How many times have you fallen in love?
Q. A question to everyone... How many times have you fallen in love? I mean completely fallen in love - physically, emotionally, and mentally...? My reasons for asking: I have experienced this twice in my lifetime. The first time wasn't until the ...
A. 29 September 2006: You may experiance it again or this love you are feeling now may turn into a love that although different could turn out to be stronger and better just in a different way.
I think we are all lucky to feel and experiance love, when it is bad we hate... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has been using my computer to look at porn. I confronted him and made things worse, what should I do?
Q. My boyfriend and i have been dating for almost a year and a half. im 18 and he is 21. for a while we seemed to be drifting apart, but lately its been normal. Yeasterday i found out that he has been looking at porn sites on my computer that i use for ...
A. 29 September 2006: I think at some point we all make the mistake of basing our lives around a member of the other sex and when it goes wrong we have to pick ourselves back up and start again however hard that maybe.
You will make a new life for yourself and even... (read in full...)
I have a boyfriend, but now I am back in contact with my ex husband of 6 years. What can I do? I dont want to hurt anybody.
Q. i have recently gotten a divorce from a man who i have been with for 6 years. i love him with all my heart and still love him. his work became more important than me and his parents out ranked me. after 2 years of marriage i left. i couldnt come 3rd ...
A. 29 September 2006: Noone can make a choice like this for you as we aren't feeling the feelings you are.
Whatever guy you choose if it goes wrong you will think that you made the wrong choice and the other one was the one you should have picked but you just don't know... (read in full...)
Married 26 years, he looks at porn all the while, I think he also cheated, I strayed as I was so unhappy, this is all a mess please help someone!!!
Q. Help anyone. I've been married for 26 yrs now, but I am very unhappy. I was married by the age of 19 and at 20 had my first son. I only knew my husband for a short time, for which I only knew him 6 months and was married within that time. Anywa...
A. 23 September 2006: Well you can either sit down with your husband and try and fight for this marriage maybe suggesting you both see someone to talk through the problems with or you can walk away from it.
If he really doesn't love you anymore and is only there for the ... (read in full...)
We broke up but its like we hadnt, but then he was seeing someone else!
Q. right this is my problem,basically i got with this guy last year in jan and we got on so well i was really startin to like him,i hadnt been with anyone sexually before him,he was my first for everything n i love him so much, but this year has just ...
A. 23 September 2006: I think you need to talk to him and find out where he sees this relationship going because from here he doesn't seem to have any maturity towards you or this relationship and no point in you taking this seriously if he is just seeing it all as abit ... (read in full...)
Why are my cliquey workmates treating me so badly? I am so puzzled!!
Q. I got a job 2 years ago but seems like only a couple of months. The previous post holder seems to have left under a cloud and her name is never mentioned except she had a big row with one of the two bosses. I asked one of the bosses, the one she had ...
A. 23 September 2006: Sounds like jealousy to me and although you want things to be easier and not have these problems I would just ignore it and carry on doing your job as you have been.
Your obviously doing a good job and are well liked by everyone else so I woul... (read in full...)
Why is my only friend acting in this way? I don't know what to do.
Q. well, i have been best pals with someome for a long time, but recently she has changed. I phoned her the other day and asked if she was coming out and she said that she had homework and didnt want to and that she was already planning on asking s...
A. 23 September 2006: Sounds like she is using you as and when she wants you.
Stop calling her and putting the effort in leave it to her to contact you and when she does try blowing her off a few times and let her see what it feels like.
Once you've done this and you ... (read in full...)
I have strong feelings for my friend, I am now single and she is on a break. Should I make a move and would this be what she wants?
Q. i need help! i live with my best friend, who has been in a relationship since we met. and i've been in a relationship since we met, as well. but we had an instant attraction to each other the first time we spoke that couldn't be denied. we both ...
A. 23 September 2006: Only one way to find out is to try and talk to her about this again, the break with her boyfriend maybe because you are now single and she is keeping herself open to see what comes of you or it might just be a break to sort herself out so she can ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has been using my computer to look at porn. I confronted him and made things worse, what should I do?
Q. My boyfriend and i have been dating for almost a year and a half. im 18 and he is 21. for a while we seemed to be drifting apart, but lately its been normal. Yeasterday i found out that he has been looking at porn sites on my computer that i use for ...
