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I really like this guy in school and he likes me too but he has a girlfriend.

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Question - (29 May 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 29 May 2008)
A female age 26-29, anonymous writes:

dear cupid

I like this guy at my school but he has a girlfriend and he flirts with me, we hang around with each other but when he's with his girlfriend he turns to me and smiles, how do I know if he likes me the same way as I like him.

p.s his girlfriend is really horrible to him, she always shouts at him for no reason and when he doesn't meet her at the right time right place she slaps him .

So please cupid help me, I really love him.

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A male reader, StudentOfLife Canada +, writes (29 May 2008):

StudentOfLife agony auntLooks risky, best bet would be to wait and see what happens between those two.

If he really loves you, well he should leave is current GF for you then. If he doesn't do it, maybe he as something else in mind.

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A female reader, xxtinkerbellxx Ireland +, writes (29 May 2008):

well in my oppion you should leave it till he finishes it with her by the sounds oof things his gf is a bit of a beast and i dont want you to get hurt...

sooooo

when you are alone with him express your feelings and if he really likes you back he'l finish with her but i say he should of finished with her ages ago..

OR

if you cant do it get a friend to ask him how he feels about you and wotk on it from there..

if you need anything else just write back and ill get back to you...

I hope iv helped just send me a comment to let me know what goes on k...

Love xTinkerBellex

xxx

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A female reader, pashanoodle Australia +, writes (29 May 2008):

pashanoodle agony auntOne thing I have noticed is that whenever someone is wanting to cheat with someone or steal someones boyfriend/girlfriend they always go out of their way to convince themselves and others that the current partner is "horrible" or doesn't treat him right, or doesn't understand him blah blah blah....basically that is just a big fat excuse for trying to get what you want regardless of the situation and regardless of anyone getting hurt!

You wouldn't be on here asking for help if you didn't understand that flirting with a "taken guy" is not really the right thing to do.

If this guy is flirting with you while dating someone else...he may not be the Mr Perfect you think he is...will he be winking at other girls once you two are going out??

I think if he wants to persue something with you he needs to end it with the other girl. So - if you get the opportunity to talk to him just tell him you like him and wish he didn't have a girlfriend. If he is really into you let him make himself available for you! Don;t let him have his fun with you and keep the girlfriend too!!

But stop trying to "hate" the girlfriend - whether she is a horrible person or not doesn't matter...

You're young -

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