He has started acting how he did before we got together and I can feel myself slipping backwards!
Q. i need help... i'm good mates with me ex ... but i can feel myself wanting him back. we are good mates still...but he's been different with me recently.. hes knows what makes me laugh and smile so he's started using this to make me laugh. he fli...
A. 16 October 2006: Relationships break up for a reason, ex's are ex's for a reason maybe you should think about why he is an ex and think about whether you want to be in that same situation again???
If you really love him and can be sure things will be different this... (read in full...)
Sex wasn't all that wonderful but now we have split up and just sex buddies it seems 100 times better!
Q. I'm a bit confused. I was in a relationship with this guy for 4 months and I lost my virginity to him. Sex itself wasn't really all that wonderful because I couldn't reach orgasm very often (I've never told him this) but I still loved it because of ...
A. 16 October 2006: Sometimes people become lazy in sex when they are in a relationship with the person as they already have them and feel they don't need to put as much effort into it or any need to be impressing that person anymore.
Or maybe you are just able to rela... (read in full...)
I don't want to drop out of college as I am intelligent but everything seems so much effort!
Q. I need help. I feel dead inside. I'm 16 years old and i've felt like this since I started college at the beginning of September. That place just sucks everything out of me. I ended a relationship with the guy I want to spend the rest of my life with ...
A. 16 October 2006: I think maybe you need to take some time out even if its just a week or two to get yourself straight and some sleep, when we are tired things always seem harder and worse than they really are, if you still suffer from this problem after the time out ... (read in full...)
I am really attracted to my best friend but don't know if he likes me back!
Q. Hello, my best friend is a midget and i am really attracted to him, usually dwarfs and such scare me, but i made friends with him at college two weeks ago, but his really big hands are intimidating. but he is so beautiful. what should i do? please ...
A. 16 October 2006: Well one sure way of finding out if someone likes you back is to ask them, you've got nothing to lose by asking and better to know than to always wonder.... (read in full...)
Does this all mean he is going to or want to take things further?
Q. If a bloke fancies you and flirts with you from time to time when he sees you, does it necessarily mean that he's going to try and take things further. So far with this person I have experienced over the last two years (arm round the shoulder (on...
A. 16 October 2006: It could well mean he likes you more than a friend but it could just be the type of guy he is, there are alot of people that are friendly that can be mistaken for flirting or just have a flirty personality.
If you want to be sure you can always ask ... (read in full...)
Sex wasn't a problem when we was having an affair with each other so why is it now???
Q. Help.... I am at my wits end. My partner and I have been together for three years (12 mths of this time we were having an affair for the past 12 months we have been living together) The problem is he doesn't want sex. It seems there is always an ...
A. 16 October 2006: Sometimes some people love the thrill of the naughtiness and the fact that what they are doing is wrong and sneaky, same as sometimes once your in a proper relationship the need to try to be the best and make a big impression on the other person ... (read in full...)
I really like him and can't stop thinking about him but he doesn't like me back!!
Q. I like this guy and i cant stop thinking about him, but the thing is i know he doesnt like me back, but i cant get over him, no matter how many other guys i have found, i still only want to be with him, but he doesnt feel the same, i dont understand ...
A. 16 October 2006: None of us can make someone feel the same way back, which is a shame because life and love would be so easy if we could.
You really need to fill your time with other interests and put thoughts of him to one side the best you can, sometimes we want... (read in full...)
We work together but I am now liking him more what should I do??
Q. I am a Team Manager in a call centre type office. I work very closely with another Team Manager and lately have been seeing him in a different way. I have always been close with him as the nature of the job means we spend alot of time together in ...
A. 16 October 2006: I use to work with my ex and that's how we met, it was great, we didn't leave one another to go to work because we went together, we saw loads of each other shared so many interests due to being in the same line of work.
If you are going to purs... (read in full...)
My insecurity and drinking is causing so many issues in our relationship!