A. 22 September 2006: What do you mean by it only made things worse?... (read in full...)
How many times have you fallen in love?
Q. A question to everyone... How many times have you fallen in love? I mean completely fallen in love - physically, emotionally, and mentally...? My reasons for asking: I have experienced this twice in my lifetime. The first time wasn't until the ...
A. 22 September 2006: I've loved people but I really do believe I've only really been 'in love' the one time as this person is someone no matter what I do I can't get over and even when he hurt me I forgave because I loved him so much.
I'm not saying that I won't or can'... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is leaving the country for 6 months and it is making me depressed, plus I am taking my anger out on my friend.
Q. I don't know what's wrong with me lately. My bf's planning to leave the country for 6 months. I wasn't happy at first that he's leaving. Then I changed my mind and think it's a good idea for him to have this experience to grow as a person. It's abo...
A. 22 September 2006: Well firstly I'm sure the reason he isn't calling you as much is probably because his trip is a month away and he has got alot to get together and sort before he can leave.
Have you suffered from any kind of depression before this? if so I woul... (read in full...)
Their tickling really gets me down, how do I get them to stop?
Q. My sister started dating in march and im really on edge about the way they behave when im alone with them,i live at her place at the moment.he was very touchy feely from the beginning,when she popped out anywhere hed use any excuse to tickle my ...
A. 22 September 2006: You are going to have to be straight with your sister and tell her it doesn't feel right to have him tickling you and you don't like it and want it to stop, as you don't want to keep feeling uncomfortable around him anymore and hopefully that should ... (read in full...)
I went through my boyfriends phone and found texts from another girl. What do I say to him?
Q. hi there! i dont know what to do!! i went into my bf's phone and read his texts which i know i shouldnt have done but his phone has been going off at all times of the day and night and i was interested to know who had been txting him all the time. i ...
A. 22 September 2006: Well I think you had better start with admitting going through his phone and seeing if he has got anything to tell you, if not you need to be blunt and out right ask him.
Yes you was wrong to go through his phone and on most times when we do this... (read in full...)
How can I tell if my co-worker wants me to initiate sex?
Q. how can i tell if my co-worker wants me to make a move for us to have sex? we both seen pictures of each other naked and a video of me naked. her pictures had use of sex toys. she has a boyfreind and i am married. but we both are startin...
A. 22 September 2006: What and why are you both showing nakid pictures of each other when you both are involved with other people, surely you know and understand this is all very wrong and should be put to an end before it turns into something not only more wrong but ... (read in full...)
I get torn up about the whole thing we had and cant get past, how do I ?
Q. In january last year i went to south america to travel and do charity work with a group of 15 other people i had never met before. I immediately fancied a girl on the trip called Rachel and she showed that she liked me. We hung out alot and I had ...
A. 22 September 2006: You had some problem when you both started out but now things sound like they are working out and she is showing you the real side to her not the side she wants everyone to see.
I would let go of the past and move on you are with the person you love... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants to date others to see if I am what he really wants. How am I supposed to react to that?
Q. I am in a realationship with someone that i love with all my heart. He loves me but wants to date others to make sure I am truely what he wants. How do I react to that? any suggestions?...
A. 22 September 2006: I'm agreeing too.
If he loved you he would know you are what he truely wants there would be no doubt in his mind and the thought of being with other people wouldn't even come to mind for him but it has.
You then agreeing to this will show him you ... (read in full...)
Sex with the ex feels so good, even though I am cheating on my boyfriend. Please help me understand it's not right.
Q. Please give me some advise! I am currently involved with this guy we been together for couple of years,but we recently been arguing alot and for little things.I feel that he may be cheating on me. About a month ago was speaking of this with my ...
A. 22 September 2006: It's because it's wrong and your being sneaky is what is making it exciting therefore feels so good.
You can't carry on like this you are both using each other and showing no respect to the people you are both with now, you need to let go of your... (read in full...)
I have a boyfriend, but now I am back in contact with my ex husband of 6 years. What can I do? I dont want to hurt anybody.
Q. i have recently gotten a divorce from a man who i have been with for 6 years. i love him with all my heart and still love him. his work became more important than me and his parents out ranked me. after 2 years of marriage i left. i couldnt come 3rd ...
