My bf accuses me of looking at other men. How do I convince him...I want only him?
Q. my guy constantly accuses me of looking at guys under 30,no matter where we go,he is 45 and want him only but he wont accept this...
A. 2 October 2006: You can't convince him you can only tell him and prove over time how much you want to be with him and how important he is to you, he has to realise on his own that he is being silly and that you wouldn't be with him if you didn't want to.
Good luck... (read in full...)
She is so dependant on this relationship and breaking up again would break her heart! I don't know what to do.
Q. Hi, I'l give a bit of background information first, Me and my girlfriend have been together 9 months, this is our second time together we were together 8 months the split for 6 months. I broke it off the last time, it all got too intense she was ...
A. 2 October 2006: It sounds like you don't want to be with her anymore and just don't know how to get out of this without hurting her, of course your going to care for her you were/are in a relationship together and spent alot of time together but if you don't want ... (read in full...)
I like her personality but not physically attracted to her! What should I do?
Q. ive been with my girl friend for almost 2 years im attracted to her personality , but im not Physically attracted to her, and that makes me look at other girls , and im not as affectionate as i could be with someone that i would be more turned o...
A. 2 October 2006: I've always believed in alot of situations your attraction to someones personality can assist in becoming physically attracted to them, in your case it hasn't, I understand you like this girl for who she is which alot of us woman want that from a ... (read in full...)
What a strange relationship! After we broke up he wanted to stay friends and we still fought!
Q. I was in a strange relationship with a guy, I had broke it off a few months ago, he came back and wanted to stay friends, so I tried it, all we ended up doing was going back and fourth makeing eachother jelouse, calling eachother on our faults, I ...
A. 2 October 2006: Maybe because you had a relationship together he didn't want to lose you out of his life completely so wanted to give it a go at being friends, this then didn't work out so now he has realised it's better you two don't as it wasn't doing either of ... (read in full...)
my aunt who is 35 she is so sexyy
Q. hi im a 15 year old boy from canada over the years ive been attracted to my aunt who is 35 she is so sexyy i have fantisies all the time about her and im trying to get help fo me to stop thinking about her or if u have advice on how to make my ...
A. 1 October 2006: Your more than welcome, I hope your new relationship works out for you.
Good luck :o)... (read in full...)
Still a virgin at 18 and I'm masturbating to porn sites! I need sex! What can I do?
Q. I am a virgin at 18 and i am having strong sexual urges. my boyfriend is in another country and i see him next year. I am now into ponographic sites and masturbating. I need sex. what to do?...
A. 1 October 2006: Do you love your boyfriend and want to be with him? If the answer is yes then you need to stay committed and faithful to him no matter what arges you are experiancing, long distance relationships can work if your feelings are strong enough to get ... (read in full...)
My cousin made prank calls to him and he started ignoring me! How do I tell him I want to get back with him?
Q. well i need help, there this really fit guy i was seeing, things were going soo well until i was lookin after my 10 year old cousin and she kept prank calling him and i kept apologising. He then went really quiet and talking less and less then we ...
A. 1 October 2006: If you want to be with him the only way to know for sure if there is a chance of this happening is to talk to him and suss out what he is thinking and feeling regarding the two of you.
Good luck :o)... (read in full...)
He dumped me but I want him back!! What can I do??
Q. My boyfriend of two years recently just broke up with me because he wanted "space" but i have just moved an hour away to uni so surely, he has space from me? Anyway, now he's ended it completely. i dont know what to do i love him so much. I've ...
A. 1 October 2006: You can't make someone be with you they have to realise on their own that you are what they want.
I would give him the space he is wanting and see how it goes, if he wants to be with you this time apart will make him realise how much he loves you,... (read in full...)
I think she only wants to be with me to appear cool!
Q. I have a girlfriend, but i think the only reason she is going out with me is because she just wants a bf to be cool, what should I do???? ...
A. 1 October 2006: You need to talk to her and find out what she feels for you, everyone deserves to be with someone that is with them because they want to be with them for who they are not for what they can get or acheive out of it.
I believe we have to meet a few ... (read in full...)
Scared to let him know how I feel for fear of getting hurt, but I want him to know! What can I do ?
