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I'm a 23 year old student of life, I love and study every aspect of it. I seek to understand the world around me. I'm fascinated by how well human adapt to every situations that surrounds them.

Everything that we do wrong, it's because we don't know how to do it right. Sometimes, we think that we're doing things right but it's wrong. Why do we do it wrong? Because we don't understand it enough.

The economy crisis will bring a lot of change in the human world. Big empires will fall to give place to new ones.

I predict that we'll have a home base business boom. Why? Everyone seems to want "Financial Security" with the absence of it at work(due to the fragility of the economy), most will seek money elsewhere, and where can you work if nobody has money? You'll seek to make money on your own.

"Change brings opportunity"

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How do I learn to trust my boyfriend?

Q.   Okay so today i took my boyfriend lunch on his lunch break and while he was on his way i looked through his condom stash to count how many were left because i knew how many we have used. And it turned out that 6 were missing, i didnt look to see if ...

A.   24 July 2008: By doing things like that, you're ruining good moments. By saying "What would I do if without him" you're actually messing up the time when you ARE together. Why is it that when we're happy we can't seem to enjoy it? We always tell ourselve... (read in full...)

I have really skinny legs. Is there anything I can do?

Q.   I'm a guy and I have really skinny legs. It's horrible my arms are quite muscley but my legs are so thin. Even my dad calls me chicken legs and stuff :( What can i do? Are there any good exercises that work really well with building leg...

A.   24 July 2008: There's plenty of leg exercises. It's kind of hard to explain but I'm quite sure if you search on google that you could find chart and stuff that shows which muscle get worked when doing certain type of exercise. ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend's going to leave me because I can't satisfy him in bed!

Q.   I think my boyfriends going to leave me because i don't satisfy him sexually. Basically, we have great sex and i usually get 2 or 3 orgasms. my boyfreinds circumsised so he can go on for ages (which is good) but he never gets one inside me and al...

A.   24 July 2008: Sex when you're a teenager = More is better than less and now is better than later. Life works like this "Lesson repeated until lesson learn". If something doesn't seem to work, try something else instead of redoing the same thing. Speakin... (read in full...)

The thought of getting caught really turns me on!

Q.   the thought of getting caught really turns me on when were having sex, i know it sounds really strange. when me and my boyfriend are having sex, i prefer to do it like, in his bedroom when his parents are in, or in his car, where its risky, i dont ...

A.   22 July 2008: I like that too actually. Funny feeling eh? ... (read in full...)

Is my wife just down or is there something more to this?

Q.   I've worked for 23 years and recently laid off my wife hardly wants to have sex and leaves 45 minutes early to work..she eventually said, she will break down to someone because she keeping everything inside. We are having hard time finaully. Is ...

A.   22 July 2008: I think there's something wrong. The house is supposed to be a place where you're happy to be in ... you're not supposed to be in a hurry to leave it in the morning. You're wife may be in need of love. Not sex, love! Learn to speak her love lan... (read in full...)

I get turned on by porn. Am I normal?

Q.   I get turned on by watching porn and reading kinky stories. I live with my boyfriend and we ahve a healthy sex life but I almost always have to fantasize about someone else or just being in a different environment to get turned on. At work, I go ...

A.   22 July 2008: Porn is for everyone who wants to watch it. I like the fact that you took the responsibility for the problem. "I don't get wet, I'll do something about it." When you take the responsibility, you find a solution. One time, my ex brought a porn m... (read in full...)

Can a marriage work when two people care about one another, but don't have 'chemisty'?

Q.   My husband and I had a very short "dating" experience, we went straight from meeting to moving in to marriage. We didn't take the time to get to know each other and it has been a very long, challenging road just over the past year. We both admit ...

A.   22 July 2008: Love is a living thing, it needs to be nourished. Where there's love once, they can be love again. What you guys need is to speak each other's love language to feed it. "The five love languages" by author Gary Chapman explains in details the l... (read in full...)

