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anonymous
writes: My girlfriend got a vibrator for her birthday. Some bloke stuck it in his jeans,then asked my girlfriend for a blowjob. she started deep throating it! Now whenever we meet this bloke with her mates she makes jokes about blowing him again. Its an embarasing subject so do I leave it or tell her it annoys me?
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reader, Toria +, writes (18 September 2006):
 If it upsets you or offends you in any way then you have to tell her, really she should be considering your feelings before she makes these comments towards him but sometimes people don't realise what they are doing and the effect that is having until someone else points that out to them.
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reader, helpful girl  +, writes (17 September 2006):
 yes tell her in a ralationship honesty is always the best way to be. just say listen babe not being funny or moody but your my girlfreind i dont like it when you bring that subject up do you think you could please drop it? tell her privately! and also politely!
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reader, Angel_A +, writes (17 September 2006):
 Am sure it was amusing at the time, but sounds like it's a bit old now. I'd gently take her to one side and just say to her that whilst it was funny, the joke is wearing thin and it's getting a bit embarassing for all concerned.
If she is using this event to flirt, perhaps ask her why she doesn't get to know the guy better and maybe ask him out?
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