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My age ? Let say that I am way past the stage when you cry if the boy you like takes your best friend to the prom, and young enough to remember how awful that feels.
What qualifies me to help people- well, let me show off just a bit and mention that I studied Psychology 4 years in college, and, even if then I graduated in a different subject, I never lost my interest in psychology and kept reading a lot about this subject. Yet that does not really qualify me for anything because intellectual knowledge is not the same as real life experience. So let's say I feel I can advice people because I have lived a lot, travelled a lot, met a lot of people from all backgrounds , races and religions- I have loved a lot, and I have also been dumped a lot :)
Plus, I am really fascinated with people and their stories. Not in a gossipy way. I just find that every person is a whole new world that I am excited to discover.
Right now I am single- and happily so. I realized- better late than never - that rather than waiting for Prince Charming I should first become a Princess myself. You can't love anybody unconditionally, if first you don't love yourself unconditionally, and this is what I am learning to do.
Looking forward to hear from all of you..
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19 August 2014: Yeah I know : ultimately love is a mystery, not an exact science. There's always an element of sheer luck, of serendipity, of magic in it. Some times you do everything right, by the book, you are the perfect gf / wife / lover .. and you still get ...
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What to say? Can't stand fathers beliefs
Q. My father is conversative and doesn't want to know anyone else's opinion. I can't stand how he is. He thinks having children out if wedlock is "ruining The family". This makes no logical sense to me. It's not like his family is close. How canyou ...
A. 16 January 2013: It's not exactly that he lies that women have to be married to leave home. Only, that he BELIEVES that women have to be married to leave home.
But you don't need to believe exactly the same things he believes. ... (read in full...)
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Q. My brother is getting married. I have been dating for over 2 yrs the same man who has been to all our holiday dinners. There is an engagement dinner for the close family and fiends to meet with invitations via interenet. It will be appx 20 people. ...
A. 14 January 2013: Yes, I guess the occasion allows for a little white lie . You show up,greet everybody, toast the happy couple and wish them well, but, alas , previous, pressing committments prevent you from joining the dinner table. Diplomacy : the art of saying ... (read in full...)
My brother's fiancee won't invite my boyfriend to family events!
Q. My brother is getting married. I have been dating for over 2 yrs the same man who has been to all our holiday dinners. There is an engagement dinner for the close family and fiends to meet with invitations via interenet. It will be appx 20 people. ...
A. 14 January 2013: Ah, just as I thought. Nothing personal. It's only HER parents paying , so basically they invite the closest to them . Obviously THEIR own son' s partner gf feels more intimate then their daughter's fiance's sister's partner. Can you see the ... (read in full...)
What to say? Can't stand fathers beliefs
Q. My father is conversative and doesn't want to know anyone else's opinion. I can't stand how he is. He thinks having children out if wedlock is "ruining The family". This makes no logical sense to me. It's not like his family is close. How canyou ...
A. 14 January 2013: OP, you are 25 . He can say what he wants, you don't have to believe him. In fact, you don't , you call what he says " lies ". So , if you keep living a lie, you should resent yourself , not him.
Obviously , your father does not approve of unma... (read in full...)
My brother's fiancee won't invite my boyfriend to family events!
Q. My brother is getting married. I have been dating for over 2 yrs the same man who has been to all our holiday dinners. There is an engagement dinner for the close family and fiends to meet with invitations via interenet. It will be appx 20 people. ...
A. 14 January 2013: Yes, I noticed that, and I am not saying it's RIGHT. But if she is totally in charge of the invitations ( I wonder why, btw,has your brother no say at all over his own engagement party ? ) and if she has a limit of 20 people who can attend, it's ... (read in full...)
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A. 12 January 2013: Forgive me, but your gf sounds crazy- at least, boy-crazy if not plan, looney bin crazy .
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Why does my wife insist on lying about my penis size?
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A. 12 January 2013: Then, poor women . Because statistic studies on this subject are clear and plentiful. Only 3% of males in the world have a "monster" penis, 8 inches and up. And only 15-18 % ( according to different studies ) have a 7 to 8 inches .
Which mean... (read in full...)
He met me, we've been friends for 7 months. The same day he had sex with her. Do I confront him? Or what else should I do?
