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I want her so bad but don't want our friendship to end!

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Question - (30 May 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 9 June 2008)
A male United States age 30-35, *h ok writes:

Im a male and have a good freindship with a girl that I find good looking and I was to do her.she flirts with me and I with her. I want to do her so bad I get hard almost everytime I see her I jacked off thinking of her about 2 or 3 time. I want to do really bad but don't want our freindship to end.

Any Advice?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2008):

when your alone speak to her and see if she feels the same way. dont jump straight in or she could get a little freaked. have a little conversation and hint a few things to her. if she doesnt get what your hinting at ask her if she feels the same.

hope it goes well

x

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A male reader, StudentOfLife Canada +, writes (30 May 2008):

StudentOfLife agony auntHere's someone who knows that relationship, most of the time, doesn't last forever but that friendship does.

In my opinion, it all depends on the situation and the people involved. I was friend with one of my ex before going out with her and we stayed good friend afterwards too. (of course we took a couple of months off from each other before becoming friends again)

Always treat her right and you shouldn't have any problem.

The choice is yours friend.

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A male reader, jezman United Kingdom +, writes (30 May 2008):

jezman agony auntIf you just instantly come onto her, she may not find it too attractive and be assured that you will be jeapardising your friendship with her if you do.

You have to act naturally, be charming and give the impression that you dont just want her for sex.

Make her feel loved for who she is and make sure that she feels comforted, safe and secure when she is with you.

You're worried about your friendship ending.

Does it have to be her?

What your feeling is just lust and not necessarily love.

Maybe to avoid endangering your friendship, you should simply find another girl to be passionate to :).

You say that she flirts with you?

Of corse if your friend is interested in you then you should pursue your feelings.

Try to pick a moment where you are alone with her and if you think she likes you back then you should tell her how you feel.

Just act naturaly and go with the flow, if she is ready for sex then go ahead but if she is resisting then you shouldn't pressure her. let her be the judge.

Good luck with the whole situation and keep on posting to keep us updated :D

Jez

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A male reader, Lilhigh1 United States +, writes (30 May 2008):

Ok look just to see if she likes you, look for eye contact, the way she acts with you and other people around you and her. If you want to make a move just start touching her leg smothly when you both are alone and if she dosent mind then just keep going till you hit the spot but if she says what are you doing with a bad tone then just say oh ma fault and just try to change the topic or there is another way just man up and try explaining it her and if she rejects you then just think in your mind fuck this bitch I could find a better one but if she has the same feelings then you know what you got to do!

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