my aunt who is 35 she is so sexyy
Q. hi im a 15 year old boy from canada over the years ive been attracted to my aunt who is 35 she is so sexyy i have fantisies all the time about her and im trying to get help fo me to stop thinking about her or if u have advice on how to make my ...
A. 1 October 2006: Your more than welcome, I hope your new relationship works out for you.
Good luck :o)... (read in full...)
Got low and drunk and emailed a myspace girl a complement... Then my girl found out
Q. i was in a relationship with a great girl, we were taking things slow, then she went away with work, when she returned home she anounced that she didn't think it would work out, and as she would be away at various times of the year and she had ...
A. 29 September 2006: It shows you wanted them to know that you had a girlfriend, you was sorry for complimenting them and that there was nothing behind your compliments just a drunk mistake therefore proving to your girlfriend that you are committed to her and noone ... (read in full...)
Got low and drunk and emailed a myspace girl a complement... Then my girl found out
Q. i was in a relationship with a great girl, we were taking things slow, then she went away with work, when she returned home she anounced that she didn't think it would work out, and as she would be away at various times of the year and she had ...
A. 29 September 2006: For some people it is easier to blame the other person for the break up than to actually take the blame yourself.
You have done everything right by this girl from pretty much day one and she knows it, you made one mistake which was when you wasn... (read in full...)
How can I bring him out of his shell?
Q. I recently started living with a family in the city I have my education in, and I have noticed one of their sons behaving very oddly around me. He seldom looks me in the eye, yet when he does, it's intensely and with a smile on his face. I can have ...
A. 28 September 2006: I would say he was beaming as he got a few second of your time alone as you was returning the CD's.
If you like him and want to make something of this and as you live with him and his family you need to take things slowly also for the fact he is n... (read in full...)
My girlfiend is completely uninterested in me. Is she ok for me?
Q. my girl doesn't want to spend time with me,i can't touch her(not sex),only see me when passing by,doesn't express herself/feelings to me, take things without returning them,turn down outing request,doesn't feel fry with me. but want me to be co...
A. 27 September 2006: I would say she is playing you for a fool and you need to either talk to her and tell her how she is behaving and how you feel and see if it makes a difference to her behaviour or get out and find yourself someone that will want to be with you the ... (read in full...)
How do I get him back, Surely he wouldnt come around to help out if he were not interested ?
Q. Hi its me again from yesterday i asked about my ex b/f who left me. Now he is saying he just wants his stuff and i cannot ever have his love anymore that i pushed him away. he wants to come over to do the yard but i told him thats okay i can do it ...
A. 27 September 2006: When he comes to get his stuff give it to him, give him his space you've told him you love him and that you want him back nothing else you can do, if he wants to come back he will but be prepared even after space he still may not come back, either ... (read in full...)
I would like to improve my self esteem, any help please!!
Q. dear cupid i am a 16 year old boy and i need help i would like to know if its possible to build my self-esteem as i am not confident in life and especially when talking to the girls i alwayz turn red and have had some critisim from girlz abo...
A. 27 September 2006: You need to realise that you are who you are and don't need other peoples approval to be you as the people that matter will love you for the person you are not the person you try to be because you want to be liked and accepted.
I would also try the ... (read in full...)
Can someone really change the way they view sex ?
Q. Do people change? My boyfriend has lead a promiscuous past and I can't seem to get over it. He says he loves me and wants to marry me, and I believe him, but isn't it just a change of circumstances? In other words, if he weren't in love, wouldn't he ...
A. 27 September 2006: The past is the past and it makes us who we are today and who he is, is the person you love and want to be with,
you need to forget about his past and move on from it and accept that he loves you and wants to be with you.
His past could just be ... (read in full...)
How do I go about talking to someone I have never met? Please help!
Q. Hi, I am 17 year old boy, and I have noticed this girl in the year below me, and I find her really attractive, and I really want to talk to her, but I don't know how to go about doing it, as she is always with someone, and even if she isn't I'd feel ...
A. 27 September 2006: Well you see her at school so you could try asking her what she is studying and what she is interested in like doing in spare time etc and see how she reacts towards you and how she engages in the conversation with you that should tell you where you ... (read in full...)
