My seperated guy hasn't contacted me and I wanna know-what the hell is going on?
Q. Hi I have been going with this fella and i have a question before about him! He is separted from his wife and he has a child and two step children we have been getting on ok or so i think! i haven't heard from him since monday and i don't know...
A. 30 September 2006: He may have been the one to come onto you but sometimes it takes a new person in your life to make you realise that your heart still belongs to the old person that was in your life.
I would give up on trying to contact him and wait for him to cont... (read in full...)
In long term relationship but now feel strong attraction towards someone online
Q. I've got a serious crush on someone over the internet, but I'm in a long term relationship. I met the person on an online game, and he was always nice to me, though we were never close friends. Recently I started using voice chat with the game as...
A. 29 September 2006: I think the best thing you can do is take sometime out from both of them and work through your thoughts and feelings, you need to close on one of them in your head and make a choice but you also need to make sure you make the right choice for the ... (read in full...)
My cousin doesn't like my boyfriend!
Q. hi, i need some advice about my cousin. her and i have been quite close expecially the last 10 years (shes 25 and im 22), problem is that i began dating one of her work colleagues whom she doesnt get on well with...even though she introduced us in ...
A. 29 September 2006: This problem wasn't brought on by you it was something your cousin instigated and carried on involving everyone else around her.
You've tried texting her to resolve this and she doesn't want to know so I would just get on with your life and enjo... (read in full...)
He agreed to wait to have sex and now he's grabbing at my pants and behaving very impatient!
Q. I've been going out with my bf for about 8 months, were in our 20's, and we haven't had sex. I'm a virgin, he's not though. Early in the relationship we talked about how i needed to be in love in order to have sex and to have the relationship ...
A. 28 September 2006: You need to talk to him again, because you have started giving him oral he is thinking that your thoughts have changed and if you haven't told him otherwise how would he know?
Just tell him how you are feeling, you shouldn't have sex until you are ... (read in full...)
His playful tickling annoys me..is this normal or is he just childish?
Q. Hi. I've been going out with my bf for 7 months, were in love and everything is going well. However, there is one thing that bothers me about him. Since day one, he's been a very touchy feely kind of person, meaning he's always trying to tickle me, ...
A. 28 September 2006: Is it that it really does irratate you or that you are embarrassed and worried about what other people will think and say?... (read in full...)
How do I prevent those awful vaginal wet farts after oral sex?
Q. Ok, this is pretty gross, but my bf gave me head this morning and a few minutes after he'd finished i got really really wet and it made a really horrible sound like a fart that i was in no control over. I know it's disgusting and i'm sorry, but is ...
A. 28 September 2006: Yes this is common and is caused by air build up inside you, I had a friend who use to suffer real bad with this same problem and she was always so embarrassed afterwards now her and her boyfriend laugh it off and it's always given them something it ... (read in full...)
He orgasms too quickly--I have trouble getting orgasm...how can we solve this problem?
Q. My bf used to do coke and other class A drugs, and although he's now clean it's taken it's toll on his body and he often has trouble during sex. Sometimes he just comes so quickly I haven't even realised that we'd started. I tend to let him do all ...
A. 28 September 2006: Three things...
One.. get him to satisfy you first with his hands, mouth, toy whatever and then he can continue to do what he normally does.
Two.. have a read up on things you can do to prevent premature ejaculation as there are certain things y... (read in full...)
How do I give good head?
Q. i have given head b4 (blow job) but how do i know im doing it right? any sugestions on how 2 give a BJ....?...
A. 28 September 2006: I think the way to a good blowjob is simply enjoying it yourself! oh and teeth out of the way :o)... (read in full...)
We pulled-now he wants to date me but I prefer being single. If I pull with him agaim..am I leading him on?
Q. i like this boy, and we are really good friends. last weekend we were at a party and we pulled quite a few times, and because i was his first pull [and him mine] people are saying that he wants to go out with me, but hes too shy to admit it. the ...
A. 28 September 2006: I would also like to know your definition of 'pulling' as I'm quite sure it isn't what I define pulling :o\... (read in full...)
