How can I get my lying, cheating slapper of a girlfriend out of my head?
Q. Ever since getting together with my girlfriend, there have been problems. All she basically has ever done is lied, flirted, broke promises, totally disrespected me and slept around. Me being me, I took her back over 60 times, yet she still continue...
A. 29 September 2006: Leaving her will hurt and you will suffer from your decision for a while but you will get over her and move on from her and be happier from this, giving you the freedom to meet someone else that can love and respect you how you deserve to be, where ... (read in full...)
How can I get my lying, cheating slapper of a girlfriend out of my head?
Q. Ever since getting together with my girlfriend, there have been problems. All she basically has ever done is lied, flirted, broke promises, totally disrespected me and slept around. Me being me, I took her back over 60 times, yet she still continue...
A. 29 September 2006: Leaving her will hurt and you will suffer from your decision for a while but you will get over her and move on from her and be happier from this, giving you the freedom to meet someone else that can love and respect you how you deserve to be, where ... (read in full...)
we broke up---so if I give him his space, will he ever come back to me?
Q. I am currently going through a hard break-up. I cheated on him but he still is willing to be friends. He says he still cares for me. If I give him his space, will he ever come back to me?...
A. 28 September 2006: I hope if things don't work out with you and him that you can hold a friendship together as an exboyfriend is someone that knows you inside out and will pretty much always be an honest friend to go have and go to with pretty much anything.
W... (read in full...)
I constantly look down on myself. Could it be because I think my father hates me?
Q. help! i think my father hates me. my father wasnt around my whole life so when i was about thirteen i decided to meet him. over the next few years iv seen him maybe 3 times. he dosnt call on my birthday christmas or ever. he loves his other children ...
A. 25 September 2006: I would think that because you feel unwanted and let down by your Dad you feel that it is your fault and that there is something you have done to make your father be like this therefore you are worrying that if you are yourself then your boyfriend ... (read in full...)
Should i be concerned that he can blow hot and cold with affection so frequently?
Q. I have been seeing my boyfriend for 6 months, this is my first relationship (i am 25), i am totally inexperienced whereas he has been in six relationships, two of them for two years. I don't know if i am being pathetic or selfish, but a lot of ...
A. 25 September 2006: Has he always been this way with the lack of care and concern? He may just not realise what he is doing and until you point it out he won't realise on his own. Because you haven't been in a relationship before he is probably using this to his own ... (read in full...)
Ladies...what's the best thing to use for maximum protection and comfort, when menstruating?
Q. hi, im 16 and im goin to a theme park thats a good 5 hours away, w/ my bf and some of his family. The problem is i think im gonna be on my period and that would suck so bad, i would feel so weird like asking to stop and stuff and needing to go to ...
A. 25 September 2006: If your worried about being heavy and the travelling with no means to keep going bathroom I would suggest using a tampon and possibly wearing a sanitary towel as an extra protection and comfort, I would go for a towel thats got extra protection for ... (read in full...)
I like one of my ex's friends...should I go for it?
Q. Hi, well me and a girl i was seeing stopped seeing each other a few weeks ago because of something that happened, im getting interested in one of her friends but dont wanna harm my ex's and her relationship, my ex is back together with her ex ...
A. 25 September 2006: I would try talking to your ex, make her feel you are respectful of her feelings regarding this which should help in her being okay about it, if you just go forward and go for it with her friend your ex may feel neither of you considered her or her ... (read in full...)
My gf isunhappy because she's stuck at home raising our son! What can I do?
Q. im a 27yr old male and my girlfriend is 25yr and we have a 1.5yr old son. In the last couple of months we both have had a bit of stress. She seemed to think that me going off to work was a party everyday and that she was stuck. I said to find a job ...
A. 25 September 2006: There are plenty of women out there that once they have a baby slowly feel like they are losing their life and everything they had in it and there is only so much daytime TV you can watch, washing and housework you can do and life becomes really ... (read in full...)
My Mum dies and this guy says I use it to get attention, all the time. How do I tell him how I feel?
Q. when i was 11 my mum died and i still relly miss her alot! i hav liked this lad called mark for a year and a half and i thought maybe he cud still like me be cos he used to so i decided to ask his friend if he liked me and he sed he didnt no but ...
