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Everything that we do wrong, it's because we don't know how to do it right. Sometimes, we think that we're doing things right but it's wrong. Why do we do it wrong? Because we don't understand it enough.
The economy crisis will bring a lot of change in the human world. Big empires will fall to give place to new ones.
I predict that we'll have a home base business boom. Why? Everyone seems to want "Financial Security" with the absence of it at work(due to the fragility of the economy), most will seek money elsewhere, and where can you work if nobody has money? You'll seek to make money on your own.
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I was wondering if it's okay to give my instructors a 'thank you' card and maybe some chocolate?
Q. Hey, i have jst recently left school and i was particulary friendly with one deparment in my school, i got flute lessons and singing lessons and i would lvoe to get my two instructors a crad saying thanks and prehaps a small chocolate thing? there ...
A. 30 May 2008: I think that if you want to give a good gift, you need to know the person. What he likes and such, it's kinda hard for "us, cupid" to give you good ideas like that.
A gift certificate to a store of his liking mby? A T-shirt with his name and a lo... (read in full...)
I met my GF 6 years ago and to this day she is unaware of my real age!
Q. alright i have been with my girlfriend for 6 years,problem is when we met she was 20 and i was 14 but i told her i was 16 it was still young but not as bad i knew if told her my real age she wouldn't take a second look at me.im now 18 and she's ...
A. 30 May 2008: There's not a thousand way to do this, you have to tell her.
Tell her that the reason why you did it was because you had the foolish idea that she would look at you only for your age instead of whom you were. That you did it because you wanted t... (read in full...)
I want to find my birth father - but I have none of his details... Any ideas?
Q. Hi I have a problem in that I know nothing about my birth father - except his first name. I desperately want to find him and I have tried everything from my birth certificate (which doesn't have his name on it) to friends reunited and fac...
A. 30 May 2008: Maybe there's a reason why your mom doesn't want to tell you. Ever thought about that?
Maybe your mother was raped and that she doesn't want to see that man again.
Think about it. If he was a good man, don't you think that your mother woul... (read in full...)
Why has he become so distant?
Q. My husband and Ive been fighting for some time. I think he cares more for his job than for me, he's assertive and attentitive more to his job. Like, he's emotionally disattached himself from me. Our fighting has really calmed down in which th...
A. 30 May 2008: Looks to me that the reason because he stays at work more is because he feel safe at work. Maybe the house became a fighting nightmare to him, that's why he wants to spend less time there.
The "In love" experience seems to be fading. I don't th... (read in full...)
If a relationship shows signs of sexual abuse, and controlling tendencies as early as 2 months, will it only get worse?
Q. If a relationship shows signs of sexual abuse, and controlling tendencies, as early within the first 2 months, does that mean it will only get worst??? is it best to end the relationship now before it gets to bad? ...
A. 30 May 2008: There's two possibilities, either it stays the same, or it get worse. There's less chances that it becomes better.
I like the fact that he's showing exactly who he his in the beginnings of the relationship.
Don't think that you'll be able t... (read in full...)
Is it illegal for a 15 year old to go out with a 30 year old?
Q. i just wanted some advice really im 15 and going out with a 30year old is it illegal?? ...
A. 30 May 2008: I think it is in Canada ...... (read in full...)
I love a monster, I don't want to be abuse anymore, I need to find a way out
Q. Read my other 2 question to know more about my situation,please any ur help. My baby father has done all he could to make me feel like shit. He abuse me in many different ways, but i still love him, and have hopes one day he will realized how muc...
A. 30 May 2008: I think you love him because you think that you deserve it. I think that you've been brainwash.
You're not in a relationship, at least not in my book, this is just being F*** friends.
The only thing I see that he's doing good is telling you t... (read in full...)
What makes a guy try to pressure a girl into sex and think it's fine to not respect her boundaries??
Q. What makes a guy try to pressure a girl into sex? What makes a guy not listen to a girl when she says 'no'? What makes him think its ok to not respect her boundaires? And what makes a guy so controlling? I know those are all general questions, but ...
A. 30 May 2008: No it's not something personal, Those guys think the world goes around them self. They think that what ever they do, it doesn't have any consequences.
These guys often have hardcore backgrounds, they've been thought that way by their life model. ... (read in full...)
It has got to the point that my BF makes me feel like I am worthless, like I do not know anything, etc. Should I stay for the good memories??