Q. Me and my best friend met a group of lads about 2 months ago. within a week we all felt like we'd known eachother for years. I started seeing one of the lads and im so comfortable round him i feel like i could tell him any thing and he would never ...
A. 1 October 2006: Telling someone how you feel about them is a sure way of knowing where you stand with someone, you say you think your falling for him I would just see how you are feeling when you get home and play everything is it comes, I wouldn't tell him how you ... (read in full...)
Could he really have moved on in only 6 weeks ? and is there a way I can still get him ?
Q. Hi.. this isn't much of a major problem but more like one of those things, I guess. Anyway, I'm sure this has happened to many girls, but there's this guy I had my eye on ALL year before college closed for the Summer. I was SO mad for him, he's a ...
A. 1 October 2006: I've always believed you need to talk to someone directly if you want to know the truth as your never really going to find out anything hearing it from other people who probably heard it from someone else etc etc.
I understand he is really shy but ... (read in full...)
How can I get through this sad break up ?
Q. How will i get through this sad time? My husband and i have recently split, and im finding it so hard to cope, im finding weekends the worst as i dont want to go out incase i see him or see one of his friends or family. I feel completely cut o...
A. 1 October 2006: Heartbreak is something we all go through at least once in our lives and even though we feel we will never get through it we do, time heals although you'll never forget him or what you both shared you will get over it and move on.
You can't avoi... (read in full...)
Why is that all the men I seem to like, dont treat me right, but the ones I dont like do!?
Q. Why is it that the men I want, want me but dont do anything or enough about it, and the men that i dont want, want me and treat me like a princess? Im beginning to think theres something wrong with me in particular, its been happening a lot ...
A. 1 October 2006: I think almost if not all of us can admit to feeling like this at some point in our lives, it's common and highly frustrating but you can't change the ones that treat bad and you can't force yourself to feel something different towards the ones that ... (read in full...)
I had my doubts about us, we broke up, hes getting with someone else and I miss him!!
Q. Dont no what to do me and my boyfriend were in love and happy but then i started to have my doubts for no apparent reason he didnt do anything wrong anyway I told him how i felt and he said we shouldnt go out anymore if i was feeling like this we ...
A. 1 October 2006: He broke up with you just over the fact you was feeling a little bit insecure in the relationship??? which we all feel at some point in a relationship for whatever reason and if he really wanted to be with you and love and respect you he would ... (read in full...)
I kept the distance from the guy I like, now my friend is dating him! He said he likes me too but we dont want to hurt my friend!
Q. I met a guy at work a while ago and he was really nice and we got on rreally well and i found myself very attracted him. But the problem was i was scared to get into a relationship with him and kept my distance. Now my best friend is going out with ...
A. 1 October 2006: Firstly I know you got scared but you had your chance and you missed it now he has moved on and although on telling him how you feel he stills wants to stay with your friend.
If I was you I wouldn't do anything with him, your friendship is more impo... (read in full...)
He won't wear condoms because he says he gets a rash! Is this just an excuse?
Q. My new boyfriend knows that i have a rule and that is - no condom, no sex. But he said to me that condoms irrate and causes a rash on the end of his penis,and he wont wear 1 for that reason. Is this just an excuse? Plus im quite concerned that ...
A. 1 October 2006: Don't back down on your rule, it's good that you can see STD's and an unwanted pregnancy is not worth a few moments of sexual pleasure, your boyfriend can try using non latex condoms as he may well be allergic to latex.
If he continues to stand by n... (read in full...)
He says sex isn't everything in our relationship..so how come I pressure myself to have sex everytime I see him?
Q. I've been going out with my new boyfriend now for about 3 weeks, but the thing is, we've had sex from day 1 til now,except for twice,which i wouldn't normally do. He said that sex isn't everything and that he cares about me,so how come i feel like ...
A. 1 October 2006: I know someone that was in the situation where she felt she had to have sex with her boyfriend everytime she saw him and give him sexual attention when in his company, some of it was her feeling that if she didn't give him sex all the time he would ... (read in full...)
I have strong feelings for this guy and he's interested. But I am nervous and hopeful, he'll feel the same way! Any advice?
Q. Recently I told my friend that I have feelings for him. He responded that he would like to get to know me better, and asked me what I thought of this idea. I said this was great, and we are now going to start spending time alone together. I am a ...
