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... Send *indyCares a private message | | | *indyCares's profile:Hi everybody. I am an Italian woman currently living in Italy but I spent many years in England and USA. I hope my English is still decent but in case it got a little rusty, please be lenient.
My age ? Let say that I am way past the stage when you cry if the boy you like takes your best friend to the prom, and young enough to remember how awful that feels.
What qualifies me to help people- well, let me show off just a bit and mention that I studied Psychology 4 years in college, and, even if then I graduated in a different subject, I never lost my interest in psychology and kept reading a lot about this subject. Yet that does not really qualify me for anything because intellectual knowledge is not the same as real life experience. So let's say I feel I can advice people because I have lived a lot, travelled a lot, met a lot of people from all backgrounds , races and religions- I have loved a lot, and I have also been dumped a lot :)
Plus, I am really fascinated with people and their stories. Not in a gossipy way. I just find that every person is a whole new world that I am excited to discover.
Right now I am single- and happily so. I realized- better late than never - that rather than waiting for Prince Charming I should first become a Princess myself. You can't love anybody unconditionally, if first you don't love yourself unconditionally, and this is what I am learning to do.
Looking forward to hear from all of you..
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A. 26 February 2013: Dear OP, you seem to miss an important point.
So : often " once a cheater always a cheater". But, 99% of times " once an abuser always an abuser ".
Suppose though that he was the 1% one time offender : one time is one time too much !!
If you da... (read in full...)
He's kicked me and threatened to hit me. Will he improve? Is this relationship worth saving?
Q. I am in a committed relationship since 3 years and 7 months. The first 3 years we were in a LDR. Now we both stay in the same city. My bf sometimes behaves very badly with me because he feels that I control his life. I said its nothing like tha...
A. 26 February 2013: He DID threaten you , " come here and I will hit you with my shoes " IS a threat. Anyway that he threatened you or not would be irrelevant, since then actually he ended up with hitting you in a drunken rage .
" Is he still a bad person " ?... I ha... (read in full...)
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He's kicked me and threatened to hit me. Will he improve? Is this relationship worth saving?
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A. 25 February 2013: No, he will not improve. And yes, this IS the real him, i.e. he is a man who's got in himself the capacity and will to hit a woman. Of course he won't do it every single day, he will only do it if he's angry, or drunk etc..., so ? there are men- ... (read in full...)
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A. 25 February 2013: You leave him out of your life for as long as you need and want, and for all the time it takes for you to heal your broken heart and move on. After which, if you feel it's still worth your time being friends, you may want to reconnect, but , at ... (read in full...)
Arguments over dinner ingredients resulting in mom not talking to me.
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Arguments over dinner ingredients resulting in mom not talking to me.
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This guy is craaazy !... (read in full...)
No affection, I am trying to deal with it!
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No affection, I am trying to deal with it!
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No affection, I am trying to deal with it!
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A. 24 February 2013: For Pete's sake, grow a thicker skin . Stiff upper lip and bear it , and, possibly, without squeaking a pip .
His son has been diagnosed at age 28 with a terminal brain tumor... and you wonder that your man's affection may be a little up and down... (read in full...)
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A. 24 February 2013: Just sex.
Why would he mention thinking he'd like to be married by now...?
To make you think that he is the serious type and that it would NOT be all about sex.
Apparently, it worked :)... (read in full...)
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Honestly, if I were your Mom, I'd be freaking out too. I mean, seriously ? 4 break ups in 3 years !? Have you ever entertained the thought that this on/off patt... (read in full...)
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I understand it's easier said than done, but I can't see the benefit of you rema... (read in full...)
Personality disorder? Or am I looking too far into the way he behaves?
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If not ,all you have to care... (read in full...)
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A. 23 February 2013: I like Cerberus's and Aunty BimBim's suggestions, and mine will sound lame in comparison , but... as for me, I never understood how people can feel lonely or bored when they can READ.
A good book is the most entertaining companion you can find... (read in full...)
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Some thoughts on retroactive jealousy
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A. 23 February 2013: Anon female, I would hug you. Mwaah ! Consider yourself kissed.
RJ- at least, this level of RJ, is a mental health issue and as such it needs the intervention of a competent professional- a psychiatrist.
