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My age ? Let say that I am way past the stage when you cry if the boy you like takes your best friend to the prom, and young enough to remember how awful that feels.
What qualifies me to help people- well, let me show off just a bit and mention that I studied Psychology 4 years in college, and, even if then I graduated in a different subject, I never lost my interest in psychology and kept reading a lot about this subject. Yet that does not really qualify me for anything because intellectual knowledge is not the same as real life experience. So let's say I feel I can advice people because I have lived a lot, travelled a lot, met a lot of people from all backgrounds , races and religions- I have loved a lot, and I have also been dumped a lot :)
Plus, I am really fascinated with people and their stories. Not in a gossipy way. I just find that every person is a whole new world that I am excited to discover.
Right now I am single- and happily so. I realized- better late than never - that rather than waiting for Prince Charming I should first become a Princess myself. You can't love anybody unconditionally, if first you don't love yourself unconditionally, and this is what I am learning to do.
Looking forward to hear from all of you..
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19 August 2014: Yeah I know : ultimately love is a mystery, not an exact science. There's always an element of sheer luck, of serendipity, of magic in it. Some times you do everything right, by the book, you are the perfect gf / wife / lover .. and you still get ...
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I'm just afraid that down the road, we (or mainly I) will get sick of the same ol' same ol'
Q. Okay so my boyfriend doesn't like to be very spontaneous or do exhilirating things I like to do... such as riding rollercoasters, ice skating, carnivals, etc. And I've grown up with all of these things as a big part of my life, and they matter to ...
A. 7 January 2013: I'll add to SVC's excellent advice ( find like minded friends to do the stuff you like with ) another :
Look for something new that you and your bf can start fresh doing together , ( so neither carnival rides nor his same old same old. ) It does... (read in full...)
I got pregnant from a drunken night with my ex and he doesn't want me to have the baby!
Q. I broke up with my ex at the start of the year a few months later I met another man, things with him seemed great at first but quickly got worse as we were both still hung up on our ex's. Things came to an end but we stayed in touch and about a ...
A. 5 January 2013: Do call the helpline, it is still better than nothing, and anyway phone advisory services can be very helpful and effective, and the anonimate , and not seeing the person who's talking to you, often makes for BETTER, more open communication. I ... (read in full...)
I got pregnant from a drunken night with my ex and he doesn't want me to have the baby!
Q. I broke up with my ex at the start of the year a few months later I met another man, things with him seemed great at first but quickly got worse as we were both still hung up on our ex's. Things came to an end but we stayed in touch and about a ...
A. 4 January 2013: Think. Think hard.
You are going to do something that you don't want to do, - to please a man that's been , is being, and most probably will be, horrible to you.
If you have no money to raise a child, that's one thing. If you fell/think/f... (read in full...)
My BF has been messaging another girl for 2 months. What should I do?
Q. So I'm on here because I don't quite know what to do. I just found out yesterday on New Year's Day that my boyfriend has been messaging some girl, trying to get into her knickers for the past 2 months. The girl in question sent me the proof. I'm n...
A. 4 January 2013: Very seldom staying friends with exes is a good idea, even with " good " exes . You can't really, honestly be friends with someone you still have romantic feelings for.
In this case , then, friends.... uhm. Do you normally pick your friends amon... (read in full...)
My BF has been messaging another girl for 2 months. What should I do?
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A. 2 January 2013: Oh no, you know what to do, it's just that you don't really want to do it because it takes a little of backbone and self discipline.
Surely, it's easier- for now- to believe, or pretend to believe , his " he says he says ". Until the next " roug... (read in full...)
Are his reasons for keeping it casual and unofficial valid?
Q. I've been seeing this guy for a little over 6 months. We were boyfriend and girlfriend until the end of November when he broke up with me. He said he wanted to break up because he's too stressed because he got fired from his job and he needed t...
A. 2 January 2013: No, it's not a real reason. It COULD be if he were so focused on getting a new job, to have all his free time w tied up in job hunting or going back to school etc. But apparentgly you still keep seeing each other quite often and doing the same ... (read in full...)
I usually pick the losers and jerks - I'm scared to see what happens this time!
Q. So I've started talking to this guy that has a lot in common with me, its like we can constantly talk and not get tired of each other. I have never been able to talk to someone like this and it feels really weird, and Im afraid I am going to say ...