A. 1 October 2006: Just be yourself and enjoy the time you'll be spending together, you can't rush things and you can't push and rush someone to love you just let him feel it for himself by seeing the real you and getting to know you.
Good luck :o)... (read in full...)
I'm 14 and I want a bf! Is it because I think I'm ugly?
Q. hey guys i really need help im 14 and still single never had a boyfriend before i really want a boyfriend i want someone to hang out with and i want to experience the life with a boyfriend i've never kissed any guy before. When i was in primary My ...
A. 1 October 2006: You are only 14 therefore alot of parents feel that there are more things in your life to concentrate on without including boys, you have years to have boyfriends, have your heartbroken and break a few back, I wouldn't concentrate too much on the ... (read in full...)
I cheated on him and we argue more, now. Is it because he doesn't trust me anymore?
Q. I'm in a long distance relationship and I've cheated on my bf but have come clean with him. Our relationship didn't start off as long distance and it was when he was here I cheated on him. He says that he has gotten passed it but with him gone now ...
A. 1 October 2006: Because you've cheated makes your relationship hard being long distance because he probably sees it that if you can cheat when he is there for you then you can when he isn't, also with long distance the missing and not being with that person as much ... (read in full...)
How do I talk to my new gf without getting her nervous!
Q. I am 15, and just got a girlfriend how do I talk to her without freaking her out or getting her nervous? please help me!!!...
A. 1 October 2006: Don't try to be anything your not, just be yourself, she is with you for who you are so no reason for her to just freaked out by what you say.
Good luck :o)... (read in full...)
He tells me he's very happy with me one minute and then says 'something is missing" the next. What does he mean?
Q. I've been seeing my current boyfriend for 5 months. He's in his late thirties but hasn't had many girlfriends before me. We have a lovely time together, never argue, and have both been very happy until recently. Now he tells me he suffers from ...
A. 1 October 2006: I think what you've recently posted is a good idea, sometimes we need someone to walk away to realise how important they are to us and how we really feel about them.
Good luck :o)... (read in full...)
Everyone says he likes me but I'm not sure.
Q. I'm 15, he's 16. Everyone says he likes me but I'm not sure. We've hung out a bunch of times and he does stuff like grab my hand or tell me to sit next to him (when we are with a bunch of friends). When we talk online he tells me I'm wicked ...
A. 1 October 2006: Maybe he is worried you don't feel the same way and it will affect your friendship as if you like someone having a friendship is better than nothing.
Talk to him and question his reasons for the attention and affection he is showing you.
Good ... (read in full...)
Arranged to go on gap year with my friends but they won't let my boyfriend go...how can I tell them I don't want to go??
Q. Hello, My boyfriend is lovely and we have been together for 5 months. I have arranged to go on a gap year with my friends once my alevels finish but since going out with him im not sure i want to go anymore, i would be leaving him for at least 4 ...
A. 1 October 2006: Do you really want to go? honestly?
Was this arranged before you and your boyfriend got together? If it was then you should stand by your choice to go and tell your boyfriend it was arranged before him so you need to honour your committment.
If yo... (read in full...)
I really don't think she will cheat but how do I tell her it bothers me that she's alone with another guy?
Q. Ok. In a previous question I asked about why my girl was acting distant. Thats settled, she just wanted a little her time. She loves me, misses me no problem. Now it's a long story, but basically she went on a little work trip with her friend. The ...
A. 1 October 2006: Some of us have to tell the other person it bothers us due to leaving it fester makes it worse and the thoughts seem to take over our minds but some of us can just let it slide knowing that they feel sure they wouldn't cheat etc.
It's entirely how ... (read in full...)
He was only inside me for a minute or so...can I still get pregnant?
Q. Im 17 and yesterday I had sex with my boyfriend. It was both of our first time so it took a few tries to get it right. We were both a little drunk and it wasnt working with a condom so we decided to try without it (we are both absolutely STD free). ...
A. 1 October 2006: Yes you can, if it's within the 72 hours of having sex you can take the morning after pill this can be got from your doctor or over the counter at the chemist better to be taken as soon as possible to make it more effective, so as its now the ... (read in full...)