This does not mean that the OP is kookoo a... (read in full...)
I'm moving out but too scared to tell Mom!
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Do I move on to a great job? Or to a guy I love, but who isn't right for me?
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A. 23 February 2013: If you know he's not right for you, why even considering moving, near or far, down or south ? wrong is wrong.
I know, because you like him. In the current circumstances it does not sound, though, a valid enough motivation: you are offered a real... (read in full...)
Is stress a reasonable excuse for my girlfriend to be distant and snappy?
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A. 23 February 2013: You are lucky to be an energetic ,competent, yet laid back type that does not get stressed easily and manage to fit everything neatly in your life, and you are also lucky to have grown up with undemanding parents , but not everybody can or should ... (read in full...)
My drama with dating an actor
Q. Dear Cupid, My story is long but I'm really suffering.. I will start at the very beginning. In high school I had a crush on a boy Named Dakota. And I never got crushes. I had one boyfriend before this, But we broke up because I had fallen o...
A. 22 February 2013: Op, I may be a " dick" but I am also someone who has trained professionally to be an actor ( 4 years ) and worked professionally ( regularly paid, not as a hobby, or " for the exposure ".. ) both on stage and behind ( 8 years ). I have at ... (read in full...)
My father won't let go of a one-time thing that happened five years ago
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Is he an immigrant from some cult... (read in full...)
Did I scare him off with my question about dating?
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A. 22 February 2013: Maybe it's not the term that scared him off, but the concept behind it ,lol.
I would at least think ,that if you started with dating , and it soon fizzled, maybe he would not be so eager to try again , after few months, something that he had lost... (read in full...)
My first partner didn't enjoy the sex -- how can I compete with experienced guys?
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A. 22 February 2013: Experience is overrated and you know why ? because every woman is different, every woman is a sexual world apart from all others , and you need to learn to know THAT world, not the others. Example, yes many women like receiving oral sex...but some ... (read in full...)
Would you pay? It was a change she required prior to the holiday. But then she expected to pay for part of her additional cost.
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I Proposed to My Pregnant Girlfriend, She Accepted!
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A. 22 February 2013: How exactly the fact that she accepted your marriage proposal would prove us wrong?... She is pregnant ( with your child ) and single mother of another child already,... no job, no income... it would not have made a lot of sense for her to refuse ... (read in full...)
Friends are inviting both my and I to events. I don't want him to go if I'm going but he won't respond to my emails
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To Contact Or Not To Contact. Dumped And It Was All My Fault.
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A. 21 February 2013: If you ask me, she might have posted a whole book of quotations, but, she's over and done with you, and you need to realize it. She canceled the meeting and there won't be another one. She told you she understand, she forgives, it's ok, but ... (read in full...)
I overheard my husband saying he wish I would lose weight. Now I feel sad and like absolute crap!
Q. I don’t know what to do. It all started New Year’s Eve, my husband and I were at his company’s party and I went to grab him another drink. As I was walking back, I saw my husband and one of his employees talking, when I walked up behind my husband ...
A. 21 February 2013: He hurt your feelings ? ... maybe, but, what you overlook is that YOU , not other people are responsible for your feelings. Or, preecisely, for what you feel about a particular issue. It's not his fault if you don't feel good about your weight, or ... (read in full...)
My drama with dating an actor
Q. Dear Cupid, My story is long but I'm really suffering.. I will start at the very beginning. In high school I had a crush on a boy Named Dakota. And I never got crushes. I had one boyfriend before this, But we broke up because I had fallen o...
A. 21 February 2013: Exactly : in this case , you do not get what you want . I.e. a non-acting boyfriend.
You knew long time ago that he was , or wanted to be , an actor. It's not like he told you I am a fireman, or I work at Home Depot, then he changed his mind . Yo... (read in full...)
My 15 year old son is running around with an older girl and wont come home!
Q. HI my fellow aunts/uncles were always so good at giving advice that sometimes it's hard to take. Now is that time I ask you for your input on my situation. For the past two years my son who is now 15 has giving me more than a run for my money....
A. 20 February 2013: Thanks Cerberus, took due note of your infos .
It's not that they are exactly conflicting with my sources ( and with my admittedly vague mememories of when I lived in UK loooong time ago ) , it's that the UK law is ( on purpose ? ) unclear and ... (read in full...)