A. 25 September 2006: Noone can truely understand how you are feeling if it's never happened to them and this is probably the case.
Your missing your mum and you have every right to, we never get over losing someone especially not when it is a very close family memb... (read in full...)
Why do I keep on running for Zack?
Q. I enjoy running a lot, no matter how slow I am, I just love the feeling of finishing marathons that I work really hard on. Lately, when I run and, near the finish line..I tend to think about my ex and say to myself, "I'm doing this for 'Zack'!...
A. 25 September 2006: Sometimes when we need to be pushed to do something our minds use something important to us to give us that push to go further and complete what we started.
You may have got so use to doing it for your ex that you still use that as your thing to p... (read in full...)
I led a very promiscuous past, now I do not enjoy sex with men I love. What can I do?
Q. when i was in my early teens i slept with lots of guys.i think i did this because i wanted to feel loved by a man and my father wasnt around. i think now that iv gotten over that point in my life it is affecting my relationships. i dont enjoy sex ...
A. 25 September 2006: Maybe because sex was always with someone you didn't love that you have built yourself up to thinking when it is with someone you love it will be something out of this world and are a little disappointed, or even finding the past is getting in the ... (read in full...)
We fight all the time and when I leave home I may not bother at all!!
Q. I sent a question in ages ago about me having problems with my sister (12th may) she's 18, im 20 and I've tried to respond and communicate to her with advice i was given on this site and things haven't improved. In fact, they've gotten worse. We ...
A. 25 September 2006: When you live at home sometimes you don't communicate with your siblings very well, I know when I was living at home me and my brother had a very strained relationship and pretty much acted like we hated each other and didn't spend anytime together ... (read in full...)
How can I help her trust me and get over her controlling ways??
Q. I am a formerly gay male who was married to a woman 4 years ago. I was tired of living in a rathole apartment and tired of living alone so I thought marriage would be the best thing. Also, I lived in a very homophobic part of the bible-belt, being ...
A. 25 September 2006: Yes you are in a marriage therefore you have to respect the other person and the things that matter to them but at the same time they can't be controlling you and everything you do.
You need to start standing your ground but at the same time stil... (read in full...)
I'm 24 and very insecure. How can I stop being this way as I don't date as a result??
Q. First time at 24. should i just try and wing it? Hey everyone. I have a bit of a strange situation, and was hoping to get a few opinions on what i should do! Im 24 years old, and ive never slept with a girl. I think the reason is because i was ...
A. 25 September 2006: It sounds like you've realised why you push girls away so thats one issue out of the way because alot of people don't realise or put the two together but as you've realised you can try to overcome that next time you meet someone you care about.
I... (read in full...)
Does he think we couldn't be together because I dated one of his friends?
Q. I was seeing a guy for a month and a guy I had been texting for 6 months finally wanted to meet me - I had seen one of his friends casually for a time, so that complicated things and he wanted to be cautious. When he found out I had a boyfriend he ...
A. 25 September 2006: You need to talk to him and tell him how you are feeling and that you need to know what he wants from you and where this with you two is going, you also need to ask him why he doesn't admit on the phone to his mates that he is there with you, why he ... (read in full...)
we broke up---so if I give him his space, will he ever come back to me?
Q. I am currently going through a hard break-up. I cheated on him but he still is willing to be friends. He says he still cares for me. If I give him his space, will he ever come back to me?...
A. 25 September 2006: You did possibly the worse thing to can to someone you love, he put his love and trust into a relationship with you and you came along and hurt him and took away his trust and possibly killed everything he had for you by doing this your very lucky ... (read in full...)
I want to warn my friend that her bf is cheating on her...but how do I do it without hurting her?
Q. I have seen my girlfriend's BF out with another woman, getting very intimate in a bar. I did not approach my friend's boyfriend. I feel like I should let her know that he may be cheating on her, yet I don't want her to be hurt. They've been ...
A. 25 September 2006: I would talk to her boyfriend and tell him what you saw and find out what he was doing and then tell him he needs to tell your friend what he is doing or you will as it will always be better coming from him than you.
If he doesn't confess to her ... (read in full...)
Bf suffers from depression and he hardly calls. He wants a future but is he just saying that?
Q. hi my name is called rose and ive been dating this guy for 3 months at 1st he was very receptive but now he has become distant. he suffers from acute depression as he has recently got divorced and 3 small kids. when we do get together he is loving ...