I ended my relationship...why did he leave it 5 days to come back to tell me he loved me?
Q. I ended my relationship with my boyfriend because it was going stale.The problem is,he has been txting me to see him again and iv nearly given in,he says he loves me but what i dont understand is,if he wanted me back that much then why does he leave ...
A. 1 October 2006: Maybe he needed time to realise what you really mean't to him, or time to get over the fact you ended the relationship, or just plain stubborn.
5 days really isn't a long time to spend apart before trying to make the relationship work, when I was ... (read in full...)
My ex is nice to me one minute nasty the next, but I still love him!!
Q. i have an x bf that is nice to me half the time and nasty to me the other but i still love him he says he is not intrested any more and then he starts acting like he wants me again what can i do i really love him and want him back ?...
A. 1 October 2006: Do you really want to be with someone that treats you this way? It sounds to me he doesn't really know what he wants from you and therefore mixed signals but until he stops throwing mixed signals at you and stops being nasty towards you I wouldn't ... (read in full...)
He's a virgin and wants to do more but I don't want to pressure him!!!
Q. I have been dating this guy for 2 months but we were really close before and i know he is a virgin and i know he is not. He hasnt done more then kissed a girl but he keeps telling me he wants to do more. He will put his hands down my pants and not ...
A. 1 October 2006: This guy is a virgin therefore he might not know what to do once he puts his hands in your knickers, have you tried putting your hand there with his and guiding him? he will stop and take his hand away if he feel uncomfortable with this.
Good luck... (read in full...)
He ended it and has not contacted me and the baby! He never appeciated us, so am I better off?
Q. i have been engaged for a while an in the time weve been together he has never bought me flowers,chocolates,even after giving birth he never got me a card let alone anything else.never does he show me how im appreciated and there isnt anything i ...
A. 1 October 2006: This guy committed to you and had a baby with you therefore having responsibility but he is showing no maturity or being responsible regarding the fact he has a child.
I think you are better off at least until this guy grows up and realises he need... (read in full...)
This guy kissed me and the next day, he acted like he regretted it! I'm so confused..what should I do?
Q. This might sound a little stupid I guess, but it's confusing me. While out with friends I realised I was really quite attracted to one of my male friends and then after we had been drinking for a while and were a bit tipsy, before I left to go ...
A. 30 September 2006: Yes they are good things but still don't really tell you whether he regrets or glad it all happened, I still feel you should talk to him and see what his real feelings are regarding this drunken night :o)... (read in full...)
He shows me love and affection then he is just my friend..whats going on??
Q. i love a guy who sometimes shows me affection and love while other times we become just friends sometimes he doesn't answer my calls he tells me everything about his life but i don't know if he loves me or not can you help me please for god sake?...
A. 30 September 2006: Well he could be showing love and affection as he is craving that attention back from someone but really you are just friends and thats the way he wants it to stay, or he could be showing you love and affection because thats how he really feels and ... (read in full...)
I still love my ex but he is getting married soon!!!
Q. My my frist and only ex-boyfriend is getting married soon and I can't stop thinking about him? We had a perfect relationship when we were going out, I can say that he is like a soulmate to me! I know for sure that if it wasn't because I had to l...
A. 30 September 2006: I would say you've missed your chance with this guy but if you feel strongely for him and for the fact you was mean't to be together then where is the harm in telling him so, you've got nothing to lose only possibly gain from this.
He could well... (read in full...)
My babys father abuses me by text and now seems like in nearly 3 years together I was always a secret!!!
Q. until recently i was in a relationship with my babys father and he dumped me by txt and then started to abuse me by txt calling me horrible names and a liar.we was together for 2 years 9 months and through out this time never did i meet his best ...
A. 30 September 2006: Sounds to me like you would be better off without him, I understand you probably love him and you have a child together but you don't deserve to be treated this way by anyone especially not someone that is 'mean't' to love you.
I would suggest gett... (read in full...)
What does it mean when a guy gives you the once over when talking to you?
Q. I am asking a question which might seem obvious to some but need people with more experience to answer. When a guy is talking to you and you really see him give you the once over as he is talking to you does that mean he might be attracted? ...
A. 30 September 2006: In most cases it would be him 'checking you out' due to an attraction he feels towards you.
Hope this helps :o)... (read in full...)