I've fallen for a women who I work with, problem is she's already in a relationship and only sees me as a friend. Where do I go from here?
Q. I've fallen for a women who I work with, problem is she's already in a realtionship and only sees me as a friend. In the last couple of days she ended her relationship and I was planning in the next week or 2 once she'd got over it, to tell her ...
A. 27 September 2006: I'm sorry to have to say this but she doesn't look at you or feel for you in the same way as you do therefore there is no future for you both while she doesn't return your feelings which I might add she may never return them.
You've told her how ... (read in full...)
She's been a good friend in the past but lately she's been very embarrassing to hang out with!
Q. I had this mate until recently. I've split contact with her as she's let me down yet again. I was on a date and she kept trying to force us to buy her drinks because she's able to work but doesnt want to, so she complains and literally tries to ...
A. 27 September 2006: Have you tried talking to her about her behaviour making her see what this is doing to you, while also telling her how important her friendship is to you apart from this side to her.
Depending on how this talk goes you would then need to make a deci... (read in full...)
He told me that he was going to kill himself, should I tell his mom
Q. I am feeling very helpless at the moment.My boyfriend of one year finished the relationship, saying that things werent working and he wasnt happy with the relationship, but at this moment i am not concerened about that.The night he finished it, we ...
A. 27 September 2006: I would try to just be yourself around him tomorrow as acting different might make him uneasy, once he relaxes around you then maybe you could start by reasuring him regarding how important he is to you and how you feel about him and that you are ... (read in full...)
I have a suspicion that my girlfriend is cheating, or am i insecure
Q. I have long had a suspicion that my girlfriend is hiding something from me, cheating maybe or at the very least still talking and seeing her ex boyfriend. I can't help but ask her constantly and I know she won't tell me the that she is. She keeps ...
A. 27 September 2006: When we love someone and don't want to lose them we worry about things like this and when you see something that sparks our suspicions we get insecure.
You only have these text messages to go on which really aren't much as they don't say she has ... (read in full...)
There is a girl I like at school. How can I tell if she likes me?
Q. hi i am 14 and have a big problem. theres this girl that i like at school whos 15, i really like her but arnet confident enough to ask her out. i dont think i'm particulary good looking so that makes it even harder, and finaly i dont even know if ...
A. 27 September 2006: You need to think about what have you got to lose from saying anything, if you say something and she feels the same way then you gain from this, if you say something and she doesn't feel the same then at least you know and can try and move on from ... (read in full...)
Husband is registered on various online dating agencies. Should I confront him?
Q. I have been married to my husband for 2 years. I know I shouldnt but I read his e-mails, I have found out that he has registered for various online dating agencies and is chatting to several different women! Should I confront him?...
A. 27 September 2006: I would confront him, yes you shouldn't have looked through his emails but you have and you need to confess that to him if you want to know what is going on with all these dating agencies and other women.
You reading his emails wouldn't be a prob... (read in full...)
I feel second best
Q. Pleasssssssssssssseeeeeeeee help me! My boyfriend and I have been going out for about 6 months. I am very much in love with him and he tells me he loves me all the time. But here is the problem: sometimes I feel like he just tells me that because I ...
A. 27 September 2006: No you shouldn't be second best and if he does still love his ex then he shouldn't have got involved with you in the first place, most of us still care about our ex's as we spent time with them and was once close to them but you really need to know ... (read in full...)
Why is my boyfriend acting in this way? I am not used to being alone. What should I do?
Q. my boyfriend broke up with me 9 days ago. he lived with me and my son, he was at the hospital when he wa born and from then on lived with me and my son calls him daddy. he has always been there then he just got up and left saying he dosent want ...
A. 27 September 2006: Firstly you need to go home and try and get use to living alone as the longer you stay at your mums the harder it will be to come to terms with living alone.
Secondly I would leave him to get some space as all the time you are meeting him and allo... (read in full...)
I swallowed, can I get pregnant?
Q. hi rite i have been with my boyfriend ages n recently i sucked him off but i swallowed it can i get pregnant ?...
A. 27 September 2006: In one simple answer NO!! you can't.
Surely if you are unsure about things like this kind of thing you shouldn't be doing it in the first place?
... (read in full...)