If you love your teacher should you leave them alone and let them go?

Q.   My friend is loving this teacher and i don’t she’s gay but she’s obsessed with her…and the teacher has just left and she’s just depressed and heartbroken.. She’s asking me if you love a teacher should you Let Them go??? Please post your tho...

A.   22 July 2008: I fell in love with a few teachers in my school years, was doing good grades in all of their courses too. Realized later on that the reason, for me to fall in love with them, was because they found a way to put belief in me. Belief is a very pow... (read in full...)

I care about my ex, but I like his friend more. I want them both to be happy, but I don't know how.

Q.   Okay so around march I met these two guys who I both thought were pretty cool. Also these two were pretty good friends. One of them I ended going out with for two or three months and he was my real first relationship. He was my first everything. B...

A.   22 July 2008: Guys like what they can't have. He can't have you, he wants you back. The relationship you're in now seems more stable, your ex will have to accept the fact that he's the one who dumped you. That you moved on and found love again. It's ni... (read in full...)

If I watch gay porn and heterosexual porn, am I gay? How can I stop thinking about boys?

Q.   hi am i gay if i watch both kinds of porn or does it happen to any person and how can i stop im confused and is there anything ican do to stop thinking of boys thank you...

A.   22 July 2008: Life is about experience, when you experience, you learn and when you learn-you grow. Wait and see what life as in store for you and listen to yourself on the way. We all go through that period of confusion in our lives, time will help you an... (read in full...)

I've just found out his passwords - do I sneak a peak at his emails?

Q.   I'm having another moral crisis in my relationship, and dont know what to do... I've known my boyfriend for aboutfour years, we've been in a relationship for nearly two. Basically at Christmas last year I saw he had messaged one of his ex girlfrie...

A.   22 July 2008: If you want things to work, start by trusting him.... (read in full...)

We're in love with each other but he has a girlfriend he does not want to hurt!

Q.   am in love with this guy and he loves me too but he has a girlfriend he has dated for two years now and he dont wanna hurt her what do i do?...

A.   18 July 2008: Does he really? Or does he want to continue the relationship and have you on the side? If he truly love you, he will go with you, not have you one the side. I just don't believe in that "I don't want to hurt her". My opinion.... (read in full...)

I don't know why I cannot cum while masterbating...

Q.   I am a 17 year old male, and I cannot cum while masterbating. I have went through puberty. I don't know why I cannot cum while masterbating... could something be wrong with me? large testicles, that hang down kind of low, would that cause this? ...

A.   18 July 2008: Only when you masturbate? Do you still get your orgasm?... (read in full...)

At 26, should I stick to sex with guys or try switching to girls?

Q.   I am 26 years old and never had sex with a girl, only guys, I never had the loving for girls, until few months ago, what is the best way to see if I like girls,as i am trying chatting a going clubbing but cant get any girls, should i just stick to ...

A.   16 July 2008: Life is about experience, when you experience you learn and when you learn-you grow. I say experiment... (read in full...)

At 21, I've never had a boyfriend. What's wrong with me?

Q.   I'm nearly 21. I've never had a boyfriend, and I haven't had so much as a kiss in almost four years. I've went through my degree without going for a single proper night out, and the (very) few times someone's shown interest in me, I feel terrified ...

A.   16 July 2008: Don't worry about it!... (read in full...)

I'm healthy, but I still get horrible spots!

Q.   im very healthy. im super fit. i eat well and look after my body yet i still suffer from spots and now i have had two boils on my back. why is this ? i dont understand thanks chris...

A.   16 July 2008: Ahhh something I would like to know myself. Let me know if you get a reply on this one. I was told once, by I don't remember who, that the reason may be, in my case, that the sweat mix with to much shower created a skin oil irregularity producti... (read in full...)

Asexual? I'm rarely interested, and when I am I get rejected.

Q.   I'm 24, M, hetero, virgin, and have never dated anyone romantically in my life. I'm rarely interested in other people, and when I am...I am usually rejected. Nobody I am interested in has ever been interested in me. I'm pretty successful for m...

