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My age ? Let say that I am way past the stage when you cry if the boy you like takes your best friend to the prom, and young enough to remember how awful that feels.
What qualifies me to help people- well, let me show off just a bit and mention that I studied Psychology 4 years in college, and, even if then I graduated in a different subject, I never lost my interest in psychology and kept reading a lot about this subject. Yet that does not really qualify me for anything because intellectual knowledge is not the same as real life experience. So let's say I feel I can advice people because I have lived a lot, travelled a lot, met a lot of people from all backgrounds , races and religions- I have loved a lot, and I have also been dumped a lot :)
Plus, I am really fascinated with people and their stories. Not in a gossipy way. I just find that every person is a whole new world that I am excited to discover.
Right now I am single- and happily so. I realized- better late than never - that rather than waiting for Prince Charming I should first become a Princess myself. You can't love anybody unconditionally, if first you don't love yourself unconditionally, and this is what I am learning to do.
Looking forward to hear from all of you..
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Why does my wife insist on lying about my penis size?
Q. As I have said on previous posts, my wife has had about of 25 sexual partners before me (we met each other when she was 40). She is a very well educated and very kind person. At the begining we were very open during our conversations and at that ...
A. 12 January 2013: Then, poor women . Because statistic studies on this subject are clear and plentiful. Only 3% of males in the world have a "monster" penis, 8 inches and up. And only 15-18 % ( according to different studies ) have a 7 to 8 inches .
Which mean... (read in full...)
Why does my wife insist on lying about my penis size?
Q. As I have said on previous posts, my wife has had about of 25 sexual partners before me (we met each other when she was 40). She is a very well educated and very kind person. At the begining we were very open during our conversations and at that ...
A. 12 January 2013: OP, either we did not make ourselves clear, or... you are a very stubborn guy :)
Again, YOU are the one who links a 7 plus penis to better sexual performances, but the women, at least NOT in their totality, don't.
Again, only some women ma... (read in full...)
Why does my wife insist on lying about my penis size?
Q. As I have said on previous posts, my wife has had about of 25 sexual partners before me (we met each other when she was 40). She is a very well educated and very kind person. At the begining we were very open during our conversations and at that ...
A. 9 January 2013: And as many ,many or more, will be of different opinion and will tell you that they don't require or prefer a big penis, that they do not find a direct correlation between penis size and sexual satisfcation. Or, that for all they care you can ... (read in full...)
Fear of making love and getting pregnant is ruining my relationship. Help!
Q. Hey, I and my boyfriend have been together for 2 and a half years now. We have had our whole loads of up and downs but in the end, we've always made it through, somehow not being able to stay away from each other. We were both virgins when we got t...
A. 8 January 2013: OP, it sounds like you are just looking for excuses to not take responsibility for your sex life and reproductive choices .
What does it mean " pills are not easily accessible " ? There are plenty of OB/GYNs, hospitals, clinics , and even stat... (read in full...)
Why does my wife insist on lying about my penis size?
Q. As I have said on previous posts, my wife has had about of 25 sexual partners before me (we met each other when she was 40). She is a very well educated and very kind person. At the begining we were very open during our conversations and at that ...
A. 8 January 2013: And, statistically speaking, it is very very probale that's she is telling you exactly the truth.
You'll be smaller than some, and bigger then others, and similar to most.
Why are you so mistrustful toward your wife ? Do you know her for a li... (read in full...)
What did he mean when he told me not to get too attached?
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A. 7 January 2013: It means he has no intention whatsoever to be dating you, and to not get too excited about what were and are going to be simply random hook ups. ... (read in full...)
Dream trip with my boyfriend ended badly. He wants to move back to his hometown and I can never see myself living there!
Q. Dear all, Hoping for some advice. I've been with my partner for two years. We met in London, my home town, and live there together. I'm 35 and he's 33. This Christmas, we planned what was supposed to be a 'holiday of a lifetime' to Mexico City...
A. 7 January 2013: I have to disagree with you ,Honeypie- and to semi-hijack the thread for a sec, thanks OP. HOME is not necessarily the place were you are born, home is anywhere where your heart is. Where you make good friends, where the pace of life suits ... (read in full...)
Self esteem is becoming an issue again. Any advice?
Q. Lately i've started to have real problems with my self esteem. I've always had a very low self esteem and have been working through the last few years trying to improve it, i've had couselling and all sorts, and self esteem has always been a very b...
