My boyfriend told me it was him or the smoking, Im finding it hard what can I do ?
Q. my boyfriend told me to pick him or smoking i picked him but finiding it hard what can i do....
A. 18 September 2006: Will power and if that fails go to see your doctor who will give you some advice and some information on what you can do and who can help you in quitting.... (read in full...)
Phone sex virgin here...how are you supposed to do it?
Q. Hi There THis might seem like a silly question. I have just started a long distance relationship and am a phone sex virgin. I have no idea how you are suppose to do it. Any ideas?...
A. 18 September 2006: Just go with the moment, you tell each other what you are doing with yourself at that moment, how that feels, what you want to do with the other person, how it feels and how they make you feel.... (read in full...)
Whats the best position for a girl to have an orgasm ?
Q. A question for the girls. What is the best position for a girl to have an orgasm during sex? If you want to say on top - please be specific?...
A. 18 September 2006: Oh I forgot to mention, my best position for an orgasm is the man on top with my legs on his shoulders, or me on top laid down on him moving up and down on his body rather than up and down on him.... (read in full...)
Whats the best position for a girl to have an orgasm ?
Q. A question for the girls. What is the best position for a girl to have an orgasm during sex? If you want to say on top - please be specific?...
A. 18 September 2006: You have to try different positions and work out what position it is that works for you both, every girl is different same as every man hits a girl differently! just be honest with each other on what feels good and what doesn't, honestly in the ... (read in full...)
I think I scared him off, but would at least like to be friends, how can do this without thinking I have feelings ?
Q. I liked this boy . a real lot . but i think i scared him away one day we just stoped talking . i would say anything in conversation to get his interest just to talk to him . I still liek him now and ill be going to his school soon i odnt know what ...
A. 18 September 2006: You need to just contact him and just say the time you two spent together was fun! and that you feel that you two would make great friends and would like a friendship from him if possible, better to ask on the chance it will work out than to never ... (read in full...)
Im a little loose after childbirth, anything I can do to improve this ?
Q. I had a couple of children and am now a bit loose down there during sex. Any ideas? Will PC excersizes actually make any difference? ...
A. 18 September 2006: Pelvic Floor Exercises!!! I know alot of friends that have tried them and say they felt the difference, I've had a baby and I didn't think because I had a C Section I thought I wouldn't need to do them but I tried them as they are mean't to tone ... (read in full...)
Never been to all night parties! Are these sorts of parties normal and am I missing out?
Q. I've never been to an all night party (or ones that go to like 4 in the morning and beyond), yet all my friends have. Are these sorts of parties normal and am I missing out?...
A. 18 September 2006: Try everything you are curious about at least once, if you don't like it then you know not to go again! if you don't go you will always wonder what you are missing out on.... (read in full...)
Whenever we meet this guy, my gf makes jokes about blowing him again! It's embarrassing. Should Itell her to stop?
Q. My girlfriend got a vibrator for her birthday. Some bloke stuck it in his jeans,then asked my girlfriend for a blowjob. she started deep throating it! Now whenever we meet this bloke with her mates she makes jokes about blowing him again. Its an ...
A. 18 September 2006: If it upsets you or offends you in any way then you have to tell her, really she should be considering your feelings before she makes these comments towards him but sometimes people don't realise what they are doing and the effect that is having ... (read in full...)
This guy likes me..but says he loves other girls, as well. What's going on with him?
Q. hi theres this lad he really likes me i think he is ok but i dont no him to well he says im perfect and gives me lots of compliments, he keeps asking me out but i say i wont 2 get 2 no him better then i might. but now when i talk 2 him on msn he ...
A. 18 September 2006: Well best you don't agree to anything until you do know him better for starters, I also feel if it keeps changing to he loves this one and that one then he is throwing the word love around to freely but from your age I guess he is young aswell, I ... (read in full...)
I want to spice up things by having a threesome! My bf thinks it's a bad idea..any advice?
Q. I want to spice things up in mine and my boyfriends sex life and we thought about having a threesome. I want to but have no idea who to choose to join us. We've agreed it must be a girl but I don't want a friend or someone I don't know at all! Help! ...
A. 18 September 2006: I agree with your boyfriend, I think it is a bad idea! I once agreed when an ex of mine wanted a threesome and I really thought I was okay with pretty much anything put in my path, even though I had never been a jealous person I felt jealous and ... (read in full...)
Depo Provera contraceptive question!
Q. hey guys, i need to know if anyone has been on the contraceptive Depo-Provera injection? If anyone has, can you tell me if you had any sudden - or arising side-effects. You see, ive been on it a year now, and over the past few months ive been hav...