A. 22 September 2006: If you stay with your boyfriend you are being unfair on him and stopping him from being with someone that can love him and make him truely happy as you can't all the time you are still in love with your ex, you are also being untrue to yourself and ... (read in full...)
I play games on a website, but my family don't like it. Should I stop playing?
Q. Im Playing on this website.they start to say bad words.my famliy watch's me play the game on the coumpter and walk past me and look.if they saw them say a bad word.ill be in big trouble.should i still play it.or stop playing it so i dont get in ...
A. 22 September 2006: Personally I would talk to your family, tell them you love playing on these games and you understand that some bad words are used on it but you aren't using them words and would never dream of doing so as you understand that these words are wrong to ... (read in full...)
I feel like my best friend will neglect me when her old best friend comes back on the scene.
Q. Well i have a bestfriend.she had a best best bestfriend before me.her friend moved away.if her friend came back she might stop being my friend and start being her old bestfriend.they might be friends and ill be left out.im worried should i just let ...
A. 22 September 2006: A true friendship will last no matter who comes in between, there is no reason why she shouldn't keep a friendship with you both and instead of spending time with just one of you spend time with you both together and no reason why you and her other ... (read in full...)
How do I know if this boy likes me?
Q. me and this boy are in a diffrent class.but we are in the same grade.i like him but i dont know if he likes me what should i do?i really want to go out with him....
A. 22 September 2006: There is only one way to find out and that is to talk to him and ask him, you've got nothing to lose, only possibly gain from this.... (read in full...)
I have met this incredible guy, he is amazing. Problem is.....he is 7 years older.
Q. Hi guys! Got a bit of a problem here. I'm seventeen, and I've fallen for my 24 year old friend. Wait, don't panic. We've been good friends for quite a while and I'm pretty sure the feeling is mutual. He's..just incredible. An amazing friend th...
A. 22 September 2006: No matter how old you are when you tell him how you feel the age gap will still be the same and I don't see 7 years as a problem, I can see your concerns but like you said your mum and friends all like him and seems he is great towards you.
J... (read in full...)
I have feelings for a friend, what should I do?
Q. have this lady that i am friend with in school, but i am starting to have feeling for her but were both busy so i wanted to know how end the frinedship in a positive....
A. 22 September 2006: Talk to her, tell her what your thinking and feeling and see where that goes.... (read in full...)
Boyfriend threw me out because he wanted space, his tenant takes advantage yet is still living there. Why does my boyfriend treat me like this?
Q. I lived with my boyfriend, he threw me out because he wanted space, wanted to do his own thing and I did his head in apparently. It was a very hard time for me. We got back together again and though he can be loving, he can also say hurtful things, ...
A. 22 September 2006: Sounds to me like he is taking out on you what he feels he can't take out on his tenant for whatever reason, I do believe what his tenant is doing is getting to him but won't say anything to him so you are the brunt of that.
You need to talk to him ... (read in full...)
Why is it so hard to ask a friend on a date?
Q. Hi all. Been a regular and even given a few advice of my own. I am at the moment unhappy and tired of being alone. I am in my mid 20's and never really had a long term relationship. Longest been 1 month. I have never had a one night stand...
A. 22 September 2006: You worried that because they are a friend that saying something may cause a problem and make things uncomfortable between you but I would say something as there is a 50/50 chance that they might be feeling the same way and thinking the same as you, ... (read in full...)
He has a great personality but I don't like his looks! Physical attractions means a lot....right??
Q. hi, i met this guy on myspace and we have been on a date! i love everything about his personality and we get on well! its just his appearance, i'm not attracted to him! i'v kinda turned him down because i dont find him attractive, it may seem ...
A. 22 September 2006: I would continue to meet up with him as you said you get on well and love his personality.
I have in the past found that sometime in some situations the personal attraction moves onto physical attraction and it would be a shame to throw away what... (read in full...)
Is there a way back after expressing your feelings to a girl, I managed to push away?
Q. Is there anyway back after letting your guard down far too early and wearing your heart on the sleeve? I have managed to push a girl I was attracted to away already, before things even got started by confessing my feelings. I dont want to give up on ...
A. 22 September 2006: No your haven't.
I agree with your friends ... just be friendly when i meet her again and make sure I end the conversation first - Act normal, happy, unfazed and continue like this for a while.
