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Two online interests...how can I make her see she choose the wrong one?

Q.   I know it sounds lame, but I somehow got into an online relationship with this great girl. Ive never done it before, it happened by accident, but it was going great for a while. We talked almost every day. We made each other laugh, seemed to connect ...

A.   30 September 2006: Maybe the calls are because she hasn't heard from you and is starting to realise what she is missing out on, missing the contact with you, or missing the fact that she felt you was always there and that you was a backup to her and now your not. D... (read in full...)

My boy got a bad report card and his parents made him dump me

Q.   I am 14, my boyfriend is 15. We have been going out 4 months. On his progress report from school he had a bad grade so in the last two weeks, his family took away his cell phone, computer, and ME. This has been painful for me too as I can not call ...

A.   30 September 2006: When it comes to it he is 15 and lives under his parents roof therefore he has to live by their rules, some parents are stricter than others laying down harsher rules to live by, maybe he could talk to his parents and ask them to lift this ... (read in full...)

My husband is neglecting our marriage and family - when should I give up?

Q.   Hello all- Searching for input. Husband of 10 years has become increasingly distant from myself and children. I am one of those "married single parents". He has always had his own thing going on. Recently took a demanding job with a long commute....

A.   30 September 2006: There are options here as long as you are both willing to put the effort into your marriage, he can either work closer to home or the family lives closer to work, you can't continue on like this if your unhappy with the situation you have to talk to ... (read in full...)

Bothered that my girl has had a threesome before we dated..

Q.   I have a question involving threesomes. My girlfriend has told me that she has been in a threesome in which she was with two guys. One of the two guys was just who she was dating at the time and the other his friend. She told me it was great. I told ...

A.   29 September 2006: I wouldn't say it was a cop-out as she could truely feel more for you than both of them therefore satisfying her that you are and always will be enough for you. Someones sexual past doesn't always mean thats the things she's already done are thin... (read in full...)

Just been diagnosed with Diabetes, does this now mean a downward climb plus impotency ??

Q.   I'm an otherwise healthy male, but just been diagnosed as diabetic! I think of myself as generally healthy, I'm careful what I eat. wholefoods, veg, etc., I'm not over weight at all, I exercise either a 2 hour work out in the gym or 50 lengths of...

A.   29 September 2006: The reasons why men with diabetes are more prone to problems with impotence are not fully understood. Some people with diabetes suffer from hardened arteries. This may contribute to impotence by restricting the flow of blood to the penis. Nerve ... (read in full...)

How can I get his parents to change thier opinion of me!??

Q.   My boyfriend of a year last night told me that his parents really don't like me. He said that they think i'm very needy and a bit physco. They don't like things that I say or things that I do. I love my boyfriend completly to bits and I want to be ...

A.   29 September 2006: I wouldn't worry about it, your boyfriend is the one your with and it's his opinion that really matters, he fell for you for the person you are so why should you change or become someone to make his parents happy but then making you someone ... (read in full...)

Does all this mean that she does actually like me ?

Q.   well theres a girl that i like, we have been talking over msn for about 4 weeks now, and we talk for about 3-4 hours a night (maybe more on weekends), we have a real good laff and stuff, and she says and does things which make me think she likes me, ...

A.   29 September 2006: I would say from what she does, how she acts and the amount she is putting into spending time chatting with you that she does like you, I could quite easily talk to someone online and say goodnight and that be it but I would have to really like ... (read in full...)

Been together 8 months and my BF just wont commit!!

Q.   I think my bf has a commitment phobea or smthin!! we've been together for 8 months now (he's 24 and am 22) and we've gotten really close, we c each others a lot, smtimes daily..and 2 months ago we started "sex play" like havin sex but am still a ...

A.   29 September 2006: Your still young and only been together 8 months, for a girl thats a long time and crave the committment from it but for a guy there is still plenty to come before they go as far to commit to marriage, I agree with 2old4this men don't look at ... (read in full...)

