Are there side effects to contraceptive pills?
Q. Hi, my doctor prescribed me some contraceptive pills to ease my stomach pain and shorten periods. I was just wondering if there's any side-effects? I need a bit of reassurance because i'm rather hesitant to take them. Thanks!...
A. 10 May 2008: Yes there can be side effects to the pill, but most of them are quite rare.
The only possible effects you might get are a bloating of the stomach and some mood changes.
More un common ones are headaches, nausea and tender breasts.
But...Ive hea... (read in full...)
I feel bloated after I eat and suspect the effect is due to the pill. Any advice on dieting?
Q. I'm 19, and am on the dianette pill. for the past few weeks i seem to be constantly bloated every time i eat. my stomach is flat in the mornings but as soon as ive eaten my stomach gets so bloated that i look pregnant! could this be due to the ...
A. 7 May 2008: i get the exact same thing as you happen to me daily.
it can be caused by a lot of things.
yes it could be something to do with your pill. i have took birth control pills and thought that was the cause for my hidiously blouted stomach.
theres al... (read in full...)
It still hurts when I think of how little my ex gave me emotionally. how do I get over it?
Q. Hello =] I broke up with my boyfriend of almost 2 years over a month ago. The relationship was pretty much a chore and I always knew he didnt love me as much as I did with him. I always used to spend my money on him but rarely got anythng back. It...
A. 28 April 2008: Thank you to everyone who responded to me. I am happy that I have moved on and Im glad i did the right things. thanks again to everyone who replied. =D More advice from others also would be greatx x x ... (read in full...)
My BF who is a very affectionate person always tells his female friends "I love you." I'm jealous and hurt!
Q. My boyfriend is a very affectionate person and expresses that by telling his woman friends that he loves them. He got me hooked because he always tells me that he is in love with me, but i believe he uses it too carelessly considering he started ...
A. 14 April 2008: He sounds really inconsiderate to me. If i had a boyfriend who did that I wouldnt just tell him how I feel, I would probably break up with him.
He needs to realise that if hes got a girlfriend, his girlfriend should be the only woman he says 'I love... (read in full...)
I want to make out with my boyfriend but I'm scared!!
Q. I want to make out with my boyfriend but i'am really scared to bc i have never done it before and the pressure is really starting to get to me bc all my friends have done but not me and i'am really scared!! what do i do????...
A. 3 April 2008: He's your boyfriend hun. He may be waiting for it too. Just start off casually kissing him. If he wants it too he won't stop you kissing him. You will be all right, but even though all your friends are doing it doesn't mean you have to rush int... (read in full...)
Does my bf want sex with my sister after our threesome??
Q. I gave my bf a threesome and a bj with my sister and both times he touched her first (guess he thought I didn't notice,but says he didn't) now its like when she comes over he looks in her direction frequently and when he talks to me he will turn to ...
A. 23 March 2008: hmm you should sit yourself down with him and get his feelings out. personally i think it was very silly of you to let him have a threesome, especially with your sister who is someone hes going to have to see quite often if hes round your house.
I... (read in full...)
Why do guys break up with their girlfriends once they are comfortable?
Q. hello guys. I have always wondered why men always break up with their girlfriends once they get settled into a relationship. I'd like guys view on this....
A. 22 March 2008: i'm asking people their opinions because i'm interested. and no i don't need to edit anything. ... (read in full...)
Why do guys break up with their girlfriends once they are comfortable?
Q. hello guys. I have always wondered why men always break up with their girlfriends once they get settled into a relationship. I'd like guys view on this....
A. 22 March 2008: no this has nothing to do with breaking up with my boyfriend. I know the real reason already. Just my friends have gone through this and its somehting I would like to understand... (read in full...)
Why do guys break up with their girlfriends once they are comfortable?
Q. hello guys. I have always wondered why men always break up with their girlfriends once they get settled into a relationship. I'd like guys view on this....
A. 22 March 2008: Iv heard that some guys do break up with there girlfriends, once they see a proper commitment is starting, and they get scared and just run away.
thats why i really asked the question. I do believe some men are just scared to stay with that one girl... (read in full...)
