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Why do we always come back to each other?

Tagged as: Faded love, The ex-factor, Troubled relationships<< Previous question   Next question >>
Question - (8 April 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 8 April 2008)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

After 22 years why do myself and my ex (first love) always come back to each other? We have both been married and have children (not with each other) and in between each relationship we have always found our way in to one anothers lives. Is it meant to be or just a security blanket? I know we both still love each other...I just can't figure out why we have not just stayed together.

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A female reader, x-kitycatlok-x United Kingdom +, writes (8 April 2008):

x-kitycatlok-x agony auntYou guys are meant to be. Pure and simple. So I'm a hopeless romantic, so what? If you two still love each other and keep going back to each other, you're basically meant for each other. What you're going to do about that, I don't know. But it's true.

Good luck

Wishing you the best


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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2008):

I know someone quite similar to you. They are back together for the third attempt. There must be something there holding you two together. Do you live with each other. I think you are really meant for each other, just cant or wont admit it. I bet if you tried living together and you got through the bumpy bits you would end up getting married, but that is my theory and i like happy endings.

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A female reader, thatgothgirl20 United States +, writes (8 April 2008):

thatgothgirl20 agony auntIf yall have been deliberately searching for one another again, it might be a security blanket. If it is "meant to be" these "finding each other again" events happened by coincidence.

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