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A. 12 January 2013: Saying something and MEANING it are not necessarily the same. Never ever mind what they SAY- mind what they DO.
This kid has been treating you appallingly, and that's all it counts. ... (read in full...)
I feel like I need closure or something since our break up was so out of the blue.
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A. 12 January 2013: No. You HAD your closure. You find out that he was not the person you thought he was. You find out that he was telling lies and taking drugs, which are not qualities you want in a boyfriend, ergo he is not your bf anymore. It's rather clear cut. ... (read in full...)
I think he's suffered a lot of abuse. How can I calm down my aggressive boyfriend?
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A. 12 January 2013: As the other poster said, it does not make you terrible, it makes you terribly naive. One time could be one time too many.
And it makes you quite self involved. If he hits you, you are out of there at once. But, as long as he beats up, or even... (read in full...)
Why does my wife insist on lying about my penis size?
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A. 12 January 2013: OP, either we did not make ourselves clear, or... you are a very stubborn guy :)
Again, YOU are the one who links a 7 plus penis to better sexual performances, but the women, at least NOT in their totality, don't.
Again, only some women ma... (read in full...)
Should I choose my boyfriend over my home country?
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A. 11 January 2013: I'd try to listen half to my heart, and half to my head ( difficult, I know ).
Because, true, you are young and yours is the age to take risks, but it has to be a reasonable risk, not a mindless , blind leap of faith.
If I got it right, y... (read in full...)
Is this a case of cultural differences? Is my wife blowing this out of proportion? Is there a right and a wrong in all this?
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Can short guys have success with women? And if so how? I need advice on how to cope better with my height.
Q. I am a 5'4" male and i am very insecure about my height. I know that women love tall guys and that most of them turn their noses at the thought of dating a guy as short as me. However, I also know that some guys my height and shorter do have suc...
A. 11 January 2013: Lame answer, but , ..do nothing. Just be yourself, and posibly be a yourself that 's easy to like. Be kind, be self confident, be fun to talk to, be respectful... be all the things that make any person attractive at any height.
It's not you, it's... (read in full...)
He's 39. Is he likely to lose interest in me, now that he's found out that I'm a virgin?
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A. 11 January 2013: I doubt he'd be put off by the fact you are a virgin, it's not like having some repulsive, disfiguring disease :) In fact, some men would find it more endearing alluring , and erotic too.
And if you think that MOST men feel a lot the pres... (read in full...)
Does he have a mental disorder?
Q. Hello, this might seem a bit random but i'm just wondering if anyone has experienced anything like this? My boyfriend is like no one i've ever met before, hes 21 near 22 we have been together for near 2 years and ive known him for 10. He has su...
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Asperger's and High Functioning Autism share many common traits , and ofte... (read in full...)
Breaking Up... Should I do it? Am I being too pushy or too helpful? What should I do?
Q. Well I need some help with my relationship. Here's the background: I am 17 and he is 16. One exact year apart in age. We have been dating for 2 years and 8 months. When met I thought it was love but found out it was infatuation. Long story sho...
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What to say? Can't stand fathers beliefs
Q. My father is conversative and doesn't want to know anyone else's opinion. I can't stand how he is. He thinks having children out if wedlock is "ruining The family". This makes no logical sense to me. It's not like his family is close. How canyou ...
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How do I stop caring about women?
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He met me, we've been friends for 7 months. The same day he had sex with her. Do I confront him? Or what else should I do?
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A. 11 January 2013: Ask what,wait it off what ?
He could not have been clearer if he had made a drawing for you. You don't put out and don't give him unprotected sex = you are out of the game, he moves at speed light to the next available female. After which, he dele... (read in full...)
My brother's fiancee won't invite my boyfriend to family events!
Q. My brother is getting married. I have been dating for over 2 yrs the same man who has been to all our holiday dinners. There is an engagement dinner for the close family and fiends to meet with invitations via interenet. It will be appx 20 people. ...
A. 10 January 2013: Why are you blaming only your brother's fiance', and not your brother too, for the missing invitation ? Aren't they giving the dinner together ? ...
Anyway, if this is not the case and she is the one hosting ( and paying for ) the party, or at leas... (read in full...)