He sits with his ex and discusses their past while I'm sitting there! I feel very uncomfortable about it...
Q. Hi, I've been with my boyfriend now for 4 years but the problem is his ex, he spends more time talking to her than what he does to me. She came over one nite and the three of us sat there in my lounge, then they started talking about what it was ...
A. 22 March 2008: What an idiot. I'd say kick him out. Tell him if he hasnt got time for you and always prances around with this ex of his then tell him to just move in with her. You have to give him a bit of a wake up call if you want him to realise how much... (read in full...)
How to "go down" on a guy, I need good tips!
Q. I need good tips on going down on a guy. I know I never do a very good job, but no one has ever told me how so I am not sure if I am even doing it right or at least very good....
A. 20 March 2008: hmm ive heard that guys dont really like it when you actually suck the tip of the penis. My ex told me it was really nice when you make a rotating motion with your tongue over the tip. Also just moving it in and out of your mouth. Try not to scrape ... (read in full...)
Are there just some people who are destined to be alone or who are slated to be unlucky in love?
Q. Help...hoping someone has some insight here. I broke up with a long time boyfriend about three years ago and since then I have had nothing but heartache with guys. It seems like I cannot win no matter how I play it. I really have nothing bad to s...
A. 20 March 2008: Noone is destined to be alone, but perhaps yes, your just having a string of bad luck. Instead of giving up hope, why dont you just forget guys for the meantime. You dont need to be in a relationship to enjoy life. Concentrate on your future. I ... (read in full...)
My friend 'got off' with somebody...what does it mean??
Q. My friend came back from the cinema a couple of days ago saying she had got off with a boy i know. At first i thought it was sex but shes only 13 and it was in the cinema so its unlikely to be that!! I really want to know what it means though. S...
A. 20 March 2008: It means 'made out with' you know snogging and feeling each other up... (read in full...)
Why won't he listen to me and take some responsibility?
Q. My guy and I are truly connected in mind alot and know alot of how the other is feeling and stuff like that. I know we both are clairvoyant too. Well we have been fine and are doing great so far one thing is bothering me that I have talked to him ...
A. 20 March 2008: He sounds like a typical man to me. Perhaps he really doesnt understand about pregnany and Birth control which is where your going to have to make him understand. Take him to a clinic and get some leaflets. Also...i noticed that you said you couldnt ... (read in full...)
He dropped me to get back with his ex and hasn't explained why to me...I'm really hurting!
Q. ok so theres this guy i have been talking to. And he had just recently stopped talking to an ex girlfriend of 2 years. we met and there was an instant connection we were talking for about 7 months until he just all of a sudden just leaves me to get ...
A. 20 March 2008: He was your safety net. I know its really horrible to accept but, perhaps he still had feelings for his ex and he knew that if he got to know someone else his feelings might change and he will forget about her. But 7 months is a long time to not get ... (read in full...)
Help! I want to marry her, she's pregnant, but she broke up with me because she said she'd waited long enough!
Q. I am SO down. About 3 months ago we found out my fiancee was pregnant. It wasn’t planned and we were scared because we are a bit younger (I am 19, she is 21). But we decided to make the best of it, so we were happy and excited, I moved in with her ...
A. 20 March 2008: Then Marry her. Thats all there is to it. Call her and explain to her how you have been feeling and why you stopped this marriage happening. If you just keep it to yourself your never going to get any further, and she might find someone else. I see ... (read in full...)
I feel I'm his toy, when he doesn't find attention elsewhere?!
Q. Hey, aright so last month this boy really liked me and i liked him, but not as much he liked me. I hookedup with another boy and he gave me another chance, then i did it again with someone else and he fully ended it, he said he didn't want me in his ...
A. 20 March 2008: You should deffinetly move on with your life. You know it upsets you and its boaring a deep whole inside of you and its getting you more and more sad. Sometimes, the people who dont like you are the ones you try most to get attention from. Its a ... (read in full...)
Did he just say yes because it was my birthday?