A.   15 July 2008: Maybe you're not a people's person. I may be able to refer you to some documentation on the subject. IF! you think that it may be a problem... (read in full...)

My boyfriend is obsessed about my ex, how can I make him get over it?

Q.   I'm having problems with my boyfriend. In short, once he asked about my past, didn't like whet he heard, and now it's exhausting trying to reassure him, I feel like I'm walking on eggshells! My past is not bad, but he jus didn't like it - not li...

A.   15 July 2008: Your BF needs to understand that past is past. You're not with him to talk about past, but to make a future. Life is ahead, move forward. You want your life's path to cross and point out in the same direction. I never ask anybody about th... (read in full...)

Can I be close to my boyfriend AND my gay friend?

Q.   I have a good friend who’s gay. We used to be best friends until I met my boyfriend. When I introduced them both, they did not get along. They were polite to each other, but my gay friend thinks I can find someone better than my boyfriend. My ...

A.   14 July 2008: IF your gay friend says something to you that cause you to loose your boyfriend, then it wasn't meant to be. Your boyfriend doesn't seem to realize that he doesn't own you. You just accepted to live your life along side of him. Even if your ... (read in full...)

Is it normal to have sex five times in two days?

Q.   The only time I get to spend with my boyfriend is on the weekend. We live far away and we work on the weekdays. We’re both in our late 20s so we are not little kids. Is it normal to have sex 5 times over 2 days? It feels like we’re making ...

A.   14 July 2008: Sex and health are basically part of the same world. For some, it's the only exercise they get. (It does burn calories) If I would have a girl friend only for the week-ends, 5 time wouldn't be enough. That's just me.... (read in full...)

How do I masturbate properly?

Q.   Hello All! I'm a 15 year old with a question to ask. I was reading about masturbation a while ago and I want to try it myself. However, can someone explain how, in depth you "do it". Plus,I don't have any lube or anything and I don't particu...

A.   14 July 2008: Grab the skin, that surround the penis, with the hand you write with, pull up and down. You could use lube if it's sticky ... or wait till you're in the bath, soap is nice. I may understand what you're saying wrong. What do you mean by "Wha... (read in full...)

I have been having my husband pretend to have sex with someone else...

Q.   I have been having my husband pretend to have sex with someone else (and me sometimes) when we are together because he moves differently and it feels better. I get excited during the sex but after feel like I am not enough for him and in addition I ...

A.   14 July 2008: Don't know if it was a problem, but I used to do that with my Ex a lot too. She loved it, so did I. Guess we both enjoyed talking while doing it, and by pretending to be someone else it was encouraging us to talk more.... (read in full...)

Is my sex drive too high for a girl my age, as my boyfriend says?

Q.   I asked a question about my boyfriend's sex drive, but now I have a question about my own. My boyfriend (We'll call him Matthew) tells me that my sex drive is too high for a girl of my age. I'm eighteen and I find myself in the mood upward o...

A.   14 July 2008: Where's the problem? I wish girls near where I live would have that kind of problem ...... (read in full...)

Does my flat nose make me unacceptable?

Q.   1.How do you think of a woman who has a flat nose ? 2.Will the man loves a woman with a flat nose? 3.Is it that women who has a flat nose can't be good temperament and succesful? 4.Is a straight nose so important to a woman's beauty? ...

A.   11 July 2008: I'm sure you're beautiful girl. You know what's beautiful in a woman? It's what makes her different, what makes her stand out of the crowd. It's her self-esteem! Confidence! It's her "That's where I'm going, with or with out you!" attitude... (read in full...)

What shape of mouth is most pleasing to European men?

Q.   Do most Europe man likes a woman with a big mouth or a cherry mouth ? In my opionion ,most men in China likes a girl with a cherry mouth ,because it accord with the aesthetics in China. And I know that a world-famous model called LuYan ...