A. 7 January 2013: 1) Maybe get back to counseling ? If you have battled with self esteem all your life, the problem is deep seated, maybe a few sessions have been enough to make you feel temporarily better, but not to really, actually change a pattern of thought ... (read in full...)
I'm just afraid that down the road, we (or mainly I) will get sick of the same ol' same ol'
Q. Okay so my boyfriend doesn't like to be very spontaneous or do exhilirating things I like to do... such as riding rollercoasters, ice skating, carnivals, etc. And I've grown up with all of these things as a big part of my life, and they matter to ...
A. 7 January 2013: I'll add to SVC's excellent advice ( find like minded friends to do the stuff you like with ) another :
Look for something new that you and your bf can start fresh doing together , ( so neither carnival rides nor his same old same old. ) It does... (read in full...)
Dream trip with my boyfriend ended badly. He wants to move back to his hometown and I can never see myself living there!
Q. Dear all, Hoping for some advice. I've been with my partner for two years. We met in London, my home town, and live there together. I'm 35 and he's 33. This Christmas, we planned what was supposed to be a 'holiday of a lifetime' to Mexico City...
A. 7 January 2013: Erm, not to be bitchy , just for the record :
there are about 200 nations in the world , and ALL national police corps are armed, with the exception of UK , Ireland , Norway , maybe a couple more in the whole world. ( And in UK you have AFOs... (read in full...)
After 3 dates and a kiss he panicked. I don't want to lose him so what should I do?
Q. thank you for taking your time to read this.I am 24 years old and could do with some advice. I came out of a very messy controlling relationship 9 months ago after i left him i took this time to really focus on myself.i am notorious for messed u...
A. 7 January 2013: Pardon me but this is sort of funny, he TOLD you what to do and in a way that it does not leave you much range of action, were you not listening ? Unless you want to kiss him by force and take him by force and " make him yours " like in some bad ... (read in full...)
Dream trip with my boyfriend ended badly. He wants to move back to his hometown and I can never see myself living there!
Q. Dear all, Hoping for some advice. I've been with my partner for two years. We met in London, my home town, and live there together. I'm 35 and he's 33. This Christmas, we planned what was supposed to be a 'holiday of a lifetime' to Mexico City...
A. 7 January 2013: I have the feeling that you left for Mexico with already ,if not prejudice , some preconceived notions . Not with a totally open mind and the attitude to notice the positive as well as the negative.
Yes, Mexico City is a huge place where seve... (read in full...)
I always get anxious when talking to people, as I believe everyone is judging me by my hair color.
Q. Would be really grateful for help. Im a 21 year old bisexual guy, who unfortunately has ginger hair. This seems to be my main issue in life as I see it as the reason for having no confidence or self esteem. Iv never been in a relationship or ...
A. 7 January 2013: Lying to yourself ? Oh what big words for such a small issue. You would be simply making improvement on a physical detail that you don't like. Do you really think that all people who ,say, ditch eyeglasses for contacts, have their crooked teeth ... (read in full...)
Is my ex just playing a game with me? Or deep down might he actually have some feelings for me?
Q. My ex and i had had the longest conversation recently, since we broke up. Word got around that he likes this other girl now. But he told me how he still has had sexual thoughts for me, not her, but me. I questioned why me instead of her. He told...
A. 7 January 2013: He has sexual thoughts for you,not feeelings. At his age, he has sexual thoughts for mostly any woman he comes across, including the 50something school librarian if she is still decent looking. The difference is , that with you he's got game , he ... (read in full...)
Is this as sign that my husband is having an affair?
Q. My husband had a strand of hair wrapped around his penis. It wasn't mine. He says that our daughters hair that gets everywhere including our brushes in our room, has got caught in his clothes and worked its way down there. And that this is a common ...
A. 6 January 2013: While if this is the ONLY thing that makes you think he is cheating, then it may be just one of those unexplainable weird things... nevertheless, just in case, I'd keep my eyes open. This is very strange , and it's not really true that hair gets ... (read in full...)
Fear of making love and getting pregnant is ruining my relationship. Help!
Q. Hey, I and my boyfriend have been together for 2 and a half years now. We have had our whole loads of up and downs but in the end, we've always made it through, somehow not being able to stay away from each other. We were both virgins when we got t...
A. 6 January 2013: Maybe mine is a stupid question, but were you using contracception, and if not, why not ?
If you cannot risk getting pregnant, you don't need to abstain totally from intercourse ( although this is indeed a foolproof method ),you just need... (read in full...)
