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Hey There,

Names tiierney, Im 15 yrs old, And come from romford,essex,

I Love knowing that i can help people and i love giving the besst advice i can.

i'l help whoever needs my hhelp theres no doubt about that (:

I might be a kid,

but i think im and understanable person, that other people

can tell me anything, and il keep it in my hands noone elses . x

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We're not a family and I just need advice.

Q.   okay wellll.......... when i was little, i lived with my nan bekoz my mum wasa single mum, my dad walked out, so my mum was tryna raise me. koz when i was living with her, she tried 3 suicidal attemps infront of my face. + i was too young to under...

A.   7 December 2009: I spoke to her tonight. all she had too say was sorry :/ Butt hoepfully thing will look uppp x... (read in full...)

We're not a family and I just need advice.

Q.   okay wellll.......... when i was little, i lived with my nan bekoz my mum wasa single mum, my dad walked out, so my mum was tryna raise me. koz when i was living with her, she tried 3 suicidal attemps infront of my face. + i was too young to under...

A.   7 December 2009: I Left school. because my court case started effecting school. + i missed so much i wasn't going to get the right grades. + i didn't want to fail. so now im going too start college early. + my nan sadly passed away, so my mum got worse. & sa... (read in full...)

How do I help my friend forget her love from 2 years ago?

Q.   Hi a very good friend of mine had a crush with a guy 2 years back. He also liked her but he was new in school and didnt know other girls. They both had silent love for a month then he started ignoring her. After time he told another girl that he ...

A.   7 December 2009: Hi there :) Well you can't force you're friend not to like him. even though you would like her just to move on and find other boys to like. She will see sooner of later, all you have to do is just sick by her. maybe get some boys out, and get her... (read in full...)

We're not a family and I just need advice.

Q.   okay wellll.......... when i was little, i lived with my nan bekoz my mum wasa single mum, my dad walked out, so my mum was tryna raise me. koz when i was living with her, she tried 3 suicidal attemps infront of my face. + i was too young to under...

A.   7 December 2009: But thing is, i think she's thinking about herself in the situation. :/ Like, she's telling me everything about her "new guy" + theres me feeling arkward when im with my step dad, because he's spent SO much on her this christmas, and s... (read in full...)

Should I have sex with him? I told him I love him.

Q.   I am a 16 year old girl, I'm a virgin, and I have been in love with a guy for 6 years. I know he has never felt the same, but we are planning to have sex together. I trust him completely, and I feel so ready to be with him. He's nearly 19, and all ...

A.   6 October 2008: Hi There, babes, he said he didn't have feelings towards you. i don't think you should loose it to him, how do u no he means what he says when he said " i won't use you " and " it will be more than a one time thing" babes, if he doesn't like you... (read in full...)

Exactly how painful is it to lose your virginity?

Q.   What does it feel like to lose your virginity? I'm a smaller girl, and came close to losing it once, but it hurt too much for him to completely penetrate me, so I asked him to stop. I've heard it's painful, but I've heard it described to be en...

A.   6 October 2008: Hi there, Sometimes it depends if your body is sexualy ready to have sex, then that makes it ethier hurt or not hurt, for me i knew my body was ready, as i was becoming incredibley horny, and my body just really wanted it to happen, but with ... (read in full...)

Is it normal to think of naked pre-teen boys and girls when masturbating?

Q.   Hi, I am 18, but I am NOT sick. Sometimes, when I masturbate, I think of naked pre-teen boys and girls. Is this normal?...

A.   6 October 2008: Yeah its totally normal, but if your thinking about both boys and girls, then have u ever concidered u might be bisexual? x you don't need to worry being sexualy active and thinking of sexual things, and bascitly normal :) x... (read in full...)

Question about fingering and needing to pee.

Q.   please help while my boyfriend fingerd me yesterday i felt like i needed 2 pee n held it is this normal or was i having an orgasm?? ...

A.   13 August 2008: Hey, maybe u just needed the toilet in general, thats not what a orgasm is bbs, Don't worry its normal for people our age to get that wrong (: x... (read in full...)