I just can't believe how stupid I have been
Q. I am very unhappy with my partner. Quick rundown: We got together when I was 15, he was 18. We had a baby a year later and now live together. He has no job and I know he cheating on me with numerous people. I know I've been stupid and I want to get ...
A. 27 September 2006: If you don't want to be with him then there is no reason for you to stay, I know you have a child and one on the way together but surely that doesn't mean you should stay with someone that doesn't seem to love or respect you and makes you so ... (read in full...)
my aunt who is 35 she is so sexyy
Q. hi im a 15 year old boy from canada over the years ive been attracted to my aunt who is 35 she is so sexyy i have fantisies all the time about her and im trying to get help fo me to stop thinking about her or if u have advice on how to make my ...
A. 27 September 2006: Putting the age difference to one side she is your Aunt therefore a blood relalive therefore incest.
I'm sure you will have plenty of thoughts of older women as you grow up not all if any you can do anything about, try finding someone your own age ... (read in full...)
I have started to fancy a boy that my mate has fancied for 2 years. What should I do? I don't want to betray my mate.
Q. my mates liked this boy since the begining of year 7 2 years ago and now i like him!!!! he always flirts with me i dont want to betray my mate but i realy like him what should i do???...
A. 27 September 2006: You need to ask yourself whats more important .. your friendship or this boy?
Think about how you would feel should the tables be turned and what you would expect your friend to do.
I've always believed that as friends you do not go with the pers... (read in full...)
Pregnant friend and I are having problems. Do I wait until after she has the baby to talk to her or do it now?
Q. Okay my best friend is ready to have a baby. The past four months she has really been rude. We have been friends for over 10 years and I am the godmother of her two daughters. I have always been close, and about four months ago she just stoped ...
A. 27 September 2006: Her hormones are all over the place right now so I would wait until she has had the baby and all the stresses and strains of being pregnant are out of the way as you may find some of the reason she is being the way she is being maybe due to her ... (read in full...)
What sort of confidence do women like in men?
Q. I heard somewhere that one of or the main thing women like about men is confidence. What sort of confidence? And i know I'm not talking about believing in yourself....
A. 27 September 2006: All women are different and want different things in a man same as you men wants different things in us women.
You would have to know who you are and where you are going in life, be sure of what you want from life and it's situations but beca... (read in full...)
The other day he just walked out on me and his son
Q. hi i really need some advice i am having huge problems me and my partner have been together for 5 years and its not been a easy 5 years we have split up a few time but i really thought this was the last time and he had changed his ways he had ...
A. 27 September 2006: Is there any of his family members you can contact even to sort something out so he can come see his son as whatever is going on with you and him your son isn't to blame and shouldn't suffer because of it.
Maybe if he comes and spends sometime with... (read in full...)
how do I liven my texting up for him
Q. hi everyone Im feeling a bit sad and emotional at the moment as my boyfriend is away for a month with work To keep in contact we mainly text and I need some advice/tips on how to keep going on this. It seems like I send the same ...
A. 26 September 2006: You could try telling him about what you have been up to and what plans you've got coming up, I agree with helpful girl you could try poems and things like that, there are plenty of sites you can go to online that list loads of funny, sweet, cute ... (read in full...)
I ignored him because he has a girlfriend
Q. iv sort of fallen for a guy at work in a big way and i think he feels the same hes a bit more open with his feelings because im worried. he says he wants to be with me and i ignore him because he has a girlfriend, weve had a thing for a while but ...
A. 26 September 2006: It sounds like he is into you but before you two can pursue anything together he needs to be single and free for you both to make something of what is going on between you both.
Good luck :o)... (read in full...)
Bf keeps finishing with me over stupid little things. He seems to enjoy hurting me. What can I do?
Q. hiya...... well me n my boyfriend have been 2geva now for 6weeks. n i love him but its asif he dosent want 2 see me because he lives 20mins away n still there is always an excuse not 2 see me. and he finshes me ova stupid little things really ...
A. 26 September 2006: 6 weeks and already things are like this? You are barely out of your honeymoon period and he keeps finishing it with you and pushing his ex's in your face.
If it was me I would walk away from him as this would just show to me what I have to come... (read in full...)
I've had mensrual cramps in my thighs, is this normal?
