He tells me he's very happy with me one minute and then says 'something is missing" the next. What does he mean?
Q. I've been seeing my current boyfriend for 5 months. He's in his late thirties but hasn't had many girlfriends before me. We have a lovely time together, never argue, and have both been very happy until recently. Now he tells me he suffers from ...
A. 1 October 2006: I think what you've recently posted is a good idea, sometimes we need someone to walk away to realise how important they are to us and how we really feel about them.
Good luck :o)... (read in full...)
This guy kissed me and the next day, he acted like he regretted it! I'm so confused..what should I do?
Q. This might sound a little stupid I guess, but it's confusing me. While out with friends I realised I was really quite attracted to one of my male friends and then after we had been drinking for a while and were a bit tipsy, before I left to go ...
A. 30 September 2006: Yes they are good things but still don't really tell you whether he regrets or glad it all happened, I still feel you should talk to him and see what his real feelings are regarding this drunken night :o)... (read in full...)
How can I be sure if we don't work out that we can still be friends?
Q. One of my really close boy mates have just asked me out but i dont no wat to say.Hes 2 years younger than me and a bit shorter than me. I do like him but how can i be sure if i do go out with him and we break up that we'll still me close mates. P...
A. 30 September 2006: If you were true close friends in the start then aslong as neither one of you do anything real bad to each other and really hurt them there is no reason why you can't be friends after if it goes wrong, you never know it may work out and this won't ... (read in full...)
He wants me to get an apartment so his ex can continue to live in our house!
Q. Ok folks...awhile ago I wrote about a problem with an ex-g-friends pawning her child on my boyfriend and interrupting in our relationship and everyone was mad because I didn't want any of it anymore...So, update...As he continued to treat her needs ...
A. 30 September 2006: Okay for starters why did he move her in with him?
It's yours and his house therefore if you want to move back in and live there you have every right to do so.
As for her child liking the school is NOT an excuse as to why she should be able to ... (read in full...)
How can I get him to speak to me to tell my why he don't call or text me anymore?
Q. it prob sounds stupid, but i havent spoke 2 my ex 4 abpout 3 monthes, ive text him and called him but he doesnt answer me, ive called him before on private he answered and heard it was me and pretended he couldnt hear me which pissed me off, but how ...
A. 30 September 2006: Well you make someone talk to you I'm afraid and if he isn't calling or texting you anymore then you aren't going to be able to ask the question until he does call or text.
Maybe you could text him and just say something like I know we are over but ... (read in full...)
Slept with my gym instructor even though we are both in relationships...I don't know what to do!!
Q. i go to gym three times a weak and the aerobics instructor likes me. the next day it became oficially us wen we had sex then he has two kids and a live in partner and i have a 2year boyfreind. what shall i do? i went flirting with him because i ...
A. 30 September 2006: Do either you or your instructor want to take things any further or was this just a one off thing that isn't going to happen again?
Do you love and want to be with your boyfriend still?
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Im confused, does he like, me or was the touching up just because of the moment ?
Q. last night me and 3 of my friends went to my house to watch the grudge, and well obiously it is a scary movie so me and my really good guy friend were like hugging, and cuddling really closely. i would move one of my legs like over his legs, and he ...
A. 30 September 2006: I would talk to him, from what you have said I would say he does like you but the fact you wasn't alone and he wasn't completely sure on how far he could take things with you caused him to hold back and take things slow.
Good luck :o)... (read in full...)
I dont know whats wrong with me and Im scared!!
Q. I am so lost right now i don't know how to begin i am making such a mess of my life i am unemplyed i am messing things up with my boyfriend,the only man who has ever been loving i cause arguements everyday now he says he is sick of me an he is not ...
A. 30 September 2006: When things are down in one part of our lives the other areas of our life suffer, your unemployed and probably feeling down about not having a job or income and therefore you are making your boyfriend suffer for your feeling that everything is ... (read in full...)
Chatted on MSN for ages, I want to meet up, but we are 2 days away from each other!!
Q. For about 6 months I have been chating to a guy I met online. We have talked on line through msn instant messenger as well as through our phones. I am 17 and he is 19. I have also seen him on web cam so I KNOW he isn't some old pedaphile. We hav...
A. 30 September 2006: I agree with Phoebe avoid the information that he is from the internet until they have a chance to get to know him as a person not just a person from offline.