Q. hey there please can someone help! u see i really like this boy callum and we came friends through a sport that he loves too so we usually used to talk about it in lessons and we built up quite a good friendship. and even though he has a girlfrie...
A. 20 March 2008: Hes a kid..i dont know how old you guys are but if your still at school then, i imagine him still being a kid and quite immature. I doubt he only said that becuase it was your birthday. If he did then thats a pretty nasty way of getting your hopes ... (read in full...)
I'm afraid I won't be able to return to my current relation, if I venture into another that proves unstable. Thus...?
Q. Okay. There are these two guys, A and T.. and i love both of them, but im not sure im actually IN love with them. I've known the one im dating(A) for a little over a year, and i've been dating him for exactly a year, as of yesterday. but theres ...
A. 20 March 2008: It doesnt sound at all that you love your current boyfriend. If you did then you wouldnt have these other feelings for this other guy, who Im guessing becuase youve known for 4 years, is just your friend, but you believe you love him becuase he is ... (read in full...)
Not too sure how to ask her out on an actual date.
Q. hello, I met this girl through a mate last year, we met up 2 times last year but not been out latley. I really like her, we talk on msn when I say bye she siad love you and gave me lots of kisses and on my bebo site she said love you and also put...
A. 20 March 2008: Just ask her sweety. Shes probably waiting for you to pop the question (not marriage obvs ha ha), but I bet she would be delighted to see you again. Go to the movies, or go out shopping in town or go play Crazy Golf, thats always fun.
Just sugg... (read in full...)
I believe I'd be able to fructify a second chance, if it was given to me, but he says he's not ready for a relation!
Q. hiya, i have a really bad problem. i like this boy, and problem is he don't like me in that way, i've been out with him before and it dint really work out, but i really like him and he says he's not ready for any relationships yet please hel...
A. 20 March 2008: Hello hun.
I know how difficult it is to feel like this. My boyfriend recently dumped me, but I still love him and want him back, but i dont think hes ready for a relationship either and the thread looks thin. But that doesnt mean its going to happ... (read in full...)
He confuses me, what should I do?
Q. Hi, I have been talking to someone for about two months and we became really close, he said he liked me and now changed his mind saying he wanted space, he confuses me. What can I do? ...
A. 20 March 2008: Give him his space and respect his needs. Its probably hard and you feel as though you may have been a bit used or tagged along, but there could be two possible reasons why he is asking for space.
The reason which I really hope isnt why is mayb... (read in full...)
I have liked someone for a long time but he's moving away...
Q. I like someone fore a long time now, but i just found out he is moving very soon. What do I do....
A. 20 March 2008: Aww that must be really hard for you. I would be very upset, but sometimes you just have to be realistic about all this. You have liked him for a long time, so im guessing you mean as in Fancy him or have strong feelinsg for him, but hes moving away ... (read in full...)
I don't know how to tell if he likes me back...help!
Q. ok so i like this guy and my best friend told him that i like him but the thing is i don't know how to tell if he likes me back. he keeps trying to start arguments with me and he gives me some weird looks like i'm stupid or something, but once he ...
A. 20 March 2008: hmm i agree with what anonoymous said below...but if hes giving you dirty looks and is trying to cause arguements with you, then it doesnt to me personally sound as though he is interested in you. Im guessing he is your age, so hes probably quite ... (read in full...)
How do I make things right again?
Q. Hey, sorry have a long question for you! Ok so I was seeing this guy for a while and we were totally in love and everything was great! But I have friends, one in particular that interfere in everyones relationship, not just mine. Well anyway I st...
A. 20 March 2008: All I can see from this is that the girl who liked your boyfriend probably made up those rumours to you that he hated the relationship. There pretty much evil little girls who just want to ruin your life. Forget about them. Dont feel sorry for them, ... (read in full...)
What is bugging my sister so much?
Q. I've got a sister and I've recently found out that she's been saying all sorts to her friends, like I am fat, I have not eaten in days, when I know damn well she has! She said she's not fat to me! and always acts depressed around her friends. She ...