I told my ex lover's wife that he cheated on her. Was I wrong to do so?
Q. It seems that I destroied a new marriage and hurt the couple, however before that I was the one who suffers most. 1.5yrs ago, I met my ex bf, at the 2nd meeting/dating, he told me that" I have a girl in Thailand, I have been with her ttaly for 6 ...
A. 10 January 2013: Bah... what's the point of an apology that has to be exorted by the use of scare tacticts and intimidation ?
He clearly did not want to apologize, did not feel guilty,did not give a damn about you and what you felt about the matter.
Suppo... (read in full...)
What to say? Can't stand fathers beliefs
Q. My father is conversative and doesn't want to know anyone else's opinion. I can't stand how he is. He thinks having children out if wedlock is "ruining The family". This makes no logical sense to me. It's not like his family is close. How canyou ...
A. 10 January 2013: OLd fashioned he may be , but I don't see why you call him a hypocrite.
It would be perfectly consistent and coherent for a man with very conservative beliefs, to cut off his children if they openly defy those beliefs.
Anyway, it's all to be se... (read in full...)
How could he go from telling me he loved me to nothing?
Q. I am in my 3rd year of college and just broke up with my 2nd serious boyfriend. We met thru friends and felt like we'd known each other forever. We went on dates for only 8 days and decided to make it official. I had heard alot about him through ...
A. 10 January 2013: I am not even sure I understand why are you waiting for him to contact you, to say what ? aren't you broken up ? People break up and move on, that's what they are supposed to do.
The whole "let's stay friends " is in most cases just a path... (read in full...)
Am I unreasonable to dislike the fact that my B/f' 5 year old son crawls into bed with us every morning, then fidgets, talks, crawls all over us?
Q. A brief question to all you helpful people... I'm in a great new(er) relationship that is fairly serious, and I have just moved in with my boyfriend, although I've been unofficially living with him for three months. My lease just expired, my thin...
A. 10 January 2013: You are unreasonable insofar you started dating, then living with, a divorced dad of a 5 y.o. kid who spends half of his time at dad's , and did not expect you were going to have to adapt to some things that are very common and normal when there ... (read in full...)
Why is this confident man so submissive towards his wife???
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A. 10 January 2013: At work he's got nothing to loose by being self confident and assertive , all to gain in fact. If some employee does not like his assertive ways, they can go work somewhere else and be replaced, ditto for business associates, clients, suppliers ... (read in full...)
We've been together 19 months and have never said I love you to one another
Q. Hey, I'm in a great relationship with my bf for a year and 7 months. We are both in our early 20s. And he is my first bf and im his first gf too. We are both graduating from college in May and do not expect to continue dating after graduation...
A. 10 January 2013: You've answered your own question in the last line of your posting.
You want to tell him, and you feel you'll regret it if you don't tell him. So, ...tell him.
Only, though , if you are telling him because you want to express your feelings... (read in full...)
Guy trying to steal my girl becoming a nuisance
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A. 10 January 2013: Sorry, but your gf is either playing dumb, or ..she IS dumb.
How in the world can she figure that is ok to stay " friends " with an ex who asks for nude pics and tell her he wants to lick her out ? That 's not friendship !, that's sexual hara... (read in full...)
Why does my wife insist on lying about my penis size?
Q. As I have said on previous posts, my wife has had about of 25 sexual partners before me (we met each other when she was 40). She is a very well educated and very kind person. At the begining we were very open during our conversations and at that ...
A. 9 January 2013: And as many ,many or more, will be of different opinion and will tell you that they don't require or prefer a big penis, that they do not find a direct correlation between penis size and sexual satisfcation. Or, that for all they care you can ... (read in full...)
Was I too quiet at a work dinner party? I'm older than them and the're cliquey. Or were they mean asking me to sit alone at a table, as I'm vegetarian?
Q. We had our work post Christmas party last week, at a restaurant. I arrived slightly late but a few people came after me. I'm older than 80%-90% of my colleagues, didn't bring a partner, (as I have none) and I have a little bit of social anxie...
A. 9 January 2013: OP, why should we tell you to leave your job, you haven't done anything wrong. And, basically, neither did they ,although, sure, it would have been nicer if everybody had done more of an effort to make everybody else feel included and at ease, but, ... (read in full...)