BF won't move back to my state, and I won't move to his. Should I give him an ultimatum?
Q. So...here it goes...a little over 7 months ago, my boyfriend moved back down to Florida because he "hated New Jersey". He claimed it was because he couldn't find a job here and that he missed his mom. Since he's been back to Florida, he hasn't g...
A. 6 January 2013: OP, I don't think he can come. Probation transfer is not a right , it's not I do X and automatically get Y. It's discretionary ( when required by the person under probation and not ordered by the tribunal which sentenced him ).
First, there are ... (read in full...)
Are public displays of affection at work OK or not? In disagreement with my BF over this.
Q. Hello! Hope you can help with some advice on this small issue. How much physical contact is OK/to be expected from your partner when at work? We work in different departments and when we met up for lunch he wanted to walk with his arm arou...
A. 6 January 2013: Always unprofessional. According to the work environment and circumstances , from mildly, tolerably " kids will be kids " unprofessional, to severaly, shockingly unprofessional.
In a hospital ?? Definitely the last one. I don't know in UK, here... (read in full...)
Karma: people seem to get rewarded for bad behaviour, so is there any point in being a good person?
Q. Hi, I was wondering if anyone saw anything bad happen to bad people? I see a guy who cheated in the IQ test to get a job become the manager of a company. I see a woman who cheated on her husband living happily with her husband and kid. I see dislo...
A. 6 January 2013: I've seen tons of bad things happening to bad people. AND to good people as well. Because bad things ( illness, accidents, death, abrupt and undesired endings , material losses ) are simply part and parcel of our human experience. Same as the good ... (read in full...)
He doesn't show me any care or love, he just keeps ignoring me!
Q. dear cupid...my boyfriend has been ignoring me for 3weeks now and anytime i asked him what the problem is he tells me he is ok,and when i asked if he is tired of me,he still says no have have to try to make things work but he doesnt show me anycare ...
A. 6 January 2013: Well, he ignores you because you are broken up, aren't you ?
It's not mandatory to stay friends with exes, in fact it's very, very optional. He had lost interest in being around you while you still were together ( and that's why you broke up ), i... (read in full...)
Why does my wife insist on lying about my penis size?
Q. As I have said on previous posts, my wife has had about of 25 sexual partners before me (we met each other when she was 40). She is a very well educated and very kind person. At the begining we were very open during our conversations and at that ...
A. 6 January 2013: But the average is not between 5 and 7 . 7 is way above average, meaning that there's only maybe 15-20% of the population with a penis 7 inches and over.
There are several statistic studies ( Kinsey Institute, Indiana University , etc.) and ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend has not treated me right since he discovered I had a one night stand before dating him. Do I end things?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for a few years and we are getting married soon. At the beginning, he was really sweet, caring and understanding. The kind of guy that I have always wished for. However, one day, I told him that I had an one ...
A. 5 January 2013: @anon male , with all due respect, but is it really so natural and consistent as you say ?, personally I have only your word for that , and I hesitate taking you -or anybody else- as a general ,universal parameter of male conduct.
P... (read in full...)
Is he scared of what he felt? Or did he change his mind about being with me? And why would he say what he said on Facebook?
Q. I apologize in advance, this is going to be quite a read, but to fully understand the situation I feel as though I need to include all of this. Ok, it starts out about 2 years ago. I was working at a restaurant waiting tables and we got a new empl...
A. 5 January 2013: I don't think he's scared, and I don't think he changed his mind. He just wasn't terribly taken with you to begin with, and most of all did not see you as steady gf material to begin with. That does not mean he did not like you, he DID like you, ... (read in full...)
Is 19 too young to go on a dating site?
Q. Do you think 19 is too young to go on dating site, i have no luck with guys, its make me wondering if 19 is too young, my friends have profile and keeps telling me to join? i don't want to mention this to her since its slightly embarrassing ...
A. 5 January 2013: If it freaks you don't do it, it's not doctor's orders :).
Internet dating is supposed to be fun, if it has to make you uncomfortable or panicky, where's the fun ? ... (read in full...)
I got pregnant from a drunken night with my ex and he doesn't want me to have the baby!
Q. I broke up with my ex at the start of the year a few months later I met another man, things with him seemed great at first but quickly got worse as we were both still hung up on our ex's. Things came to an end but we stayed in touch and about a ...