I broke up because I was so depressed with her, she says she will change, but Im confused!

Q.   i am a 21year old male who just got out of a relationship. when we first got together we were so happy together my weight was around 180. Now my weight has gone down about fifteen pounds. We used to be so happy together and when we get around h...

A.   29 September 2006: I've always believed that everyone within reason deserve a second chance, if they don't prove themselves that time then you know they never will as they've lost you once and it's not pushed them to actually follow through with changing to make the ... (read in full...)

I feel as though my bf is manipulating me, worse still I fear is he cheating!!

Q.   I have been in a relationship with someone forover 12 months; he moved in with me after only two months (silly, I know!!!). I am feeling so confused; I really feel like he manipulates me (although I have no way of proving if this is definitely the ...

A.   29 September 2006: You've found he is in constant contact with another girl who texts calling him sexy, you've asked and he has covered it up, what friends talk to each other so many times in one day? unless obviously there is a simple reason to it but that wouldn't ... (read in full...)

I've never had a boyfriend and find it hard to talk to boys!

Q.   i have neva had a bf and i am 15 i find it really hard 2 make covo with boys as i dont hav many male fiends...

A.   29 September 2006: Your still young and as you get older your confidence will grow with you, as camille said you can practice and try to overcome this by chatting to any boys that you know or that maybe mix in the same group as you.... (read in full...)

How can I get him to talk, where he won't answer me?

Q.   how do i get to talk to my boyfriend when he won't reply to any messages?...

A.   29 September 2006: There isn't alot you can do if he just isn't bothering to reply or contact you, apart from going round to see him being prepared obviously that he may not even come to the door. As already stated you haven't given enough information to go on and ... (read in full...)

Two online interests...how can I make her see she choose the wrong one?

Q.   I know it sounds lame, but I somehow got into an online relationship with this great girl. Ive never done it before, it happened by accident, but it was going great for a while. We talked almost every day. We made each other laugh, seemed to connect ...

A.   29 September 2006: I totally agree. It sounds like she is looking for something you can't give her or someone very different to you, she totally disregarded your feelings when she was playing online with you both and let you down before moving on to make a go of ... (read in full...)

Happy in relationship, but can't get pleasure from sex!

Q.   Hi.. I'm 16, been with my boyfriend for a year and half. I love him very much and we both lost our virginity to eachother. He's now 19. I'm really happy in this relationship, but the only thing that gets me is that I don't get pleasure in sex at a...

A.   29 September 2006: There are plenty of things you can do to make the actual sex a more enjoyable experiance for you, try having your boyfriend or you touch your clit during sex or your breasts, there are certain sexual toys that you can wear that will pleasure your ... (read in full...)

What is a 'wet dream'?

Q.   what is a 'wet dream' and do boys and girls have them?...

A.   29 September 2006: A wet dream is when you get sexually aroused during sleep and ejaculate. Females do experiance sexual arousal during sleep that awakens one to perceive the experience of orgasm. Girls and women who don't have orgasms in their sleep, or who don'... (read in full...)

Got low and drunk and emailed a myspace girl a complement... Then my girl found out

Q.   i was in a relationship with a great girl, we were taking things slow, then she went away with work, when she returned home she anounced that she didn't think it would work out, and as she would be away at various times of the year and she had ...

A.   29 September 2006: It shows you wanted them to know that you had a girlfriend, you was sorry for complimenting them and that there was nothing behind your compliments just a drunk mistake therefore proving to your girlfriend that you are committed to her and noone ... (read in full...)

He wants to have his fun--but wants me to wait for him. I need him to make a decison now! How do I tell him this?

Q.   My boyfriend and i broke up a week ago.We dated for a year and a half. He now talks to me..we are still friends...and tels me about all the parties hes going to and all of the girls he plans on sleeping with. on the other hand he tells me that maybe ...