A.   11 July 2008: I don't have any preference mouth wise, as long that I can kiss them all that I want and that it's big enough for the thing down there. ... (read in full...)

How do I get a job?

Q.   Hey.. I've recently lost all the energy to do anything with my life. However, I got back from a trip visiting some friends for a week one week ago, and that was good. So now I'm just trying to work out my next step. I need to get a job and b...

A.   11 July 2008: I saw "How do I get a job?" I was like ... hmmm that kind of question in a love site? Must he as a woman who's getting lots of money out of him (haha). The first job is usually the hardest one to find (where to look?).. CV? Yeah it's good t... (read in full...)

Could this stunt help warm things up between us?

Q.   Dated a girl long distance for a couple months, got rejected. I kept trying for a little while, but my advances were rejected... I'd rather not pursue her much longer and become too annoying. BUT, I had thoughts of sending her a singing dwarf ...

A.   11 July 2008: The kind of thing that I would do also haha! I have no clue what affect it could have. When I have an idea, I just go with it ... and find out on the spot if it was a good one or not. ... (read in full...)

I've had a few sexual partners but I have never had an orgasm, now I'm getting worried. What can I do?

Q.   I'm a 19 year old female, i've had a few sexual partners but i have never cum, i don't even know what it feels like. Is there anything wrong with me? My boyfriend doesnt seem to be bothered that i havent cum yet, but i keep thinking about it and ...

A.   11 July 2008: I don't think the problem is with you, but with the guys you've been with. Maybe they're not giving it a try, or think only of themselves. I never heard of any "Problems" that girls could have that couldn't make them have an orgasm. If I'm ... (read in full...)

Looking for love, but nobody is interested in me, what am I doing wrong?

Q.   i guess i willl never understand women!what kind of boys do girls actually like? i have tried being goody-goody and bad brat both, but none has worked out!will i never get a beautiful,intelligent and sexy girl in my life??...

A.   10 July 2008: I was 19 when I got my first Girlfriend, I did nothing special to have her either ... just myself. Weird huh? I was always told "Be yourself man and you'll have a woman someday" always thought it was a bunch of crap until it happened. Be yourself... (read in full...)

Fallen in love with my best friend, do I risk the friendship, if pursue her as more than a friend?

Q.   i am currently in grd 10 i have a best friend who's a girl,she has been my friend for 3 yrs,she has bin sitting with me in every class,i have had a crush on her at the 8th grd but it all passed,i fel in love with her along de way.weneva she looks nd ...

A.   10 July 2008: Relationships often have an end to them. Friendship last forever. The decision is yours to take.... (read in full...)

My boyfriend seems to be cheap, is it just my imagination, or is he really a tightwad?

Q.   I have been seeing a man for about 2 months. Great Guy. I am 39 and he is 43. Good dad, hard worker. He has two children, I have 3. I am writing to ask if he is just frugal or if you think he is really cheap. Went to a concert with him. He ...

A.   10 July 2008: Hard for us to decide that. I do believe that he likes to be on the safe side of things when it's about money. When it's about money, more is better than less ... and now is better than later. I don't think he's a bad man for doing so tho... (read in full...)

Will the girl be looked down upon by her boyfriend for playing with her classmates who are boys?

Q.   I am senior student in college now .And I am traditional girl . I want to find a man who I really love and marry him. However,I haven't got a boyfriend before and I am still a virgin now . Surely ,I have a crush on a boy in the class.But that's ...

A.   10 July 2008: I don't see anything wrong with that, here (Canada) it's normal for guys to hang out with girls. Doesn't mean that they're prostitutes. Personally, I was very honored to loose my virginity to a virgin woman. I think that I'll always be honored ... (read in full...)

Do we have a good relationship?

Q.   Me and my Girlfriend have been dating for 9months on the 17th. We broke up 2times but only for 1 hour tops. is this a good relationship?...

