He says he misses me when we are apart. Does this mean that he is in love with me?
Q. If a man says that he has missed me when we are apart,does that mean that he is in love with me? I have been seeing a fella for 2 years but he doesn't say the love word unless i say it 1st....
A. 29 September 2006: If this was me I would have to know, he can miss you because he loves you and it's just his way of expressing the way he feels about you, or it could be because he cares for you alot.
I'm not saying you should ask him but if it was me I would have... (read in full...)
I am 13 and still a virgin, is there something wrong with me?
Q. Im a 13 years old. Most of my friends have lost their virginity. I have to listen to everything they say about how great it was. I for one haven't.Is there something wrong with me? ...
A. 24 September 2006: No there is nothing wrong with you, you shouldn't be having sex at 13 it's not legal for a start and you are still only a child and have so many other things to be dealing with at 13 like school, developing into a woman that having sex at this age ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants sex. I am only 13 and I don't know what to do. Help please!!
Q. me and my boyfriend have been dating for around 3 weeks and we have done all the basic oral. i am only 13 but he keeps talking about having sex with me and i dont know what do do help please!...
A. 24 September 2006: Well for starters you are not legally old enough to be having sex so your should be saying 'no'.
Noone can force, push or encourage you to do anything you don't want to do and really I'm surprised you've been doing anything sexual at all.
You s... (read in full...)
We broke up after 4 years together...any advice on what to do to get him back?
Q. My boyfriend broke up with me back in January of this year. It is really a very long complicated story so I will try to sum it up as best I can. We had been together for 4 years. We were deeply in love and it was a first seriuos relationship for ...
A. 24 September 2006: Why would you want him back?
He is obviously using you and doing a good job of it, he doesn't want to be with just one person so are you prepared to share him?
It sounds to me like he is wanting other people and a few of them at that but also pro... (read in full...)
I'm 21 and am attracted to a 16 year old! Would it be wrong to pursue her?
Q. I am a 21 year old guy in college with a job, live a real stable life, have no problems getting dates etc. with girls around my age(19-23, whatever). Recently, however, i've been experiencing a mutual attraction to a 16 year old and we've hung out a ...
A. 24 September 2006: 5 years is not a big difference in age and she is legally old enough so I don't see any reason why you shouldn't take a chance on this with this girl.
Just remember though she is still young and you will need to take things probably at a diff... (read in full...)
All my mates are going out with people from our school! Why isn't there someone for me?
Q. Hi Im 15 and this is my last yr in school :D 1st question: there just doesnt seem to be ANY boys in my school that i have any interest in! i dont wanna go out wiv any of them! but all my mates are going out wiv people from our school. y isnt there ...
A. 24 September 2006: Your young and trying to rush something that just isn't the right time, the right person will come along just doesn't have to be now, if you continue looking for someone you will end up picking the wrong person and be unhappy, just because your ... (read in full...)
Finally! We've split up..so why do I feel so guilty? Any thoughts on this?
Q. My house has sold almost a year after I started sleeping seperate from my husband. I felt since the moment we married years ago that it was a mistake. I do have feelings for him, but not 'that' way, never could say 'I love you', never wanted or ...
A. 24 September 2006: We all find it really easy to depend on someone else if there is someone else there to do everything for us same with your husband, you do everything for him so much so that you are unsure if he can do it himself but like everything we all have ... (read in full...)
His departure has taken a big toll on me
Q. I've been seeing this guy for about a year and a half now and he's always been more into me than I was into him. He treats me with so much respect and love and I don't know why but I sometimes find it hard to tell him I love him. I do love him to ...
A. 24 September 2006: I really can't answer that question for you, you are the only one that feels your feelings and knows your mind this I'm afraid is something you might have to work out for yourself although I don't see the problem..
You love him and he loves you,... (read in full...)
The fact that she called makes me insecure
Q. My boyfriend's ex called here wanting to talk to him. Her current boyfriend is being sent overseas on a peacekeeping mission and she just wanted someone to talk to. The speaker phone was on and in no way did I get the impression that she is still ...
