's a drama queen, it's not the boy.
Yes, canceling plans last minute is rude- unless there's a good reason. A flu bug is a good reason. He showed up at work because he HAD to, while hopefully one can count on h... (read in full...)
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