Can you help with my personal sex problems please?

Q.   I am 14. I'm straight, and i am a virgin. I like a 15 year old who is not a virgin. I like him a lot, but we haven't met in person yet. Well we have but a year ago. Now we just talk on the phone. I don't have any boobs, and i don't know if he will ...

A.   13 August 2008: Hi babes, To be honest, Boobs don't have nothing to do with sex, it doesn't matter if you don't have boobs, boy should just enjoy the other things hes doing lols. And its up to you if you would like to have sex, if your ready then go ahea... (read in full...)

Will I lose her forever if I tell her I love her?

Q.   Hey i need a little help because recently i have fallen in love with my best friend and i wish i havent because she has been hurt too much recently by guys and i really dont want to say something and join they guys and loose her forever and tonight ...

A.   13 August 2008: Hi babes, Its happend to me twice, im still in the situation right this mintue, my best friend likes me, and i wished he didn't because it hurts me that i can't go out with him, and he might distance away from me, because i'm hurting his feeling ... (read in full...)

Do guys ever have sex with girls they aren't attracted to?

Q.   Like if a really unattractive girl offered them sex, would they say no? Or will they have sex with just about anyone? Not counting if they are drunk of course....

A.   13 August 2008: hi babes, Well take it this way, these days theres to many men that play girls just for sex and lead them on in a relationship that will never happen. even if there not drunk it doesnt matter. but on the otherhand their are some guys that... (read in full...)

My girlfriend is touching my penis in the cinema! How can I slow things down?

Q.   hey Agony Aunt's Need your help sadly i am 15 and so is my girlfriend and we have been going out for about a year now and she is really only in to hugging and kissing but when we were in the cinema one day i got an erection while i was kissing ...

A.   13 August 2008: Hi babes, Well maybe she thought you wanted to go a bit futhur, a bit of fore play doesn't always lead into sex, but its up to you if you want to or not, if you don't want to just explain to her? I'm sure if you both love each other, then y... (read in full...)

Talk is going round school about me having sex with my friend-what do I do?

Q.   Im 13 and i have already had gay sex 9 times. i was making out with my boyfriend at his house and one of my classmates saw us through the window and is spreading it around. what do i do?...

A.   13 August 2008: Hi bbs, Well To Be honest, its none of their buisness, it doesn't matter what sex you are, if you were a lesbian, a gay, bisexual? does it matter, its not them in that position, let them talk about you in the end, they will get bored, their onl... (read in full...)

How do I get over these nerves and just enjoy the new relationship?

Q.   I've been really good friends with my friend *Rupert* for years now. When we're together I just feel completely relaxed and at ease and he's always the first person I go to when I am upset. Somehow whatever else is going on in my life, when I go ...

A.   13 August 2008: Hi bbs, Every1's new to their Realationships, You just need to no how to handle them, People get nervous Quite Alot, Expecially Around Boyfriends/Girlfriends. It Just takes time, to settle in to a Relationship thats so new to eatchother, Thin... (read in full...)

I started my periods and I don't know how to tell my mum.

Q.   hello erm i dont really know how to put this but i started my periods. and i really dont know how to tell me mum! like she has a draw full of black pants and pads and things and i put on some of the black pants and put a pad on and yes im basically...

A.   13 August 2008: Hey Bbs, Every Girl Has Their Periods, Its nothing To Be Ashamed For. Your mum Won't Mind, Mums never fuss about it, She Knows how it feels Just sit down and talk to Her, Im sure she will understand, she will notice soon, by your mood ... (read in full...)

Every time I tell mum something like about crushes, she looks at me with disgust!

Q.   I need some help. My mom and I are in really good terms but every time I tell her something like about crushes, she looks at me with disgust. Then she blames me for what happened with dad. she says i'll move in with him when Im seventeen. she even ...

A.   12 August 2008: Hi There, :) Maybe she's still not over the fact her and Your dad are over, These can happen to parents sometimes, its hard for there kids, cos i had a mum like it ages ago, andd i got the blame for everything, i didnt do. Soon she will... (read in full...)