My 15 year old son is running around with an older girl and wont come home!
Q. HI my fellow aunts/uncles were always so good at giving advice that sometimes it's hard to take. Now is that time I ask you for your input on my situation. For the past two years my son who is now 15 has giving me more than a run for my money....
A. 20 February 2013: Don't give up, OP.
16 years in UK is the legal age for SEXUAL consent. For all the other intents and purposes , he is still a minor until the age of 18, and,by law, he CANNOT leave home without parental consent. If he does , he is a juve... (read in full...)
Do guys want to see a softer side to a girl?
Q. So for me personally I'm not very emotional. My close family (mom, dad and siblings) are the only ones that have seen me cry. I tend to not tell my feeling or share that part of me with others. This guy I am seeing has been pretty open with...
A. 20 February 2013: You are the way you are- and he should like you just the way you are ,flaws included.
If YOU think that you are acting too detached for your own tastes, or YOU have too much trouble expressing your emotions, and YOU are uncomfortable with this... (read in full...)
My 15 year old son is running around with an older girl and wont come home!
Q. HI my fellow aunts/uncles were always so good at giving advice that sometimes it's hard to take. Now is that time I ask you for your input on my situation. For the past two years my son who is now 15 has giving me more than a run for my money....
A. 20 February 2013: I don't know OP...I don't want to presume and try to teach you how to be a mother ... but, " he won't come home " ? WHAT ? He is a minor, he is just 15 - or not even, if his coming birthday is his 15th - he is a KID. A minor lives where his ... (read in full...)
No matter how much we talk about it, my boyfriend keeps making the same mistakes over and over again! I can' t take it!
Q. I'm not sure what to do in this situation. My fiance and I have been together 3 years. Currently, we're in an LDR, but that's only been for the past couple of months. I have a problem that he keeps making the same mistakes over and over again. I ...
A. 20 February 2013: OP, what's the point of giving ultimatums if then you won't enforce them ? You should say " careful, this is the last time you did X to me " only if you really mean it. Because if then he does it again, and you say " Ah ...uhm.. ok, well, maybe ... (read in full...)
I love her but she's ready to settle down and I'm not sure that I am. What should I do?
Q. I am 25, she is 30. We got together when I was 22. Our relationship has come to the point where she is ready for engagement, marriage and kids (completely understandable). I love her with all of my heart. She is the one I want to be with for the ...
A. 20 February 2013: Simple : you don't "truly" love her. Truly as in : she is the one, I think of being with her for the rest of my life as a privilege and not as a sacrifice.
You like her a lot, you appreciate her a lot, you lust after her, you are grateful to h... (read in full...)
To Contact Or Not To Contact. Dumped And It Was All My Fault.
Q. Hello! Thinking about breaking no contact by leaving chocolates at her door on vday. She broke up with me 2 weeks ago because I pestered her for a non committed relationship to test if she really loves me because before we started dating, she said ...
A. 18 February 2013: I am a fool for even answering, seen how any advice is appreciated AND promptly ignored ....
If the 85% came from your heart... I don't know , may be a heart transplant :)?
You are bothering this girl. You are harassing her . With all your nic... (read in full...)
To Contact Or Not To Contact. Dumped And It Was All My Fault.
Q. Hello! Thinking about breaking no contact by leaving chocolates at her door on vday. She broke up with me 2 weeks ago because I pestered her for a non committed relationship to test if she really loves me because before we started dating, she said ...
A. 16 February 2013: You want, you want... it's all about what you want and you need. What about her ? She indicates she wants to be let alone, maybe to lick her wounds, maybe to move on, maybe to think if this " relationship " is worth being salvaged, whatever. So ... (read in full...)
To Contact Or Not To Contact. Dumped And It Was All My Fault.
Q. Hello! Thinking about breaking no contact by leaving chocolates at her door on vday. She broke up with me 2 weeks ago because I pestered her for a non committed relationship to test if she really loves me because before we started dating, she said ...
A. 15 February 2013: Terrible idea. You pestered for weeks to get the kind of relationshipo she did NOT want ( who cares if it was some silly love test ? ), you did not gave her the space she needed, you did not leave her alone for weeks.... and now you want to ... (read in full...)
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