A. 2 January 2013: Tennisstar88 is right. This is a " handle with care ".
Well, it's better than I thought :). At least you know him and hang out in person, which is an 100% more reliable way to get to know a person than just through texts or emails. The age diff... (read in full...)
My BF has been messaging another girl for 2 months. What should I do?
Q. So I'm on here because I don't quite know what to do. I just found out yesterday on New Year's Day that my boyfriend has been messaging some girl, trying to get into her knickers for the past 2 months. The girl in question sent me the proof. I'm n...
A. 2 January 2013: If you don't want to be like your mother and you don't want to look like a mig, there's nothing else for you to do than stick to your decisiosn and stay broken up.
This is not some sort of " being cought up in the moment " or yielding to stro... (read in full...)
Do I have any say since we've broken up emotionally? Does it seem very sly what he's doing?
Q. We have been together 6 years im 46 hes 44 we have not had sex in 2 yrs we decided to call it quits but we stay together only for financial reason, until we get our money in order for the next 6 months anyway. I have found him talking to som...
A. 2 January 2013: No, if you called it quits and are just sharing teh same physical space for financial reason, you have no say in what he does.
He is not being sly, he is keeping his personal business private . He does not have to tell you whom he talks to and ... (read in full...)
Can a relationship work when age, tastes and especially nationality are so different and the language between you both is limited?
Q. I have a thing for my work mate and things have happened between us in the past, a kiss here and there, flirting ect. But we have a lot of differences between us, he is almost 28 and I'm just 22, things like our music taste is completely differen...
A. 2 January 2013: Yes, you are overanalizing , and that comes , I suppose, from your limited life experience and a rather provimcial, restricted vision of the world from both of you.
I am not dismissing the existence of differences between you, or the poss... (read in full...)
Can a relationship work when age, tastes and especially nationality are so different and the language between you both is limited?
Q. I have a thing for my work mate and things have happened between us in the past, a kiss here and there, flirting ect. But we have a lot of differences between us, he is almost 28 and I'm just 22, things like our music taste is completely differen...
A. 2 January 2013: I had to smile , reading your submittal :) Aren't UK and Poland both European states... Uh big cultural divide between Polish and English. They eat sausage, and you eat fish and chips ; nah, it can't ever work, lol.
I am not saying that there are ... (read in full...)
Two months together but not "official" yet. Is he up to no good? I want to lose my virginity with him. Can you give me advice please?
Q. modnote: OP - People will ask so please advise in followup why you cannot obtain Birth Control in US?? Hi all, and Happy New Year! So I've been seeing this guy for about 2 months now... we're pretty much a couple even though there isn't any o...
A. 1 January 2013: Honey, let him worry about what's healthy for him, if you are smart you'll only worry about,, and go for, what's healthy for YOU. You really have to make up your mind what your expectations are from this relationship, or non-yet-relationship.
Y... (read in full...)
Is she genuinely interested in me or desperate?
Q. I am writing this letter to seek your valuable advise. There is this woman working in the same building as me but in a different office. When she joined her office, she was introduced to me by the HR who is common to both of us. It has been alm...
A. 1 January 2013: Why should she be desperate ?... So if a girl fancies you, it must be because she is desperate and can't get anything better ? Wow, enroll yourself in the first self esteem class you can find ! :)
I don't think that being bald and looking olde... (read in full...)
Two months together but not "official" yet. Is he up to no good? I want to lose my virginity with him. Can you give me advice please?
Q. modnote: OP - People will ask so please advise in followup why you cannot obtain Birth Control in US?? Hi all, and Happy New Year! So I've been seeing this guy for about 2 months now... we're pretty much a couple even though there isn't any o...
A. 1 January 2013: If you take birth control pills, for instance, the monthly cost won't ruin you, even if you are an impecunious student, I think it's something around 25 -30 dollars a month. ( Think how much will cost, if you have to get an abortion or raise a ... (read in full...)
Two months together but not "official" yet. Is he up to no good? I want to lose my virginity with him. Can you give me advice please?
Q. modnote: OP - People will ask so please advise in followup why you cannot obtain Birth Control in US?? Hi all, and Happy New Year! So I've been seeing this guy for about 2 months now... we're pretty much a couple even though there isn't any o...
A. 1 January 2013: This guy is up to no good, if we want to call " no good " his desire for casual sex , with no formal relationship.