A. 24 September 2006: Is she just friends or is she hoping that your boyfriend can be the one she can use to fill the gap her boyfriend has just left.
When it comes to it she is an ex and ex's are ex's for a reason remember that and surely you know that youe boyf... (read in full...)
I love and want to marry this woman.
Q. My ex-girlfriend and I are talking again fairly frequently. For the past week we have been talking fairly regularly online and having great conversations. Me, a few of my best friends (her friends too), and her hung out last night, drinking and ...
A. 24 September 2006: What are you going to lose telling her? Nothing really and if you did lose her friendship through telling her if she didn't feel the same way then maybe that would be for the best so you can move on from this, if she does feel the same you stand to ... (read in full...)
I've been having causal meaningless sex but this guy is developing feelings
Q. So I've slept with this guy a couple of times now... I'm not really into him but I sleep with him anyway. Weird I know. Part of this is because my first time meant nothing to me and wasn't special at all and as a result I've been having causal ...
A. 24 September 2006: This was always likely to happen in situations like this, one will more often than not fall for the other one and there really is no gentle way to let someone down because no matter what way you do they will always get hurt, if he is developing ... (read in full...)
Four month relationship and he wants us to move in together! Is this too soon?
Q. My boyfriend lives in Sanford, NC. I Live in Elizabeth City NC. It's been a relationship of 4 months. One time when I visited him, two months ago, he asked me to live with him. Is this too fast of a move? ...
A. 24 September 2006: For different people the pace that a relationship runs at varies, it is only too soon if it doesn't feel right to you although if it does feel right there is nothing stopping you.
Good luck :o)... (read in full...)
I love my hardworking guy but how do I get my rich parents to accept him?
Q. my problem is strange.a guy loves me madly and he's ready to do anything to be with me.he is middle class but very hardworking and had worked too hard till now to make a good career but couldnt succeed till today.i know that no one will work for a ...
A. 24 September 2006: Money isn't everything or is it?
Surely your parents would rather see you happy with someone you want to be with than unhappy with someone thats just got money but not your heart.
Why the money is such a problem I really don't know I mean you've g... (read in full...)
I'm a 15 year old male and I'm attracted to my 25 year old aunt! How do I go about flirting with her..to let her know?
Q. hi im a 15 year old boy from canada over the years ive been attracted to my aunt who is 35 she is so sexyy i want to start a relationship with her she is single and not married but i cant find a way to flirt without making it to obvious at first cuz ...
A. 23 September 2006: You are 15 therefore thinking of getting into a serious relationship shouldn't really be top of your list as things to do especially not with someone 20 years older than you secondly she is your aunt and unless your not aware that makes her a ... (read in full...)
Want to stop talking to him and get him out of my life! But I love him...help!
Q. Okay well ... I've been talking to this guy for over a year and a half, he always wanted to meet up bu i hesitated .. anyway a few months ago we bumped into eachother at a club and since then we've met up practically every Friday/Saturday since.. ...
A. 23 September 2006: Some men don't like to sleep with virgins because they don't want to be the one that sleeps with them and breaks their heart when it goes wrong, this could be because he only intends on sleeping with you and knows he doesn't want anything else from ... (read in full...)
He says he misses me when we are apart. Does this mean that he is in love with me?
Q. If a man says that he has missed me when we are apart,does that mean that he is in love with me? I have been seeing a fella for 2 years but he doesn't say the love word unless i say it 1st....
A. 23 September 2006: Some people find it hard to say how they feel but that doesn't mean they aren't feeling it, if he didn't love you then he shouldn't be saying it all even if you said it first.
You can miss someone because you love them, like them alot and care for ... (read in full...)
I am an Indian living in the UK. Where do I draw the line between being friendly and flirtatious?
Q. I come from India and i live in UK ...what I want to know is where to draw a line between being friendly with a man and being flirtatious. I am not sure how i am suppose to react if an English man hugs me ? Is it a normal custom to hug someone and ...
A. 23 September 2006: It can be used as a friendly manner or a flirtatious one all depending on the person but I would say more so in a friendly manner.... (read in full...)