And once you've continued like this her body language... (read in full...)
Can you be afraid of love? Any thoughts?
Q. Can you fancy someone too much? I fancy this guy so much I can't relax when he is around and he feels the same way. How can we get over these overwhelming feelings for each other. This has been going on for months now. We seem to be scared of each ...
A. 22 September 2006: Most are afraid of love for different reasons..
Some because of past situations that have left them hurt and scared, some because of fear of the unknown.
Yes I do believe you can love/like/fancy/want someone too much but you can only try and go w... (read in full...)
Is there a chance he could still love me, or should I just give up and move on??
Q. hey, im 16, ive just broken up with my bf who i was crazy in love with. im rli rli hurting, and confused what to do. he told me he wanted to end it because it wasnt the same anymore, bt he told other people it was because he had problems and he ...
A. 22 September 2006: Give up and move on, even if he still did have feelings for you the way he has and is treating you is wrong and if you got back together you will probably be back in this same situation in a few months time if that.
I agree with Dazzerg keep your... (read in full...)
How do I tell if my teacher really fancies me? He seems quite friendly to me!
Q. hi, i fancy my teacher and he seems to be extremely friendly and chatty towards me and my friends all say he does little things like when we were performing a play, one eye was following me around. how do i tell if he fancies me/loves me/just...
A. 22 September 2006: It might be nothing it might be something possibly not what you are thinking, either way it's wrong and nothing good can come of this.
He would lose his job and possibly never be able to do the job he loves again and if you really have feelings for ... (read in full...)
Husband is flirting with young college girls-should I be worried?
Q. Husband has a thing for flirting with the young college girls that work in his office.. that wouldn t bother me so much if he would pay some attention to me and have sex once in awhile. Should I be worried about what he's doing at work? ...
A. 22 September 2006: I would be worried not so much that I would feel I was being cheated on but worried as to why he would do this to me.
You need to talk to him and tell him that although you understand that his flirting at work maybe harmless you are feeling abit... (read in full...)
Is it normal that my period is late?
Q. is it normal that my period is late...its been 34 days since my last one. i am just looking for some reassurance that this is normal seeing as how i am typically regular and usually have a 27-29 day cycle. so i realize that i am not that far off ...
A. 22 September 2006: There are alot of factors that effect your period.
Stress, change of life and or routine etc and yes it is true women within close quarters do have synchronised periods.
For your own piece of mind I would take a pregnancy test, they are now quit... (read in full...)
Taking birth control pills and antibiotics...should I abstain from sex to prevent a pregnancy?
Q. Hello, this is a health-type question maybe someone can help me with. I am currently three months into taking birth control pills, but I have to take antibiotics for the next 10 days. I know they can decrease the effectiveness of the pills. My ...
A. 22 September 2006: Definantly use condoms.
No protection is 100% safe including your pill therefore in most situations I would always suggest taking the pill and using condoms just to be sure.
There are alot of things that effect the efficacy of your pill includin... (read in full...)
My gf and her best galpal message things to each other that I think is way over the top! What do you think?
Q. I recently read a a few comments on my girlfriends myspace toward her best mate, who is a girl... Im not sure if its the way they act together as whenever i've seen them together they're not as hyper, but they message each other random things li...
A. 22 September 2006: Most girls show their feelings openly towards their female friends as we can, where as boys don't.
I don't feel this is over the top I tell my best friend I love her loads and things like that because I do, she's my best friend and been there when... (read in full...)
I'm 17 he's 40+ with 2 kids and a wife, is it wrong to have feelings for him?
Q. im 17 he's 40+. he's perfect man, kind,gental,loveing,cuddly,makes you feel wanted.he is a very hands on person which is great and he made a move on me(a very effectionate kiss on the lips). i didn't mind and i realy enjoyed it. but he slightly tied ...
A. 22 September 2006: He's married you are stepping on someone else toes and potentially heading towards breaking up a marriage and taking away two kids daddy.
On the other hand you might not break up a marriage and just be a mistress never respected just used as and ... (read in full...)
I cant get over my boyfriends old habit of downloading porn, even though he no longer does it.
Q. i have been with my boyfriend for 7 months. when we first got together he used to download porn off the internet. it didnt really worry at first but after a few weeks it really started to bother me. i told him how i felt about it and he promised me ...