Q. Hi there ive got a problem thats eating me up.Every relationship I have ever had some how and some where down the line the guy has cheated on me leaving me extremely insecure. I met my new partner approx 18 months ago and i truley trusted him but my ...
A. 16 October 2006: You really need to always be honest with him about your issues and how you are feeling, when you hide this stuff from him and then just go on a bender he doesn't know what to do as you are shutting him out and therefore he is probably feeling like ... (read in full...)
I don't get much pleasure from masturbation but still achieve a good orgasm!!
Q. hello ladies. i am a 16 yo male and my fore skin doesn't retract. if i do pull it back i can only take it back a small bit and if i touch the glans i get a sharp pain. i have seeked medical advice a they say i am ok. i can still have erections a...
A. 16 October 2006: I agree with what the other replier has suggested, I had an ex that had the same problem as you and he had to end up having his foreskin removed as it was causing too many problems and causing alot of pain to him.
Good luck :o)... (read in full...)
If he still loved me wouldn't he want to make it work?
Q. I was in a long distance realtionship. He was away working at a job that he does not want to leave. We broke up because he said it's to hard and can't be alone anymore. He still told me he loves me... But if he truely loved me wouldn't he want to ...
A. 16 October 2006: Is there a reason why you can't move to live nearer to his job?
I've always believed love is more important than anything else but love doesn't pay the bills therefore a job is important as well as his feelings for you.
Good luck :o)... (read in full...)
Is it a yeast infection, or is it something else?
Q. for about a week now i have noticed more of a whitish...sometimes yellow color on my panty liner... and i tend to have like a substance there too. what is this? is it simply a yeast infection or could it be something else? here are some facts a...
A. 14 October 2006: I always believe if in doubt get it checked out, it might just be nothing just a change in your body but it's always better to get these things checked by a doctor to be completely sure.... (read in full...)
I don't have feelings for him anymore so why did I start crying when we ended?
Q. split up with my long term partner yesterday we agreed to stay friends as we have a son together.see i wanted him to leave because there was never any love or romance and he took me for granted.when he left i starting crying,he wasnt upset and was ...
A. 14 October 2006: You've been together a long time and you have a child together so I would say it was probably due to the fact of it was the end of something you've been a part of for such a long time, end of something thats been a big part of your life can be ... (read in full...)
I don't drink because I don't want to and yet my friends and boyfriend won't stop going on about it!
Q. I'm 17 and have recently been feeling a LOT of pressure to drink alcohol lately. This pressure has been coming from many people at my part time work (most of them are over 18- the legal drinking age in australi), one of my close friends and my ...
A. 14 October 2006: You have a right to make decisions about whether you drink or not and you've made the decision that you just don't want to drink, this may go away or you may never want to but that is your choice and no one should make you feel pressure about this, ... (read in full...)
Does my casual guy want more from me?
Q. hi. im 22 years old, and have a guy i've been seeing casually for sex for about 3 months now. hes begun to tell me he's told his best friend about me, and says its hard not to talk about me. he's constantly sending me mixed signals--he'll act ...
A. 13 October 2006: You need to think about what you want from this casual relationship and once you've worked that out you need to talk to him and find out what he is wanting and expecting things to go also telling him what you want, if one of you is wanting more and ... (read in full...)
The sex with us is all wrong!! Its affecting out relationship what can we do!?
Q. Hi,im with my fiancee 14 months, we are both in our 30's and lately she does not want to get close and have sex as she cant feel me inside her. I have been suffering from impotency,but at times im ok. Went to my Doc and he prescribed me to use ...
A. 13 October 2006: You really need to talk to her and explain how all this is effecting you, sex isn't everything in a relationship but some people do see it as a big part, you say it's more like a friendship now do you mean you are just acting like friends and not ... (read in full...)
I am a teen virgin-my bf wants to have sex. Should I shave down there?
Q. hi i am a teenager and i am a virgin. my b-f wants to start having sex...I need to know is it better to shave down below or not?? ...