I really like girls who have hairy arms and it is really difficult to meet women who I can talk to about it.

Q.   I was answering a question about girls feeling bad abour having hairy arms, I rememebered that I loved having girlfriends with Hairy arms and it seem that these are the only women I can be aroused by. I know it must sound so strange that something ...

A.   12 August 2008: Hi There, maybe you will meet a lady who u like for who they are other than why they have sexy arms lols, hmm i have hairy arms but sorry im 14, lolsss. :]]x... (read in full...)

LOL!!... Sorry, I sound really pathetic, but seriously, I have no idea how you do it?

Q.   Hi, I've been with this lad quite a while now and were really comfortable with each other. Recently we've been doing alot more things, like hand jobs and stuff. He asked me if i'd want to suck him off and i said yeah, but not today. I know wh...

A.   12 August 2008: Hi There (:, Lols no need to be enmbarrased Everyone has these sort of problems, well,, you just have to be gentle when your going down and up be careful not to scratch your teeth along, because thats what some people do lols, Just su... (read in full...)

I'm 12, he's 15, and says he can't be with me because of our age difference, is he embarrassed by me?

Q.   I'm 12 and i like this boy. but he's 15. i love him and i've told him. n he said he felt the same way and said he loved me too. but he also said that we couldnt be together yet because of our age difference. is he embarrased by me? x...

A.   12 August 2008: Hi There, Have u ever thought to think that maybe hes scared of what hes mum and hes friends might think of this? and i recomend you go for someone your own age , yeah it might upset you both and him [if he does really like you] but he will soon... (read in full...)

Is it okay to pluck your pubic hair?

Q.   Is it okay to pluck your pubic hair?? I shave down there, but it grows back quick so i pluck. I have a few cuts on my skin from doing this as they grow underneath the skin, and i have to pick them out. Every so often, there is little lumps. what is ...

A.   12 August 2008: Hi There, All i Can Say is Plucking is Very painful Teehee, and no need to worry about the lumps, there only shaving rashes, every teenage girl gets them. (: xx Tiierney xx... (read in full...)

I like this guy who has a girlfriend, who I had a conversation with, this guy has now blocked me from his myspace page, what does this mean?

Q.   theres this boy that i like and i foun out that he has a girlfriend ive talked to his girlfriend on the phone and i told her whats been goin on now he blocced me from his myspace wat does that mean??...

A.   11 August 2008: Hi There, have u ever thought that he loves his girlfriend, and doesn't want you to mess things up between them, fair enough you like him but if u really liked him you'd leave him to be happy with his girlfriend. and maybe his girlfriend was v... (read in full...)

Should I stay in this realtionship?

Q.   ok well im confused, ive got a girlfriend who i have been with 8 months and i really do love her, but me and her constantly argue and even tho i do love her things between us never seem to be going well. but on the other hand ive met a girl about...

A.   11 August 2008: Hey (: Well maybe, you both should sit down and talk about things, explain to her, that if she don't make it work, its going to have to be over, it might be for the best, you never know. Or on the other hand, these arguements, might be making... (read in full...)

Should I stay in this realtionship?

Q.   ok well im confused, ive got a girlfriend who i have been with 8 months and i really do love her, but me and her constantly argue and even tho i do love her things between us never seem to be going well. but on the other hand ive met a girl about...

A.   11 August 2008: Hey (: Well maybe, you both should sit down and talk about things, explain to her, that if she don't make it work, its going to have to be over, it might be for the best, you never know. Or on the other hand, these arguements, might be mak... (read in full...)

Sex seems to be causing trouble since our pregnancy scare....

Q.   Me and my boyfriend, have sex quite alot, and its great! we had this one experiance that we thought i wos pregenent. it wos quite a scare and i cried to him, and he did the same back, not becos of the situation buh becos it scared us. he said he ...

A.   9 August 2008: Thanks for helping (:... (read in full...)

Can you have an STD if you're a virgin?

Q.   Is it possible to have an STD when you're a virgin? Beside crabs and scabies and such. Just curious......

A.   9 August 2008: Hi there, yeah you can have STI'S , Some people are born with them. and don't even no untill there tested. x... (read in full...)