A.   29 September 2006: Play him at his own game, test the waters, tell him things you are doing and where you are going and tell him about the guys that are going to be there, that one or two have an interest in you but haven't done anything due to you having a boyfriend ... (read in full...)

Why wont she tell her parents or her daughther that we are engaged!?

Q.   Why wont my fiance tell her parents or her daughters daddy that she is engaged? I have been with my fiance for just over 8 months now and i knew from the first moment that i met her that she was who i was going to spend the rest of my life with ...

A.   29 September 2006: I'm not saying this is the same but reading your post made me remember this situation with my friend that was engaged to a fantastic guy that would do anything for her and he wanted to love, cherish and spend the rest of his life with her, she saw ... (read in full...)

My bf has just lost interest in sex since I moved in with him. What can I do?

Q.   After moving in with my bf he hasn't been very interested in sex - which wasn't the case beforehand. I posted a question here previously about this and got some good advice. Since then I have realised that my bf doesn't seem to value sex as a g...

A.   29 September 2006: You need to tell him how you are feeling, I can imagine you are feeling neglected and this problem probably won't just go away. You've got to ask him some serious questions as to why sex was important now it isn't? how he feels towards you roma... (read in full...)

My husband spends less and less time at home with me and my son. How can I get our life back on track?

Q.   Hi, I am married for last 9 years and has a kid(aged 8). I am a busy executive(works close to 12 hrs @ times) and heads home staright after work.For past 1 month, I am seeing my hubby spending very less time at home, with me and my son. He loves to...

A.   29 September 2006: Talk to him and tell him how you are feeling and the situation you are noticing. Sometimes we get caught up in work, friends and our social life we don't even notice the affect these things have on our home/personal life. Good luck :o)... (read in full...)

He says he misses me when we are apart. Does this mean that he is in love with me?

Q.   If a man says that he has missed me when we are apart,does that mean that he is in love with me? I have been seeing a fella for 2 years but he doesn't say the love word unless i say it 1st....

A.   29 September 2006: If this was me I would have to know, he can miss you because he loves you and it's just his way of expressing the way he feels about you, or it could be because he cares for you alot. I'm not saying you should ask him but if it was me I would have... (read in full...)

How many times have you fallen in love?

Q.   A question to everyone... How many times have you fallen in love? I mean completely fallen in love - physically, emotionally, and mentally...? My reasons for asking: I have experienced this twice in my lifetime. The first time wasn't until the ...

A.   29 September 2006: You may experiance it again or this love you are feeling now may turn into a love that although different could turn out to be stronger and better just in a different way. I think we are all lucky to feel and experiance love, when it is bad we hate... (read in full...)

My boyfriend has been using my computer to look at porn. I confronted him and made things worse, what should I do?

Q.   My boyfriend and i have been dating for almost a year and a half. im 18 and he is 21. for a while we seemed to be drifting apart, but lately its been normal. Yeasterday i found out that he has been looking at porn sites on my computer that i use for ...

A.   29 September 2006: I think at some point we all make the mistake of basing our lives around a member of the other sex and when it goes wrong we have to pick ourselves back up and start again however hard that maybe. You will make a new life for yourself and even... (read in full...)

How can I get my lying, cheating slapper of a girlfriend out of my head?

Q.   Ever since getting together with my girlfriend, there have been problems. All she basically has ever done is lied, flirted, broke promises, totally disrespected me and slept around. Me being me, I took her back over 60 times, yet she still continue...

A.   29 September 2006: Leaving her will hurt and you will suffer from your decision for a while but you will get over her and move on from her and be happier from this, giving you the freedom to meet someone else that can love and respect you how you deserve to be, where ... (read in full...)

How can I get my lying, cheating slapper of a girlfriend out of my head?

Q.   Ever since getting together with my girlfriend, there have been problems. All she basically has ever done is lied, flirted, broke promises, totally disrespected me and slept around. Me being me, I took her back over 60 times, yet she still continue...