I gave my fiancee an ultimatum, fags or me. Am I being unfair?
Q. I gave my fiancee an ultimatum, fags or me. Am I being unfair? She is not really a heavy smoker, but is always craving for one. I feel guilty for making her do this, but she will be happier when she has finally quit for good....
A. 23 September 2006: It's alot harder to give up an addiction when you don't want to give it up, I still believe an altimatum is a bad idea, maybe try telling her that you don't like it and would like her to give up if not for you but for her own health and the health ... (read in full...)
I am 40 and a decent kinda guy, so why do I always end up desolate? What can I do to improve things?
Q. I am 40 and think I'm a pretty decent kinda guy, but, I have hardly any friends! I feel a real saddo even though I know I'm not - but, I only ever seem to be able to make relationships with women and when they end, I'm always left completely ...
A. 23 September 2006: First step is to stop thinking about what you havent't got and get what you want, Obviously you have access to internet from posting this so have you tried making friends online I know a few people that struggle to make friends easy have found that ... (read in full...)
How can I get the bad feelings regarding my girlfriends past to go away?
Q. I recently broke up with a girl I was with from 22 to 26, we're both the same age, and she was the my first serious girlfriend really. I got an urge to break up as I kept getting a feeling that I missed out in my teen years as I didn't get a ...
A. 23 September 2006: You never forget you can only see past them things to what you've got and how you don't want to lose that, everyone has a different past to the person they are with some relationship wise some not but what you've got to accept and think about is its ... (read in full...)
I think a married woman at work might be falling for me. How can I let her know that I am into her?
Q. There is this woman at work that is married, however I believe she is very much into me. She sometimes flirts very heavy with me and then the next day or so she tones it down and acts like were nothing more than friends. She and her husband are live ...
A. 23 September 2006: Well personally I would advice about doing anything regarding this, she is married so it is wrong for you to pursue her in any romantic or sexual way not only that but this has a very good chance of ruining your job.
You need to think about what... (read in full...)
I caught my 12 year old son masturbating. How should I handle this?
Q. i am a father of a twelve year old boy, and i saw him masturbating,and i blew up, what should i do?...
A. 23 September 2006: Your son is going through that stage in his life where he is experimenting and learning about his body nothing you do will stop it.
My advice would be to talk to him as you have already blown up at him you really need to go talk to him and tell him ... (read in full...)
My bf says its a joke that he is messing with other girls. Are people laughing at me for going out with him?
Q. hiya peeps keeep sayin my bf is messin rnd wid oder girls but wen i ask him he says he loves me n dat its jst a jk do u fink peeps r laughing at me 4 goin out wid him xx reply quick xx...
A. 23 September 2006: Tell him maybe its a joke for him but you are not laughing and you are finding it all hurtful and upsetting, if he really does love you he will respect how you are feeling and stop doing it.
Good luck :o)... (read in full...)
I used a condom on a one night stand, but it was a bit of a shambles. I had a negative pregnancy test, but could I still be pregnant?
Q. i had a drunken one night stand about 2 weeks b4 my period was due...we used condoms, but it was a bit of a shambles because the guy was pretty impotant. so therefore he kept slipping out and the condom slipped around a bit but as far as i know it ...
A. 23 September 2006: Our minds are the strongest part of our bodies and if we are worrying about something physical happening to us our minds tell us we are feeling it, Pregnancy tests have got alot better, you can now take them earlier and on alot of them you can test ... (read in full...)
I like this guy, friends say he likes me. So why won't he tell me?
Q. well i really like this guy, and im almost positive he likes me back, and all of his friends says he likes me too! also soo many ppl ask us if were going out! i really want him to just confront me and tell me that he likes me, but no matter wut i ...
A. 23 September 2006: I agree with the other replier drop hints and make it really obvious that you like him as he maybe worried of you rejecting him.
If he still doesn't make a move and you really don't want to make a move then maybe you can go back to his friends and ... (read in full...)
After making love with my boyfriend, I usually cry and start thinking about my ex of 7 years. Why is this happening to me?