What can I do about my girlfriend not being ready to have sex? I'm tired of waiting.

Q.   Okay - So, I've been dating a girl that studies with me (collage) for about 10+ months already, and we haven't had sex yet. We are both virgins - believe it or not! I really like her and I know she really likes me, but I don't know why she doesn...

A.   9 August 2008: Hii , Well to be honest, you need to slow down, maybe she wonts a relationship where she can just cuddle up on the sofa wtach films and tell you she loves you, loads of girls love's them feelings/nights. or maybe shes scared that it will hur... (read in full...)

Not ready for sex and too scared to tell my boyfriend...

Q.   im not ready to have sex but my boyfriend is and i don't want to tell him what should i do...

A.   9 August 2008: Hi babes, Hmm this is an arkward position. right well,, Babes you can't not tell your boyfriend, you need to no your able to tlk to him about these things. he needs to no how ur feeling. you both shouldnt fall out and you shouldnt a... (read in full...)

She's ready and I'm not!

Q.   she is ready for us to lose our virginity but im not. im 15 n she is 3 years older what do i do??...

A.   9 August 2008: Hi babes, Well if she loved you she'd listen to your side of the story and give your point of view, in a relationship you shouldn't be scared to just open up and say what you feel, loosing your virginty must be a special momment with som... (read in full...)

I need some advice about having sex for the first time.

Q.   Can anyone tell me about their 'first time' at sex? I've been with my boyfriend 3 weeks so i'm not thinking about it soon, i just want to be prepared. I've 'dry humped' before and my last partner tried to finger me but i felt uncomfortable so...

A.   9 August 2008: Hi babes, Well my first time, it look me 2 hours to think if i relle wanted it right now my heart wos saying yes and my mind, well that wos saying no lols. but i knew i could trust this guy, we've been thru alot together and i could talk to hi... (read in full...)

Can he really want me even though I'm fat?

Q.   Hi Im 21 and iv got a dilema! Im thinking of loosing my virginity to a person i trust 100% although i trust him i cant help thinking about how turned off he will be when he see's the fat. Yes im a big girl and its not as if he doesnt know but he ...

A.   9 August 2008: Hi there, Tbh darlz, it don't matter if your the bigest girl in the world, he must love you for who u r, and what you are, not the way you look, and big girls can still be beutiful. i use to think that about boys, but at the momment im thinki... (read in full...)

Is it true that larger girls are better in bed that skinny girls?

Q.   A friend of mine (male) told me tonight that larger ladies are really good in bed, i've always been big and it's kinda made me feel good, haha.. His girlfriend is a larger girl although she is absolutly beautiful, he says they have the best sex life...

A.   9 August 2008: Hi There, No thats not true, I Mean anyone could be good in bed, if they tryed and rele putt effort into it, don't matter if ur skinny , bigg, Medium, short, tall.. Anyone can, you just gotta be confident, and then it leads u to bigger be... (read in full...)

I feel like letting my girlfriend get dressed up and tease a few guys at a club. Will this hurt or help our relationship?

Q.   Hey, first post here so i apoligise if im doing something wrong.. I have been with my girlfriend for 6 months and she is a good looking girl, who could probably get lots of attention off other guys our sex life has dropped a little, and I want...

A.   8 August 2008: Hi There, Yeah fair enough it might spice things up and she might try something different in your sexual relationship, buht yous could both try sexy clothes, but gettin her to get quite drunk and tease guys won't always turn out the right w... (read in full...)

He kissed his ex, wanted more... Should I stay? How do I trust him?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years, in the beginning of our relationship I found him emotionally cheating via email with 3 other women. Since then I have always had trust issues, I am constantly checking his email, voicemail, myspace. ...

A.   8 August 2008: Hi There, Well theres not much point in a relationship if you can't trust eatchother, you don't wont to go on knowing your boyfriends just come home from being in another womans bed, expecially his ex? I mean its bad enough knowing he'... (read in full...)

I'm cheating and feel stuck in this situation, what should I do?