Do YOU call it no good ? ... meaning, it's evident that this guy wants to keep things fun, physical and non -relationshipy, whic... (read in full...)
My LDR girlfriend wants to see other people. I feel that she's playing games and sending mixed messages. Any advice/ thoughts?
Q. Dear cupids, I need some reassurance on my thoughts. Here's my story. I was in a LDR (couple of hours away) for the past 3 years and we began to fall apart last few months. We visited a lot and had the utmost respect for each other. Loved each o...
A. 1 January 2013: Actually the message is not that mixed, she said it loud and clear : she wants to see other people, play the field a bit, does not want to be in a committed relationship with you. Clearer than that... The general intention makes the specific ... (read in full...)
How can I set things right with my old friends?
Q. I need to know how to put things right between me and and old friends.We had an argument because I was sick of being pushed aside and not being treated right and being spoken to in the attitude I was. It was usetting me and I was advice to say ...
A. 1 January 2013: You are underestimating a relevant detail, i.e. that all this started with an argument between you and your friend even befor his gf arrived on the scene. And the argument was because he ALREADY had been not treating you right, giving you an ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend likes much younger women and I'm worried about him leaving me for someone younger than me
Q. I have two problems which are really causing me a lot of stress. You see, I am a 22 years old and looking to get married. I've lived in 4 countries, speak multiple languages, don't drink/smoke/go clubbing, and am almost finished with university. I ...
A. 31 December 2012: This is a strange post. Disturbing.
You get involved with a guy into human trafficking- and he is NOT quite done yet with the mafia , remember...( then again, if you belong to a mafia-like organizations, there's no retirement party with a gift... (read in full...)
She posts everything we do on facebook!
Q. im with this girl that is say young enough to be my daughter. i love her very much and i even ended a long term marriage for her. but lately i have been thinking about things she put on facebook when we were dating. i told her one night when we were ...
A. 31 December 2012: I get the feeling- correct me if I am wrong- that your gf may be at current about the financial situation, but has so far been spared any hardship . You are in debt and filing for bankcruptcy, but so far she still got wined and dined , and full ... (read in full...)
I got pregnant from a drunken night with my ex and he doesn't want me to have the baby!
Q. I broke up with my ex at the start of the year a few months later I met another man, things with him seemed great at first but quickly got worse as we were both still hung up on our ex's. Things came to an end but we stayed in touch and about a ...
A. 31 December 2012: @ anon reader : a man who does not want to give a woman the power to " alter his life " should get a vasectomy or keep it zipped in his pants. ( Or, at the very very least, use protection ).
Having unprotected sex then whining " ... but I did ... (read in full...)
In a FWB relationship should I be angry that he stood me up?
Q. I have been seeing a guy for quite a short time. It started out as a one night stand but we have been seeing each others again after that. It is clear it is nothing else than for sex, which is fine with me since I am recently single and not really ...
A. 31 December 2012: Eh Agneta... you see what happens when you don't listen to the Aunts ,lol .
Not to rub it in your face, but you could totally have seen this coming. Started as an ONS... continued but clearly it's about sex only... he starts being a jerk, and stan... (read in full...)
I usually pick the losers and jerks - I'm scared to see what happens this time!
Q. So I've started talking to this guy that has a lot in common with me, its like we can constantly talk and not get tired of each other. I have never been able to talk to someone like this and it feels really weird, and Im afraid I am going to say ...
A. 31 December 2012: But, how old this guy is ?
And , did you meet him in person, or on line only ?....... (read in full...)
I got pregnant from a drunken night with my ex and he doesn't want me to have the baby!
Q. I broke up with my ex at the start of the year a few months later I met another man, things with him seemed great at first but quickly got worse as we were both still hung up on our ex's. Things came to an end but we stayed in touch and about a ...
A. 31 December 2012: "I am just tryng to work out if my reasons justify me having an abortion" - what do you mean, subjectively for you, or objectively from the point of view of outsiders ?
Subjectively, if you think you can't deal with it, and you don't feel prep... (read in full...)
My boyfriend suffers from OCD and is too set in his ways. How can I get him to change?
Q. My boyfriend is too stuck in his ways.. He suffers with anxiety and ocd, its really quite bad but I knew this before I stated going out with him, I just feel its getting to much for me even though I love him. He won't get on buses to go places w...