Q. My boyfriend of seven years broke up with me about a year ago. I have a new boyfriend but there is a problem. After we make love I start thinking about the loss of my other relationship and get quite upset...I usually cry. I just do not understand ...
A. 23 September 2006: 7 years is a long time to be with someone and now it's gone and your going to feel upset and hurt for what you've lost but you really need to think about your future with your new boyfriend and concentrate on that.
When you make love with your boyf... (read in full...)
I am getting tested for herpes, should I tell my boyfriend?
Q. should i mention getting tested for herpes again to my boyfriend? we went through a tough time a few months ago when he told me he had a rash on his genitals--he tried getting tested after that but then the rash went away and the doc. couldn't see ...
A. 23 September 2006: You need to talk to him about it, explaining to him that once he has been tested and it's all clear he can move on from it and forget about it and explain you are only thinking of him, you can't push him into getting tested again but if you make him ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend punches walls, doors and throws things. Is this normal?
Q. Me and my boyfriend sometimes argue when we've been out or whatever, but his behaviour is worrying me. My family are very passive and non-confrontational, so my boyfriend seems mad to me! He shouts and I laugh because I'm nervous, then he punches ...
A. 23 September 2006: This is his way of getting his anger out, some people need to release anger in a physical way and better it's doors and walls than you.
Maybe you could talk to him and see if he would go talk to someone about anger management, my ex was very much... (read in full...)
Why does my boyfriend keep avoiding the subject of marriage? Should I find somebody else because I am not getting any younger?
Q. i been with my bf for nearly 2 years now, he know exactly what i want. and that is to get married. i ask him one time and funny that he said he need a time. its sound hurt for me because he is supposed to be the one who ask me to marry him but its ...
A. 23 September 2006: Talk to him, ask him what he wants out of your relationship and where he sees it going and does he feel you have a future together and take it from there.
Some people just don't want to get married or fear it for different reasons but you won't know... (read in full...)
Why is my new guy so hesitant to start a relationship?
Q. I just met a new guy and we get along great, but he is hesitant to start a relationship - what do I do?...
A. 23 September 2006: Some people just are hesitant for many reasons one of them being the fear of getting hurt.
You need to make a choice on whether you want him no matter what if you do then all you can do it just sit back and take things slowly giving him the time... (read in full...)
How do I get a fair chance with a guy who just wants to keep things cool for a while?
Q. I just met a guy and we are getting along amazingly well. We jumped into the physical side of things pretty quickly which is unusual for both of us, but we are both very excited about getting to know each other better. I'm looking for a serious ...
A. 23 September 2006: This might be his way of gently saying he just wants to sleep with you and not make anything serious of this at all but he really might just need the time to build this into something more and if you want to be with him then I would take things at ... (read in full...)
Should I wait 9 months to tell the guy how I feel, or should I be saying, "hit the road Jack" and dating other guys?
Q. Hello, Just looking for advice. Okay...so, I'm seventeen years old and a senior in high school. And I've developed some serious feelings for one of my very good guy friends, Jack. Problem is, he lives a bit far away at the moment, and the next...
A. 23 September 2006: If you read what you posted you will see you already know your choice is what you really want and have pretty much answered your own question.
If you was just waiting for this Jack then I would say you have either got to say something to him (if ... (read in full...)
I apparently kissed someone when I was extremely drunk.Does anyone have a time machine so I can go back and not get wasted?
Q. My bf is away and i went out with some people from work and i got extremly drunk, i barely remember the night. I was very friendly with one of the guys and we went for a walk and he ended up staying at my place, seperate bed no sex! The next morning ...
A. 23 September 2006: I can't tell you what to do only you really know the answer on whats the right thing to do.
You know your boyfriend better than most therefore you should know how to deal with this situation, I would personally tell him the truth that way you can ... (read in full...)
I saw my friend's boyfriend with another woman. Should I tell my friend? It was obvious they were very intimate.
Q. I travel a lot for business. I was out of town recently and saw a friend's boyfriend with another woman. They didn't see me (it was a dark, hotel bar). I doubt the other woman was a business associate or casual friend. It was very obvious that...