We are having marriage problems over my husband's drinking binges...what can I do?
Q. Hi, I have a question I need a lot of help on. I'm in a 3 year marriage thats been somewhat rocky.theres been lots of fighting,but we love eachother very much and we have a son but theres always been this problem my husband once in ...
A. 28 September 2006: Have you tried talking to him and telling him how you are feeling and how this is effecting your marriage?
I would also tell him it isn't him drinking its him drinking too much thats the problem as alot of people don't like to feel they are bein... (read in full...)
What should i do to make this guy like me? Any tips?
Q. Hi. I like this boy in my year but i don't know if he likes me. What should i do to make him like me?...
A. 28 September 2006: You can't make anyone like you no matter how much you want to.
All you can do is tell him how you feel and hope he feels the same, if he doesn't at least you know and can try moving on from this and not holding out in hope he does, if he does feel... (read in full...)
Why is it so hard to move on after broken relationship?
Q. Why is it so hard to move on from a broken marriage / relationship? Thought of ex with new partner is soul destroying. Why is it so tough to let go?...
A. 28 September 2006: For some reason when you aren't with them anymore our minds only seem to remember the good things about the relationship and the good parts to the ex, missing the things you use to do together and panicking about someone else having that with your ... (read in full...)
Should i meet my work mates nephew?? I have concerns about the age gap!
Q. Should i meet my work mates nephew???? Hey Guys hope some one can help! im a 19 yr old female (single) recently in a conversation in work i mentioned that id like to meet mr right and settle into a relationship as most of my friends have boyfr...
A. 28 September 2006: I don't see the age gap a problem it is only 4 years and many relationships have worked on age gaps a whole lot bigger than that.
I would talk to your workmate and make sure that this guy is fully aware and willing for this date to happen as you ... (read in full...)
How can you move forward after someone has cheated on you?
Q. how do or can you move forward in a relationship when one has cheated is it healthly to move forward ...
A. 28 September 2006: Yes you can move forward after someone has cheated but only if you yourself can do it.
Everyone is different therefore we handle and deal with situations differently, you need to work out if you can forgive this, move on from this without lett... (read in full...)
I can't seem to enjoy myself with friends..especially whenever I think of this girl I like!
Q. I asked this girl out,she said no but we're ok friends (not friends that hang around with each other all the time). Though my heart still jumps whenever I see her. Every now and then I see her at clubs having a good time with her friends yet I ...
A. 28 September 2006: Firstly when you see her in town you really need to at least look like your having a good time as any girl wouldn't really notice someone that look unhappy and like they really don't want to be there.
Have you tried talking to this girl and tell... (read in full...)
How do you tell how serious a guy is about you or even if he is?? This guy has me baffled!
Q. How do you tell how serious a guy is about you or even if he is? How can you tell if he just wants to use you for sex or that his feelings go deeper? Been going out with this guy (nearly 23) for 2 weeks. Although he doesn’t know this yet, I have ...
A. 28 September 2006: For starters you've only been together 2 weeks, in 2 weeks people worry about being too full on or not showing enough to keep the other person interested etc, like you said he is just out of a relationship that he was hurt deeply by so you really ... (read in full...)
I get depressed if I don't have a bf! Is this normal and why am I like this?
Q. hi im 15 and i am wondering if this is normal or why I think like this. Basically if i dont have a boy in my life i get depressed. i have to have a boy that is interested in me and that we both flirt with each other. I have to have a boy to fancy...
A. 28 September 2006: It is normal, you want the attention a boyfriend or someone interested in you gives you, makes you feel special and wanted therefore when you haven't got that you feel unwanted and that then makes you feel low, having a love interest gives you ... (read in full...)
I want my ex bf to stop liking me so I can move on with my new bf. What can I do?
Q. dear cupid okay i have been dating this guy for two months and we really care deeply about each other. but my ex boyfriend is really not liking it and he has never acted like that before he told me we are only friends and nothing more but my family ...