A.   29 September 2006: Leaving her will hurt and you will suffer from your decision for a while but you will get over her and move on from her and be happier from this, giving you the freedom to meet someone else that can love and respect you how you deserve to be, where ... (read in full...)

I have a boyfriend, but now I am back in contact with my ex husband of 6 years. What can I do? I dont want to hurt anybody.

Q.   i have recently gotten a divorce from a man who i have been with for 6 years. i love him with all my heart and still love him. his work became more important than me and his parents out ranked me. after 2 years of marriage i left. i couldnt come 3rd ...

A.   29 September 2006: Noone can make a choice like this for you as we aren't feeling the feelings you are. Whatever guy you choose if it goes wrong you will think that you made the wrong choice and the other one was the one you should have picked but you just don't know... (read in full...)

Does a small spot on your face indicate cancer?

Q.   i have just had sex education in school and we were talking about how the first sign of testicular cancer was a small lump on the testicles, does a small spot like a spot on your face etc. also indicate this? and also how can you get testicular ...

A.   29 September 2006: I've always believed 'if in doubt get it checked out' you won't be the first to go to the doctor with a worry like this and better to know if it's something to worry about or have peace of mind if it isn't. Good luck :o)... (read in full...)

I'm so confused, one min he is saying he loves me, the next hes telling me about all the chicks he has seen lately. whats going on????

Q.   I am a 17 year old girl. I have really deep feelings for my best friend who I have been friends with for about 6 months now. When I first met him, I thought I had feelings for him more then a friend but decided to just wait, get to know him, and ...

A.   29 September 2006: Having feelings for someone comes the hurt when they are talking about other girls, this is normal so mentioning it to him doesn't make you obssesive just means you care and it bothers you. Surely he should be able to relate to the way you are feel... (read in full...)

Why has my fiancee stopped giving me any affection? She is always pushing me away.

Q.   hello i am a 21 year old male my fiance is 19 and i have a few simple questions that i have been racking my brain trying to figure out i have about drove myself to the point of crazy !!!! anyways me and my fiance have been togather for 5 years we ...

A.   29 September 2006: Sorry I wasn't implying to didn't help I was just stating how I felt when it was me and covering all bases with what you posted. I think the only option you have now is to talk to her and tell her how you are feeling, you sound like you are doin... (read in full...)

I have been cheated on in every relationship. I am now with a new guy, how can I make sure I don't get hurt?

Q.   Im 25 and every relationship i have had my partner has cheated on me. I was with someone for 4 years after 2 we got engaged , then something in my stomach kept niggling saying sumthing between us wasnt right. I am ashamed of what i did but i had ...

A.   29 September 2006: You could talk to him, ask him how he sees you and him as a couple for example. if your exclusive, just you and him and no looking or interests elsewhere, if he says that is how he sees it give him a few days to cut the other contacts off and check ... (read in full...)

Is it normal to feel uncomfortable with the idea of my bf's semen to be inside me?

Q.   Is it normal to feel uncomfortable with the idea of my bf's simen to be inside me? Because I'm on the pill now, my bf and I started to have sex without a condom on. I'm not concern about my bf having STD. However, I'll be honest and admit I'm not ...

A.   29 September 2006: It's normal to worry about the affect your actions will have on the other person, but like you said when condoms were being used he did the same so surely he won't see anything wrong in you doing so :o)... (read in full...)

Got low and drunk and emailed a myspace girl a complement... Then my girl found out

Q.   i was in a relationship with a great girl, we were taking things slow, then she went away with work, when she returned home she anounced that she didn't think it would work out, and as she would be away at various times of the year and she had ...

A.   29 September 2006: For some people it is easier to blame the other person for the break up than to actually take the blame yourself. You have done everything right by this girl from pretty much day one and she knows it, you made one mistake which was when you wasn... (read in full...)