A. 4 October 2006: I personally do, I did it for myself and I prefer it I also believe it is more hygienic to do so but it is entirely up to you, some guys like it shaven some don't that is why I suggest choosing what you want or asing your boyfriend what he would ... (read in full...)
How do I shave it ?
Q. I want to shave my vagina but im not sure how to do it or anything...can anyone give me some advice?...
A. 4 October 2006: I personally have shaved mine and I would suggest starting by trimming it down making it easier to shave and to see and feel what your doing, I always used a mild soap like dove or something like that and always shaved against the hairs, I've found ... (read in full...)
Why has he started being so controlling ?
Q. I am 22 yrs old, and my fiance is 39. Im white/indian, and he is black. Lately he has been very controlling, no talking on the phone, or seeing my male friends. What is his problem?...
A. 4 October 2006: I agree with xAngeliquex it does sound like jealousy or fear of losing you therefore stopping you from mixing with male friends what he doesn't realise is he has more chance of losing you like this than leaving you to carry on your friendships, if ... (read in full...)
I miss the excitment in our relationship, how can we get it back ?
Q. hi...i really don't understand what has been happening to my realtionship lately..but it just seems like the flame is dying. i am in love with him but i want him to just slam me aganist a wall or something or bring me roses out of the blue. how do i ...
A. 4 October 2006: Have you tried doing some exciting or romantic things for him to pick up on and see if he takes a note from you and how these things have made him feel and want to start returning with the gestures so he can make you feel the same?
Try this and see ... (read in full...)
Why does my husband tell his mother everything?
Q. My husband talks to his mother about our problems first and does what she says. He tells her all negative things about me and now i fell she dislikes me....
A. 4 October 2006: My ex was like this and how frustrating it was, it seemed he told her more about how he was feeling than he did me and I felt uncomfortable around her as I knew she knew everything and that she didn't like me for being the one to upset her son, I ... (read in full...)
My ex wants me back.I forgive him for cheating, but I can never forget.
Q. My ex bf sort of cheated on me ONCE. He had a good explanation for what happened so it only appeared less cheating and just lying. The thing is he broke up with me, but now wants me back, and he is willing to do everything to make me trust hi...
A. 4 October 2006: We give someone trust and they abuse that trust therefore causing us to be careful and slow to trust them fully again, you probably will never forgot what he did just learn to move on from it which will take time and alot of reassurance from him but ... (read in full...)
After me and my gf broke up, I feel like my life is falling apart. Please give me some advice.
Q. Hey guys, My life is slowly falling apart, i'm depressed and really don't know what to do from here, hope u guys can give me some advice... I just broke up with my gf of 2 years, im 22, shes 21. She says she lost feelings for me, that her feeling...
A. 4 October 2006: In situations like this I always think of that saying... 'If you love someone let them go, if they love you they will come back to you'
She may have hit a point where she is feeling like she is missing out on what all her friends are doing and alth... (read in full...)
How can I move forward after my relationship ended? What should I do?
Q. Please help me think straight. Myself and my Girlfriend broke up 2 weeks ago - i moved to my mothers, she moved to friends and then back to the home. She decided it was time to end the relationship because the 'spark' had gone - We have seeing each ...
A. 4 October 2006: She has told you she want's time and space to sort out her feelings for you which you should allow her to do as her getting back with you now may cause you to just be used as like you said a safety blanket so she doesn't end up alone.
If she love... (read in full...)
How can I break the ice and get chatting with my ex again?
Q. I have recently split from my boyfriend over a stupid drunken arguement. Needless to say i really want to get back together with him but don't even know where to begin. We are barely talking at the moment which is really difficult as we live in th...
A. 4 October 2006: Do you have a mobile number for him?
I would say as an icebreaker a text message asking him to meet or even just saying you don't like the fact you both ignore each other and can you talk and sort things out even if it's just to make a frie... (read in full...)
My girl cheated, I really love her! Was it really a genuine mistake ?