A. 30 December 2012: No it won't work. And honestly, I don't see WHY it should work, if his strategy is just expecting that you suck it up always staying caring and accepting.
You are his partner, not his nurse in some psychiatric patients facility. Partners met ... (read in full...)
Why are women so confusing?
Q. Why are women so confusing? Why can't women ever just say whats on their mind? This past semester I met a nice girl in college and I would text her regularly. We would talk about music, movies, sports and whatever else was going on with school. I ...
A. 30 December 2012: Because she got distracted by other people, interests, pursuits etc. Making small talk with you may have been a good passtime or entertainment for a while, but people do lose interest , some times, in doing always the same thing and searches for ... (read in full...)
I'm just afraid that down the road, we (or mainly I) will get sick of the same ol' same ol'
Q. Okay so my boyfriend doesn't like to be very spontaneous or do exhilirating things I like to do... such as riding rollercoasters, ice skating, carnivals, etc. And I've grown up with all of these things as a big part of my life, and they matter to ...
A. 30 December 2012: Is it silly getting peeved at your bf who dislikes rollercoasters ?
Yes and not. Meaning, yes it's silly , he likes what he likes and it's not his fault if carnival rides aren't it. I am like him, :) , I HATE rollercoasters, and carnival and them... (read in full...)
I got pregnant from a drunken night with my ex and he doesn't want me to have the baby!
Q. I broke up with my ex at the start of the year a few months later I met another man, things with him seemed great at first but quickly got worse as we were both still hung up on our ex's. Things came to an end but we stayed in touch and about a ...
A. 30 December 2012: Do what YOU want and do not accept pressures.
He was old enough to know that when you have unprotected sex it may result in a baby. If he was so dead set against having a child, he could have abstained from intercourse or at least used prot... (read in full...)
Why do men cheat on their wives?
Q. Why do men cheat on their wives my sister is having an affair with a married man it has been going on for 4 years his wife is ill with fibromylagia and arthritis she also sufferes with severe depression. He keeps telling my sister that he is leaving ...
A. 30 December 2012: The title of this question should read " why do men AND WOMEN cheat on their spouses ? ".
Pardon me, but your sister is married too, and she is cheating too , I don't see how she is less guilty or less responsible than her lover for this situ... (read in full...)
In love with my step mom's step sister but it's a secret. Curious what to do and say?
Q. Ok the situation is I have a STEP mom who has a STEP sister and her and I believe that we love one another. Through the family we believe family. But, at the same time we are no blood relation what so ever. Is it right or is it wrong? I don't kn...
A. 30 December 2012: I don't think it's wrong either, you aren't blood related at all, and I suppose there's not even the eew factor of having grown up together as kids ( like, if she was YOUR step-sister ). It may feel a bit awkward now , and VERY uncomfortable ... (read in full...)
I am having real issues with my boyfriend smoking weed and I don't know if I am overreacting or not.
Q. I have been going out with my boyfriend for 2.5 years now, and in the last six months he has started smoking weed regularly. I have never liked weed for no other reason that it smells bad and is a waste of time and money in my opinion, but I have ...
A. 30 December 2012: I don't think you are overreacting.
In UK, cannabis has being reclassified as a class B drug since 2009. That means, up to 5 years in jail for simple possession, and up to 14 for supplying and dealing.
Now, we can argue for eons if the law is r... (read in full...)
I walked up behind her and surprised her. Did she think I was creepy and it turned her off?
Q. I met these 2 girls at a pub last Saturday night. And I was about to leave and they ask me to come join them. Both girls ended up loving me!! Both really really cute too. The one, I was thinking wanted to be exclusive. She even gave me her phon...
A. 30 December 2012: I concur with Aunty Em. After all, as you say, all you did was approaching her from behind and saying " hey " ! . In a public, well lit place ( bowling alley ). It was a prank, - childish , but harmless. She might have had a jolt for half a ... (read in full...)
I think my boyfriend only wants material things from me
Q. I've been w my boyfriend for almost 2 years and I made the mistake in spoiling him and now I feel like the only thing he wants from me is material things. We haven't been intimate in over a year and I'm lucky enough to see him once a month. I love ...