Concerned about reps intentions towards my girlfriend

Q.   My girlfriend works in an office, reps call weekly to see her. One guy phoned her every day, with some business question. She thought he had a crush on her. Then we got together and he stopped phoning so often. Then one day on a visit he told he...

A.   29 September 2006: Sometimes it just helps to know someone else would feel or act the same way if they were you. Jealousy is an uncontrollable emotion and everyone has a certain amount of it in them and the different situations affect our jealousy to different leve... (read in full...)

Boyfriend states I'm too possessive

Q.   My long distance boyfriend of a year recently broke up with me stating I was being too possessive. Now he wants us to talk everyday but not have the "title". He said he still cares about me but he needs to focus on work more and figure out if we are ...

A.   29 September 2006: Just try to be strong and hang in to giving him the space and not contacting him and showing him you are weak, you need him to see he wants and misses you and that you aren't possesive and able to back away when needed to. Good luck, keep me post... (read in full...)

My girl suffers with depression and bulimia, I support her every step, but she keeps pushing me out!!

Q.   Hello. I broke up with my ex-girlfriend back in December to date a new girl i know from work. It was not a clean break on my part with my ex and if i am being honest i liked the security she was offering me by wanting to stay and sort things out, i ...

A.   29 September 2006: From what you've recently posted I actually would start to agree that you need to give up on her and move onto someone that can give you the love back that you give out, we all make mistakes in our life and most of us use them as a learning curve ... (read in full...)

Any idea how to find out if your boyfriend is cheating on you?

Q.   Any idea how to find out if your boyfriend is cheating on you??? If he is there's no way on earth he'll admit it, so I want to find a way to know the truth....

A.   29 September 2006: The truth does come out in the end and if he isn't doing anything then testing him and trying to catch him out maybe what causes you to lose him over your lack of trust in him.... (read in full...)

I think my ex still wants me!

Q.   I really fancy my ex boyfriend still ,how can i get him to like me back , i see him looking at me . . . i wonder if he thinks what if ? ... like i do ...

A.   29 September 2006: Well I would try asking him when your together next if he fancies going for a walk in the park, then after doing that a few times here and there try hugging him and taking things slowly like that, if he responds from all of these and you seem to ... (read in full...)

First girlfriend...what do I do?

Q.   Hi, im 14 and have recently been asked out. i have never met her and only talked over msn, however it was 'set up' by my best friend. basically this is my first girlfriend, and we, and my best friend and his girlfriend are going to the cinemas, i am ...

A.   29 September 2006: It's been a few years since I was a 14 year old but from what I remember all us girls wanted was arm round us in the cinema, holding hands while walking there and back and possibly a kiss at the end of the night but you'll be able to pick a vibe up ... (read in full...)

How do I change us from friends to partners?

Q.   I have a friend that is a girl, I have known her for about 10 years, (since kindergaden) What i want to know is how to change this relationship to a boyfriend/girlfried relationship, thanks!!...

A.   29 September 2006: Have you tried a little light flirting with her and see how she reacts back to it?... (read in full...)

How do I act at a wake...will I even be welcome?

Q.   i have a (hopefully) simple question to ask. what are you supposed to do at a wake? my boyfriend's grandfather died this morning and he is devastated. i'm doing my best to support him, by comforting him, cheering him up, and lending him a sh...

A.   29 September 2006: Your boyfriend wants you there for him so he is making you welcome, if his family aren't happy with it you will only upset someone by what you choose to do, you go you upset his family you don't go you upset him. Maybe try talking to his mum and ... (read in full...)

I trusted him to look after my girlfriend but he made the moves on her!

Q.   My girlfriend (she's 17) and I ( I'm 19) have been going out for 10 months, and we're very much in love. Recently, we had a little argument and we decided to just be friends for a bit and see how we go. We're both very keen on motorsport, and ...