A. 28 September 2006: You need to talk to him and tell him that you love you boyfriend and are very happy with him, also telling him that even if you was single yours and his relationship is over and would still stay that way.
You just have to be strong and clear abou... (read in full...)
I like her, she has a boyfriend...what do I do?
Q. i have a girl at my school that i like but she has got a boyfriend, i cant get over her can you help me with my love problem...
A. 28 September 2006: there really is nothing you can do apart from try to get over her and move on from this, concentrate on your school and friends and you will probably find you will have a few girlfriends as you go through school so just enjoy being young.
Good luck... (read in full...)
My boyfriends been cheating on me, yet I still love him!
Q. what do i do after my boyfried of nearly 8 yrs ,has cheated on me with his ex?we have 3 kids under 6.had no problems and a fantastic sex life..and he goes off and has sex with her.the affair was going on for two months when i accidently found very ...
A. 28 September 2006: I've always believed that cheating is the end of a relationship as nothing is a good enough reason for this mistake to have been made, if you love someone and want to be with them why would you need to sleep with someone else?
You've spent near... (read in full...)
We keep breaking up, but still have sex and act like we are still together!
Q. Hi, um where shud i begin really well i was with this guy for 3 years on and off i met him over the internet when i was 16 and went to meet him, it felt like love at first sight then he left me 4 times through these 3 years and always came back to ...
A. 28 September 2006: Firstly I feel you need to stop having sex with him, then you need to work through what you feel towards him and what you want from him.
If you do get back together you need to make sure it is really what you want as I'm sure you don't want anot... (read in full...)
I have a girlfriend that I love and I'm infatuated with another girl...what are my options?
Q. i've been going out with a girl for nearly 6 months and i really do love her, she seems to be perfect and could picture myself spending the rest of my life with her. However i have always had a wandering eye but i would never act upon, recently i've ...
A. 28 September 2006: I think you need to take sometime out and work through you head and feelings.
I feel that maybe this other girl is just an attraction and no harm to your relationship or feelings towards your girlfriend.
Good luck :o)... (read in full...)
We broke up but something I said changed his mind...where do I really stand?
Q. My bf has been pretty depressed recently, mainly because he has no job but there are other issues too. Last night when we were together he started crying and said he didn't want to drag me down with him and that he couldn't put into the relationship ...
A. 28 September 2006: By looks of it he was walking away from you because he didn't want to pull you down with his problems, your have reassured him that you are there and love him and don't want to lose him making him realise that he doesn't want to be without you and ... (read in full...)
We are having a problem when it comes to sex!
Q. I have just started a new relationship and me and my partner are having a problem when it comes to having sex,we cant seem to get my partners penis inside me to me it seems to be something stopping it or if we do it slips out straightaway.Is there ...
A. 28 September 2006: Have you tried other positions?... (read in full...)
My husband is no longer understanding towards my issues with sex!
Q. My husband and I have been married for 4 years and have experienced a lot in that amount of time. When I was 16 years old, i was sexually assaulted and my views regarding sex changed dramitically. My husband is the first person I had sex with ...
A. 28 September 2006: Your married which means any issue that is yours is also his, especially if that issue includes him which this one does.
You need to talk to him and make him understand that yes this is your issue and the problem lies with you but you need him to u... (read in full...)
He knows I exist so why won't he talk to me?
Q. I am a Single mother. i have a liking for this man who is 5 yrs younger than me. We are working in the same company but different dept. We do not talk to each other but he knows that i am existing. Just wonder why he does not want to talk to me? Can ...
A. 28 September 2006: I don't think being a single mother should be something you use to stop you from doing and going after what you want, yeah they are probably loads of guys out there not prepared to even consider a woman with a child that doesn't make him wrong just ... (read in full...)
His penis was erect but not hard, does this mean he doesnt really fancy me ?
Q. I recently found out that a friend of mine wants to be with me! So i went back to his place and we talked and we ended up in bed togther but he is 40 and i am 23 and when we were going to have intercourse his penis we still very soft even though it ...