Q. ok.. so I have a problem too.. I am 18 years old and I just finished my high school. Just when I was 15 years, 3 years ago, I started a relationship with my boyfriend, and everything went ok. He loved me so so so much and I loved him too. At that ...
A. 30 May 2008: Forget him.
Relationship is about lifting one another. To try to make the other feel good all the time (Fight happens though ...).
Having a BF is about sharing common dreams and goals. Not remembering good old times, but to plan, and do, ne... (read in full...)
What is wrong with my so called friend?
Q. Hi i would appreciate any advice you all can give me. I have this friend, she had been going through a hard time in that she separated and i was there for her when she needed me we worked in the same company and go on very well (or so i though)...
A. 30 May 2008: Let her say what she wants.
How you think determines how you act.
How you act in turn determines: How others react to you.
If she says negative things about you in your back to Mr.X what do you think Mr.X thinks about her? He thinks this "Hmmm... (read in full...)
She wants more experience, she's only 15 and isn't ready to have a relationship for the rest of her life! But it's tearing me apart...
Q. Me and my best friend started dating about a year and a half ago. Recently, she broke up with me because she told me that she isnt ready to have a relationship for the rest of her life. She wants more exprience with boys. I agreed because i want to ...
A. 30 May 2008: I understand you like no one ever could brother. My ex was 19, I'm 22. The difference is, that even though it hurt me lots to let her go, I wanted the same thing. And the crazy part about this, we both still have feelings for each other. Life i... (read in full...)
I just found out about my best friend indiscretion and I do not know if I should get angry at her or simply just ignore it...
Q. My best friend complains that i dont tell her things. She wonders why ! I have just found out that something that i did tell her , she went back and told another person what i said. and she wonders why i dont tell her things. I'm so annoyed . I dont ...
A. 30 May 2008: Some people don't realize the pain that they cause. Maybe talking to her would make her understand. To have a good friendship, you need trust.... (read in full...)
I want her so bad but don't want our friendship to end!
Q. Im a male and have a good freindship with a girl that I find good looking and I was to do her.she flirts with me and I with her. I want to do her so bad I get hard almost everytime I see her I jacked off thinking of her about 2 or 3 time. I want to ...
A. 30 May 2008: Here's someone who knows that relationship, most of the time, doesn't last forever but that friendship does. In my opinion, it all depends on the situation and the people involved. I was friend with one of my ex before going out with her and we ... (read in full...)
I'm 28 and dating a 20, why do people call me nasty names? I am not all that old am I?
Q. Hi, I am a 28 year old male (soon to be 29) from the UK. I know that it sounds shocking, but I am still a sexual virgin and have never had any sexual experience or girlfriends. Up until now, that is. Well, we haven't had sex yet...I have met this...
A. 30 May 2008: At a point, people were saying that the world was flat. They were saying that everything that could be invented has been invented. They said that a man could never fly. They were wrong when saying that, what makes you think they're right wh... (read in full...)
How do I avoid getting sucked back into the snake-pit?!
Q. Dear Cupid, Just yesterday I broke up with my ex. It seems to have been a long time coming. We always (Me ending it) broke up.. over stupid little fights. All the time! But then he would not leave me alone for a few days and i would cave. He was t...
A. 30 May 2008: You have to listen to the answer within your heart without paying attention to the outside world. Learn to say "no". I know it's hard but you need to think about your own interest. Say "yes" to what make you happy, and "no" to things that don'... (read in full...)
Is cybersex classed as cheating?
Q. when i was with my boyfriend i was having cybersex online with another man, is it cheating? ...
A. 30 May 2008: Depends of the person. I too don't consider that cheating but I wouldn't do it to my mate.... (read in full...)
How does a man act around his girlfriend after he cheats on her?
Q. How does a man act around his girlfriend after he cheats on her? What are the signs, and what is he thinking and feeling?...
A. 29 May 2008: This is different for every guy.
So I'll just tell you what I would be like (I never cheated).
I would be more distant, less cuddling, i would look troubled, I would tell you that I love you but it would have a different sense to it.
That's... (read in full...)
I cheated… Now what???
Q. I cheated on my boyfriend last weekend, I was completely drunk out of my mind, not that that is an excuse. Needless to say the guy I cheated on my boyfriend of a year is our friend and was over for dinner the night before we had a party. I ended up ...
A. 29 May 2008: Life is about experience and through experience you learn. An important part of a relationship is forgiveness.