A.   29 September 2006: I would feel cheated on if it was me, even if you broke up for good 2 days is not enough time to get over someone if you really loved them but you just decided to be friends for a while therefore leaving the door open on the relationship to continue ... (read in full...)

In long term relationship but now feel strong attraction towards someone online

Q.   I've got a serious crush on someone over the internet, but I'm in a long term relationship. I met the person on an online game, and he was always nice to me, though we were never close friends. Recently I started using voice chat with the game as...

A.   29 September 2006: I think the best thing you can do is take sometime out from both of them and work through your thoughts and feelings, you need to close on one of them in your head and make a choice but you also need to make sure you make the right choice for the ... (read in full...)

Any idea how to find out if your boyfriend is cheating on you?

Q.   Any idea how to find out if your boyfriend is cheating on you??? If he is there's no way on earth he'll admit it, so I want to find a way to know the truth....

A.   28 September 2006: I have always found that a reaction to something you say is more honest than an answer to a question you could ask. I would act on your suspicions, if you feel he is follow your gut instint and challenge him about it all the time watching his reac... (read in full...)

I think my ex still wants me!

Q.   I really fancy my ex boyfriend still ,how can i get him to like me back , i see him looking at me . . . i wonder if he thinks what if ? ... like i do ...

A.   27 September 2006: Firstly you can't get someone to like you back. But you need to talk to him and see where you stand as you won't lose anything from asking just possibly gain. If you ask and he isn't interested in getting back together at least then you can hope... (read in full...)

My girl suffers with depression and bulimia, I support her every step, but she keeps pushing me out!!

Q.   Hello. I broke up with my ex-girlfriend back in December to date a new girl i know from work. It was not a clean break on my part with my ex and if i am being honest i liked the security she was offering me by wanting to stay and sort things out, i ...

A.   27 September 2006: I know someone with depression and as the depression got worse they went from wanting support and love from everyone to just shutting themselves away from all the important things in their life and starting just doing things that they could use to ... (read in full...)

Concerned about reps intentions towards my girlfriend

Q.   My girlfriend works in an office, reps call weekly to see her. One guy phoned her every day, with some business question. She thought he had a crush on her. Then we got together and he stopped phoning so often. Then one day on a visit he told he...

A.   27 September 2006: I would be concerned in this situation if I was you aswell but that doesn't mean I think there is anything wrong here I just feel it is natural that you are feeling concerned and jealous regarding the way this guy is towards your girlfriend. He may ... (read in full...)

Boyfriend states I'm too possessive

Q.   My long distance boyfriend of a year recently broke up with me stating I was being too possessive. Now he wants us to talk everyday but not have the "title". He said he still cares about me but he needs to focus on work more and figure out if we are ...

A.   27 September 2006: I would let him go and give him some space to figure out if you are right for one another as all the time he is getting to be free and still get what he wants from you he won't do anything about the situation and not be any closer to knowing whether ... (read in full...)

Got low and drunk and emailed a myspace girl a complement... Then my girl found out

Q.   i was in a relationship with a great girl, we were taking things slow, then she went away with work, when she returned home she anounced that she didn't think it would work out, and as she would be away at various times of the year and she had ...

A.   26 September 2006: She had already basically ended the relationship with you so you was free to do and say what you wanted to anyone else, she is probably just annoyed that she thought you would just sit there pining over her and instead you complimented other girls ... (read in full...)

Is it normal to feel uncomfortable with the idea of my bf's semen to be inside me?

Q.   Is it normal to feel uncomfortable with the idea of my bf's simen to be inside me? Because I'm on the pill now, my bf and I started to have sex without a condom on. I'm not concern about my bf having STD. However, I'll be honest and admit I'm not ...

A.   26 September 2006: Alot of women find this uncomfortable to leave seman inside them after sex, some because of fear of pregnancy and some just because they don't find it a nice feeling and the longer it is left the more uncomfortable it can feel. If you are worr... (read in full...)

Why has my fiancee stopped giving me any affection? She is always pushing me away.