Not sure if I like my boyfriend yet he tells me he loves me!!
Q. i've got this boyfriend and am not sure that a like but he told me that he loves me and a don't no wot to do?...
A. 30 September 2006: You need to take some time out and work out what you really feel for your boyfriend as if you don't want to be with him you need to let him go so he can be with someone that will love him like he loves them.
Good luck :o)... (read in full...)
She wants to wait before we make something of us...how can I change her mind??
Q. i fancy a girl at my school but she says that she will only have a boyfriend when she has pass her GCSEs but im hanging out with her a lot and i want to change how she feels....
A. 30 September 2006: It sounds like this girl knows what she wants and when she wants it, she is aware of your feelings for her and how she feels about you but wants to concentrate on her studies therefore you really need to respect her decision and show her that you ... (read in full...)
I need some tips as I'm clueless when it comes to boys.
Q. hi i am 15 years old nd in my last year of secondary school. I have never done any thing sexsually(never been kissed), never had a bf and im quite shy. here is where you guys come in, i realli fancy a boy who is in my year but i dont know how to ...
A. 30 September 2006: I would just stick to some playful flirting and getting his attention that way, as you've not had a relationship before you need to build up with a friendship first as you need to take things slowly.
Good luck :o)... (read in full...)
I can't move on from the fact she's slept around...alot!
Q. hi everybody,i need some relationship advice! about 6 months ago i started dating my boss's niece(we've known each other for a while and we slept together once but never took it any futher) shes a beatiful,intelligent woman who is highly respected ...
A. 30 September 2006: The only thing that seems wrong in this relationship is her past sexual partners, I don't see this a reason to walk away from someone you care about and that holds all the qualitys to want in someone, the past is what makes us the person we are ... (read in full...)
I don't have feelings for him anymore, should I break up with him?
Q. I am dating this guy we dated for a month then broke up and like a month later we started dating again. He went to germany and when he came back i didnt have feelings for him anymore... we started dating the day he left for germany. he got back like ...
A. 30 September 2006: If you stay with him out of guilt to looking like you used him is only really using him to make yourself feel better and ease the guilt which is a selfish way of doing things.
If you really don't want to be with him anymore then let him go so he c... (read in full...)
How can I be sure if we don't work out that we can still be friends?
Q. One of my really close boy mates have just asked me out but i dont no wat to say.Hes 2 years younger than me and a bit shorter than me. I do like him but how can i be sure if i do go out with him and we break up that we'll still me close mates. P...
A. 30 September 2006: If you were true close friends in the start then aslong as neither one of you do anything real bad to each other and really hurt them there is no reason why you can't be friends after if it goes wrong, you never know it may work out and this won't ... (read in full...)
This guy kissed me and the next day, he acted like he regretted it! I'm so confused..what should I do?
Q. This might sound a little stupid I guess, but it's confusing me. While out with friends I realised I was really quite attracted to one of my male friends and then after we had been drinking for a while and were a bit tipsy, before I left to go ...
A. 30 September 2006: I agree with baadgrlz117 maybe he was worried you was regretting what had happen therefore saying he did was him covering himself as to not look silly and spoil the friendship or anything, I would talk to him and tell him that these things happen ... (read in full...)
He tells me he's very happy with me one minute and then says 'something is missing" the next. What does he mean?
Q. I've been seeing my current boyfriend for 5 months. He's in his late thirties but hasn't had many girlfriends before me. We have a lovely time together, never argue, and have both been very happy until recently. Now he tells me he suffers from ...
A. 30 September 2006: Your right depression can affect people in so many different ways, I know a friend of mine that was depressed although she craved and needed the love and support of her boyfriend she did everything she possibly could to push him away and he was ... (read in full...)
my aunt who is 35 she is so sexyy
Q. hi im a 15 year old boy from canada over the years ive been attracted to my aunt who is 35 she is so sexyy i have fantisies all the time about her and im trying to get help fo me to stop thinking about her or if u have advice on how to make my ...
A. 27 September 2006: Putting the age difference to one side she is your Aunt therefore a blood relalive therefore incest.
I'm sure you will have plenty of thoughts of older women as you grow up not all if any you can do anything about, try finding someone your own age ... (read in full...)
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