I think he's suffered a lot of abuse. How can I calm down my aggressive boyfriend?
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A. 9 January 2013: Could not you just stay away from him and find someone with less baggage,less problems and more social skills ? this is not a bf, this is a ticking bomb. It may be because of his traumatic past ( you don't even know much about that ) but, a) you ... (read in full...)
Should I give her time? She broke up with me because she says my actions are like a kid, and she is more free.
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A. 9 January 2013: Let her go . Dating is also to find out if you are compatible or not. Apparently you are not , at least for what concerns family relationships.
There's no right or wrong, simply opposite ways to see and feel things.
You are not wrong, in fact ... (read in full...)
Am I not good enough for him? I'm pregnant but all he does is talk to his ex. Am I crazy wanting him to leave?
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A. 9 January 2013: It's not you, it's him, but , at the end of the day, what difference does it make ? Your relationship is not working and not giving you any joy, he is a cheater, he treats you in an appalling way, and ,please do tell me, what kind of an asshole ... (read in full...)
I'm a mess. What can I do? I've been in love with my Gf for a long time. But I've fallen for a second girl at college and now this second girl is pregnant.
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A. 9 January 2013: I,instead, can blame you allright. Everybody gets temptations thrown their way, but if your relationship is solid and you CARE about it, you resist temptations. In fact, I have to doubt all your professions of everlasting love, because if the FIRST ... (read in full...)
Housework and chore trouble with my boyfriend, do I move out?
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A. 9 January 2013: Hire a cleaning lady, and buy a dishwasher. Or,move out.
Life is too short to waste it in futile,constant arguments about who does the chores and how.
I agree with YouWish. And I'd like to remark that ,although this guy is clearly lazy, sp... (read in full...)
I was OK to sleep with. But he said he could'nt give me what I wanted. How do I cope with this, and the fact he now has a Gf?
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A. 9 January 2013: What's wrong with running away from THIS situation ? save your courage for more important,challenging occasions when you'll really need it ( hopefully never ! ) and ,if you can do it without too much trouble and too many expenses , move out, which ... (read in full...)
She lost interest in me because I let her pay for her part of the meal on our first date!
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A. 8 January 2013: Errata corrige : It should read " I'll be especially lavish with your Xmas and birthday GIFTS "- of course if I 'd try to thank you for a whole year of fancy dinners with a " Merry Xmas, pal ", then I AM a gold digger,lol !... (read in full...)
She lost interest in me because I let her pay for her part of the meal on our first date!
Q. I had a situation with a woman I really liked, and need you opinion on this. I 've met this girl in a building that I work at. She works for a different company, and I saw her several times at lunch before we started talking. We just talked for ...
A. 8 January 2013: Cerberus, I knew you were going to say that ! , because I know you feel strongly about this subject ( strange, btw, because from what you write in general, , about your gf, and mom, and friends, presents you get them, helping them out with ... (read in full...)
If he is getting help for his problems, would it be so bad if I took him back in a year or so?
Q. I posted a question a few days ago, but here is an update. I knew my boyfriend of 3 years was lying to me about certain things so I got access to his email account on Friday night, then did the same thing to his facebook account. I found dozens a...
A. 8 January 2013: People with this kind of problems ,as with any kind of problems, can change if they genuinely, strongly want to change, which in his case I doubt. I find highly suspicious that he got so desperately repentant , and disgusted with himself, just ... (read in full...)
Fear of making love and getting pregnant is ruining my relationship. Help!
Q. Hey, I and my boyfriend have been together for 2 and a half years now. We have had our whole loads of up and downs but in the end, we've always made it through, somehow not being able to stay away from each other. We were both virgins when we got t...
A. 8 January 2013: OP, it sounds like you are just looking for excuses to not take responsibility for your sex life and reproductive choices .
What does it mean " pills are not easily accessible " ? There are plenty of OB/GYNs, hospitals, clinics , and even stat... (read in full...)
I'm back with my ex but I'm not sure its a good thing
Q. Has too much happened to try again? I've been in realationship with now ex bf for 5 months. He really swept me off my feet, we have fun and are into the same things. The relationship has been full on virtually from the beginning. I'm a lone paren...