A. 30 December 2012: If you haven't been intimate in over a year, and you only see him once a month at most ( I suppose when he needs to get material things from you ? ), then he is not your boyfriend . Stop with the donations altogether , you'll probably see him ... (read in full...)
My story, update and appreciation to everyone who has helped me.
Q. I haven't wrote an article on this site recently and well I think its about time as i'm so valued here that I update my life, and well give everyone an insight to why I came on this site and why I love giving people advice and help. ...
A. 29 December 2012: Hi AD, I have answered a couple of your questions recently, there was a whole situation with an abusive drug using bf ...I don't remember all the details and I don't quite remember my answers, but I remember that I told you : come on, AD, you ... (read in full...)
Break-up. Another girl a day later? Should I even consider giving him a new chance to get back together as a couple, in the future?
Q. My boyfriend of one year broke up the day after Christmas. Prior to Christmas we went on a cruise celebrating our one year anniversary. Throughout our relationship I know we have had our ups and downs. When times are good they are really good ...
A. 29 December 2012: No. In just one year you have broken up, in fact , he broke up with you three times ! You may see it as " normal " ups and downs, but they are not, it's only normal for people who basically are not made to be together and are not even ... (read in full...)
Is he just playing games with me? He denies, to others, that he still likes me. He claims to think of me sexually, still.
Q. My ex and i had had the longest conversation recently, since we broke up. Word got around that he likes this other girl now. But he told me how he still has had sexual thoughts for me, not her, but me. I questioned why me instead of her. He told...
A. 29 December 2012: No. You say you still have feelings for him, while he has only sexual feelings for you. It's a heck of a big difference, and you would not be playing on a level field.
You are considering to get along with what is convenient for HIM, because 1) y... (read in full...)
Am I really just stubbornly holding onto a fantasy that is never going to come true?
Q. A little over a year ago, I met a man who I thought was different. He treated me in a way I had never been before and accepted and loved my young son from a previous relationship in a way I could only dream of. However, here were a few issues with ...
A. 29 December 2012: In a word, yes.
He seemed perfect because you did not know him that much yet , it all happened pretty fast, and you found yourself pregnant even before he had the time to show you his true colours. Then again,this relationship was shaky from... (read in full...)
Am I enabling my 17 year old son on how to be a responsible young man?
Q. Dear Cupid, I want your opinion on this .Well my mom has fallen sick and I have to work because I have a 17 year old son at home and he watches my mom while I work so when I get paid I shower him with money and clothes and shoes. I would like to ...
A. 29 December 2012: I would not say you are spoiling him. In fact, if he his taking full time care of a sick adult in your lieu, and therefore giving up the possibility of getting gainful employement, or continuing his education, to fulfill this committment - then, ... (read in full...)
How do I get my friend back? At least to talk to me?
Q. I'm scared, lost and feel really down. This is basically one of those "how do I get my friend back" questions, however this is a little more complicated. My friend (male) wont speak to me. He cut me out his life with no explanation. We ...
A. 28 December 2012: You raise an interesting point : what kind of a friend just ditches you etc. etc. ? .. Maybe, the kind of friend who was less invested emotionally in the friendship than you were. Have you ever considered that , if a new girl popping up on the ... (read in full...)
Been having an affair. If I don't tell his wife she may be ruining her own life with a cheater!
Q. I've been having an affair with a man who's wife doesn't currently live with him because of their jobs. I am also not sure he's even married to her yet. They live in two different states. She has decided to keep her job because of seniority and ...
A. 28 December 2012: OP, maybe by now you have already sent your closure e-mail, but if you haven't, you should really stop and think before you do it.
In your updates you confirm what I had imagined, that your wish to contact him has very little to do with clos... (read in full...)
Why am I having sexual dreams about a guy that I don't like in that way?
Q. Hello. I keep having these sex dreams about this guy I like. I like him a lot, but not in a sexual way. I don't understand why I keep having these dreams. They are making me somewhat uncomfortable. Are my dreams trying to tell me that I'm secretly...
A. 28 December 2012: No. It probably means that , as a teen, you have quite a lot of sexual energy bottled up and ready to expend .
The language of dreams is prevalently symbolic and irrational, never, or very seldom, to be taken literally.
Some people dream ab... (read in full...)
What are reasons for delayed periods other than pregnancy and stress?