A. 25 September 2006: You need to find out if he is getting any kind of help or support for his depression as most cases of depression can only get worse if ignored, if he isn't then you need to talk to him and get him to see he needs to see someone regarding this and ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with a teen girl and I feel lost. Need some advice!
Q. Hey this is gonna sound really pathetic but im lost. I'm 21 am totally in love with a 16 yr old... have too many feelings for her... i would do anything for her...friends say shes a slag and a bit of a maneater etc and they call themselves her ...
A. 25 September 2006: Whether you could get more girls being like that, would you really want to be that kind of a person?
There is nothing wrong with you being the person you are it's just you are yet to meet the right person and when you do that person will love you ... (read in full...)
We swappws pics and he didn't e-mail me anymore! I feel so upset and dirty... all I wanted was someone in my life
Q. met some one on a on line dating ,we swapped numbers he txt me all the time, then we swap pictures and he wanted to meet. the pics he sent to me was a little rud, so I sent back some of me. he stop texting and emailing me I text him ..did not ...
A. 25 September 2006: It doesn't have to be that something went wrong it could just be that he never had any intention of this being anything more than just the swapping of dirty pictures and now he got them he doesn't have to bother anymore.
All you can do is try and ... (read in full...)
I miss my boyfriend so much, I dont think I can cope. It hurts.
Q. Hey guys Any advice on how to cope with the fact that i miss my bf so much when he is away with work I know it sounds silly but i miss him ssssssssoooooooooo much it actually hurts I have never felt like this before Please help guys ...
A. 24 September 2006: I can understand how you feel unless your boyfriend is going to work closer to home or your going to live closer to his work the only thing you can do it occupy your mind and time with other things, your obviously still going to miss him and it ... (read in full...)
Is my online boyfriend creating fake identities to talk to me?
Q. i have bf here on net.we talk here 3to 4 hours evryday.then he disappeared.after few weeks he is back then we talk again.he say he loves me.and i love him.then he disapear again.im talking to a man who say he is my bf,s friend,lover.then we talk ...
A. 24 September 2006: The internet is a scary and worrying place to start a relationship, there are plenty of decent honest people online but at the same time there are alot of people online that know they can get away with trying to be someone else and is easy to do ... (read in full...)
Why is my daughter acting in this way? We dont approve of her boyfriend, but that is no excuse.
Q. My daughter is 25 years old, she is a medical doctor recently graduated. She has been involved with this man for some time now, and did not say anything to her 2 sisters or her father nor me until early July this year she told her father and I about ...
A. 24 September 2006: Sounds like your daughter is rebelling against everything that matters in her life, for what reason I don't know and could be one of many, I know it's hard and is hurting you and the rest of the family but you need to make her know you are all there ... (read in full...)
Am I correct in thinking that my manager likes me? I know it's bad, but I just don't trust guys.
Q. This problem has been bothering me for a year already, I noticed that my superior whom is single and younger than me is fond of me, though he don't dare approach me directly about his feeling however, his body languages and behaviours already ...
A. 24 September 2006: I would say from what you have said he does like you or could just be a simple physical attraction either way he is your boss you do work together and most situations like this end in tears probably yours.
I would try and just ignore these sign... (read in full...)
Torn between two guys and I am so confused, what should I do?
Q. This is a long story so bear with me. Basically, I was dating a guy for almost three years and we broke up because he wasn't sure he saw a future with me, we were different, stuff like that. So I picked up and moved out to San Diego and was having ...
A. 24 September 2006: I agree with Tiagre you need to weigh everything up and think about what is the best situation for you and who will in the long run make you happy, it's a common situation of wanting what you haven't got your with the second guy you want your ex ... (read in full...)
How do I make my boyfriend see that we are having a baby and it's time to grow up?
Q. I am 3 months pregnant and living with my boyfriend of over a year. He is such a great guy, but there is one thing bothering me. He constantly goes out to the bar. He breaks plans and ditches me to hang out with his friends, usually at a bar. He ...
A. 24 September 2006: You need to talk to him and try and get through to him telling him that being a Dad is a big responsibility and he needs to live up to that and start acting responsible also taking your feelings into consideration as you are carrying his baby and ... (read in full...)