A. 8 January 2013: How could this be wonderful and promising if it only worked for 4 short months ? By the 5th month, you are already arguing and being spiteful to each other, he beats you up, you retaliate aggressively, the police has to intervene , this is a huge ... (read in full...)
I slept with my friends boyfriend 2 days before their baby is due. Do I tell her?
Q. So I've had this friend for 3 years. Me and her met because I hooked up with her boyfriend unknowingly. He split with her before I found out, but still cheated on her with me. Then cheated on me with her. So me and her became friends, long story sh...
A. 8 January 2013: Speaking about dumb, your actions weren't the smartest and wisest . And, yes, unwise actions are likely to have unpleasant consequences,it's a fact of life.
Nothing we can tell you, dumb or smart, is going to alter this fact.
... (read in full...)
Why does my wife insist on lying about my penis size?
Q. As I have said on previous posts, my wife has had about of 25 sexual partners before me (we met each other when she was 40). She is a very well educated and very kind person. At the begining we were very open during our conversations and at that ...
A. 8 January 2013: And, statistically speaking, it is very very probale that's she is telling you exactly the truth.
You'll be smaller than some, and bigger then others, and similar to most.
Why are you so mistrustful toward your wife ? Do you know her for a li... (read in full...)
I don't know if we are on a break, or this is a break up?
Q. Hey everyone , so me and my boyfriend were doing fine , I thought untill one day he decided to take "a break". He is a senior and works a lot and is spending a lot of time with his friends that are moving away for college along with dealing with ...
A. 8 January 2013: Maybe he means it as a break, but you should turn it into a permanent break up. He 's doing his me first thing, putting his ebergy into everything and everybody but your relationship, and, much probably, testing the eaters and having a look ... (read in full...)
I slept with my friends boyfriend 2 days before their baby is due. Do I tell her?
Q. So I've had this friend for 3 years. Me and her met because I hooked up with her boyfriend unknowingly. He split with her before I found out, but still cheated on her with me. Then cheated on me with her. So me and her became friends, long story sh...
A. 7 January 2013: Uh ?
After nearly 3 years on DearCupid, I thought there were going to be no more postings which could really surprise me. I was wrong. Yours does.
Contrariously to the posters who suggest that, if you just have to tell her, at least you wait unt... (read in full...)
What did he mean when he told me not to get too attached?
Q. I've liked the same guy for almost 3 years now. He's a good friend as well. Basically the whole time of when I've liked him he's had girlfriends too though. Recently he just split up with his girlfriend whom he has been going out for for almost 2...
A. 7 January 2013: It means he has no intention whatsoever to be dating you, and to not get too excited about what were and are going to be simply random hook ups. ... (read in full...)
Fear of making love and getting pregnant is ruining my relationship. Help!
Q. Hey, I and my boyfriend have been together for 2 and a half years now. We have had our whole loads of up and downs but in the end, we've always made it through, somehow not being able to stay away from each other. We were both virgins when we got t...
A. 6 January 2013: Maybe mine is a stupid question, but were you using contracception, and if not, why not ?
If you cannot risk getting pregnant, you don't need to abstain totally from intercourse ( although this is indeed a foolproof method ),you just need... (read in full...)
Why does my wife insist on lying about my penis size?
Q. As I have said on previous posts, my wife has had about of 25 sexual partners before me (we met each other when she was 40). She is a very well educated and very kind person. At the begining we were very open during our conversations and at that ...
A. 6 January 2013: But the average is not between 5 and 7 . 7 is way above average, meaning that there's only maybe 15-20% of the population with a penis 7 inches and over.
There are several statistic studies ( Kinsey Institute, Indiana University , etc.) and ... (read in full...)
Why does my wife insist on lying about my penis size?
Q. As I have said on previous posts, my wife has had about of 25 sexual partners before me (we met each other when she was 40). She is a very well educated and very kind person. At the begining we were very open during our conversations and at that ...
A. 3 January 2013: My advice is to consult a medical encyclopaedia, or ask any urologist , and you'll see that your wife is right and you are textbook average, being that the worlwide mondial average is 5.1-5.9 inches and you fall right in the middle.
To be very... (read in full...)
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