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My age ? Let say that I am way past the stage when you cry if the boy you like takes your best friend to the prom, and young enough to remember how awful that feels.
What qualifies me to help people- well, let me show off just a bit and mention that I studied Psychology 4 years in college, and, even if then I graduated in a different subject, I never lost my interest in psychology and kept reading a lot about this subject. Yet that does not really qualify me for anything because intellectual knowledge is not the same as real life experience. So let's say I feel I can advice people because I have lived a lot, travelled a lot, met a lot of people from all backgrounds , races and religions- I have loved a lot, and I have also been dumped a lot :)
Plus, I am really fascinated with people and their stories. Not in a gossipy way. I just find that every person is a whole new world that I am excited to discover.
Right now I am single- and happily so. I realized- better late than never - that rather than waiting for Prince Charming I should first become a Princess myself. You can't love anybody unconditionally, if first you don't love yourself unconditionally, and this is what I am learning to do.
Looking forward to hear from all of you..
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I hope you don't take this as a critique because it 's not meant as such, but this is the typical, typical lovemaking style of a guy who's got hims... (read in full...)
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He anger was misplaced she should have got mad at M... (read in full...)
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He went to visit his ex and is not back yet. Should I wait or move on?
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Has a partner ever said they wouldn't watch porn but then do it anyways?
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A. 26 February 2013: Hard to say. I think that the chances are the same with anybody making any kind of promise, why porn should be a separate issue ?
Have you ever dated a smoker who promised you that from that day on he was quitting cold turkey , only to found him ... (read in full...)
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A. 26 February 2013: No need to bring up the ring. A ring is a relatively cheap price to buy what you suspect he wants : a convenience.
That's sort of easy actually. How do you know he does not just want a roof over his head and sex when he wants it ? Simple . You give... (read in full...)
He's kicked me and threatened to hit me. Will he improve? Is this relationship worth saving?
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A. 26 February 2013: Dear OP, you seem to miss an important point.
So : often " once a cheater always a cheater". But, 99% of times " once an abuser always an abuser ".
Suppose though that he was the 1% one time offender : one time is one time too much !!
If you da... (read in full...)
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A. 26 February 2013: I guess my advice would have to be : introduce me to your boyfriend :) If he does not mind women twice his age, I am sure we'd get along just fine.
Compatibility is also about the level and amount of intimacy and closeness which people thin... (read in full...)
52 year old male with 3 late teen daughters seeing a 20 year old woman?
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He's kicked me and threatened to hit me. Will he improve? Is this relationship worth saving?
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" Is he still a bad person " ?... I ha... (read in full...)
Is my Italian penpal starting to like me?
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Arguments over dinner ingredients resulting in mom not talking to me.
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Is he sticking around for sex or he genuinely likes me?
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A. 25 February 2013: You certainly did not come across as too keen, since you blew him off for the third time. But he does not sound so keen either. He was supposed to have a " quiet one " ( week ) a month ago, and talk to you soon, then.. silence. He could not call ... (read in full...)
52 year old male with 3 late teen daughters seeing a 20 year old woman?
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A. 25 February 2013: Having done some cougaring myself , I am not too worried about age differences ( although, 32 years ! wow ! ) .
What I don't get, though ,is how all this story played out.
I mean, you wanted sexual fun, and the young girl wanted sexual fun, - h... (read in full...)
I am heartbroken at how my mother behaves when drunk. My Bf says she needs help. Would it work to invite her to our wedding? Or not?
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A. 25 February 2013: I think your Bf is right. Things may look better because ,now that she lives in a less stressful environment , she has less triggers to lash out, but " getting better " is not the same as " being well " and a professional intervention is not a ... (read in full...)
How can I resolve the fact that I am torn between the man I love and what I think will make me happy in the long run?
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A. 25 February 2013: I think that maybe his ex was thinking of living in the moment too when she got pregnant , then she found herself a single mom of two, with a man that comes and goes back and forth according to his "moments".
Not all moments are so worthy bein... (read in full...)
He's kicked me and threatened to hit me. Will he improve? Is this relationship worth saving?
Q. I am in a committed relationship since 3 years and 7 months. The first 3 years we were in a LDR. Now we both stay in the same city. My bf sometimes behaves very badly with me because he feels that I control his life. I said its nothing like tha...
A. 25 February 2013: Yeah, that's another thing, he won't tell his parents now...and guess what, the reason could be that he won't tell them EVER, because he is going to get along with the arranged marriage they'll organize for him, I mean, it would not be that ... (read in full...)
He's kicked me and threatened to hit me. Will he improve? Is this relationship worth saving?
Q. I am in a committed relationship since 3 years and 7 months. The first 3 years we were in a LDR. Now we both stay in the same city. My bf sometimes behaves very badly with me because he feels that I control his life. I said its nothing like tha...
A. 25 February 2013: No, he will not improve. And yes, this IS the real him, i.e. he is a man who's got in himself the capacity and will to hit a woman. Of course he won't do it every single day, he will only do it if he's angry, or drunk etc..., so ? there are men- ... (read in full...)
Arguments over dinner ingredients resulting in mom not talking to me.
Q. Hi there, I'm having problems with my mom, she often shout t me for things sometimes I see why others are not so clear. One of the more recent occasions she asked me to vacuum the dining room which I did along with cooking lunch and washing up a...
A. 25 February 2013: You miss the point of all the answers you don't want to hear ; banter is only banter when is kept to a level , and a number of occasions, so that EVERYBODY enjoys it ; beyond that ,it may become , and feel, heavy-handed ,unnerving and ... (read in full...)
Arguments over dinner ingredients resulting in mom not talking to me.
Q. Hi there, I'm having problems with my mom, she often shout t me for things sometimes I see why others are not so clear. One of the more recent occasions she asked me to vacuum the dining room which I did along with cooking lunch and washing up a...
A. 24 February 2013: I agree with Chigirl. You have to learn which battles to pick, and that in a family getting along is more important than being always right.
I am not saying that your mom must be a saint, or flawless. Maybe she is a difficult type, she has a shor... (read in full...)
Is he sticking around for sex or he genuinely likes me?
Q. Met this guy online. First date was at his house, and yes ended up making out in his bed but no sex. Second time i was drunk and lonely. He texted and ask if i want to go over to "cuddle". again i agreed, and i ended up at his house. No sex as ...
A. 23 January 2013: Yes, he means he wants to have a quiet one (s) for the next few days before his trip, and you'll catch up once he is back.
Does not sound too smitten. ... (read in full...)
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