Q. Hi everyone, I have sort of a strange question I guess. Ever since I've had my period (I'm 21 years old, so I've had it for about 8 years) I've had the mensrual cramps in my thighs instead of my abdomen. Is that normal? Does anyone else have...
A. 26 September 2006: I've not heard of it before although I am aware that some people do suffer from period cramps in other places other than the stomache.
I would see your doctor whether it is normal or not maybe he can give you something or suggest something you can ... (read in full...)
My first lesbian relationship has ended, now it seems she is playing mindgames. Its screwing my head up, please help
Q. Please I need some advice. Until my last r/ship I have always been straight, but I ended up very close to a female friend who is a lesbian and ended up with her. I moved away from family and friends to be with her, we moved near her family. Anyway 8 ...
A. 26 September 2006: It sounds like she doesn't want to totally let go of you therefore keeping herself a safety net if things don't work out for her and her new partner, the best thing you can do is cut the contact from your side and if she doesn't respect that you ... (read in full...)
After having "Goodbye Sex", we are considering making it casual. Is this a good idea?
Q. My boyfriend and i recently broke up. We dated seriously for a year and a half. when i went over to get my stuff from his house we ended up having "goodbye sex". This led to the decision that we should keep in contact with eachother whenever we ...
A. 26 September 2006: I really don't think you should try and make a casual relationship out of a serious relationship that went wrong, although you will both agree to be casual all your old feelings will get involved and you will find it hard to cut off what you use to ... (read in full...)
Missed a pill and had sex the next day. Could I be pregnant?
Q. hi, i take the pill evey day but missed one then had sex the next day so could i fall pregnant after thet. ...
A. 26 September 2006: When you miss a pill you need to take it as soon as you realise and not have unprotected sex for a week afterwards therefore you were not protected at all when you had sex, if it is within the 72 hours you can take the morning after pill if not you ... (read in full...)
How can I bring him out of his shell?
Q. I recently started living with a family in the city I have my education in, and I have noticed one of their sons behaving very oddly around me. He seldom looks me in the eye, yet when he does, it's intensely and with a smile on his face. I can have ...
A. 26 September 2006: I agree sounds like he has taken a liking to you and therefore acts strangely around you.... (read in full...)
He asked me my ring size, does this mean he wants to marry me ??
Q. I'm just wondering..if your boyfriend asks you what your ring size is..does it mean he's going to propose? We've been together for 5 months now but we are very serious about eachother, and yesterday he asked me my ring size. I'm just wondering if ...
A. 26 September 2006: If it was that finger he asked for then I would say there is a very good chance that is what he is wanting it for but I wouldn't get your hopes up incase it isn't as it could well be a friendship ring or just a committment ring or he might just have ... (read in full...)
Should I keep seeing my Army man who may be marrying his ex?
Q. i was seeing a guy on and off for 2 years. he is in the army so he travelled quite a bit. he knows i fell in love with him. i havent seen him for 13 months now, but he is back in my city for a month or so. he told me about 6 months ago that his ex ...
A. 26 September 2006: If it was me I would let him go until he has worked out what he is going to do regarding his ex and the marriage thing, all the time you are around he can't worry about what it would be like to not have you anymore therefore not realising how ... (read in full...)
Is it okay to flirt behind my boyfriends back ?
Q. almost everywhere i go i see cute guys.like at the mall and stuff.they began to flirt.i have a boyfriend already.should i keep it on the down low and flirt with other guys behind my boyfriends back?or ignore the flirting by other guys at the mall ...
A. 26 September 2006: Everyone has a different view on flirting some find it wrong and don't like their gf/bf doing it, some find it harmless and just abit of a laugh.
You need to think about if it was the other way round how would you feel if it was your boyfriend flir... (read in full...)
Im spending the whole day with her and Id like some ideas of how to make her feel special and show her what she means to me.
Q. Okay so me and my girlfriend have been together for 2 and a half months and every minute i spend with her is fantastic but we met outside of school and having both recently started the academic year in different schools in the year she is starting ...
A. 26 September 2006: You know your girlfriend better than anyone else on here so start thinking about what she is into and the things she enjoys doing, with me I've always found that when I didn't see a boyfriend very often the time I did spend with them I just enjoying ... (read in full...)