How can I get over my lying ex when we work in the same place?
Q. My boyfriend of 4yrs and I broke up in Dec 05, he cheated on me once and I couldn't forgive him, he changed, now, he has started working where I am, (he new I would be here). He now tells me he is married, has been since March and they lost a baby ...
A. 24 September 2006: We all wonder how we can get over people especially when they are constantly in our face all the time, you need to try and ignore him yet being polite and professional because of your job and just be strong and everytime you find things hard ... (read in full...)
How can I get my lying, cheating slapper of a girlfriend out of my head?
Q. Ever since getting together with my girlfriend, there have been problems. All she basically has ever done is lied, flirted, broke promises, totally disrespected me and slept around. Me being me, I took her back over 60 times, yet she still continue...
A. 24 September 2006: Chances are she was straight on the phone to her ex because she is scared of being alone and you told her where to go so she went to her ex to make sure she isn't alone, she wants an open relationship probably because of this same fact, she doesn't ... (read in full...)
Can I still get pregnant even though my man has had the snip?
Q. I have recently started a sexual relationship with an older man and yesturday we had sex, we didn't use protection because he has told me that he has had a vasectomy but I have heard that sometimes people can still become pregnant even though the ...
A. 24 September 2006: After the snip they have to return for follow up tests to confirm that they no longer produce active sperm.
I persume you have heard of stories about women stating they are on the pill to their partner and really not been as they were trying to get ... (read in full...)
Worried I will never find somebody else if I leave my husband. How can I stay with heim when the relationship is long over?
Q. I married a gentle caring sort of person but being an inter community marriage and his mother's overdrive at nastiness and control has come between us for a long time now. He is such a good person with the world but has taken all his resentment out ...
A. 24 September 2006: You have worries and in 2 years when them worries are gone or some are you will have more, there never is a good time to leave someone especially someone you have been with a long time with a child involved but you have to do what is best for you ... (read in full...)
I am in a sexless, loveless marriage and would never cheat, but my married neighbour drives me wild. How can I control myself?
Q. Staying in a sexless, almost loveless marriage but peaceful coexistence. Staying together mainly for our child and both of us are great parents. I'm really attracted to a neighbour (he too is married) and watch him whenever he's out. I have never ...
A. 24 September 2006: I just would like to know why you feel that staying in a sexless, almost loveless marriage is good for anyone including your child?... (read in full...)
How can I make my insecure boyfriend trust me? I am so sick of his bull!!
Q. Okay. I'm 21 years old and I've been with my boyfriend for 9 months. My past relationships I've been cheated on. Finally I found someone who doesn't cheat and I trust completely. One problem. He is very insecure. He makes stupid comments and asks ...
A. 24 September 2006: Firstly you need to talk to him explain how your feeling and explain that now your pregnant the stress of his insecurity is even worse you need to make him see how you are feeling and how he is making you feel and tell him that you love him and only ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend always looks at porn, yet never wants sex with me. What's this all about?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been seeing each other for nearly a year and a half now, we, however have not had sex for about 10 months, he says he is not in the mood, yet i find when i access our pc he has been regualry looking at porn, what is this all ...
A. 24 September 2006: I would be hurt and insulted too he isn't wanting sex but he is enjoying porn on a regular basis, you need to talk to him and tell him how you are feeling, tell him it is hurtful that he doesn't want sex yet porn seems to be something he does ... (read in full...)
I caught my partners mate eyeing me up and down, what's with that?
Q. I was taking my son to cubs the other night and a mate of my partner was stood opposite me when I was chatting to another bloke. After I had stopped I turned to talk to him and I caught him looking me up and down like a once over and then he moved ...
A. 24 September 2006: Maybe it was all innocent and the look was just because of the new look you had and was just admiring it like you said it was something different to your normal look therefore someone that normally knows you how you normally look would be intriged ... (read in full...)
I have been seeing my boss for the last 3 months. Does he genuinely like me or is he just after sex?
Q. What does he want from me? I've been at my job about 8 months and for the last 3 have been seeing my boss. We started out on the hot and heavy side, but have not had sex. I've made it very clear that I don't settle and that he needs to earn it. We ...
A. 24 September 2006: Maybe he didn't call because he was trying to suss out where he stands with you, as you said you act like your not bothered but you still pay him attention thats confusing enough then when you didn't call he felt like you wasn't interested or he was ... (read in full...)