Q.   First of all, I know that it is wrong for a spouse to cheat. But that is what I am doing. I feel bad but I also feel that the person that I have met is more like me. He is 10 years younger than I and I thought it would be a problem to really be with ...

A.   8 August 2008: hi there, have u ever thought that maybe its time to think of yourself not others? Because your going to hurt your husband even more than u already have? Maybe you should go with the man u love most, and who u have more in common with, stop... (read in full...)

My boyfriend cheated, I forgave him, I didn't cheat but he's split up with me!

Q.   A little while ago i asked for help because my boyfriend got another girl pregnant and didnt want to tell him that we were together well he did tell the girl but now we are arguing he found some messages that i have been writing to my ex but they ...

A.   8 August 2008: Hi There, Maybe he's just scared because he cheated on you, and he thinks you will do the same thing to get him back? and/or he's scared. or maybe have u ever stoped to think he's going to get with the young girl he got pregnent.. Give it ... (read in full...)

I'm too shy to go on top. My boyfriend keeps asking me to. Tonight I'm going to try. Any advice?

Q.   Im quite a shy girl, and tonight i'm going on top for the 1st time. I lost my virginity to my boyfriend im with now. That was about two weeks ago. And he has asked me to go on top several times. And i say next time alot. Or i dont want to. He asked ...

A.   8 August 2008: THANK YOU EVERYONE. These woman on here are jokers lols x I aint got the best of bodies flabby bits here and there lol !! but yeh he loves me, i'll give it a go. i just want to please him . will let you know how it went, tomorrow x ... (read in full...)

How can I convince her that I am a nice guy?!

Q.   Hey I am a 15 year old male and I am feeling really low because i really like this girl but she will not go out with me, because i have ony had 2 other girlfriends. What can i do to make her see that im a nice guy even though i have not had m...

A.   8 August 2008: Hi there, Well if shes that harsh its not even worth being with her, im sure u can find sum1 10 times better than her, if shes not getting with you because you've only had 2 girlfriends, or maybe she just thinks ur not really into relation... (read in full...)

My true love and first boyfriend, and I just broke up and I am devastated, the pain is so great, I feel so empty, how do I get over this?

Q.   My first boyfriend and true love just broke up with me. He said he can't stand me, that he hates me. But I love him so much and can't believe this, I'm so hurt right now and desperate. This same man told me a few days ago that he wanted to spend the ...

A.   8 August 2008: Babes, Its Happend to me , my first love left me too. it feels as if u have noting to live for again, but trust me babes, you'l soon get over it, u don't need him if he's turned like this, u can do better, the boy ur with now, must love you t... (read in full...)

He ejaculated pretty quickly... is that a bad thing?

Q.   I've been with my current boyfriend for a number of months and we are very much in love with eachother. Recently, we have started "doing stuff" and I gave him a wank. He came after a very short period of time and commented on how fast it was. I r...

A.   8 August 2008: well,. this could mean that its his first time and he liked it so much he ejaculated quickly x... (read in full...)

We are both virgins. How can I approach the topic of sex?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together for a year now and are in love. I'm starting to think about having sex, problem is, this is the first serious relationship I've been in, same with him, so we're both pretty shy. (We're nearly 18) I was just won...

A.   8 August 2008: So your both virgins, i think this is easier. Because both me and my boyfriend were virgins, and i found it easy to tlk to him about it.. If you just sit him down and talk about it. you's can both talk and tell eatchother if you are co... (read in full...)

I'm too shy to go on top. My boyfriend keeps asking me to. Tonight I'm going to try. Any advice?

Q.   Im quite a shy girl, and tonight i'm going on top for the 1st time. I lost my virginity to my boyfriend im with now. That was about two weeks ago. And he has asked me to go on top several times. And i say next time alot. Or i dont want to. He asked ...

A.   8 August 2008: Hey Babes, Don't Be Shy, I Mean yeah fair enough i don't like my body ethier, but if he didn't like your body then he wouldnt wana have sex with you, if u get my point. you too should just work with eatchother, Help eatchother out, just lau... (read in full...)

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