Q.   hello i am a 21 year old male my fiance is 19 and i have a few simple questions that i have been racking my brain trying to figure out i have about drove myself to the point of crazy !!!! anyways me and my fiance have been togather for 5 years we ...

A.   25 September 2006: I can't tell you why she is doing this as only she knows that. Although I know when my baby hit the age of 7 months I started pushing away anyone close to me and started shutting myself off from people, I didn't realise I was doing it until some... (read in full...)

I'm so confused, one min he is saying he loves me, the next hes telling me about all the chicks he has seen lately. whats going on????

Q.   I am a 17 year old girl. I have really deep feelings for my best friend who I have been friends with for about 6 months now. When I first met him, I thought I had feelings for him more then a friend but decided to just wait, get to know him, and ...

A.   25 September 2006: These feelings are normal, you love him so of course the thought of him with someone else is going to hurt. You and him are friends so when another girl is becoming a friend of his you feel it is taking away your place in his life, the only plac... (read in full...)

I have been cheated on in every relationship. I am now with a new guy, how can I make sure I don't get hurt?

Q.   Im 25 and every relationship i have had my partner has cheated on me. I was with someone for 4 years after 2 we got engaged , then something in my stomach kept niggling saying sumthing between us wasnt right. I am ashamed of what i did but i had ...

A.   25 September 2006: When you've been cheated on you start to think that everyone will do the same to you and paranoia and insecuritys set in, it's normal happens to us all but what you've got to realise you've only been with this guy a few weeks and it's still early ... (read in full...)

How can I get my lying, cheating slapper of a girlfriend out of my head?

Q.   Ever since getting together with my girlfriend, there have been problems. All she basically has ever done is lied, flirted, broke promises, totally disrespected me and slept around. Me being me, I took her back over 60 times, yet she still continue...

A.   24 September 2006: Chances are she was straight on the phone to her ex because she is scared of being alone and you told her where to go so she went to her ex to make sure she isn't alone, she wants an open relationship probably because of this same fact, she doesn't ... (read in full...)

He says he misses me when we are apart. Does this mean that he is in love with me?

Q.   If a man says that he has missed me when we are apart,does that mean that he is in love with me? I have been seeing a fella for 2 years but he doesn't say the love word unless i say it 1st....

A.   23 September 2006: Some people find it hard to say how they feel but that doesn't mean they aren't feeling it, if he didn't love you then he shouldn't be saying it all even if you said it first. You can miss someone because you love them, like them alot and care for ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend has been using my computer to look at porn. I confronted him and made things worse, what should I do?

Q.   My boyfriend and i have been dating for almost a year and a half. im 18 and he is 21. for a while we seemed to be drifting apart, but lately its been normal. Yeasterday i found out that he has been looking at porn sites on my computer that i use for ...

A.   22 September 2006: What do you mean by it only made things worse?... (read in full...)

How many times have you fallen in love?

Q.   A question to everyone... How many times have you fallen in love? I mean completely fallen in love - physically, emotionally, and mentally...? My reasons for asking: I have experienced this twice in my lifetime. The first time wasn't until the ...

A.   22 September 2006: I've loved people but I really do believe I've only really been 'in love' the one time as this person is someone no matter what I do I can't get over and even when he hurt me I forgave because I loved him so much. I'm not saying that I won't or can'... (read in full...)

I have a boyfriend, but now I am back in contact with my ex husband of 6 years. What can I do? I dont want to hurt anybody.

Q.   i have recently gotten a divorce from a man who i have been with for 6 years. i love him with all my heart and still love him. his work became more important than me and his parents out ranked me. after 2 years of marriage i left. i couldnt come 3rd ...

A.   22 September 2006: If you stay with your boyfriend you are being unfair on him and stopping him from being with someone that can love him and make him truely happy as you can't all the time you are still in love with your ex, you are also being untrue to yourself and ... (read in full...)

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