A. 18 September 2006: Every type of contraception has its side-effects we have to bare, same as every person will suffer different reactions to them as all medications, maybe this type of contraception just isn't for you and you might be more suited to something else, we ... (read in full...)
Does hugging your GF for longer mean you care for her more?
Q. Please read this question because some of you might finding it interesting as well!... now me and some of my friends were talking about hugging people and one of my friends said 'i think the longer you hold the girl for shows how much you care for ...
A. 18 September 2006: A hug is great from someone you care for that cares for you, I feel that in some situations you need a longer hug and need to be held by the person that cares for you because the feeling of that always seems to make everything seem not as bad as it ... (read in full...)
My BF of 7 years just left me but it doesn't make any sense!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been in this rollercoaster of a relationship for about 7 years. We have a 5 year old son and I'm pregnant 5 months pregnant. He has struggled for some time with getting stable. During that time he spoke of marriage and ever...
A. 18 September 2006: You need to speak to him and try to get some answers out of him, be prepared that he may not have the answers you are wanting or even know the answers himself, you also need to work out what you really want, do you love him? are you still with him ... (read in full...)
I went to my formal with her back in Feb, but now I think I fancy her!
Q. I am 18 years of age and in February i went to my old school formal. I brought a girl but i never really knew her well as she was my sister's friend, but when i first saw her she looked beautiful. I have only talked to her a few times since then but ...
A. 18 September 2006: Try with something small like saying you really enjoyed the time at the formal and would she like to meet up and catch up sometime, it has been a long time since you last saw her so you'll have to take things slowly and carefully to make sure the ... (read in full...)
How do I move from friends to something more?
Q. Hi. I've met this girl through friends and have been keeping contact mostly by txt. We met up for one drink which went great but I'd really like to ask her out but dont know how to make the next step. I think she may be interested but am not sure....
A. 18 September 2006: Try sending her a message asking her if she would meet up again sometime soon, also telling her that you really enjoyed the last time and would be nice to do it again.... (read in full...)
Advice needed on how to approach the girl I like!
Q. I have known this girl for about a year and I've always liked her. But over the last few weeks i cant stop thinking about about her and cant seem to get a decent oppurtunity to express my feelings to her. Its driving me crazy. She is quite popular ...
A. 18 September 2006: There never really is a best time and place to say how you feel, just get her on her own and tell her what your thinking and feeling, good things come to those that wait but at the same time, don't miss the boat on this girl, better to open up and ... (read in full...)
How do I get the guy I like to trust me again?
Q. I wrote a letter to this guy i like and enclosed my number (it's a phone i rarely use, so i wasn't bothered about giving the number out.). Anyway I received a call about a week later, and i am pretty sure it was from this guy, the thing is initially ...
A. 18 September 2006: Time to come clean and honest with him, tell him exactly what you did and the reasons you did it, and hope that he will understand that you was just being careful because you felt he was messing with you, I don't think you will get his trust ... (read in full...)
17 year old gay guy who has a crush on someone is already in a relationship!
Q. Hi i am a 17 year old gay guy , who really likes a friend ive met very recently but the friend has a boyfriend already...what will i do?...
A. 18 September 2006: I understand you are quite taken by this guy, but if this guy is happily in a relationship and feels alot for his partner then if you really care for him you will walk away, maybe you could have a chat with him and tell him how you feel then you ... (read in full...)
He yelled at me over his driving embarrassment, and now I just want thinks to be OK again!
Q. CUPID please help me! The new guy I went to prom with and now dating for 3 weeks, we were pulling out of school on our way in town and he turned soooo fast I flew across the passenger seat into him! I hit the steering wheel and we just bumped in to ...
A. 28 May 2006: For you to have flown across the car like that was you wearing a seat belt? No he shouldnt have shouted at you like that but at the same time but his responce could have been out of shock at what happened because you hitting the steering wheel ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants me to sleep with his friend
Q. I'm 18 and have been dating my 21 year old boyfriend for 6 months. He's a virgin, and surprisingly, doesn't want sex at all but suggested to me that I should sleep with his friend instead. I'm not a virgin; I've had sex once with my only other bo...
A. 25 May 2006: Have you spoke to him as to why he doesnt want a sexual relationship at this time? whatever his reason is you should respect his choice, i believe for whatever reason you shouldnt sleep with his friend but maybe he is worried that if he dont sleep ... (read in full...)
Advice says I should stop before it gets out of hand...But I think it has already! Help
Q. I posted a question about an ex lover of 26 years ago getting in touch with me , I am happily married have been for 21 years, and get this e-mail from my ex . I have read the replys from crying eyes, cos you are telling me to stop before it gets ...