A. 20 March 2008: Jealousy? Thats all I can really put it too.
She probably only says your fat, to make herself feel better. If she is bigger than you then its just a protection she has made for herself by saying you are fat instead of her. I doubt she has a eati... (read in full...)
I just want to feel part of a strong friendship group again!
Q. I am really lost, my boyfriend and I split up about a month ago after an 11 month relationship, as he cheated on me with his ex. I am distraught, but to make things worse I used to go see him every weekend, and my social life became evolved round ...
A. 20 March 2008: Aww wow hun. Thats exactly what I went through.
I was with my boyfriend for 20 months, and my social life was evolved around him and I never saw any of the few friends I had. We only recently split up too and I thought 'Oh god Im going to be alon... (read in full...)
I've left 10 texts to my boyfriend with no response, does he still care?
Q. my boyfriend and i have been dating for two months. now, we are on spring break and he hasn't text me back. i have left at least ten plus messages. do you think that hes doesn't care about me anymore or that our relationship is over? ...
A. 20 March 2008: There could be a number of possibilities why he hasnt texted. Depends on the location he is in is one. There probably is no signal up there. Hes forgot his mobile. He has no credit and hes having to much fun to get anymore, or he cant get anymore. ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend broke up with me after 4 years because she needs to make sure we were meant to be.
Q. My girlfriend broke up with me about a month and a half ago and for the first three weeks we didn't talk or get together because she said she wanted space to see if we were meant to be and find out what she wanted. After the three weeks she started ...
A. 19 March 2008: This sounds like a very confusing relationship. She sounds quite immature and cannot get to her feelings or identify what she wants. You say shes ok hanging out with you if there are other people....thats not good if she never wants to be with you ... (read in full...)
It has been now 34 days and still no period.. I am so worried I am pregnant Help?
Q. HELP!!!! I took the morning after pill within 72 hours, a week later I got a really really light period that lasted a day and came earlier, it has been now 34 days and still no period.. I am so worried I am pregnant Help?...
A. 19 March 2008: When i took the morning after pill, my period only lasted a day and it was very very light too.
If you have had a period even if it was very short, there is no possible way you could be pregnant. But if it still worries you then get yourself to y... (read in full...)
I was molested by my stepdad, now with kids of my own how do I tell my mom I don't want them in their house!?
Q. Since I was about 6 years old till I was about 16 years old my step father molested and raped me, it was an every day thing. It finally got to the point were I wouldn't even fight him anymore, I would just let it happen. I finaly got the courage to ...
A. 19 March 2008: Your mother should have taken a much more serious note about what her husband was doing to you. I know this may sound really horrible and I couldnt stand the thought, but perhaps your stepdad has threatened your mum not to leave or he will do ... (read in full...)
What I'm really looking for is another person's point of view, a bit of a guiding light.
Q. Ok... I am 17 and have been in a relationship with a girl for about 15 months now and I'm not sure that we suit each other any more. I am more involved in things such as classical music, art work and current events these days and she is still ...
A. 19 March 2008: It shouldnt be a bad thing that you two dont have the same interests anymore. People in a relationship are still alowed to grow up and change there look on life.
If this other girl gives you more than your girlfriend, then maybe it would be more... (read in full...)
Want to have sex, but worried about how I'll look with no clothes on!
Q. hiya, well i'm 14 and i have this most amazing boyfriend, i love him to bits. The thing is we muck about talking about sex and stuff and i no he actually does want to have sex with me as he has told me and he keeps hinting it. I also think i want t...
A. 19 March 2008: =/ sorry to hear that you thought people were just reminding you of your age...but hes proving to you by havings sex that your beautiful?
that just sounds weird..and not right.
He should think your beautiful always anyways without the sex. Personal... (read in full...)
I'm just so lost and heartbroken right now. What can I do?
Q. my girlfriend and i have been started dating in september of last year and everything was so perfect.. we had our differences and we fought alot but we were so in love that we always got through it. we would always fight about who loves each other ...
A. 18 March 2008: aww hun i feel for you I really do. Only recently my boyfriend dumped becuase he said he didnt love me anymore and its a really difficult thing to except I know.