I know you are aware of the worries with meeting someone offline and how easy it is to p... (read in full...)
The guy I love could be moving to the USA!! What should I do ?
Q. im dating this guy and hes moving...to USA!! we both live in london and his mums company has transferred to new york and the whole family is going im in the middle of my studies doing my A levels and he loves me as he told me 3weeks ago but i do...
A. 30 September 2006: Talk to him, you won't know what he is feeling and he can't understand how your feeling until you both tell each other, maybe he doesn't feel staying for you is an option you want him to consider so hasn't brought it up himself.
Good luck :o)... (read in full...)
I love him, but hes not affectionate to me, others say he slags me off, I dont know what to believe!?
Q. I have been going out with this boy for around 2 weeks now.I really love him. Before we were going out, we got on so well. Now, he hardly talks to me, unless I'm on my own. He's only hugged me 3 times and never kissed me. I really don't know what ...
A. 30 September 2006: Firstly don't believe everything your told, your friend has his own reasons for not wanting you to be with your new boyfriend and although he maybe telling the truth he may also be wanting to cause doubt therefore causing a break up hoping you may ... (read in full...)
I really like my tutor, I know nothing can come of it but its making me depressed!
Q. Hi, im 16 and I have a huge problem thats making me depressed. The problem is my course tutor in college. I really like him! But I know nothing would ever come of it. Recently thouhg I have cuaght him looking over at me when he thinks im not lo...
A. 30 September 2006: You already know nothing can come of this due to him being your tutor, I don't feel age differences are a problem but you are only 16, I don't mean to sound patronizing but there are plenty of boys your own age and this is just a crush you have for ... (read in full...)
The friend I want to get to know more left a message to say I love you on my phone! Not sure I feel that way!!
Q. I have a friend that I liek more then just a friend. We don't know much about eachother and we want to know more about one another. But today he left me a message on my phone and he was saying, "I love you!" Over and over again, I asked him if he ...
A. 30 September 2006: He should be leaving his current relationship because he doesn't want to be with her anymore not because of you, but I would give it time after he comes out of that one before you go into a relationship with him.
About the 'I love you' thing, unle... (read in full...)
Other peoples negativity towards my long distance and age gap relationship is driving me insane!
Q. Hi, I think this is more of a personal problem than a relationship one, though it deals with a relationship. Without going into specifics, I'm in an LDR and age gap relationship. The age gap is relatively small (less than 8 years) but since I'...
A. 30 September 2006: Well you already stated you know it's them thats got the issue and you know your relationship is great and your happy in it, I've been in long distance relationships and although everyone states they don't work etc mine very much did, infact when we ... (read in full...)
My seperated guy hasn't contacted me and I wanna know-what the hell is going on?
Q. Hi I have been going with this fella and i have a question before about him! He is separted from his wife and he has a child and two step children we have been getting on ok or so i think! i haven't heard from him since monday and i don't know...
A. 30 September 2006: He may have been the one to come onto you but sometimes it takes a new person in your life to make you realise that your heart still belongs to the old person that was in your life.
I would give up on trying to contact him and wait for him to cont... (read in full...)
We have loads in common..I like her..she likes me. One problem..the age gap. What should I do?
Q. ok where do i start i think i really like this girl, we have loads in common we get along like strawberrys and cream and i also think she likes me a lot aswell. 2 problems 1 - shes my good friends sister and 2 -there is a age differance she is 16 ...
A. 30 September 2006: Like I said before I would try talking to your friend who's sister this is and see their feelings, they will also know more about their parents feelings regarding this :o)... (read in full...)
Two online interests...how can I make her see she choose the wrong one?
Q. I know it sounds lame, but I somehow got into an online relationship with this great girl. Ive never done it before, it happened by accident, but it was going great for a while. We talked almost every day. We made each other laugh, seemed to connect ...
A. 30 September 2006: Maybe the calls are because she hasn't heard from you and is starting to realise what she is missing out on, missing the contact with you, or missing the fact that she felt you was always there and that you was a backup to her and now your not.
D... (read in full...)
Recently got married to a loving man but our loving making is rare, how do I get him in the mood?
Q. My problem is I'm in love with a senative, loving man we've been together for 3yrs and married 3mos. I love this man with all my heart. The problem is that I'm a very senual woman who loves making love to my husband. But our love making is not ...