A. 22 September 2006: I don't know why you can't move on from it but you really need to.
Your boyfriend did what you wanted he stopped doing it and respected your opinion on this so really you need to move on and realise although he was downloading porn you are far more... (read in full...)
I had sex with my best friends boyfriend while she was asleep in the same bed. She seemed ok with it at first, now we hardly talk.
Q. i got really close to one of my co-workers and were like best friends and i considered her almost like a sister i never had. we go out with our other co-workers and my best friends boyfriend. so one night we got really drunk at the club and i ...
A. 22 September 2006: You did one of the worse things you could ever do to a friend and I'm afraid to say really not worth forgiving you over but nothing stops you working at trying to get her forgiveness and only time will tell.
Either way you really need to learn from... (read in full...)
Is it possible to be in love with your boyfriend and like someone else?
Q. i have been going out with my boyfriend for 3years but i like someone else that i have known for 6months. is it possible to be in love with your boyfriend and like someone else? ...
A. 22 September 2006: I've always believed that when you truely love someone you don't have feelings towards someone else but other people may disagree.
I would say what you are feeling is attration towards this other person along with curious about the unknown.... (read in full...)
We broke up because he had feelings for another girl, now he wants to resume contact, what should I do?
Q. I need help i was with a guy for two great years. we ended up breaking up cause he started having feelings for another gir and i guess he stoped loving me.I wanted to keep in touch but he did not semm to. But now he want he calls me but only cause ...
A. 22 September 2006: I do respect him for breaking up with you while confused on his feelings as many people carry on in their current relationship while they test the waters on the next thing out there.
Personally if you still have feelings for him and find it all hard... (read in full...)
I was with a guy 12 years younger, but we broke up because we wanted to grow seperately. Is there still a chance for us?
Q. Hi, I broke up a month ago with a guy 12 years younger. I was his first long term relationship. It lasted a year and nine months. He left me suddenly. I'm 37 he's 25 but we look the same age. We still love each other like crazy, we're each other...
A. 22 September 2006: Sounds like he just needs some time to do everything he has missed out on while being with you, as you say you was his first and first relationship so he has no other experiance at all and for you both to grow together he needs to grow on his own ... (read in full...)
My ex-boyfriend is having sex with my mom. How do I get closure?
Q. My ex-boyfriend is having sex with my mom.I am having a hard time dealing with this since I have to see them both. I don't want him back, but I don't want my mom to have him either.I am jealous that mom is in a relationship. Recently, I've begun ...
A. 22 September 2006: Personally I've always believed in loyalty ie. you don't go with anyone your friends been with, wants to be with, or is with and them same rules go for your mum.
Have you told your mum how you feel? Has your mum taken your feelings into cons... (read in full...)
I confessed my undying love for my friend, but he is totally unresponsive. What should I do?
Q. Hi, recently I confessed my undying love to my best male friend, he is such a lovely guy it was bound to happen at some time. My problem is my friend is being unresponsive with regards to how I feel about him and I dont know what to do anymore. He ...
A. 22 September 2006: You need to tell him what you have posted here, like you said you can't put your life on hold waiting for someone you may never have but until you know exactly where you stand you don't know whether to move on or just wait while he comes to terms ... (read in full...)
My friends girlfriend has fell for somebody else, now she plans on marrying her lover. How can I break this news to my friend?
Q. Hi.. I have a frend who was goin around wth a gal for more than 2 yrs now. Virtually they wer engaged n both parties agrred to their relationship. But that gal realised dat she was not serious wth him. And she fell for a frend of his so called lo...
A. 22 September 2006: Is there really any good way to handle this situation?
whatever you do you are going to hurt your friend but better you deal with this soon as the longer you leave it the more hopes he will put on the relationship he feels is going fine.
One o... (read in full...)
Is this normal ?
Q. Me and my bf had sex without a condom, whilst i was on my period (time of the month), i was wondering, if this is ok, it was the first time we did this, we have been together a year... im worried now.. is this normal??????...
A. 22 September 2006: Some people don't like the idea of having sex during their or their girlfriends time of the month some do, this doesn't make them normal or you normal it's just different peoples preferances.
If you enjoyed it and so did your boyfriend and neit... (read in full...)
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