A. 28 September 2006: I believe we all have to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one, so that when we finally meet the right person we will know how to be grateful and appreciate them properly.
Hang in there, I think everyone wonders if there really is s... (read in full...)
Is she having second thoughts about us ? Cant understand why all of a sudden she is so distant ??
Q. My girl is giving me the cold shoulder, why? We have been dating for three months, and things have progressed very fast. We both agreed that the way it was going was fine. I'll be honest, I fell in love with her and we have already been talking ...
A. 28 September 2006: Alot of women don't realise that men do worry about things like this and that they need just as much reassuring and confirmation that they are loved, missed and wanted as us women do.
Hang in there and try not to push her, things sound likeshe does... (read in full...)
We broke up because she cheated and now..she ignores me! I still care for her..what can I do?
Q. What should I do me and my girlfreind broke up about 3 weeks ago. Well to start out she has cheated on me twice before when she was really drunk. She kissed two guys. She broke up with me first saying she felt like there was not a spark anymore. ...
A. 28 September 2006: Maybe she still has alot of feelings for you and finds it easier to blank you and ignore you than try to act that everything is okay.
To be fair she said there was no spark between you anymore, she cheated on you, broke your trust, hurt you and is s... (read in full...)
My ex gf's bf is being possessive because he won't allow her to hang out with me! Is this right?
Q. Is my ex-girlfriend new guy being possessive? He won't let her hang out with me when it's just me and her. I wanted to take her out to a baseball game for her birthday and she said sure, but she'd have to ask him first. Well, it's a no go, he ...
A. 28 September 2006: This is quite normal, some people aren't happy with their partners spending time with an ex especially when they are going to be alone, I would feel lucky that he isn't making it difficult for her to see you at all and you've still got a friendship ... (read in full...)
My seperated guy hasn't contacted me and I wanna know-what the hell is going on?
Q. Hi I have been going with this fella and i have a question before about him! He is separted from his wife and he has a child and two step children we have been getting on ok or so i think! i haven't heard from him since monday and i don't know...
A. 28 September 2006: Well there could be a simple reason as to why he hasn't contacted you and best to find out that first, I would talk to him and find out what is going on and where he sees you and him going.
I don't know how long he has been seperated but you migh... (read in full...)
Is she sending me mixed messages or am I useless at picking up the signs? Help me out here!
Q. Hi Everyone A few months back a friend of mine's girlfriend moved near to where I live....and one of her friends moved in with her. I bumped into them in town and my friend found out that this new girl thought I was "cute". Obviously I was ...
A. 28 September 2006: There really is only one way to find out and thats to talk to her about this, some of us girls try to leave it for the guy to make all the moves and initiate dates etc so it might just be a simple issue like that.
You could always get your frie... (read in full...)
He has moved schools, how can I get over him?
Q. Im 13 (nearly 14) and i like a 16 year old guy. He and his friends always stare at me and i heard that he likes me. Now he has moved schools and i am crushed. I have liked him for 7 months.Any suggestions how i can get ova him?...
A. 28 September 2006: Your 13 and you should have enough going on with school, friends and family life that you can throw yourself into to keep your time and mind active.
Plenty of time for boyfriends and there will be many more crushes before you meet one that is real... (read in full...)
Where can I find... men?
Q. Bit of a bizzare question but where is the best place to find men? Im 31 years of age and havent had a proper relationship in over 4 years and im starting to get lonely and worry if I will ever settle down. Dont get me wrong I do meet men but for ...
A. 28 September 2006: I've always believed that things happen for a reason and people come into your life when the time is right, you have to go through some bad ones and some that don't feel the same as you before you find that 'one' that can return every feeling you ... (read in full...)
I don't want ex, but don't want anyone else to have him either
Q. I have been broken up with my ex for a few years now and we have remained friends. The problem is, I dont want him but I dont want anyone else to have him either. Help. Is this normal? Any advice?...
A. 28 September 2006: Yes this is normal and I think most of us feel like this, I'm not sure if its because we want them to always just want us or whether its just a territory thing that person was always yours now he may end up being someone elses.