Q. My periods are 5 days late, took a preg test came out neg. I do have usual signs I get when I'm gonna be on periods and I don't have any preg signs. Besides stress( of which I don't have) what are the reasons for delayed periods? Should I be ...
A. 28 December 2012: Excessive weight gain or weight loss.
Too much exercise .
Hormonal imbalances.
Hypothyroidism ( underactive thyroid ).
Wait a few days, repeat the test and if it still comes out negative, consult your doctor. ... (read in full...)
How long should we wait before having sex?
Q. It seems to be the biggest dilemma in dating today. With no hard-and-fast social rules, men and women are on their own to determine when is the best time to introduce a physical component to their budding love relationship. The good news is tha...
A. 28 December 2012: She has different dating parameters than you. As you say, there are no hard and fast rules. While I agree with you and think that a week is too early in general to reach such a total intimacy,- she does not feel the same and this does not ... (read in full...)
Why swallow? whats the pleasure?
Q. dear readers, i would like to ask the men out there and possibly the women why men like a girl to swallow their semen? why is it attractive to men to see there girlfriend swalllowing the product of their energy? some women say it tastes awfu...
A. 28 December 2012: I don't know, I never gave much thought about it, but to me it seems just like the natural conclusion of an act you have ,supposedly, willingly and freely agreed, or even asked , to perform. It's just a body fluid, not something dirty or ... (read in full...)
LDR help needed please? How do I break up with my LDR?
Q. Our relationship became a LDR since 4 months... Growing apart from my bf of 2 years: we are at a point where we barely talk now and my feelings for him are not the same anymore. In the beginning I was writing to him every day and we would sky...
A. 28 December 2012: It's not nice to break up online when you are in the same place, but since you are overseas it would be really overdoing with manners if you bought a round trip flight ticket just to go break up with him and come back !
Break up now the most civi... (read in full...)
How do I get my friend back? At least to talk to me?
Q. I'm scared, lost and feel really down. This is basically one of those "how do I get my friend back" questions, however this is a little more complicated. My friend (male) wont speak to me. He cut me out his life with no explanation. We ...
A. 28 December 2012: I am afraid I have to agree with Aunty Bim Bim.
You seem not to realize that you may have crossed boundaries for him to the point of no return.
He was perfectly legitimate in not wanting to come out with you one on one. After all, you were a f... (read in full...)
Been having an affair. If I don't tell his wife she may be ruining her own life with a cheater!
Q. I've been having an affair with a man who's wife doesn't currently live with him because of their jobs. I am also not sure he's even married to her yet. They live in two different states. She has decided to keep her job because of seniority and ...
A. 26 December 2012: OP, it's normal that you feel bad having been rejected, who likes being rejected ?! but, since you are aware it's a matter of wounded ego, I'd let it go. Your ego will self repair in time ,and the sooner, the less you strive to get a reaction, ... (read in full...)
Been having an affair. If I don't tell his wife she may be ruining her own life with a cheater!
Q. I've been having an affair with a man who's wife doesn't currently live with him because of their jobs. I am also not sure he's even married to her yet. They live in two different states. She has decided to keep her job because of seniority and ...
A. 26 December 2012: As for me, the point of my post was not to remind you that you have cheated in case it had escaped your notice, nor to try and make you feel guilty.
It was simply a defense of sheer logic. If there's an oblivious woman that should be warned and ... (read in full...)
Been having an affair. If I don't tell his wife she may be ruining her own life with a cheater!
Q. I've been having an affair with a man who's wife doesn't currently live with him because of their jobs. I am also not sure he's even married to her yet. They live in two different states. She has decided to keep her job because of seniority and ...
A. 25 December 2012: What about your husband ? Does he not deserve too that someone would tell him the truth and that he is has been living in the illusion of having a faithful committed partner ?...Sure he is not uprooting himself with financial sacrifice .Still, if ... (read in full...)
In a FWB relationship should I be angry that he stood me up?
Q. I have been seeing a guy for quite a short time. It started out as a one night stand but we have been seeing each others again after that. It is clear it is nothing else than for sex, which is fine with me since I am recently single and not really ...
A. 30 September 2012: I understand what Cerberus says, and I agree that in practice FWB and respect generally do not mix that well, but I still agree instead with Ciar.
That's COMMON courtesy, and by common I mean common, i.e. usual and mandatory, not some spec... (read in full...)
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added them and they have added *indyCares!
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