A. 24 May 2006: I always say follow your heart, i know noone wants to hurt anyone else but you only have one life and in that life you should always be true to yourself.... (read in full...)
He is 22 and feels he is too young for our relationship to work
Q. I am 24 and my partner of 3 1/2 years is 22. We have not long ago moved into our second property and within the last few months grown further apart. Last week, he left to go back to his parents for time to think. He says he feels that he is ...
A. 24 May 2006: This is a hard one, whenever ive been involved with younger guys you do always worry yourself that they are feeling like they are missing out on things even worse when he is feeling he is aswell, its him that has to make the choice either its be ... (read in full...)
In an on-off relationship with a man who doesnt love me, help
Q. hi there, iv been in an on off relationship for the past 12 years , i think i still love him (not sure im a bit confused) although we get on well most of the time hes not very interested in me , if i am enthusiastic or happy about anything he just ...
A. 24 May 2006: There are plently of people out there that could love you so why settle with someone that doesnt and probably never will love you? i say get out of the relationship and concentrate on being you and doing things for you that make you happy.... (read in full...)
I am getting married but everyone I know hates the groom
Q. I am tired of everyone telling me my partner is not good enough for me. When I say everyone, I mean everyone... my best freind, all my friends, my family, my cousins, my work colleagues, my exs' even !!! I know he is not the best looking guy on e...
A. 24 May 2006: Well if your not happy in your relationship why are you planning a wedding? personally your relationship needs working on and sorting out before you even consider getting married to your partner, as for everyone else, surely your happiness is more ... (read in full...)
He likes me shaved, but it hurts....what can I do?
Q. My bf has a shaved pussy fetish. I met his needs, but it bleeds a lot when i shave and it stings. I want to keep it up for him though. What do i do? ...
A. 23 May 2006: I know alot of females find this same problem when they first start i also know that the more you do it the more the skin gets use to it therefore not hurting as much til its just like shaving your legs or something, if you still want to please him ... (read in full...)
He has a whole box of memorials of his ex....should I say anything?
Q. I had recently asked a question concerning my boyfriend bringing a box over to my house (he lives with me) from his parents. When I looked in it I found a whole photo album of him and his ex. I was a bit bothered by that because when I asked him ...
A. 23 May 2006: Well if it was me i would have to say something, i would put it to him that how would he feel if i had a whole box of stuff from my ex, surely after that he must realise that all this box of stuff is doing is hurting you and if he loves you the last ... (read in full...)
Did he mean no when he said yes?
Q. I have really fallen for this guy that I met a few weeks ago, I dont know him very well but from what I do know he seems like a really lovely guy! I asked him out a few days ago and he said yes!! but now im thinking maybe he only said yes because it ...
A. 23 May 2006: Has he done something to make you think only said yes as it was easier than saying no? if he hasnt then you are probably being a little bit paranoid as you have really fallen for him and worried he isnt or wont be interested in you in the same way.... (read in full...)
How do you flirt?
Q. simple question... how do u flirt? (i am a 16 year old girl)...
A. 23 May 2006: Everyone has a different way of flirting and its a case of being themselves while making someone else feel your attention is on them, ive always found being myself the best way to make someone see i like them, if all else fails you just tell them, ... (read in full...)
I want this boy but I hate the thought he has had previous girlfriends
Q. i am 16 and this boy that i really like has been the only person i have fancied in my life. i will ask him out soon but the problem is i dont want him to have ever had a girlfriend before. i want to be the only girlfriend he has had. i want us to ...
A. 23 May 2006: Personally i have thought like you before, wanted to be the first so i was special to him but there is another side to it, if you are their first there is also the fact that they havent had a chance to be with other people therefore not knowing that ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend moved for a job and now he wants to finish our relationship
Q. have been with my boyfriend for 6 mths . 2 of those mths he has moved away to a new job. literally half an hour away by plane. he has decided to end it cause the distance is to far and his feelings are not strong enough he won't talk how can I get ...
A. 23 May 2006: Do you really want to talk to him and try and sort it out when he has caved at the first hurdle in your relationship? he obviously doesnt feel your relationship is as important or as strong as what he now has with his new job and new life, i would ... (read in full...)
He cheated on me in the past and I just don't trust him any more...
Q. hi my boyfriend cheated on me at the start of our relationship but we got over it and moved on he has lived with me for a year and 8 months but i have trouble trusting him when he makes friends with girls , i get really jealous and insecure even ...
A. 23 May 2006: He cheated when you first got together, if he hasnt cheated since then it can be classed as a small mistake on his part when the relationship was still new, no this doesnt make cheating right but you choose to forgive him and stay with him therefore ... (read in full...)
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