How can I stop a relationship developing between my ex and my best friend?
Q. I just broke up with my boyfriend of 7 or 8 months becuse we ddin't think things were wotking out. Josh is a "typical" boy in that i could see him only leaving me for another girl. Howether, this other girl might just be my best friend. We vowed to ...
A. 24 September 2006: I've always believed that you don't get involved with your friends ex, someone your friend likes, someone your friend is with therefore your friend should respect the fact that he is your ex and you are her friend and the friendship is more ... (read in full...)
I am in love with 2 women in 2 different ways, how do I choose?
Q. I am in love with two women. one (A)whome I was in a relationship with for 15 months and another woman (B)whome I met through my ex. I started a relationship with B as i was unhappy in my relationship with A. After 4 months (although she did nothing ...
A. 24 September 2006: Although you love them in different ways there will be one that you really can't be without, one that when your not around them you crave to see them one that when your with them nothing else matters or even bothers you, that is the one you choice ... (read in full...)
How can I become more self confident? I feel nobody will ever want me for me.
Q. I think i am lacking in a bit of confidence and self esteem when it comes to relationships, with boyfriends and mates. I generally feel quite insecure and worry that people dont really want to spend time with me and they are just friends with me ...
A. 24 September 2006: Maybe it might be worth you going to talk to someone that specializes in things like this as they can help get to the cause of your feeling like this and without getting to the bottom of the problem and working out why you feel like this you can't ... (read in full...)
Why can't my ex tell me why he is snubbing me in this way?
Q. my ex boyfriend lives in australia, but when he left he said he'll only be gone 4 a year and he'll neva fall in love with anyone else or sleep with anyone else (i didnt believe this as he is a guy) But 4 the first couple of monthes he was calling me ...
A. 24 September 2006: He is going through a big life experiance and was unfair on him to state he wouldn't move on with anyone else as he probably doesn't know that for sure so all he has done it made it so you stay faithful waiting for him to come home.
My advice woul... (read in full...)
How do I know when I am ready to kiss my boyfriend?
Q. How Do I Know Im Ready For Kissing My Boyfriend??????????...
A. 24 September 2006: There is a right time and you will feel it, stop worrying about it as it will just put pressure on you and when it's the right time and feels right you will panic because of all this worrying and build up you've been putting yourself through.
T... (read in full...)
My dad spoils his kids from another relationship. How can I tell if he loves me?
Q. My dad does not act like he loves me.he broke up with my mom.so me and my brother visit him.he got a new girlfriend.he had 4 kids by his new girl.my dad takes family pictures with his new kids.buys his new kids shoes clothes hats.he does not care ...
A. 24 September 2006: Your Dad might only be spoiling them to make up for the things he feels he didn't do with and for you and your brother, talk to him and tell him how you are feeling he might not realise what he is doing and nothing wrong with you pointing it out as ... (read in full...)
My best friend is flirting like HELL with my boyfriend. What can I do to stop this?
Q. My best friend just broke up with a steady boyfriend of nearly a year when the chemistry vanished and he told her he "just couldn't see things working out". This is very well and they are still close friends but my Best friend is now flirtingl like ...
A. 24 September 2006: You need to talk to your friend again, tell her your not being paranoid and she is totally flirting with him and it's upsetting you, a good friend (even one that thinks they ain't doing anything) will see your suffering because of this and keep her ... (read in full...)
I get stomach pains after sex. Should I be concerned?
Q. i am getting stomach pains and a bit of a dodgy tummy about an hour or two after sex. Is this something I should be concerned about? I'm in my early 20s....
A. 24 September 2006: I would suggest you go to see your doctor regarding this, it may just be nothing but I always feel that always worth checking it out even if it's just for peace of mind.
Good luck :o)... (read in full...)
I am 13 and still a virgin, is there something wrong with me?
Q. Im a 13 years old. Most of my friends have lost their virginity. I have to listen to everything they say about how great it was. I for one haven't.Is there something wrong with me? ...
A. 24 September 2006: No there is nothing wrong with you, you shouldn't be having sex at 13 it's not legal for a start and you are still only a child and have so many other things to be dealing with at 13 like school, developing into a woman that having sex at this age ... (read in full...)
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