Seems to me that he doesn't want to forgive you. It happened, now it's either he forgive you or he doesn't. Tell him to make up is mi... (read in full...)
I really like this guy in school and he likes me too but he has a girlfriend.
Q. dear cupid I like this guy at my school but he has a girlfriend and he flirts with me, we hang around with each other but when he's with his girlfriend he turns to me and smiles, how do I know if he likes me the same way as I like him. p.s his...
A. 29 May 2008: Looks risky, best bet would be to wait and see what happens between those two.
If he really loves you, well he should leave is current GF for you then. If he doesn't do it, maybe he as something else in mind.... (read in full...)
He says the spark is gone, and doesn't believe that I love him!
Q. Dear Cupid, My boyfriend doesn't believe that I love him and he says the spark is gone, how do I change this?...
A. 29 May 2008: Seems like you're not speaking his love language. You tell him you love him but he doesn't understand it because it's not in his love language.
Suggestion: Read "The five love languages" by Garry Chapman
Can a book change things? yes. yes... (read in full...)
He wants to try a new sex position. Is he bored with me?
Q. me and my partner of 9 months have only recently started to have sex. about 2 months but we use the same positions. He wants to try a new postioion does this mean he is bored? x...
A. 29 May 2008: Nope, life is about experience and through experience you learn.
Some position are better for the guys, some for girls. We each have our preference. ... (read in full...)
How can I get my self-confidence back?
Q. CoNFIDANCE 1 thing i really dont ave and i ned help fast i feel drained i give up on everything because it dont work out the first time for me.. My heart wants 2 stand out and be different than every body and i really want to acheive the thin...
A. 29 May 2008: You are what you think you are. Think more of yourself and there is more of you. Others see in us what we see in ourselves. How you think determines how you act. How you act in turn determines: How others react to you. How we think shows th... (read in full...)
I'm in love with him, but he's going to be marrying the bride his family choses for him... I don't know how to cope with this!
Q. hi..!! i am a 18 yr old girl..i strongly love a boy who is 11 rs older to me..we met through chat..never met b4 but seen each other's pics..deciding to meet within this year....we slowly and slowly had a close relationship and even promised to get m...
A. 29 May 2008: What I'm going to say may be harsh. I think you should drop it. Life is about experience, through experience you learn. The only way you know if you really feel good with somebody is by meeting people. Chat is great, but you don't know what k... (read in full...)
Anyone successful at getting their ex back? What's the best way to go about it?
Q. I am thinking of asking my ex back as she's single again, and I still love her so much, despite what she did. I'd like to know which readers of this site have been successful in getting their ex back, and what the best way to go about it is, with...
A. 29 May 2008: Well I was successful with that because of one reason, she still loved me too. When she broke up with me, she stayed in contact with me (calling me, msn .. etc) and I was crushed because I still loved her and respected the fact that she "didn't... (read in full...)
I was wondering if it's okay to give my instructors a 'thank you' card and maybe some chocolate?
Q. Hey, i have jst recently left school and i was particulary friendly with one deparment in my school, i got flute lessons and singing lessons and i would lvoe to get my two instructors a crad saying thanks and prehaps a small chocolate thing? there ...
A. 29 May 2008: No better way to say "Thank you" than a gift of goodbye. I'm sure they'll feel good inside if you do so :)... (read in full...)
I told him I cheated on him to see how he'd react, since he cheated on me in our first month together. How do I fix this now?
Q. My boyfriend cheated on me in our first month but he says he pulled away straight away and the other girl admits it was her fault. We have been going out for 9 months now and i told him a couple of months ago i cheated on him just to see how he ...
A. 29 May 2008: I don't think there's a way to prove something like that.
Unless you're still virgin.
If you really want to tell him that it was to test him, there's no other way than telling him. ... (read in full...)
Please help me, I'm still mourning my dog's death, I have exams and I'm not eating! I just feel that I don't care about anything.
Q. Please help me. I feel like I have changed so much, and I dont expect anyone to put up with it, or even care. I dont understand it but recently I just have been feelin that I dont care about anything and I just cant be bothered. And thats not like ...
A. 29 May 2008: Well the way that I see it, loosing your dog was like loosing a Boyfriend in a way.
The think I do when I "brake up" (the only thing that truly dies is the relationship) is cry a lot, surround myself with the best of best friends (positiv... (read in full...)
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