Got low and drunk and emailed a myspace girl a complement... Then my girl found out
Q. i was in a relationship with a great girl, we were taking things slow, then she went away with work, when she returned home she anounced that she didn't think it would work out, and as she would be away at various times of the year and she had ...
A. 26 September 2006: She had already basically ended the relationship with you so you was free to do and say what you wanted to anyone else, she is probably just annoyed that she thought you would just sit there pining over her and instead you complimented other girls ... (read in full...)
If we are to be together, again, I want a committment..not a casual friendship! What do you think he'll do?
Q. I was in a relationship for four years, absolutely adored the guy until I found he cheated on me and threw him out. When we were together everything seemed perfect as I am a very caring individual. Well six months later he's contacted me saying he ...
A. 26 September 2006: Sometimes when you love someone you want anything that person can give you as you don't want to lose them completely but if it's not what you want you need to stand your ground because all the time he can just get what he wants from you he will ... (read in full...)
I like her-she has a bf but I want to win her over...need some tips?
Q. Theres a girl i like, she knows i do but shes not looking for a boifriend at the min, trying to reassure her im different, wat can i do to win her over, help please ?...
A. 26 September 2006: I agree with Soulprincess don't give up on trying to prove to her that you are different, I've always believed if you want something you do anything to get them, maybe she just needs to see your really interested and prepared to put the effort into ... (read in full...)
We're both shy co-workers how do we move beyond email?
Q. I really fancy someone at work and we get along well the trouble is we never get the chance to talk to each other without everyone else hearing and we end up emailing each other reguarly. I know he feels the same way about me as I do with him but I ...
A. 26 September 2006: Its very hard to try to chat with someone at work as the pressure of other people around.
Why not try emailing him and asking him if he fancies meeting up after work or something or meeting outside after work that way your not at work anymore and ... (read in full...)
Worried if I ask him out..I'll make a fool of myself. Should I go for it?
Q. Hey, I have recently finished in a long term relationship and so am a little rusty on the whole dating business again, some pointers would be useful. I have started college and there is this guy I like, hes started eating his lunch with me...
A. 26 September 2006: Well from everything you've said I would say he is into you, maybe if you was to get him alone and start chatting he might say something himself if he doesn't then maybe you could just casually ask him if he fancied meeting up for a drink keeping an ... (read in full...)
My bf left saying I complain too much! Is he really finished with me or doe he just need space?
Q. My ex boyfriend just left me saying he dosent want a relationship if it is that hard. he has lived with me for 2 yrs, and we dated 2yrs before that. He also works with me, so its hard to see him and know hes not comming home. he says i complain too ...
A. 26 September 2006: I would leave him be and let him have some space to himself, if he wants to be with you he will be sure to come running back especially if your not chasing him all the time as that will just remind him why he ended the relationship and make him ... (read in full...)
My and my guy have just had our first major argument. I apologised and he says its fine, but I feel like I have let him down. How can I get him to forgive me?
Q. I've been dating this guy for about a month now, and we've just had our first major argument. When we met we clicked instantly and have spent every possible chance together. He's the only person who I feel truly understands me. I've been hurt by ...
A. 26 September 2006: In every relationship arguements happen its normal and healthy and as you've said you've been together a month and spent every possible moment together so you may just have argued just because you are both feeling the pressure of getting into a ... (read in full...)
I want to meet a girl! Tell me what to do...please!
Q. i am 19 old and need a girl but don't know how 2 meet one. pls send me a dating lyrics 2 know what 2 do....
A. 26 September 2006: You need to go out with your mates socially failing that there are plenty of other ways you can use to meet people online being one of them. I don't see why at your age your so determind to meet sure, I would just wait for the right person to come ... (read in full...)
I am falling for my online guy, but dont want to rush things. Advice please!!
Q. Theres this guy i have been talking to for abit on the internet he lives in the next estate but we've never met. I think im starting to fall for him. He is abit older and very good looking so i dunno if i even have a chance. I would like some tips ...
A. 26 September 2006: Always take chatting to someone over the internet with care, you don't 100% know that the person your talking to is really the person they say they are so before you get too deeply into this person you need to think about meeting them in a public ... (read in full...)
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