A.   10 July 2008: Life is about experience, when you experience you learn and when you learn-you grow. We're all student of the school called "Life" and you're attending the class called "Relationship" it's you and only you that can judge if it's a good relation... (read in full...)

I cheated on my boyfriend, and now I'm confused about what to do

Q.   I am so confused right now. I have a boyfriend of nearly eight months, and last week I met this guy who is totally cute who likes me back. I bumped into him yesterday and we swapped numbers, we hung out for a bit and then he invited me back to h...

A.   10 July 2008: Life is an experience, when you experiment you learn and when you learn-you grow. I believe that if there's love, the will, the situation or the need for cheating won't be present in your life. I think maybe there's something missing in it, some... (read in full...)

I want a baby but his penis does not go inside my vagina, why?

Q.   it has been one year of our marriage but still i m not getting pregnant.me and husband have sex twice or thrice in a week without taking any precautions. we love each other madly. we do our best to get pleasure but we dont know that why his penis ...

A.   9 July 2008: Like you said, it can depend on the sex position. Some are more accessible for the man than others. (Can search on the net for positions or books) There's also the option of the operation. ... (read in full...)

I'm gay and falling in love with my best mate, we experimented together but now I see him flirting with the girls!?

Q.   Ive recently decided to come out of the closet. im gay. I told my friend grace that i fancy my best friend whos my room mate at uni. We expirimented but at first i didnt actually have feelings for him. He says he's decided that he doesnt want to do ...

A.   9 July 2008: Relationships are often more limited, time wise, than friendship. ... (read in full...)

When would be the proper time to try, to have sex with her, she is very shy?

Q.   I love my girlfriend she is a pritty shy girl to be honest. her ex boy friend treated her badly but was more advancde then me , i dont no when i should make the move to have sex with her and how? i dont want to make a move then get rejected i would ...

A.   9 July 2008: I see this a lot, it's weird because I never had that problem before. When I'm with a girl, I'm not looking for sex it just happens in a moment of passion. If she's shy, Id suggest not to do a thing until she gets fully comfortable with... (read in full...)

How do I deal with a husband I think is too good for me?

Q.   Hallo I am quite average looking. Plain really. Never dated. Tried a few times, but not very successful. Never thought I would get a very attractive partner in life, but that was ok, as long as he was a good friend. Then I met this guy a...

A.   9 July 2008: He really does sounds dreamy, make ME wish I was married to him ... and I'm Heterosexual! I think that the only thing you're doing right now is ruining the present which will maybe result at no future at all with him. Why is it that when we liv... (read in full...)

My wife is not sure that she lives me anymore, what should I do?

Q.   my wife and i have been married for 12 years and have a daughter that is three. as of late my wife says that she does not know if she loves me, she is tired of taking care of me, and she is not happy. this all happened overnight, one minute things ...

A.   8 July 2008: Those things don't happen over night. You guys need to know each other love languages, a marriage counselor can help you figure this out. My guess, since she says she's tired of taking care of you, is that she wants you to take care of her too.... (read in full...)

I'm disillusioned and heartbroken, why can't I stop thinking about my troubled Ex?

Q.   It's been 7 days since I sent my ex girlfriend a letter saying we need to stop talking because her stories about how high and drunk she was or who she had sex with were upsetting me when we talked on the phone everyday. Since I couldn't help her I ...

A.   7 July 2008: Time. Let me tell you this "Brother"(been there). You'll never ever forget your first real relationship with a girl. Time will transform your wounds into scars that will remind you of her every time you look at them. You did the right thi... (read in full...)

My wife had an abortion before we met, now I don't want her.

Q.   How to address this situation. I have been married for 23 years and very happily. We have 2 boys and they are now adults. I received an email from a site that revealed someone looking of my wife of 23 years. It turns out that the person is an ex ...

A.   7 July 2008: I prefer abortion than seeing kids on the streets because their parents can't feed them. You'll have to accept the fact that not everyone is like you, we all have our believes, our past that may not follow your believes. You should never mar... (read in full...)

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