Q. My girlfriend has cheated on me and I dont know what to do coz I luv her and I cant let go despite what she has done. She says she luvs me and she does not want this to end thats whats confusing me. my question, can one cheat on someone you really ...
A. 4 October 2006: Yes you can love someone and cheat on them, we all have different morals mine are that I don't cheat and never could no matter what situation I was put in or was thrown at me others aren't that strong or other things encourage them to cheat.
I... (read in full...)
Shes been having an affair for the last 6 months, shes also continually having a go, I feel so worthless, please help!!
Q. for the past 6 mths my wife has been having an affair, she has now left her boyfriend,and says she wants to be with me,i feel like im being used!! after going away for the weekend together hotel shopping etc,,she has turned around and said to me th...
A. 4 October 2006: You forgave her for cheating on you and being with another man for 6 months and see pays you back with no respect or regret as to her actions, your not worthless seems like you have done everything you can to give this woman the life she has been ... (read in full...)
Im really scared of being on my own, I want someone to love me and me love them for keeps!
Q. I just need someone who can love me and care for me.Well where do i start,i left home 18 and set up home with my boyfriend,the relationship was very rocky but i carried on.five years down the line i had a baby girl unplanned but i was over the ...
A. 4 October 2006: You need to break free of your attached man and get to know who you are again, at the moment you have jumped from one relationship to another losing yourself on the way.
Once you have sorted yourself out and worked through what you really want out ... (read in full...)
My so called friend is very manipulative and is now up to tricks again! Should I tell her man exactly what shes up to ??
Q. I need help in deciding what I need do about my friend. My friend, 25 years old, I'll call her SAMMIE, is a very manipulative girl. I don't mean to sound judgmental. Infact, I don't want anything about her to bother me... but it does. And I don't ...
A. 4 October 2006: First thing you need to do is stop lying for her and stop being her reason for her whereabouts when she is out cheating.
Secondly these guys have seen what she is like the first one found out she cheated and left her only to then become the bit on t... (read in full...)
Im 20 and have feelings for the guy who was my teacher at 14, I havent seen him since, but I do love him!
Q. dear cupid i am 20 i met this guy when i was 14.he was my teacher.he only worked in my school for one year so i have not seen him since.He must be around 30 now.Trouble is i have fallen in love with him.it sounds stupid obviously nothing ever hap...
A. 4 October 2006: Your strong feelings are the memory of the crush you use to have and because you haven't seen him in such a long time you are unable to let go of this as you are holding onto the feelings you once felt, where as if you was to see him now you would ... (read in full...)
Would it still be okay for me to be a virgin at 25 ?
Q. Me and my friend were talkin the other day(we are both girls) and she said how long do you think you'll be a virgin for and i said until i'm like 25 and she goes you wont last that long. So I'd like to know if it OK to be a virgin till then....
A. 4 October 2006: Of course it's okay, if you haven't felt ready or been with the right person then no reason for you to be worried about still being a virgin, too many people worry or feel it's not right and therefore put themselves into a situation to lose their ... (read in full...)
He constantly accuses me of lying and it simply isnt true!!
Q. my partner constantly accuses me of lying which causes me to hurt quite painfuly as i hate lies and everybody whom knows me would say im so truthful i can offend without purposly knowing but atleast you know where you stand with me,and im respected ...
A. 4 October 2006: I would say there was something in his past or past relationships that has caused him to feel like this although not your fault and not fair on you to feel every women is like this is accuse you of things you haven't done, possibly you did something ... (read in full...)
I think ive grown out of my partner and have thoughts all the time for someone else!!!
Q. i've been in a long relationship but think i've out grown my partner! i've met someone else who recently started work with me.(i'll call him X) it was very much an instant attraction and it has led to much more to the point X is all i want! but X is ...
A. 4 October 2006: Forgetting X, if you don't want to be with your partner you should leave him as it's not fair on him staying with him when he could be free to find someone that does love him and see a future with him.
When it comes to X you have to realise righ... (read in full...)