A. 30 September 2006: Is it completely about the sex or just you feel you need some more attention from him and him showing you love so that you don't feel lonely?... (read in full...)
It is heartbreaking to seem what is happening to her....how do I handle this?
Q. Not sure that this is the right type of question for this sight but have read some answers here..a lot of sweet people with good insight respond. My mom has alzheimers and I try to go and see her every second weekend. She is not in this city. I work ...
A. 30 September 2006: When something happens to someone close to you it breaks your heart especially someone as close as a mum.
The symptoms of Alzheimer’s are hard to deal with although Alzheimer’s disease does not affect every patient in the same way.
Early in the i... (read in full...)
It's been 2 years and she has a boyfriend, but I still want to try again!
Q. Really miss my ex-girlfriend. Its been 2 years want to give it another shot but she has a bf what should i do cant lose no more sleep from this please help thanks...
A. 30 September 2006: If you was mean't to be together you wouldn't have been split for 2 years without one of you trying beforehand.
I would let it go and walk away, maybe somethings happened in your life thats made you feel these feelings, but what you have to real... (read in full...)
I love her but I'm scared to be honest with her about how I feel and what I want from us.
Q. i love my girlfriend more than ive ever told her,she is always telling me how happy she is an wants to be my wife,so why am i so scared to be honest with her and avoid answering her marriage question.lately i have been searching her computer looking ...
A. 30 September 2006: You love her and know you want to be with her with a future together therefore it probably scares you that because you hold so many strong feelings for her that she may come along and hurt you, that could be why you are looking for something on her ... (read in full...)
He can't stop staring at other women, what does this mean?
Q. my fiance has a really bad staring problem. even if he just hears a womans voice on tv it gets him checking her out. i'm not ugly. and he's not great looking! can you tell me what it might mean? we are engaged and i'm thinking of calling it off. he ...
A. 30 September 2006: I think you'll find most men stare at other women same as most women do the same with men, doesn't mean you've got anything to worry about its window shopping and as long as he doesn't buy he's not cheating, but if it really worries you talk to ... (read in full...)
Everything she has accused me of she's been doing herself, is it worth all the trouble?
Q. Me and my girlfriend of 3 years had another tiff and broke up for a week.We are both mature(early 40`s).Her pc was playing tricks and as usual i was trying to mend fix it.I was shocked to find a messenger from a chatroom,in which she was ...
A. 30 September 2006: In my eyes this sort of behaviour online when in a relationship is cheating of some sort, then there is the cheating on you with the sister in law, she has been deceiving you and making things hard for you by accusing you of things you aren't ... (read in full...)
Been together a month and then-I moved away to college..I'm afraid of losing her!
Q. My girlfriend and I have been together for a month now. But just last week I moved to college 90 miles away so we only get to see each other once a week. I am afraid of losing her.Any suggestions?...
A. 30 September 2006: If your relationship is strong it will survive this, you get to see her once a week, there are plenty of long distance relationships that only see each other once a month if not less, in a way its a good thing you moved away to college early in the ... (read in full...)
I'm pining away or him...will I ever meet someone with whom I feel so deeply connected?
Q. hello, i'm writing because I've been so sad and heartbroken over someone, and I just can't seem to let go of him. It was a hard, on again off again relationship that lasted two years. He broke my heart over and over...he had intimacy issues,...
A. 30 September 2006: I've been in your situation before, just as you seem to be moving on it's as if they sense it and do or say something to pull you back in til your hooked again then they throw you back out there, its heartbreaking everytime and you need to tell him ... (read in full...)
Who the heck does this guy like...me or this other girl?
Q. i have liked this boy for 2 years a while ago we found out he liked my mate and she told our other mate that she liked him then i found out from some boy recently he has stopped talkin to her and has started talkin to me more and now im not sure how ...
A. 30 September 2006: Only one way to know, stop going threw person to person and talk to him yourself thats the only way you'll know the truth and either get the guy or move on from it.
Good luck :o)... (read in full...)
Do men just get a kick out of playing stupid mind games?
Q. I've never been very good at starting relationships it always seems to go wrong. A short while ago I made eye contact with a guy and this continued for about a month. I assumed he was interested. He eventually spoke and asked for my phone number. ...