You need to move on a... (read in full...)
Been married a few months and run out of thinsg to say!
Q. I have nothing to say to my wife. We have only been married for a few months, and I am scared. We just moved because of her job, and we have no one to speak to other than each other. I am not working so I can't even tell her about my day. What can I ...
A. 28 September 2006: Sometimes you don't have to say anything just hugs, kisses and cuddling up watching TV or a film is enough, words don't always matter as much as the little show of affection do.
I wouldn't worry about it too much as she married you because she love... (read in full...)
Is this mess normal?
Q. is it normal when me and my parnter have sex for is semum to dribbel out of me wen he pulls out of me...
A. 28 September 2006: Yes it is normal, like others have said 'what goes up must come down'.... (read in full...)
We slept together and I haven't hard from him this week... Am I worrying too much?
Q. Hi, I have been dating a guy and it was going very well. I met his friends recently and we ended up sleeping together for the first time. We have been seeing each other for about a month. I have been away a lot of weekends visiting friends,...
A. 28 September 2006: I would try and fit in seeing him before you go away at the weekend even if it's just for half hour at least then he can see that even though your going away you don't want to go without seeing him first.
I understand that you arranged all thes... (read in full...)
Think my best friend likes my boyfriend... what can I do?
Q. i think my bestfriend wants my boifriend i have asked her but she denies it what should i do?...
A. 28 September 2006: There is nothing you can do, until she admits it or you see something that gives it away completely you just have to ignore your thoughts on this and carry on enjoying your relationship.
Remember he is your boyfriend therefore its you he wants to b... (read in full...)
Sex on holiday, am I now pregnant?
Q. I had sex on holiday and since then i havent been on my period.I took 2 pregnancy tests but they were really cheap 1 said negitive then the other said positive im really scared im only 15 XXXXPLZ HELP XXX...
A. 28 September 2006: The first thing you need to do is go see your doctor and get a blood test done to check if your pregnant as this is more reliable than a shop brought test, especially if your not use to taking pregnancy tests, then you can go from there on your next ... (read in full...)
In what ways can I infect someone else with herpes?
Q. I had a herpes test done recently and I called my doc. to get the results and I found out that I am positive for herpes I but negative for herpes II. Basically I have cold sores inside my mouth, they don't appear outside my mouth though and I was ...
A. 28 September 2006: Herpes is spread by direct skin to skin contact. Unlike a flu virus that you can get through the air, herpes spreads by direct contact, that is, directly from the site of infection to the site of contact. For example, if you have a cold sore and ... (read in full...)
Dirty text messages found on mobile
Q. 6 monthes ago my wife had a mobile phone which i didnt know of, when i found it ,it was full of dirty texts she had sent to 2 guys. one of the guys was her friends hubby, her friend was also in on the dirty texts. now i have found she has another ...
A. 28 September 2006: Well for someone to feel the need to security lock their phone when they have never done before would tell me something is wrong here.
I would talk to her regarding this as you have a right to know what is going on.
Good luck :o)... (read in full...)
He knows I exist so why won't he talk to me?
Q. I am a Single mother. i have a liking for this man who is 5 yrs younger than me. We are working in the same company but different dept. We do not talk to each other but he knows that i am existing. Just wonder why he does not want to talk to me? Can ...
A. 28 September 2006: Have you tried talking to him first?
Maybe he is a little shy and worried that if he comes to you, you will just blank him or something, have you tried smiling at him as you catch his eye? This will tell him that you do notice him.
Good luck :o)... (read in full...)
Is she having second thoughts about us ? Cant understand why all of a sudden she is so distant ??
Q. My girl is giving me the cold shoulder, why? We have been dating for three months, and things have progressed very fast. We both agreed that the way it was going was fine. I'll be honest, I fell in love with her and we have already been talking ...
A. 27 September 2006: I would think she probably needs a little bit of space as you've spent alot of time together recently and although you both agreed you was happy with the speed things were going at in three months you have both gone from single and free to do what ... (read in full...)
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