A. 5 January 2013: Do call the helpline, it is still better than nothing, and anyway phone advisory services can be very helpful and effective, and the anonimate , and not seeing the person who's talking to you, often makes for BETTER, more open communication. I ... (read in full...)
I give because I love him but he's wearing me down
Q. Let me explain what happened. He wanted me to meet him at a restaurant near by because a couple of co-workers retired that day. He wanted to have a couple drinks, I said okay cool, I'll meet you there. Well, I get there and we sit at the bar whil...
A. 5 January 2013: It sounds like the people who should not know about you or notice your presence weren't the couple of co-workers , but the new girl who came in later. She's the one to whom he wants to look single, or unaccompanied at least.
Maybe he invited you ... (read in full...)
Guys: Do you judge girls by their shape and appearance?
Q. I'm so horny lately... I'm 19 and never had boyfriend before which i believe its my weight, i've always been over weight as child and i started doing gym recently and lost 6kg but need to loose 50 more !! but i can't wait untill i get the perfect ...
A. 5 January 2013: Honest answer ?
It's not exactly a matter of " judging ", saying that men judge you by your weight makes them all look like finicky judgemental idiots :). It's a matter of physical attraction, which is also important in a couple. You may have... (read in full...)
He is special to me. What can I do to make my husband feel like he is really special to me?
Q. im a stay at home mom with three children aged 2 to 7 years. Last night my husband said i don't do half of what he does. i feel bad. i take care of house hold and kids no break. i keep a clean house. He takes care of us to the max. always buyi...
A. 5 January 2013: You take care of three children under 7, 7 days a week, plus all the house cleaning , laundry, cooking, ... and that's not even half of what he does ???
And you want to reward him for this ignorant, arrogant assumption , making him feel " spec... (read in full...)
I love my BF and we see each other everyday but he never calls me at night. Am I being selfish?
Q. Okay, so I've been with my boyfriend for about 4months, I'm 18 and so is he. He was my first everything. I'm completely in Love with him, and he tells me he's in love with me. He's the best ever and he comes everyday to spend time with me. We text ...
A. 5 January 2013: He does not call you at night because he has already seen you during the day and been texting with you all day, and the same will happen tomorrow, so he is enjoying a quiet pause to sleep, read, watch TV,etc.etc.- recharge his batteries in ... (read in full...)
I got pregnant from a drunken night with my ex and he doesn't want me to have the baby!
Q. I broke up with my ex at the start of the year a few months later I met another man, things with him seemed great at first but quickly got worse as we were both still hung up on our ex's. Things came to an end but we stayed in touch and about a ...
A. 4 January 2013: Think. Think hard.
You are going to do something that you don't want to do, - to please a man that's been , is being, and most probably will be, horrible to you.
If you have no money to raise a child, that's one thing. If you fell/think/f... (read in full...)
Boyfriend has not treated me right since he discovered I had a one night stand before dating him. Do I end things?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for a few years and we are getting married soon. At the beginning, he was really sweet, caring and understanding. The kind of guy that I have always wished for. However, one day, I told him that I had an one ...
A. 4 January 2013: Cultural vs. biological is always a fascinating debate and I am sure we could carry it on, with valid arguments from both sides, for a long time- but, hijacking the thread, and probably boring the OP and other readers to death :).
My point was simp... (read in full...)
Boyfriend has not treated me right since he discovered I had a one night stand before dating him. Do I end things?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for a few years and we are getting married soon. At the beginning, he was really sweet, caring and understanding. The kind of guy that I have always wished for. However, one day, I told him that I had an one ...
A. 4 January 2013: @ Serpico... sure, biology . Evolutionary biology . Absolutely important in genetic research and various branch of medicine. But, applied to human behaviour in the field of social interaction, pairing, mating etc. it becomes Evolutionary ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend arranged for his 4 year old daughter to live with us without talking to me first
Q. I am a 24 year old dating a wonderful 32 year old man. I've known from the beginning that he has a 4 year old daughter from an ex- girlfriend. We live in Colorado, and the daughter lives with her mother in Florida. My borfriend visits his daughter ...
A. 4 January 2013: While I agree with the poster who said that technically he does not need your permission to host his daughter in his own home,
I don't think you are being unreasonable, you are in fact being sensible, even if it may come from self-centered moti... (read in full...)
My BF has been messaging another girl for 2 months. What should I do?
Q. So I'm on here because I don't quite know what to do. I just found out yesterday on New Year's Day that my boyfriend has been messaging some girl, trying to get into her knickers for the past 2 months. The girl in question sent me the proof. I'm n...