A. 30 September 2006: It's not just some men that play mind games, women are just as bad, it's there issue not yours and I would just learn from this and move on, but you can't put every man into this category as everyone is different and if you was to meet someone new ... (read in full...)
Should I worry about having a penis that is 5 inches?
Q. I am 21 year old and my penis size is 5 inches !Should i worry about it ? ...
A. 30 September 2006: I wouldn't worry about the size of it, I know there are alot of girls out there that do concentrate on the size but once you meet someone that wants to be with you she won't care the size as she is with you for you, and there is more to someone than ... (read in full...)
What does "pulling" mean..other than the usual usage?
Q. What does "pulling" mean..oher than the usual usage...
A. 30 September 2006: It varies from the groups you mix in and where you live, to me and where I'm from pulling can either mean when you go out and I suppose hook up with someone or it can mean when someone takes an interest in you therefore you've 'pulled' whether your ... (read in full...)
I'm inexperienced about relationships that involves divorce. Any advice for me?
Q. My boyfriend has been through a divorce before he met me. He also had a daughter with his ex-wife. This fail relationship hurted him very much, which I feel changed his view on marriage and child. I was thinking about it, and started to get worry if...
A. 30 September 2006: Before I had a baby I was always worried that when I was with someone that already had a child my child wouldn't be as special as the first and that I would be holding my first child and it would be all special and mean so much to me and he would ... (read in full...)
What does ejaculate mean?
Q. hi what does ejaculate mean?...
A. 30 September 2006: To eject semen from the body at the moment of sexual climax.... (read in full...)
Why dont boys fancy me without me flirting with them?
Q. hi im 15 and i noone has ever told me they fancy me. i always have to flirt with someone to get them to fancy me. but why dont boys fancy me without me flirting with them??? cos my mate, she gets a lot of attention from boys that she isnt even ...
A. 30 September 2006: You can't be sure these boys don't fancy you before you flirt with them maybe because you are pretty they wait for you to show an interest as they feel you wouldn't go for them.
I've got two friends that one is very attractive and the other is shor... (read in full...)
Is it true that taller the man is the bigger his Mr junior is? Or does it vary according to ethnicity?
Q. Is it true that taller the man is the bigger his Mr junior is?? Or is it just a myth also does it vary from different race e.g. English, Black, Indian etc...
A. 30 September 2006: I don't believe it is true, I really did think that the taller and slimmer the male was the bigger it was as this seemed to be the case until I met someone else tall and slim and it threw my theory out the window, same goes for the ethnicity ... (read in full...)
I love another married man..do you think it's time I sorted this all out?
Q. i am married and like my husband but not in love with him. i am in love with another who is also married but not in love with his wife but stays for his teenage boys we could carry on as we are for many more years, but i think it is time that we ...
A. 30 September 2006: I think you know what you want to do as from what you posted you seem so sure whats next.
Go for it! Have the talk with your married man and see where this thing with you both can go and where it is going, just don't be fooled into carrying on as a... (read in full...)
I miss my bf so much...should I hang in there or end it?
Q. im missing my boyfriend so much i live in england [uk] and he lives in australia i havent seen him at all...i dunno if i shud hang on or end it?!?! ...
A. 30 September 2006: Has he always lived in Australia and you in UK?
If so this is something you should have taken on when getting together in the first place, only you can decide whether you feel enough for him to put aside the distance and make this work.
Good ... (read in full...)
This guy kissed me and the next day, he acted like he regretted it! I'm so confused..what should I do?
Q. This might sound a little stupid I guess, but it's confusing me. While out with friends I realised I was really quite attracted to one of my male friends and then after we had been drinking for a while and were a bit tipsy, before I left to go ...
A. 30 September 2006: I agree with baadgrlz117 maybe he was worried you was regretting what had happen therefore saying he did was him covering himself as to not look silly and spoil the friendship or anything, I would talk to him and tell him that these things happen ... (read in full...)
He's ignoring me and he says he doesn't feel the same way, anymore. What can I do?
Q. hey, ive been seeing my boyfriend for 3 years, and hes been great until recently, over the past few months, he's been wanting to see me less and less, so he can spend time with his friends (girls and boys) this week i only really saw him 2 days. we ...
A. 30 September 2006: I've always believed better to have the talk and know where you stand than to continue to hurt by this behaviour, if he still states he doesn't know how he feels and is unsure whether he still loves you then it might be a good idea to walk away and ... (read in full...)