But I do believe she still loves you incredibly. Maybe she ws just offended by you ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is really pissing me off right now!
Q. It was my birthday yesterday. My boyfriend did not get me anything but on Saturday his Nan gave him £30 to go to town and get me something. He said he wanted to go to Margate so I was like oh fair enough. About 3 hours later he had returned...
A. 18 March 2008: wow...rather immature i must say. He obviously hasnt got a care in the world about you, and would rather spend the money his NAN gave him to get you a present on booze. What does that tell you hmm?? I think you know the answer sweety. Just kick him ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is pressuring me to have sex. How do I stop this?
Q. hi my name is michele and i am 15 years old. well i have been with my boyfrined for 7 months and he is rushing me into things that i dont want to do. how can i stop this from happening. thanks michele P.s please help...
A. 18 March 2008: You should never let him pressure you into doing something like this when your unsure. I think you have been really sensible to refuse his offer and should keep doing so until he gets the message.
If he really cared about you, he would wait also... (read in full...)
I feel more intensely by oral or fingering, than actual sex! Normal?
Q. I have a few things i've been wondering for a while and that... When me and my Boyfriend have sex, i don't really feel a lot, and we've tried other ways but i still don't feel that much, i always thought it would be this great feeling, but i f...
A. 18 March 2008: Its perfectly normal lovey. And you can get an orgasm through actual sex so I dont know what the person below me was saying, but...its normal.
I thought the exact same thing at some points. I thought the fingering and oral felt better than the sex,... (read in full...)
My boyfriend borrowed $2,000 from me last year but when I ask for it back he gets mad! What do I do?
Q. Dear Cupid: My boyfriend and I been together for 5 years. I make 3X money of what he does, and that is now, cause before he used to make none 'cause he was in school. Therefore I would pay for a lot of things, like restarant, plane ticket, ca...
A. 17 March 2008: mmm you seem to be right in the middle of this pickle.
He seems very dependant on you and your money. Have you ever thought that perhaps hes only interested in your money? and thinks your easy becuase you buy him everything.
I believe if he gets ... (read in full...)
Why is my ex getting involved?
Q. I recently wrote in a question; http://www.dearcupid.org/question/is-it-possible-for-someone-to-change-if.html. Well everything was going well with that boy, we went to the pictures and texted each other alot and then we drove to the next town to...
A. 17 March 2008: Have you ever thought that perhaps your ex told this guy something that put him off you?
I know it sounds horrible, but it could be a reason.
Or otherwise this guy has just been too busy recently to see you.
I think you should text your ex and ... (read in full...)
Should I stop all communication with her?
Q. I'm a happily married man who loves his wife of 3 years a lot. Just last month, she bore me a beautiful son too. I started at a new job in January 2007. Later that year, this lady colleague, A, joined. She was quite attractive looking and I wa...
A. 17 March 2008: Its Lust hun. Not love at all. This is probably some sleezy office crush. You say your wife was also your first girlfriend and only girlfriend....well think about the reason why you met your girlfriend and why it came to such luck that you married ... (read in full...)
I'm looking for subtle but effective ways to make my BF jealous, because he also disrespects me!
Q. My guy likes to try and make me jealous by talking about how hot other women are and flirting with women sometimes. I never give him the satisfaction of letting him know it bothers me after all what's good for the goose is good for the gander. But I ...
A. 17 March 2008: I dont think you should even bother trying to mke him jelous. Hes sounds like a waster and he doesnt care about you if hes trying to make you jealous about other girls. What is that going to do to your confidence? Knock it down. Just ditch the ... (read in full...)
Want to have sex, but worried about how I'll look with no clothes on!
Q. hiya, well i'm 14 and i have this most amazing boyfriend, i love him to bits. The thing is we muck about talking about sex and stuff and i no he actually does want to have sex with me as he has told me and he keeps hinting it. I also think i want t...
A. 17 March 2008: I would like to say that darling you are too young to be having sex. You may feel as thought you are grown up and mature enough to have it becuase you have a boyfriend. But you two are still so young. Its illegal to have sex under 16 in the UK. You ... (read in full...)
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