A. 4 January 2013: Very seldom staying friends with exes is a good idea, even with " good " exes . You can't really, honestly be friends with someone you still have romantic feelings for.
In this case , then, friends.... uhm. Do you normally pick your friends amon... (read in full...)
It's legal in my country to marry a cousin. I seek your thoughts on my ideas about marrying please?
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A. 3 January 2013: Hi, Tranced.
Maybe it sounds strange, but I think that for you it would make perfect sense. We don't live in a vacuum. You were born half American, but you have willingly, consciously and happily embraced your Saudian half, from the location wher... (read in full...)
Why does my wife insist on lying about my penis size?
Q. As I have said on previous posts, my wife has had about of 25 sexual partners before me (we met each other when she was 40). She is a very well educated and very kind person. At the begining we were very open during our conversations and at that ...
A. 3 January 2013: My advice is to consult a medical encyclopaedia, or ask any urologist , and you'll see that your wife is right and you are textbook average, being that the worlwide mondial average is 5.1-5.9 inches and you fall right in the middle.
To be very... (read in full...)
Should I tell my mum that I don't like my birthday presents or just keep them, throw them in the back of the wardrobe and never use them?
Q. i had a rough year last year. i lost my grandfather, i lost my horse, i became ill with anemia and just when i thought as a family we could wave goodbye to the bad times my dad was diagnosed with kidney cancer just before christmas although he is ...
A. 3 January 2013: Gifts generally can be returned and you can get a refund or an exchange. For doing this you should know where they have been bought, and if you don't, yes I guess you'd have to tell your mom that you did not like the item. It takes a bit of tact, ... (read in full...)
Is there such a thing as a second and last chance for love?
Q. I have been with my bf for 3 years and want to get some advise on what to do from here. I have no one to talk to and need to vent too. Our relationship has been a rocky on and off, I cheated, he cheated, I kicked him out, he got deported, cheated ...
A. 3 January 2013: No second chance for men who hit you.
I know that now you are going to tell me that it's also your fault because you have an anger problem, and you fight back ( ... still better than staying still and letting him beat you to a pulp ) and you ... (read in full...)
I lied to my ex and lead him to believe that I wasn't a virgin. Should I tell him the truth now?
Q. Hi cupids, I was always ashamed of being a virgin and had promised never to tell whoever I lost it to. Everyone thinks am experienced. I lied to my current ex boyfriend about my virginity. I always acted like I was not a virgin and he noticed he ...
A. 3 January 2013: Why should you tell him anything private about your sex life anyway ? Isn't he an ex ? Why should you care to give him the right impression, or the wrong impression, or any particular impression about you NOW ? ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend became distant and ignored me for the holidays claiming she needed to be with her family. Should I end things?
Q. my girlfriend has been very distant since the holiday season started we're in college, and we've been dating 2 years, she's 19, i'm 23, i started college a bit late but i'm doing great, got a 4.0 last sem... anyway we are in a lot of clas...
A. 3 January 2013: I am afraid that I'll give you exactly the same answer as your gf : Xmas vacations are family time, they haven't seen her for a semester, they need to be with her, and, I'm sure, viceversa. All this time and distance boils down to, what, less than ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to have feelings for my 5th cousin?
Q. Ok, so I am going a little crazy here, please help. I am from the mid west and live far from most of my family, I've only ever known my dads side and my mothers immediate family. I recently moved to the deep south with my mom, where most of my ...
A. 3 January 2013: If you are 5th cousins, that means the ancestor you have in common is this guy's great-great-great- grandfather !
You are " related " in the 9th grade, that's not even related according to the law - if you ( touch wood ) should die and he was ... (read in full...)
What does our star alignment say about us?
Q. A few months ago a man asked me out. I originally said yes but when I found out how old he was I said we could be friends. I am ten years older than he is. We have since started dating and the relationship is going well. I still worry about the age ...
A. 3 January 2013: I don't believe in astrology anymore, but I studied it a bit in the past.
First, to find out his exact Sun sign ( a cusp Pisces/ Aries is too vague, it does make a difference if he is one or the other, although if he 's on a cusp he shares some... (read in full...)
Why, after 23 Years am I having trouble over this? My view of my wife is shattered
Q. so after 23 years of being married this question has come up. Why now I don’t know. Before I met my wife, she had a boyfriend in in high school. They waited until after graduation to have sex. While she was at collage he cheated on her. I me...