A. 23 September 2006: Talk to her boyfriend, tell him what you saw and if he doesn't tell her you will as I'm sure she will rather have him confess than you tell tales also its the well known saying of shoot the messenger and she may not believe you are want to believe ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend finds it easy to lie to me about things like smoking, could he be cheating?
Q. Hi, I think my boyfriend is cheating on me. He leaves an hour and a half away from me and he doesn't live in his college but goes there to see his friends everynight. He lied to me before about smoking. I'm straight edge and he swore to me for nine ...
A. 23 September 2006: You should start by talking to him and explaining to him how you feel about the fact if he can lie about something silly like smoking then he could be lying about more important things like cheating and ask him out right.
It could just be that he i... (read in full...)
I really really like him but I dont know if I should ask him out or not?
Q. hello, last night i went to the movies with my two friends, and one of my friends sisters and all her friends were there too. They were also with heaps of guys. Then one of the guys came up to me and asked me if i knew him, and i said no because i ...
A. 23 September 2006: I would text him find out how he feels towards you and if he says he likes you then tell him how you feel and go from there, and as the other replier stated you really haven't got anything to lose here.
Good luck :o)
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My friend made out with the girl I really fancy. Now I dont know what to do.
Q. Some friends and I went swimmng like we usually do on a friday but we took a bit of alcohol. All of a sudden the girl i fancy (doesn't know) starts crying and walks away, i try to see whats the matter but she tells me to go away, then a minute or so ...
A. 23 September 2006: Did you say your friend knew about you fancying this girl? If so then he was wrong to do so as I've always believed that it's an unwritten friends rule that you don't go with anyone your mate likes, is with, wants to be with or has been with.
Y... (read in full...)
Why spend so long trying to get back with someone when you dont really want them?
Q. I just dont understand men, well one particular one anyway. Can anyone enlighten me? Why would someone spend weeks trying to get you to go back to them, being kind and doing nice things for you. Then say they want to be with you and want you...
A. 23 September 2006: I could have wrote this question myself, on reading it I really thought I had as I'm in the same situation as you.
My ex really hurt me more than once and then comes to me telling me he realised now he loves me and wants to be with me, spent mont... (read in full...)
I gave my fiancee an ultimatum, fags or me. Am I being unfair?
Q. I gave my fiancee an ultimatum, fags or me. Am I being unfair? She is not really a heavy smoker, but is always craving for one. I feel guilty for making her do this, but she will be happier when she has finally quit for good....
A. 23 September 2006: An addiction has to be given up when the person with the addiction wants to, that is the best way for the best result.
Giving someone an ultimatum will only really ever cause them to be resentful or sneaky about it, that is if your altimatum hasn... (read in full...)
I keep losing my erection...why is this happening?
Q. I have a problem keeping my erection during sex.Ive started seeing this guy and we recently started having sex, I found it really hard to cum as well, even masterbating with him didnt help, I just kept losing my erection. Why do you this is ...
A. 23 September 2006: Have you thought that maybe because he has got a high sex drive that maybe you are feeling a little under pressure and this is causing this problem?... (read in full...)
I used to get on with his family, but now they never invite me over, I feel I have been rejected!!
Q. My boyfriend and I are very close. I used to get on with his family, but now they no longer invite me around. I was even excluded from his birthday celebration, even though the year before they had invited me. I have confronted him about it, told h...
A. 23 September 2006: You need to tell your boyfriend about your future fears regarding this matter, he really needs to see how this thing with his family is effecting you, surely his family must be able to see how much you both love each other and just want him to be ... (read in full...)
Married 26 years, he looks at porn all the while, I think he also cheated, I strayed as I was so unhappy, this is all a mess please help someone!!!
Q. Help anyone. I've been married for 26 yrs now, but I am very unhappy. I was married by the age of 19 and at 20 had my first son. I only knew my husband for a short time, for which I only knew him 6 months and was married within that time. Anywa...
A. 23 September 2006: Well you can either sit down with your husband and try and fight for this marriage maybe suggesting you both see someone to talk through the problems with or you can walk away from it.
If he really doesn't love you anymore and is only there for the ... (read in full...)
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