I hate this guy who likes me...how do I get him out of my life??
Q. Right, theirs this boy and he has fancied me for a hell of a long time but i cant stand him. It started bout two years ago and at first i was flattered, and sorta lked him but then i started talkng to him more and realised very quikly that i ha...
A. 30 September 2006: Firstly I would change your mobile number and fallenman said you need to report his behavour to a member of college staff as this is probably only going to get worse and you might not be lucky in the next situation he manages to get you in.
G... (read in full...)
My gf's ex is back from bootcamp in 2 weeks and she's not over him! What should I do?
Q. Im currently 18 years old, my girlfriend is 17. I know what love feels like, and I am very much in love with her. I was not happy for the first part of our relationship because I was not over my previous girlfriend, but after some closure I fell ...
A. 30 September 2006: Let her go! If she loves you she will come back. Alternatively you may lose her altogether but I think you may already be losing her so not much more you can lose by doing this.
We all get into the situation where we love and they don't return them... (read in full...)
He tells me he's very happy with me one minute and then says 'something is missing" the next. What does he mean?
Q. I've been seeing my current boyfriend for 5 months. He's in his late thirties but hasn't had many girlfriends before me. We have a lovely time together, never argue, and have both been very happy until recently. Now he tells me he suffers from ...
A. 30 September 2006: Your right depression can affect people in so many different ways, I know a friend of mine that was depressed although she craved and needed the love and support of her boyfriend she did everything she possibly could to push him away and he was ... (read in full...)
She won't tell me what's wrong..how can I get her to tell me?
Q. my girfriend won't tell me wat's wrong wat can i do to talk to her talk to me so i at least now wat to do?...
A. 30 September 2006: You can't make someone talk to you and tell you whats on their mind you can only make them aware you are there if and when they want to talk to you.... (read in full...)
Update! I made that fake account on AdultFriendFinder and she fell for it!
Q. Ok, well, I've posted the last couple days about my g/f that is away at school and is on adultfriendfinder.com. I made a fake account, and she fell for it, and talked to the fake guy "me" for about 2 hours, and how she wants to hook up and she's not ...
A. 30 September 2006: I don't know where you want to go from here, she told this fake guy that she likes her boyfriend but wants to meet someone closer, wants to meet up and gave him 2 hours of her time which see could have spend talking to you, you don't get anything ... (read in full...)
My boy got a bad report card and his parents made him dump me
Q. I am 14, my boyfriend is 15. We have been going out 4 months. On his progress report from school he had a bad grade so in the last two weeks, his family took away his cell phone, computer, and ME. This has been painful for me too as I can not call ...
A. 30 September 2006: When it comes to it he is 15 and lives under his parents roof therefore he has to live by their rules, some parents are stricter than others laying down harsher rules to live by, maybe he could talk to his parents and ask them to lift this ... (read in full...)
Two online interests...how can I make her see she choose the wrong one?
Q. I know it sounds lame, but I somehow got into an online relationship with this great girl. Ive never done it before, it happened by accident, but it was going great for a while. We talked almost every day. We made each other laugh, seemed to connect ...
A. 29 September 2006: I totally agree. It sounds like she is looking for something you can't give her or someone very different to you, she totally disregarded your feelings when she was playing online with you both and let you down before moving on to make a go of ... (read in full...)
My seperated guy hasn't contacted me and I wanna know-what the hell is going on?
Q. Hi I have been going with this fella and i have a question before about him! He is separted from his wife and he has a child and two step children we have been getting on ok or so i think! i haven't heard from him since monday and i don't know...
A. 28 September 2006: Well there could be a simple reason as to why he hasn't contacted you and best to find out that first, I would talk to him and find out what is going on and where he sees you and him going.
I don't know how long he has been seperated but you migh... (read in full...)
We have loads in common..I like her..she likes me. One problem..the age gap. What should I do?
Q. ok where do i start i think i really like this girl, we have loads in common we get along like strawberrys and cream and i also think she likes me a lot aswell. 2 problems 1 - shes my good friends sister and 2 -there is a age differance she is 16 ...
A. 28 September 2006: Age is only a number and she is of a legal age therefore that isn't a problem, I would talk to your friend whos sister she is and test the grounds as some friends are really funny about their friends dating their siblings as they fear this might get ... (read in full...)
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