A. 3 January 2013: "She is flawless in my eyes . Turns out she is also human ". I.e., with flaws.
This, if we decide that for a young ,single woman the discretionary exercise of her sexuality according to her wants and needs is a flaw. Or that it is a flaw for an a... (read in full...)
He's 30 and my parents hate him. How do I tell my parents I want to marry him?
Q. Please dont judge. all i want is advice and hear what you think. First of all I am 18 years old, and i am going out with a guy that is 12 years older than me. We have been dateing for about 9 months. you should know that My parents HATE this g...
A. 2 January 2013: I would not tell them just yet. You can't be sure he is the love of your life, you have only been seeing him for 9 months, during which you have had ups and downs and he has shown a mean , uncaring side. Now this seems to have changed since about ... (read in full...)
My family disapprove. I broke up with him. He said he will wait for me. what should I do?
Q. I am a teacher by profession. I met a guy through facebook. he is 28 and a MBA. He has a good job. We started chatting and after 6 months we met each other and realised we love each other. We both live in India we belong to the same religion an...
A. 2 January 2013: Alas, arranged marriages are not a thing of the past in India, seeing that about 80% or more of all marriages are still arranged ( which, does not mean forced, often the future bride or groom are fine with following the tradition ). Things are ... (read in full...)
My BF has been messaging another girl for 2 months. What should I do?
Q. So I'm on here because I don't quite know what to do. I just found out yesterday on New Year's Day that my boyfriend has been messaging some girl, trying to get into her knickers for the past 2 months. The girl in question sent me the proof. I'm n...
A. 2 January 2013: Oh no, you know what to do, it's just that you don't really want to do it because it takes a little of backbone and self discipline.
Surely, it's easier- for now- to believe, or pretend to believe , his " he says he says ". Until the next " roug... (read in full...)
My BF has been messaging another girl for 2 months. What should I do?
Q. So I'm on here because I don't quite know what to do. I just found out yesterday on New Year's Day that my boyfriend has been messaging some girl, trying to get into her knickers for the past 2 months. The girl in question sent me the proof. I'm n...
A. 2 January 2013: If you don't want to be like your mother and you don't want to look like a mig, there's nothing else for you to do than stick to your decisiosn and stay broken up.
This is not some sort of " being cought up in the moment " or yielding to stro... (read in full...)
I got pregnant from a drunken night with my ex and he doesn't want me to have the baby!
Q. I broke up with my ex at the start of the year a few months later I met another man, things with him seemed great at first but quickly got worse as we were both still hung up on our ex's. Things came to an end but we stayed in touch and about a ...
A. 31 December 2012: @ anon reader : a man who does not want to give a woman the power to " alter his life " should get a vasectomy or keep it zipped in his pants. ( Or, at the very very least, use protection ).
Having unprotected sex then whining " ... but I did ... (read in full...)
I got pregnant from a drunken night with my ex and he doesn't want me to have the baby!
Q. I broke up with my ex at the start of the year a few months later I met another man, things with him seemed great at first but quickly got worse as we were both still hung up on our ex's. Things came to an end but we stayed in touch and about a ...
A. 31 December 2012: "I am just tryng to work out if my reasons justify me having an abortion" - what do you mean, subjectively for you, or objectively from the point of view of outsiders ?
Subjectively, if you think you can't deal with it, and you don't feel prep... (read in full...)
I'm just afraid that down the road, we (or mainly I) will get sick of the same ol' same ol'
Q. Okay so my boyfriend doesn't like to be very spontaneous or do exhilirating things I like to do... such as riding rollercoasters, ice skating, carnivals, etc. And I've grown up with all of these things as a big part of my life, and they matter to ...
A. 30 December 2012: Is it silly getting peeved at your bf who dislikes rollercoasters ?
Yes and not. Meaning, yes it's silly , he likes what he likes and it's not his fault if carnival rides aren't it. I am like him, :) , I HATE rollercoasters, and carnival and them... (read in full...)
I got pregnant from a drunken night with my ex and he doesn't want me to have the baby!
Q. I broke up with my ex at the start of the year a few months later I met another man, things with him seemed great at first but quickly got worse as we were both still hung up on our ex's. Things came to an end but we stayed in touch and about a ...
A. 30 December 2012: Do what YOU want and do not accept pressures.
He was old enough to know that when you have unprotected sex it may result in a baby. If he was so dead set against having a child, he could have abstained from intercourse or at least used prot... (read in full...)
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