Ive tried including myself in his porn antics, but he still doesnt have a healthy sex life with me and im feeling very down!!
Q. I'm (usually) a very happily married, middle aged woman (my husband is about a decade older than I); we're both highly educated and very open and liberal in our sexual relationship. I do anything he asks, suggest things I think he'd like but won't ...
A. 4 October 2006: Firstly he fell in love with you the way you are and no woman shouldn't have plastic surgery because of a man for what ever reason it's something you should want to do for yourself not because you feel he will want you more after.
There is such a th... (read in full...)
He told me that if I had a threesome it would prove I love him!!!!!
Q. Hi Im currently in a relationship with a man of 37 I'm 21 We are engaged and living together 2 years. He has 2 children to a women he was married to ten years, they split up 2 years before we met. I have cheated on him in the past and I deeply r...
A. 2 October 2006: How does a 3some make someone feel trust for you? he just used the fact you cheated on him as a way to get what he wanted from you.
He is controlling you and using your cheating as his excuse and reason to why he feels he is right to expect thes... (read in full...)
How can I make him see Im sorry for cheating and that I want him and he can trust me!!!
Q. I have been in a relationship 2 years, We are engaged and living together. I have cheated on him in the past which I'm sorry for and I would'nt do it again, but he now wont trust me at all, How can I make him see I want him and i'm sorry ?...
A. 2 October 2006: When someone cheats on you they take away everything you loved and believed was true, by you cheating on him has probably made him feel that he isn't good enough, that your bored of him, that he doesn't satify you, and your relationship gets to the ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has supported me throught alot, just lately Im angry and take it out on him! How can I stop!?
Q. I love my boyfriend very much hes such a good man, and hes great to my daughter. I was In an accident 7 months ago and still not back to work, and hes stuck with me this whole time, and lately I have been in a funk, and have been taking it out on ...
A. 2 October 2006: You know your doing it so well you feel like your angry or about to kick off I would take some time out and go to another room or outside away from your boyfriend therefore not having him there to take it out on.
I'm sure he understands but stil... (read in full...)
I had a thing with my mates friend for a while, we moved on and he didnt want anymore to do with me, I since slept with my friend, but feel I should tell his friend it happend so he wont think bad of me!!
Q. I feel so guilty. In February I caught up with a mate of mine, lets call him CC, who I had been friends with for about 2 and a half years. He had another friend of his there called DD and he happened to have been a guy I met at a nightclub 5 years ...
A. 2 October 2006: Well like you said DD already has shown he doesn't care and has more than moved on already, you and CC have been friends a long time and it's not as if DD introduced you two and you was breaking the fact the you was doing things with his friend as ... (read in full...)
He cheated but this was last christmas, should I give him a second chance ??
Q. i have been dating my boyfriend for over a year, and i was dying my friends hair and she told me that he cheated on me with another girl. and i was like ya ok and i didn't believe her, so when i was finished i called him and asked him and he denied ...
A. 2 October 2006: I've always believed people deserve a second chance apart from when they have cheated, the problem is if you give him a second chance you will always wonder if he is or will do it again, and that alone will put stresses and strain on your ... (read in full...)
I only seem to like him sometimes, is there something wrong with me ??
Q. I have a crush on my best guy friend, but it's as if I only like him every other day. He has asked me out on numerous occasions, but everytime I say No. Is there something wrong with me?...
A. 2 October 2006: I agree with camille maybe it's his attention that he gives you that causes you to feel maybe things are more on your part or maybe there is something missing in this situation that is not making you feel the 100%.
The only thing you can do is take... (read in full...)
My bf accuses me of looking at other men. How do I convince him...I want only him?
Q. my guy constantly accuses me of looking at guys under 30,no matter where we go,he is 45 and want him only but he wont accept this...
A. 2 October 2006: You can't convince him you can only tell him and prove over time how much you want to be with him and how important he is to you, he has to realise on his own that he is being silly and that you wouldn't be with him if you didn't want to.
Good luck... (read in full...)
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